Them and their emotions - Page 21

Originally posted by: Mehersudha

Manish had that obsession of minister ji from kaira time. BV always quotes that dialogue on her IG story. We were never shown any minister it's only in diaLogues. One time he wanted a chopper too from minister but choppers are not there. They booked normal flight during keesh wedding.. someone on twitter wrote whether this is the same minister who is getting operated next by Birlas and Ak kept adoption paper in that file. So this minister will open Abhi being adopted before marriage. But I think it's just hype like in season2 whenever any problem is there minister Saab by Manish. During sirat track Ranveers father is a Minister . Seeing karishmas IG story I think she is exposed and heart broken..

This Manish na they did drag a poor minister then and now too never showed one. Doesn't know if his operation is over or not.

I am glad my blame game isn't off.

Originally posted by: Prachi1967

Nd one thing may be wrong...on the time of shivji barat only sadhu saint the barati

Guys thanks for pointing this out. I thought I am thinking crazy. When I made post about shiv sati People were on full mode to not compare human with God. Since you guys did this I will tell my story over it too. We know right utkarsh is the one who is writing this show and he wrote Mahadev too. Back then I used to watch it like crazy. If you see in that where shivji goes to get Parvathi and this scene their is more Similarity in them. Shivji costumes are very simple he goes by walk and then later his followers, saints and others join one by one with damru and red flags in hand. Here abhi goes with simple dress. Followed by the baarat, red flags and smokes. Then when the bride family look for shivji he comes out of vibuthi thrown everywhere and he is completely adorned by vibuthi. Here too abhi is completely adorned by vibuthi and comes out of that to enter the house.

If you all want watch mahadev in hotstar season 5 ep 19. I just reconfirned it before updating.

Originally posted by: hari15

Guys thanks for pointing this out. I thought I am thinking crazy. When I made post about shiv sati People were on full mode to not compare human with God. Since you guys did this I will tell my story over it too. We know right utkarsh is the one who is writing this show and he wrote Mahadev too. Back then I used to watch it like crazy. If you see in that where shivji goes to get Parvathi and this scene their is more Similarity in them. Shivji costumes are very simple he goes by walk and then later his followers, saints and others join one by one with damru and red flags in hand. Here abhi goes with simple dress. Followed by the baarat, red flags and smokes. Then when the bride family look for shivji he comes out of vibuthi thrown everywhere and he is completely adorned by vibuthi. Here too abhi is completely adorned by vibuthi and comes out of that to enter the house.

If you all want watch mahadev in hotstar season 5 ep 19. I just reconfirned it before updating.

Who are they? What are they?

This post is about aarohi.

Yet my title states in plural right. I will explain it why first.

So i was thinking for days if not even for months what should I write about aarohi when all she does is go around lie and manipulate. Then I realised one thing today unlike how we write about abhimanyu Or akshara as an individual I could never write about her individually. This girl is like shani in one's life. Be good and do good to her you will get her but not you will only get her hatred and she has her own rule books for it. She might disappear from one's life but she will never leave you completely will be back when needed.

Till this day we would have seen how this girl is overshadowing her elder sister. But do you know their is another side of this story where a little girl is till this day living under the wings of her elder sister. Even when this elder sister is not present she was still under the protective shield she had been placed.

Before I start the story let me explain a few things about these sisters.

Did you know when they were young kids akshu and aarohi played common girl and princess game. Who thought that game would become a reality in their life. Even for games no parents will let their kids be one instead may make all their kids ministers of each department but no they openly put one kid up and other down in the name of games. And their began a disastrous story of two sisters.

Manish after truth came out about Naira told to AG " How much ever upbringing we give one day blood will show it's true colours" does he know even before he stated the process had already started. The moment akshu came to know about sirat she accepted her their she became naira's daughter and the moment aarohi saw akshu with her own mother she became sirat's daughter.

It was the day akshu came to know about naira. She held the photo and sat not knowing what to do. Aarohi simply came their and told her instead of getting confused talk with mom. Then when their grandma comes instead of directly asking akshu waited. Aarohi asked her why and she said not now. Let's not make their mind upset.

Here did you see aarohi knows what to do? Akshara knows how to do? These two things always go hand in hand in ones life.

