Does Anupamaa even love Anuj?

*disclaimer: i haven't seen episodes 486/487 as yet*

im annoyed. i can justify a lot, but anupamaa not spilling her guts makes no flipping sense in reel or real.

why is she prioritizing Vanraj's situationships with his current flavour of the month over the man who she couldnt imagine the next 26 breaths without ?

the scene in the boardroom where she forces him to eat, cuz she's so attuned to his needs - WTF was that? i feel like im watching sister wives with anupamaa as the main wife training wife #2 and wife #3 how things work around here. 🤨

when is she gonna let this obsession with Vanraj go?

vanraj is gonna have a bevy of women walking in and out of life until his last breath. he's a magnet for young, dumb and vulnerable, and those are a dime a dozen. she really has convinced herself that she is protecting these women and all i see is her behaving like his personal bodyguard shoo-ing away anyone who tries to get close to him.

imo she still loves Vanraj and i dont think that will ever change.

anuj is just a placeholder until they completely turn Vanraj from Scar into Mufasa proceeding to make this a full out "love" triangle and she is stuck choosing between the two, cuz God forbid she doesn't end up with Vanraj for the next 20 births and thru the 9 circles of hell after that. 🙄

anupamaa, if you don't want Bae, than pass him this way sis, let us have our turn. 👅

Originally posted by: BaAZiGar0

*disclaimer: i haven't seen episodes 486/487 as yet*

im annoyed. i can justify a lot, but anupamaa not spilling her guts makes no flipping sense in reel or real.

why is she prioritizing Vanraj's situationships with his current flavour of the month over the man who she couldnt imagine the next 26 breaths without ?

the scene in the boardroom where she forces him to eat, cuz she's so attuned to his needs - WTF was that? i feel like im watching sister wives with anupamaa as the main wife training wife #2 and wife #3 how things work around here. 🤨

when is she gonna let this obsession with Vanraj go?

vanraj is gonna have a bevy of women walking in and out of life until his last breath. he's a magnet for young, dumb and vulnerable, and those are a dime a dozen. she really has convinced herself that she is protecting these women and all i see is her behaving like his personal bodyguard shoo-ing away anyone who tries to get close to him.

imo she still loves Vanraj and i dont think that will ever change.

anuj is just a placeholder until they completely turn Vanraj from Scar into Mufasa proceeding to make this a full out "love" triangle and she is stuck choosing between the two, cuz God forbid she doesn't end up with Vanraj for the next 20 births and thru the 9 circles of hell after that. 🙄

anupamaa, if you don't want Bae, than pass him this way sis, let us have our turn. 👅

Disclaimer: the issues, I have seen in Anupama are all based on chair psychology. This is in no way diminishes how harmful these mental disorders/traumas are:

1. Stockholm syndrome- Anu got married young and still in her has the feeling that if she does things right, Vanraj will become worthy man or she would be worthy. Could be beacuse she lived with him for so many years or is the father of her children, who knows.🤷

2. Self-sabotage - She does not consider her to be worthy of love from Anuj. She may love him, but there is a difference in love and living in loving relationship.

3. Anu has been taught to be perfectly obedient. She ignores her own instincts and rather like a child believe what others tell her. This shows her as a good women, daughter, daughterin law, mother wife, etc..🤔

4. Lastly, this is to show a love traingle between these 3 charcters. Only difference its mature people acting as children. 🤣

5. Lastly writers are taking too much 😉and forget their character progress and repeat the patterns as have no other story 😆

May I give small answer?

It is NO. she took Anuj for granted. I am on Team Anuj. 🤣

Originally posted by: tintin0602

May I give small answer?

