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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Stardust91

So AbhiRa's childhood trauma has shaped them into what they are...it is why Abhi doesn't speak to Harsh properly yet is so respectful to Mahima and Anand even though he might not agree with them. Its why Abhi tries to be everyone's saviour (why can't Parth step up and be his own sister's saviour - I am so irritated with him. I am not against him wanting to have a career that makes him happy but I genuinely don't think that he should be wallowing in self pity because his family thinks he is a failure whilst the successful interventional cardiologist carries the burden of his father's lack of empathy; his mother's physical and emotional abuse; his brother's adoption and his sister's issues.

Abhimanyu's mother knows what he goes through and knows he hates being in that house but Akshara needs to know. If she doesn't know, how will she heal him? Not everything can be healed through music therapy; some things need to be spoken about.

Now coming Akshu, her mother who was so loved passed away and for many months her father moped around living in her memories. Then, he found her look alike and got entangled in those issues until he finally married the look alike. Poor Akshu was left to her great grandmother and her grandparents from when she was a baby. Her step mother's daughter was always spoiled and stubborn acting as if she deserved the moon and the stars. Then her step mother had an accident and this poor soul was blamed for it by her half sister.

She left her home and family and moved away. Her half sister continues to blame her. She has panic attacks every time her step mother's accident replays before her. So why can't she share all this with the man who is the love of her life.

What mature conversations should they talk about? Future kids so early in their relationship?Or careers? Or a new house? Or holidays? What kind of relationship will this be?

I m sorry but I don't understand why they shouldn't discuss their life events that have shaped them into what they are or traumatised them?

These is ridiculous, what's wrong with people?

Ofcourse, they would be lovely-dovey. This is the honeymoon phase of their relationship.

So, apparently talking about your trauma doesn't come under mature conversation.

I really want to know what mature conversation is according to this person. Actually, I don't.

Edited by Nyxigniflex - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

I also read somewhere where as a person said agar abhi ki jagah woh hothe tog unko lath markar ghar se bahar nikal diya hotha😆

People even imagine their dad as harsh just becayse they want to put their stupid point😆 Bechare unke papa ka character halal kardiya.😆

I have seen lots of negative posts from that girl who has made a post on childhood trauma do you guys know her. Who is she 😆


Aree she tried buttering me mahn 🥱 but then her posts just told another story 😆

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: ishqdinoorhai9


Tum ne subah se shaam kar di naam batane mein... Konse registar mein jaa kar naam badal ke aayi ho balike?

adhar card se dhund k bataya. Bas agey secret rehne do 😤
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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Haal-e-Dil

adhar card se dhund k bataya. Bas agey secret rehne do 😤


🤣🤣


Ab who knows Riya is Pia in reality 🤣 aadhar mein kuch aur aur voter ID card mein kuch aur

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Stardust91

So AbhiRa's childhood trauma has shaped them into what they are...it is why Abhi doesn't speak to Harsh properly yet is so respectful to Mahima and Anand even though he might not agree with them. Its why Abhi tries to be everyone's saviour (why can't Parth step up and be his own sister's saviour - I am so irritated with him. I am not against him wanting to have a career that makes him happy but I genuinely don't think that he should be wallowing in self pity because his family thinks he is a failure whilst the successful interventional cardiologist carries the burden of his father's lack of empathy; his mother's physical and emotional abuse; his brother's adoption and his sister's issues.

Abhimanyu's mother knows what he goes through and knows he hates being in that house but Akshara needs to know. If she doesn't know, how will she heal him? Not everything can be healed through music therapy; some things need to be spoken about.

Now coming Akshu, her mother who was so loved passed away and for many months her father moped around living in her memories. Then, he found her look alike and got entangled in those issues until he finally married the look alike. Poor Akshu was left to her great grandmother and her grandparents from when she was a baby. Her step mother's daughter was always spoiled and stubborn acting as if she deserved the moon and the stars. Then her step mother had an accident and this poor soul was blamed for it by her half sister.

She left her home and family and moved away. Her half sister continues to blame her. She has panic attacks every time her step mother's accident replays before her. So why can't she share all this with the man who is the love of her life.

What mature conversations should they talk about? Future kids so early in their relationship?Or careers? Or a new house? Or holidays? What kind of relationship will this be?

I m sorry but I don't understand why they shouldn't discuss their life events that have shaped them into what they are or traumatised them?


@bold : God knows

Also, we have to understand that it's a daily soap. It needs to run for a while. If they show everything rn, what will they have for later?

That's why we all like the pace rn. This is good. Let it build slowly ... There's no rush at all. Idk what the other group wants. If everything should happen in one episode only, then what's the point of the show? It's not a movie 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: ishqdinoorhai9


🤣🤣


Ab who knows Riya is Pia in reality 🤣 aadhar mein kuch aur aur voter ID card mein kuch aur

Ha jaise Noor ka hoor v ho skta hai 😏


Adhar and voter mein name same hai but shakal lol

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Haal-e-Dil

Ha jaise Noor ka hoor v ho skta hai 😏


Adhar and voter mein name same hai but shakal lol


Kabhi usse Noor Noor kehta hun

Kabhi usse hoor hoor kehta hun

Main Ishq mein choor choor rehta hun


Maan gayi madam ki aap mujhse pyaar karti hai... Aise blush na karao humein ☺️


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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: ishqdinoorhai9


Aree she tried buttering me mahn 🥱 but then her posts just told another story 😆

You write so well yaar.... Tum to star ho forum ki.

Buttering to karegi na.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: sheet_leher


Next time pakka... For now, I think it's better we discuss it here than the forum. Or else, idk, some lunatic might blame us for hyping childhood trauma, and I'll lose my shit and say something awful.

Pagal hai sab wahan


Yehi baat krte hai, sanity bani rahegi ❤️


They don't have guts to come out my threads now. And these so called HC fans are putting every show of his down.


Bhai ab block list lambi ho rhi hai meri

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Nyxigniflex

You write so well yaar.... Tum to star ho forum ki.

Buttering to karegi na.


Haan behen... Ek dum first class likhti hu main. Abhi se autograph le lo... Apan busy hone wali hai 🤣🤣


Tum log apne posts padha karo... The way you guys picks symbolism and wrap it in words and make it related to story... Main literally speechless ho jati hun ki kya kahun. Unn sab ke saamne toh main mamuli sa hun 😳


Haan... People here blocked us... They cry for negativity ... Ugh, huh... Hum toh HarAmi bol kar positivity phela rahe they ... They just can't get out humour


Aisi aisi baat se famous hun main 🤌🤌


Mujhe aaj tk smjh nhi aaya kyu karte hai .. kuch log aur mahan hai. Wo mere PM mein jija jija ke posts par rote hai aur phir wahi kaam karte hai 😕

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