Originally posted by: Stardust91
So AbhiRa's childhood trauma has shaped them into what they are...it is why Abhi doesn't speak to Harsh properly yet is so respectful to Mahima and Anand even though he might not agree with them. Its why Abhi tries to be everyone's saviour (why can't Parth step up and be his own sister's saviour - I am so irritated with him. I am not against him wanting to have a career that makes him happy but I genuinely don't think that he should be wallowing in self pity because his family thinks he is a failure whilst the successful interventional cardiologist carries the burden of his father's lack of empathy; his mother's physical and emotional abuse; his brother's adoption and his sister's issues.
Abhimanyu's mother knows what he goes through and knows he hates being in that house but Akshara needs to know. If she doesn't know, how will she heal him? Not everything can be healed through music therapy; some things need to be spoken about.
Now coming Akshu, her mother who was so loved passed away and for many months her father moped around living in her memories. Then, he found her look alike and got entangled in those issues until he finally married the look alike. Poor Akshu was left to her great grandmother and her grandparents from when she was a baby. Her step mother's daughter was always spoiled and stubborn acting as if she deserved the moon and the stars. Then her step mother had an accident and this poor soul was blamed for it by her half sister.
She left her home and family and moved away. Her half sister continues to blame her. She has panic attacks every time her step mother's accident replays before her. So why can't she share all this with the man who is the love of her life.
What mature conversations should they talk about? Future kids so early in their relationship?Or careers? Or a new house? Or holidays? What kind of relationship will this be?
I m sorry but I don't understand why they shouldn't discuss their life events that have shaped them into what they are or traumatised them?
These is ridiculous, what's wrong with people?
Ofcourse, they would be lovely-dovey. This is the honeymoon phase of their relationship.
So, apparently talking about your trauma doesn't come under mature conversation.
I really want to know what mature conversation is according to this person. Actually, I don't.
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