The true test of “Bade Papa”

The true test of bade papa comes tomorrow.

He has forgiven Arohi for all her minor and major wrong doings until now. He has managed to allow himself to move the wedding forward because that is what Arohi wanted even when he disliked the Birlas or Harsh. Because he wanted to make Arohi happy.

Let’s see what how much he values Aksharas happiness tomorrow. He’s never had to choose akshras happiness in his life. It’s always been about Arohi. Akshara has just made her own way and supported him and the family is making Arohi happy. In fact she has been programmed by sirat and the family after sirat to always think only about Arohis happiness. This is the first time she has said what makes her happy. Will he be there for her?

(Also very disappointed that no one else in the family other than Kairav said anything today!)

Exactly, if they would have thought about akshara once, then today arohi wouldnt be resenting akshu. They didn't try to make arohi understand instead they made akshu to give in arohi's tantrums. What kind of parenting is this? They should see the reasons behind her silence, how her sister blackmailed about leaving the house forever and blah blah blue blue

All the small and big mistakes of Aaru have been forgiven till now only because no one had provoked Bade Papa against Aaru.😈But here circumstances are different, Aru is repeatedly provoking against Akshara.🐷Whatever mistake Aru had made, Akshara was withher and at the day of marriage run away with your jija ji is not a small thing🤣🤣🤣

This whole mess will take time to solve.

i think the most important Bade Papa have to realise, but will fail to, is that punishing Akshu by keeping her away from Abhi - something they never did with Arohi - is letting Arohi win. Is letting her get away with her actions.

Originally posted by: Fearless_Lover

All the small and big mistakes of Aaru have been forgiven till now only because no one had provoked Bade Papa against Aaru.😈But here circumstances are different, Aru is repeatedly provoking against Akshara.🐷Whatever mistake Aru had made, Akshara was withher and at the day of marriage run away with your jija ji is not a small thing🤣🤣🤣

This whole mess will take time to solve.

Then Aarohi says to Akshara ki use natak watak karna nahi ata woh usme Akshara se piche re gai and blah blah blue blue 😂 .... but its not Aarohi tu usme bhi n.1 trying to make everyone against Akshara 😤

Originally posted by: UKGirl22

i think the most important Bade Papa have to realise, but will fail to, is that punishing Akshu by keeping her away from Abhi - something they never did with Arohi - is letting Arohi win. Is letting her get away with her actions.

Very well said. And I think that's exactly why Arohi was ranting about making sure Akshara also gets her just punishment. Girl's got the mind of a chess grandmaster. Arohi doesn't care if she doesn't get Abhimanyu as long as Akshara doesn't get him either.

Originally posted by: UKGirl22

The true test of bade papa comes tomorrow.

He has forgiven Arohi for all her minor and major wrong doings until now. He has managed to allow himself to move the wedding forward because that is what Arohi wanted even when he disliked the Birlas or Harsh. Because he wanted to make Arohi happy.

Let’s see what how much he values Aksharas happiness tomorrow. He’s never had to choose akshras happiness in his life. It’s always been about Arohi. Akshara has just made her own way and supported him and the family is making Arohi happy. In fact she has been programmed by sirat and the family after sirat to always think only about Arohis happiness. This is the first time she has said what makes her happy. Will he be there for her?

(Also very disappointed that no one else in the family other than Kairav said anything today!)

@ red... good question. Answer, in my opinion is - unless someone drills some sense into him, No. He won't be there for Akshara. To use Abhimanyu's phrase... His way of thinking and acting is as conditioned as Akshara's is. So unless another person takes a stand for Akshara in front of Manish.... no. I don't see him doing it on his own. But then again... this is a TV show. Anything can happen. Manish can get a dream wherein Sirat or Karthik plead him for forgive Akshara and he will wake up a changed man. Or his own mirror image can do the talking. :D

Originally posted by: UKGirl22

i think the most important Bade Papa have to realise, but will fail to, is that punishing Akshu by keeping her away from Abhi - something they never did with Arohi - is letting Arohi win. Is letting her get away with her actions.

Yeah even I don’t understand why so much favouritism.... why so much difference in both the child, Aarohi kare to koi bat nahi agar woh murder bhi kardegi toh bhi maaf kardenge or Akshara ne toh sirf pehli baar apne dil ki suni hai pehli baar apne liye socha humesha paarivar ke baare mein socha .... galat decision nahi samay hota hai or wahi Abhira ke saath, lekin agar Arohi ko maaf kar sakte hai toh Akshara ko bhi kar sakte hai....

i really want Naksh or any Maheshwari back . 🤞🏻

Originally posted by: Intoxicator

Very well said. And I think that's exactly why Arohi was ranting about making sure Akshara also gets her just punishment. Girl's got the mind of a chess grandmaster. Arohi doesn't care if she doesn't get Abhimanyu as long as Akshara doesn't get him either.

Which makes me wonder... what punishment would Arohi get? Would she get one at all or would Manish decide that being jilted is punishment enough and target only Akshara?

Originally posted by: SatyaVS

Which makes me wonder... what punishment would Arohi get? Would she get one at all or would Manish decide that being jilted is punishment enough and target only Akshara?

As far as I can tell, Arohi has been allowed to get away with everything short of murder by the Goenkas.

So it's a fair point - he might just be like 'my beti has suffered enough' and let her off with a slap on the wrist. Even during his rant at the mandir, he reserved most of his anger for Akshara (and to be honest, in terms of socially embarassing behavior, what Akshara did was FAR worse than what Arohi did).