Mithai মিঠাই Discussions # 4 " চিরোদিনি তুমি যে আমার আমরা অমর সঙ্গী " - Page 60

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Artemis7

This is what I found really problematic too....! Yes Sid has anger issues but locking someone up and a sensible character like Sree justifying it to Rajib as - "Dadabhai er raag to tumi jano e"

How in heavens can be locking someone up because you both are on different pages, stand justified is beyond my understanding and reasoning!!!

Also @bold- He has an ill temper and I can sympathise with him because so do I, but for someone who has showed potential character growth suddenly returning to the glass throwing brash anger, doesn't sit well with me!

He looked more like a "jedi" child yesterday who can do anything to prove that he's right than a sensible young man 😕 (I can say this because I have seen my cousins)

You can say that he's headstrong, I'll totally respect your opinion, but for me its straight out "jed" as Mithai herself said

Yes he has a certain set of beliefs that stemmed deep due to his childhood trauma but how long do we keep blaming it on the same?

And thank god they didn't go the conventional way with Mithai's reply to the challenge dialogue....... it's usually - "Tomar jonno to sob tayi challenge", but they took it up a notch with Mithai pointing Sid out... Phew!



On a lighter note, throwig her heels down was a strange action on behalf of someone whose seen tons of "sherials" & movies... 🤣

@bold: Most of us reach the tipping point at some stage. It is natural. But to meddle with someone else's freedom or to abuse them cannot be justified by anger. In fact it can be justified by nothing at all. No traumatic childhood or disturbing incident gives anybody the right to abuse someone else, irrespective of how they may be related.

@pink: Yes I agree with you on it being Jed. Sid is definitely being jedi. But he does not own Mithai. Mithai is no toy je mon korlo ghar motke dilam ba haath tene khule bar kore dilam. To show this on TV, and let it go unpunished, when thousands of women actually go through horrible abuse and live at the mercy of their husband's temper, is condemnable.

@green: Yes thank god for some sense having been knocked into their heads. Although had Mit's reaction been a little more stern and firm, I would have felt happier. That kind of screaming and shouting deserved a stronger reaction. But of course, it is better than no reaction at all!

Oh boy, am I angry!
I have been noticing this habit of Sid's -- to control every action of Mithai's for a while now. I brushed it aside thinking he only means well. For example, his incessant shouting -- "boddo baar bereche" or forbidding her from riding Munni, preventing her from doing "pakami" and going to the base kitchen/SM stores. But yesterday went a little too far. Had he been a parent, it would have been understandable. But he is her husband goddamnit!


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Edited by mishti_unicorn - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: mishti_unicorn

My opinion differs a little from the general consensus. While the track progress is great and the nuances they are putting into Mithai's character are also great, I found Sid's behaviour in yesterday's episode deplorable.

It was nothing short of abuse.

Just because he does not agree with her opinion and thinks he is the only one who knows the "reality", it does not give him the right to pull and push Mithai around, scream at her in a brash manner and forbid her from moving around freely saying "Siddharth Modak tomake ei ghor er theke ek paa o bar korte debena".

Mit really nailed it when she said the only reason Sid is screaming is because he knows if he is proven wrong, he will have no hole to hide his face in.

"Chup kore boshe, ek paa norbena" and "Ami tomake kichu tei ei ghor theke berote debona" in a loud and piercing tone. What gives him the right to curb Mithai's freedom? He even stooped low enough to lock her inside the room. How repulsive! 😡

Totally agree...I found it repulsive and abusive. The most interesting dialogue was ofcourse frm Sree.👎🏼

Suddenly they seem to take 360 deg turn. Sid who values individual opinion and usually understanding is suddenly turning abusive as his wife s disobeying him. Sree who s supportive of Mit and gives importance to freedom, s okay with Sid locking Mit🤔


On a diffrnt note, not sure If i noticed correctly bt at Rajibda's house Sid had long hair, once he reached Manohara with wifey, he is trimmed hair n beard🤣..looks like while coming home he visited saloon....wondering where Mit was waiting during tht time?😆

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Artemis7

I missed day before yesterday's episode but saw yesterday's....... It's good to finally see Mithai putting in some efforts to pronounce the English words properly. I'm a huge English enthusiast and my friends know how particular I am about grammar and pronunciation, so seeing someone repeatedly pronounce a simple word like "Thank you" wrong even after being corrected a million times, it just blew up my proportions.🥺

I used to find these wrong english scenes so cringey that I used to hide my face in a pillow... I'm not exaggerating, I'm being very serious (I could seriously relate with Sid at those moments 😵)

And after hearing Sandy's words yesterday, it's clear they're creating a way for the education track (thank god)

Btw someone remembers the exact date SidHai got married for the first time? smiley44

Bhulu me keeps forgetting dates 😛

Mit's education track was long lost track...which suddenly resurfaced😆

Looks like Mithai s sharing top position with "Aaalta foring" and "Gaatchora"

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: anjani-pagli

Mit's education track was long lost track...which suddenly resurfaced😆

Looks like Mithai s sharing top position with "Aaalta foring" and "Gaatchora"

@bold: Shocked but happy to hear this. Monopoly of a single serial is never good for the viewers. Now finally CVs will focus on track development instead of showing story-less halla.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Artemis7

This is what I found really problematic too....! Yes Sid has anger issues but locking someone up and a sensible character like Sree justifying it to Rajib as - "Dadabhai er raag to tumi jano e"

How in heavens can be locking someone up because you both are on different pages, stand justified is beyond my understanding and reasoning!!!

