Bade Achhe Lagte Hain 2 EDT #10 - Page 4

Originally posted by: vaidharbhi95

Why does Ram think he is unworthy for Priya...

Like in Priya's case we know every man in her life rejected her, so she thinks no one can be interested in her , she ain't good looking nor is a typical bubbly girl..

In Ram's case what is it???

Is it coz he knows he can't be unbiased like Priya, cannot balance step fam and wife together ????

Or is it coz of the distance Pri maintains par uska reason toh pata hai usko...

He is pretty confident about his looks and status otherwise...

I think More than 2 decades of emotional manipulation wud do that to a guy....

Priya has strong relations something real r.....real love ..real family...For Ram everything is mirage nothing substantial except good friends...

Originally posted by: vaidharbhi95

Why does Ram think he is unworthy for Priya...

Like in Priya's case we know every man in her life rejected her, so she thinks no one can be interested in her , she ain't good looking nor is a typical bubbly girl..

In Ram's case what is it???

Is it coz he knows he can't be unbiased like Priya, cannot balance step fam and wife together ????

Or is it coz of the distance Pri maintains par uska reason toh pata hai usko...

He is pretty confident about his looks and status otherwise...

Because everytime he loves someone they leave for some reason or the other.

Vedika too left him because shashi was a better option.

Ram too has insecurities about himself that's why he does a lot for people. In his mind he is not lovable because no one has ever reciprocated his love selflessly.

He thinks if he does something for someone only then people will appriciate him and all this is done by nandini.

She has made ram to believe that because he is so unlucky and alone he needs to be at people's Beck and call to be acceptable as a family member.

One of the best episode snippet I have ever seen. Loved it! Ram doing his pati dharam now 90% sure all manipulations will be done on Priya by our evil forces ... Remember before the accident Priya had told Ram "I couldn't win your trust" and exactly this is the reason he will give Akki, a benefit of the doubt

From Ram's side, he will never be jealous of Priya and Neeraj

Ram will never try to do anything for her dad whom Priya hates

Priya trusts Akki, so in turn Ram will trust him

Originally posted by: tirchinazar

One of the best episode snippet I have ever seen. Loved it! Ram doing his pati dharam now 90% sure all manipulations will be done on Priya by our evil forces ... Remember before the accident Priya had told Ram "I couldn't win your trust" and exactly this is the reason he will give Akki, a benefit of the doubt

Now Voucher given to God. Wondering what he will use when Vedika tells the truth to Priya abt their past. I was hoping he would use one of those coupons to get Priya back in his life 😒

He won't. He will support her. As I said earlier, she will become his priority. It is Priya who needs to understand his actions. I presume there will be some embarrassing moments between them, Ram will no longer see her as a woman who was his responsibility but as a wife whom he loves unconditionally. The fear of losing Priya will make him lose himself. Vedika will try to manipulate Priya, not Ram

See, he won't need vouchers. He will make sure that she is with him always. He will try to communicate more with her. Earlier it was like a roommate clause, now it is like a partner clause. I hope CVs won't disappoint us and make Ram intelligent that he says he will try to be 🤪First thing, he would do is to get roses for her, I think 😉

This is why Nandini is worried. Ram will do anything for loved ones, that's how she, Shashi, Vedika were manipulating him showing fake love and concern

Originally posted by: tirchinazar

See, he won't need vouchers. He will make sure that she is with him always. He will try to communicate more with her. Earlier it was like a roommate clause, now it is like a partner clause. I hope CVs won't disappoint us and make Ram intelligent that he says he will try to be 🤪First thing, he would do is to get roses for her, I think 😉

priya was doing it unconsciously as default patni dharam… caring for him and appeasing him and understood him and got him… while he was clueless , Did only things that he thought were right and saw and expected her to support him…just because he said so…

Ab ram consciously will do his pati dharam… he now has faith in his biwi… .. and faith he has… the beauty that dawned on him through this tunnel…❤️