These two are like an artist and his inspiration. If aarohi is an artist who knows what she wants to do but then how would she be one if she doesn't know how to do it that is her inspiration her sister.

So who is aarohi?

She is a shot-tempered girl who can't think beyond her limits in her anger, she is a lier and when she grew up she even turned into a manipulator and sister abuser. Ok her shot-tempered nature and lying nature were born nature but how did she turn into a manipulator and sister abuser.

Let's see what all led her to.

When she knew akshu wasn't her real sister she accepted it and went to console her but when she went their she heard her mother tell akshu is her favorite. This girl is selfish and nothing could be done about it. So she just wanted her parents for herself. Until her mother was their she held her and made her to understand.

Then their is a fact she met her grandma who spit venom in her head that Goenka's will prefer akshu over her and at the very same time she again heard Manish telling akshu is her favorite.

Yes this girl started to have insecurities, she believed in things she saw. Then again their was no one to make her understand them neither she told anyone about it. When she wanted to meet her nani instead of telling no and don't talk sirat should have sat and explained it all. Because according to aarohi all mother are good mother. Her own mother is best for her, her Swarna grandma is also the best ma for her and her mimi is also best mom then without explaining how would she know her nani was the worst ever mom.

These things led to only one thing in her mind that her and her mom are no. 2 in this house and will always be like that and no one will ever accept them. Her mother died and her hatred only grew because her mother is the only person she loved with all her might.

Somewhere in all these abhi and aarohi are very similar people. Like abhi, aarohi too has the habit of believing in the things they see, they both are people with anger issues, both are very possessive in nature one for akshu another for her mother. But the line draws with one being good and another being evil, one is a straight forward person and another is a lier.

Swarna once said Akshu's life is in aarohi. She is the one who akshu loves the most. The love of the sister she lost now she got 10 times more in abhi's form. Likewise aarohi loved her mother the most. Until the day this girl meets someone like her mother she would never budge or love anyone else not even her own family that much.

Her mother always pointed out her wrong and she accepted it gladly. Even when she wanted to get akshu's dress her mom said no and she listened to it.

Neil once said it their is nothing good about aarohi except for her being a doctor. Do you see this girl in my eyes isn't evil at all but plain stupid. People say anger makes one to do stupid things and this girl's anger is for years.

Then during her 1st engagement the guy rejects her stating I love your sister. She doesn't even feel bad for that. She genuinely felt bad for herself when he said I spoke to you for the sake of your sister. Their the guy hit the nail in the coffin.

According to aarohi akshu is the biggest villian and opponent in her story and no one goes around trusting their villian. Now should I pity her or call her stupid.

Aarohi except for being a doctor she doesn't know anything else. How will she when she never stepped into real world. Akshu lived away from home. Sirat is an outsider who in a way loved her as a daughter. But for aarohi the people she knew or met are her family only. She can do whatever she wants with them but her tricks would never work on a outsider. Because that's not how it works in real world.

Tell me which girl in her right mind would go and talk to a person like mahima that I will become like you one day. This girl doesn't know when to talk or what to talk or who to talk. She doesn't know anyone's nature. Neither abhi her fiance or the one who she wants to be like. Again should I say she is navie Or stupid.

She wants everything to be of akshu choice in her life. Does that mean this girl doesn't know what she likes or dislikes, maybe she told her sister to choose all the things for her wedding because she really doesn't know what to do with them. so she thinks its ok to get her sister's who makes the best of anything. She trusts her sister's choice.

In a way aarohi doesn't actually know what she really wants in her life. Whatever she wants till now is to prove herself not for the sake of her own life and a living. This is such a tiring life. In a way this girl to prove things had tangled herself in web of lies, misfortune and misery.

Then she snatches her sister's love. Does she feel bad an ounce. Does she care not at all. As I always say this girl had left her heart with her mother and her brain is in a long sleeping mode. Her heart won't wake up until she sees someone like her mother.

Then she goes ahead with a disastrous marriage. Why? Because she had seen her father married twice and grandpa married twice and believes it will work for her too. Again she believes in things she sees that is it for her.

Then she takes her sister along with her to her fiance house who is also her sister ex-lover. Asks her if she likes the ring she chose. If it wasn't she snatched her lover I would have thought she genuinely asking her if it is ok. But at times why do i feel like this girl wants to know from her elder sister that what she chose was right.