Also @bold- He has an ill temper and I can sympathise with him because so do I, but for someone who has showed potential character growth suddenly returning to the glass throwing brash anger, doesn't sit well with me!

He looked more like a "jedi" child yesterday who can do anything to prove that he's right than a sensible young man 😕 (I can say this because I have seen my cousins)

You can say that he's headstrong, I'll totally respect your opinion, but for me its straight out "jed" as Mithai herself said

Yes he has a certain set of beliefs that stemmed deep due to his childhood trauma but how long do we keep blaming it on the same?

And thank god they didn't go the conventional way with Mithai's reply to the challenge dialogue....... it's usually - "Tomar jonno to sob tayi challenge", but they took it up a notch with Mithai pointing Sid out... Phew!



On a lighter note, throwig her heels down was a strange action on behalf of someone whose seen tons of "sherials" & movies... 🤣

@bold - Sid's behavior was definitely problematic yesterday and reiterated the power imbalance that still exists between this couple. But yes I also appreciated that Mithai gave it back to him and did not shy away from stating the truth. It made the scene a little easier to digest. 😕

Sid's recent actions clearly indicate that he has anger management issues...and as you have rightly pointed out, childhood trauma cannot be used to justify his outbursts every time. In a previous post, I mentioned that Sid is currently in a "making up his lost childhood" phase with Mithai... but now with recent events unfolding he has to grow up and (as Mithai rightly pointed out yesterday) face his demons head-on. 👍🏼

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Posted: 4 years ago

So finally it’s been proved beyond doubts that Som is not the biological son of Somresh .

He is so thankful to Mithayi that he asks her to call him Baba . Sid on the other hand got no such offer from him .. serves him right . Sid has to earn it himself .

What will be Som’s reaction now ? Let’s see what Tess has to say !!
I hope Som transfers those sweet shops over to Mithayi’s name now . 😡

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Artemis7

I missed day before yesterday's episode but saw yesterday's....... It's good to finally see Mithai putting in some efforts to pronounce the English words properly. I'm a huge English enthusiast and my friends know how particular I am about grammar and pronunciation, so seeing someone repeatedly pronounce a simple word like "Thank you" wrong even after being corrected a million times, it just blew up my proportions.🥺

I used to find these wrong english scenes so cringey that I used to hide my face in a pillow... I'm not exaggerating, I'm being very serious (I could seriously relate with Sid at those moments 😵)

And after hearing Sandy's words yesterday, it's clear they're creating a way for the education track (thank god)

Btw someone remembers the exact date SidHai got married for the first time? smiley44

Bhulu me keeps forgetting dates 😛


Funny thing - Recently few fans on Instagram were demanding for Mithai's education coz of the same reason you mentioned in the post.. After that certain Fan groups started trolling them coz they feel Mithai's wrong pronunciation are for comic relief n it should be kept in that way.. Besides I learnt English is for elite class 😳 something I didn't knew until now, how silly of me.. Mithai belongs to middle class families, so there's no reason for Mithai to learn proper English..

Sid is such an idiot, how dare he think of teaching Mithai proper English pronunciation 😡 What if Mithai turn into sophisticated elite class Boudimoni 2.0 after learning 2 koli Engreji 😱

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Artemis7

This is what I found really problematic too....! Yes Sid has anger issues but locking someone up and a sensible character like Sree justifying it to Rajib as - "Dadabhai er raag to tumi jano e"

How in heavens can be locking someone up because you both are on different pages, stand justified is beyond my understanding and reasoning!!!

Also @bold- He has an ill temper and I can sympathise with him because so do I, but for someone who has showed potential character growth suddenly returning to the glass throwing brash anger, doesn't sit well with me!

He looked more like a "jedi" child yesterday who can do anything to prove that he's right than a sensible young man 😕 (I can say this because I have seen my cousins)

You can say that he's headstrong, I'll totally respect your opinion, but for me its straight out "jed" as Mithai herself said

Yes he has a certain set of beliefs that stemmed deep due to his childhood trauma but how long do we keep blaming it on the same?

And thank god they didn't go the conventional way with Mithai's reply to the challenge dialogue....... it's usually - "Tomar jonno to sob tayi challenge", but they took it up a notch with Mithai pointing Sid out... Phew!



On a lighter note, throwig her heels down was a strange action on behalf of someone whose seen tons of "sherials" & movies... 🤣


SidMit argument scene was absolutely amazing yesterday, especially Mithai was on fire, everything she pointed out was absolutely TRUE.. However about the @Bold Red part - Sree wasn't justifying Sid.. She knows Sid's anger issues very well n that sentence it was out of concern for Mithai.. Sree panics very quickly n after hearing from Mithai that she was locked up, that comment was more like a complain not justification..

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Sutapasima

So finally it’s been proved beyond doubts that Som is not the biological son of Somresh .

He is so thankful to Mithayi that he asks her to call him Baba . Sid on the other hand got no such offer from him .. serves him right . Sid has to earn it himself .

What will be Som’s reaction now ? Let’s see what Tess has to say !!
I hope Som transfers those sweet shops over to Mithayi’s name now . 😡

Somehow I felt this big reveal was a bit thanda🤔 No promo was shown....it was as if they hurried some how

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: anjani-pagli

Somehow I felt this big reveal was a bit thanda🤔 No promo was shown....it was as if they hurried some how

Today thammi and Nepa were missing Are they down with Covid ?

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