Why is Ram thinking he is unworthy of Priya's love? First and foremost he told her he is marrying his sister and there won't be love in their marriage and she agreed. Like others, she never goes to him with her problems, either she solves it herself like the loan thing, neeraj wala annulment support etc. He thinks she is doing her patni dharam that she has promised after the interview kaand. When she had reached out to him for help, he was a disappointment. Though he asked her, she never questioned him with haq of a patni. She was ready to give back the 5% share which he had given without even consulting with him. So somewhere he feels that Priya is with him for sake of her brother. The moment Shivi-Akki marriage is broken, she will leave him and go. All the monologues before the accident were exactly his fear of losing Priya because of Shivi-Akki kaand. And exactly that's the reason he will try to unite Shivi and Akki much to the disappointment of Nandu, Shubhu & Vedu 😆

Diwali track he clearly states about his relationship with Priya. He even thinks that she can stay without him. According to him, Priya is the very strong, level-headed person he has ever met who always stays with the truth.

Originally posted by: tirchinazar

Why is Ram thinking he is unworthy of Priya's love? First and foremost he told her he is marrying his sister and there won't be love in their marriage and she agreed. Like others, she never goes to him with her problems, either she solves it herself like the loan thing, neeraj wala annulment support etc. He thinks she is doing her patni dharam that she has promised after the interview kaand. When she had reached out to him for help, he was a disappointment. Though he asked her, she never questioned him with haq of a patni. She was ready to give back the 5% share which he had given without even consulting with him. So somewhere he feels that Priya is with him for sake of her brother. The moment Shivi-Akki marriage is broken, she will leave him and go. All the monologues before the accident were exactly his fear of losing Priya because of Shivi-Akki kaand. And exactly that's the reason he will try to unite Shivi and Akki much to the disappointment of Nandu, Shubhu & Vedu 😆

Diwali track he clearly states about his relationship with Priya. He even thinks that she can stay without him. According to him, Priya is the very strong, level-headed person he has ever met who always stays with the truth.

But priya is also afraid of losing him since choti Diwali day..which he doesn’t know… he knows priya doing her patni dharam which he thinks that priya is taking it as a responsibility…he heard it from priya when she was talking to MMaa and when he tries to reciprocate, he is making it as his responsibility too, that too he couldn’t completely do, due to circumstances.

Even during birthday track, he was feeling guilty that he gave credit to someone else when it was priya who did everything… he is again afraid that this birthday might break his heart again… and Priya let go of his bad behaviour thinking that she might lose people…which she voiced out in intoxicated state… but she didn’t say her feelings particularly towards him,atleast not infront him🤭

So, he thinks that since priya is doing her part and he is unable fulfill his share of effort, he is doing something else in her defence and is thinking that not sending Akki to jail is itself a great responsibility he had done…😆

Today he felt the same fear that priya felt when ram errr… what happened to him🧐 , yeah nosebleed + loc because of tension 🙈…

As per MMaa, ram acted as per his default, when he does feel something, he expresses it dil phadke… and today, we got to see it… admitting it to the world, “tumare Bina,me jee nahin sakta,I love u priya!”

not a subtle internal dialogue that priya had, “kya hota mera aapke Bina?”

While priya was sorted back then, ram grew on her (she was goorofying her pati,wanting him to support her and chided herself to expect it and he volunteered to act according to her ,she was impressed when he called her helper of the year ☺️she fell Ill during his quarantine, is angry that he is not seeing her pov,lost while hug 🤗 , made his birthday sooo special, flaunting her hubby to random stangers and so on and so forth) she is in denial , but she is indeed running towards him all this while...

As per MMaa,Priya’s default is Subtle…Disha and writers left those cues for us that she has already shed off cloak of responsibility and wants to be reached in that hand pakdo moment. Because the last time Shikki separated, she stormed out letting her hand go from ram… this time she didn’t… ❤️