Akshu once said aarohi is smart but she needs some love to see and understand things. Sometimes it doesn't matter how many people loves you sometimes what matters is who loves you or from whom you are getting that love and aarohi's love is only for her mother. Who will hold this girl like her mother will be the one to win this girl over.

This girl lives in a world of illusion where she had pulled everyone along with her and her illusionary world is in a way her happy world. That is why she never want to see akshu because or her to stay their because her illusionary world gets a crack or is disturbed in akshu's presence.

Sometimes I feel like she wants to marry abhi just for the acceptance of her and her mom because in her heart her mother was never accepted and then mini tells you are like your mom on her wedding day which makes her proud and happy.

Next Swarna tells her Manjari will be your mother from now on but does she have any happiness in it. No. Because to aarohi her mother is the only ever mother who could never be replaced.

P. S : this post is a messy, complete disaster one because it wants to be one like aarohi. So do spare me. Thank the forum they don't have a dislike button in it. 😂😂😂

What a brilliant analysis!

I completely agree, Aarohi is stupid, angry and like akshu said once she have "delusions of grandeur".

She is in her on world where ak is just a plain girl, worthy of nothing and she is a princess beauty and brains basically perfect.

But she does think highly of Akshu's choices(even if she doesn't realise it) she wants what ak have.

The worst part is she has gotten so use to hurting akshu that she doesn't even realise it, I am really confused when she's emotionally blackmailing and hurting ak on purpose and when she's doing it out of habit.

Really, priya this was amazing....

Getting in to Aarohi's head is no easy thing

Originally posted by: Nyxigniflex

What a brilliant analysis!

I completely agree, Aarohi is stupid, angry and like akshu said once she have "delusions of grandeur".

She is in her on world where ak is just a plain girl, worthy of nothing and she is a princess beauty and brains basically perfect.

But she does think highly of Akshu's choices(even if she doesn't realise it) she wants what ak have.

The worst part is she has gotten so use to hurting akshu that she doesn't even realise it, I am really confused when she's emotionally blackmailing and hurting ak on purpose and when she's doing it out of habit.

Really, priya this was amazing....

Getting in to Aarohi's head is no easy thing

Now you know why my head didn't work since morning. I still have lots but the thing is if karishma was little expressive we could decipher a lot. Like the child artist aarohi did a good job that made me to read her easily.

One thing to know about aarohi is she isn't someone to understand things easily. She needs someone to understand her or make her understand and her mother did it back then. Now that she has no one it just shatters all over for her.

Just not the choices without this girl realising she does look up to ak as an older sister. It's her ego that throws her away with the hatred she has.

Yes, Aarohi is a complex character. A better actor and we would understand her lot better.

Waise, I had been trying to get in to Aarohi's he'd too.

I actually wrote two abhira os from Aarohi's pov.

One of them is half written, I neither have the patience nor the time.

Please don't try to get into aarohi you would hit your head in wall. I can even understand parth oh maybe even anand this girl not at all. That's why I think none ever gave any deep analysis over her even if she was a villian.

Well described Hari!! You all of a sudden made us to feel sympathy for this girl.

No person is born criminal, its the circumstances that makes them. Today's Arohi is the product of over pampering, negligence and lack of proper parenting by Goenkas and over sacrificing mode of Ak. If it was not for them, she would have developed into a normal sweet girl. Her circumstances, her loss of parents at a tender age that too right in front of her eyes, comparison of ak and arohi by goenkas all moulded her into selfcentered arrogant ambitious brat. She craves attention and love which ak easily gets, so she tries to be the best, NO1 in everything, so that she gets all the affection and care.

She do trusts Aks choices and hence asks her to choose whether its jewellery or clothes or ring as she knows ak will choose the best for her and genuinely cares for her own ways but only in extreme situations.

She has been triggered from a very young age against Ak and injected with hatred by her Nani. She doesnt realise the gravity of her actions or her thoughts at that age and it got deep rooted now.

Like Hari spoke, until she meets somebody who unconditionally loves her without raising her competitive spirit, she will live this insecure manipulating life.

https://www.instagram.com/tv/CY3Vi0HlFo7/?utm_medium=copy_link

I got this on insta which describes Arohis insecurities from childhood.