Would abhimanyu be okay with such an indecent proposal?

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Abhimanyu thought Aarohi loved him, saved his life and reputation and in return he made a heartless proposal to her that " I will love your sister" ,yet I want you to marry me for my mom's wish because you love me a lot but i won't give you anything in return for that love. This is like a punishment to someone who you thinks love you .Any person whom you think loves you and you offer them marriage in return, it is normal that at some point of time you will expect that person to love you back because you love them. Abhimanyu did the worst thing a person can do to someone who they think loves them.

If he indeed thought Aarohi saved him, he should have thanked her in a much better manner and thought she doesn't deserve to marry someone who wouldn't love her. I can't reciprocate her love but this is a girl who can go in fire to save me. She deserves way better and a man who would love her. That is what a decent gentlemen would do in such a situation.

Let's consider the same situation. Akshara kept on rejecting abhimanyu. What if she told abhimanyu I'll get married to you but marriage will be in name only, I'll keep loving some other man or I'll keep loving Neil as I am in love with Neil.

Would abhimanyu be okay with the same kind of proposal? Wouldn't it hurt him more that he loves akshara but she will keep loving some other man despite being married to him? And what would he expect from such a marriage from akshara?

What was the thought behind abhimanyu getting married to Aarohi? Is it so that abhimanyu thinks himself as a trophy and him offering to marry a girl itself is a big deal for him because it seemed so from the episodes. It was like I am THE ABHIMANYU BIRLA and marrying me itself is a big deal for aarohi because he never offered anything to her - friendship, loyalty, support, responsibility

This marriage proposal itself made abhimanyu such a heartless, selfish, stupid,self obsessed person.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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So well this is put together. 👏

First off I'm not Aarohi's fan but stating the facts.

Aarohi is what she is, she claims she the best n wants the best n trust me she has been the same.

Abhimanyu is not what he claims to be, each and every claim Abhimanyu did regarding himself are proved wrong by himself. May it be Mere ek hi chehra hain, Main sirf Akshu se shaadi karunga, Main ladkiyon ki respect karta hoon [calling a girl Besharam who he jilted n that too publically].

He also in his mind thinks he's the best anyone can get. N so he walks around like king whom no one can reject, He felt so bad that he was rejected but he did the same with aarohi how is he more right here. 😡

Just cuz he's in love n Aarohi is not. He broke off the marriage n the very next day Abhira are romancing khullam khulla srsly writers what are you trying to show here. They could at least make a 15 day leap or something.

Now many say Aarohi deserved it and she accepted this pathetic proposal OK, but pls think even if she accepted it as per u guys she's wrong then how right is Abhi for making such a damn proposal??

Even yesterday's dialogue which he said jab tumahari inkaar thi na tumhe paane ki tadap thi.....when you were engaged to other sister. 🤢🤢

IS THIS WHAT IS RESPECT OF ANYONE NOT ONLY WOMEN OR MEN ???

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Posted: 3 years ago
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What if marriage actually took place? Would he allow aarohi to stay in his room? Share bed with him? He refused to make her sit on his bike - akshu ke yaad mai 🤢 what would the marriage mean then? Aarohi will wear mangalsutra and sindoor of Abhimanyu's name but abhimanyu would treat her like she doesn't even exist and keep on dreaming about akshara? 🤢 What if his mom would ask for kids few years down the line? Then suddenly he would use her body or try to give her a chance 🤢

Edited by borntorule12 - 3 years ago
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Posted: 3 years ago
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So true...abhimanyu's marriage proposal to aarohi has messed up everything ..he shouldn't have proposed aarohi at all..goenkas specially manish is not wrong for declining abhira's relationship..he was not very keen for abhi arohi marriage thing in the beginning..but he accepted it slowly and then abhimanyu literally dumped aarohi on mandap and broke Goenka’s respect and self esteem..

This stupid manjari is now talking about Patience when she herself was the one who impatiently started her aarohi Jaap and wanted abhimanyu to marry aarohi and fell sick after which he agreed..

Both abhimanyu and manjari have started to piss me off ..goenkas and specially akshara's reputation is ruined because of eloping with her sister's fiance..and now abhimanyu wants goenkas to agree for his marriage to akshara..what the hell

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Posted: 3 years ago
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The character of Abhimanyu is full of contradiction and many only emerging with his interaction with Akshu. With his family he is very clear, assertive, demanding, aloof and used to having his way. The only person he bows down to is his mother.

He agreed to marry Arohi for his mother. He made it clear where he stands..ie only loving Akshu...Arohi for her own reason agreed. In that respect he was very clear.

Would he marry if the circumstances was reversed and Akshu had said something similar? I think he might as he wants her so much and could not function without her. He would think he will change her mind as their relationship progresses. However, he will be dissatisfied, unhappy and eventually he would have either stepped back or told Akshu what he should have, that he can't marry her when she loves someone else.

Abhi has an intrinsic need to be loved and have that love returned and nothing more or less. He is too self aware to compromise on that value of his. But Akshu muddles him - as we saw very clearly - and is the only person beside his mum to make him waver/question himself. For her, he would and could have compromised his love but, as we saw, it would have eaten him up alive and a similar 'fake suicide' scene would have arisen where Aksu would be forced into declaring her love before she is ready.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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When did arohi tell abhimNyu that she loves him? Saving from fire and praying for his mom doesn't equate to loving someone. Did she confess? Did she tell goenkas that she loved abhimanyu? Did she tell akshara ? Ye baat kabhi hui nai .sometimes I wonder which yrkkh am I watching 👀 🤔 I only heard her saying mujhe abhimanyu chahiye , main uske liye best hoon woh mere liye etc etc


And if the proposal was indecent , why did arohi agree ? She is a grown up woman, a doctor , #1 with brains .

Edited by _charu_ - 3 years ago
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Posted: 3 years ago
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I just want to say that what Abhimanyu did to Aarohi, if any other boy did the same to Akshara, everyone would have abused a lot.🤣🤣


Jitne Galti Aarohi ne ki utne Abhira ne bhi 💔

All are at fault . Elope with your Jija ji on the day of wedding is not a small thing. 🤣

And for Aaru she should be thrown out of Birla Hospital by taking away her degrees for what she did👍🏼


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Posted: 3 years ago
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I'm saying that's what abhimanyu and manjari thought. Manjari explained him humein zindagi uske saath bitani chahiye jo humse pyaar kare, naki jisse hum pyaar kare. Abhimanyu assumed aarohi loves him so went ahead with this proposal.

I'm telling let's consider aarohi did indeed save him coz that's what abhimanyu thought. How would such a proposal to such a person who saved you / loves you be fair?

If aarohi is wrong in accepting the proposal, abhimanyu is also wrong in making such a cheap proposal

Edited by borntorule12 - 3 years ago
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Posted: 3 years ago
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People in this forum are really biased towards abhi,akshu and aaru

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: borntorule12

People in this forum are really biased towards abhi,akshu and aaru

yeh koi new baat nahi 🤣

Show dekhte hue hamesha yaad rakho

Leads are always right🤣

Edited by Fearless_Lover - 3 years ago

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