It is NO. she took Anuj for granted. I am on Team Anuj. 🤣

Looks like we will have now team Anuj vs team Anupama😂😂😂

Originally posted by: BaAZiGar0

*disclaimer: i haven't seen episodes 486/487 as yet*

im annoyed. i can justify a lot, but anupamaa not spilling her guts makes no flipping sense in reel or real.

why is she prioritizing Vanraj's situationships with his current flavour of the month over the man who she couldnt imagine the next 26 breaths without ?

the scene in the boardroom where she forces him to eat, cuz she's so attuned to his needs - WTF was that? i feel like im watching sister wives with anupamaa as the main wife training wife #2 and wife #3 how things work around here. 🤨

when is she gonna let this obsession with Vanraj go?

vanraj is gonna have a bevy of women walking in and out of life until his last breath. he's a magnet for young, dumb and vulnerable, and those are a dime a dozen. she really has convinced herself that she is protecting these women and all i see is her behaving like his personal bodyguard shoo-ing away anyone who tries to get close to him.

imo she still loves Vanraj and i dont think that will ever change.

anuj is just a placeholder until they completely turn Vanraj from Scar into Mufasa proceeding to make this a full out "love" triangle and she is stuck choosing between the two, cuz God forbid she doesn't end up with Vanraj for the next 20 births and thru the 9 circles of hell after that. 🙄

anupamaa, if you don't want Bae, than pass him this way sis, let us have our turn. 👅

Precisely Ali....

I have voiced the same thoughts over so many threads till now...I haven't seen any Full episode since Dv track started. Just read Sunny update and Maan only clips on SM.

Anu is still attached to Vanraj and prioritise him over Anuj. Personally this track is becoming cringe, Anu has become cringe and now I don't like MaAn only because of this lady..

I have started OS on same track...not at all look for Anu confession or Maan union. Like today's rose track, it would be so so duh...is se to achha hai Anuj wapas US chala jaye...

She love v definitely because are you notice how close v n anu standing eachother when they fight buikul face ke near bhai discomfort feel hona chahiye anuj ke itne kareeb nahi gayi kabhi

Originally posted by: Neenzm

Looks like we will have now team Anuj vs team Anupama😂😂😂

Someone help me, who on IF is in team Anupama... Twitter has blind followers and TRP aunties...but here on IF, do we have anyone?

Originally posted by: BaAZiGar0

*disclaimer: i haven't seen episodes 486/487 as yet*

im annoyed. i can justify a lot, but anupamaa not spilling her guts makes no flipping sense in reel or real.

why is she prioritizing Vanraj's situationships with his current flavour of the month over the man who she couldnt imagine the next 26 breaths without ?

the scene in the boardroom where she forces him to eat, cuz she's so attuned to his needs - WTF was that? i feel like im watching sister wives with anupamaa as the main wife training wife #2 and wife #3 how things work around here. 🤨

when is she gonna let this obsession with Vanraj go?

vanraj is gonna have a bevy of women walking in and out of life until his last breath. he's a magnet for young, dumb and vulnerable, and those are a dime a dozen. she really has convinced herself that she is protecting these women and all i see is her behaving like his personal bodyguard shoo-ing away anyone who tries to get close to him.

imo she still loves Vanraj and i dont think that will ever change.

anuj is just a placeholder until they completely turn Vanraj from Scar into Mufasa proceeding to make this a full out "love" triangle and she is stuck choosing between the two, cuz God forbid she doesn't end up with Vanraj for the next 20 births and thru the 9 circles of hell after that. 🙄

anupamaa, if you don't want Bae, than pass him this way sis, let us have our turn. 👅

I believe a person has to love and respect himself or herself before anyone else to really understand the meaning of love..😊

But here, this lady anupama, she has no self respect, no self love, thn how do think she will be able to understand the level of anuj who is loving her from past 26 years without any expectations..

Ye lady jiski poori life badtameejo ke bich nikal gayi sar jhuka kar..jise izzat, pyaar, beizzati kuch bhi feel nahi hui 26 years tak use anuj ka pyaar kaise feel hoga..🤢

Or aaj bhi jise apni insult feel nahi hoti..jo aaj bhi apne puraane pati ko protect karti ghoom rahi hai or us friend cum lover se usi ke family se related major issues chupa rahi hai

I don't think she loves anuj..par serial me dikhaane ko kuch bhi dikha den..😵

She doesn't love Anuj. She is treating Anuj like an enemy by hiding Vanraj's intentions.