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Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

That’s such nice post . Why didn’t you post here ? I am caught up with some personal stuffs hence unable to respond but I do read all the post .

No one sees the story in that way! So I didn’t post. But even in KD the undercurrent was the same issue I felt. I sent to you and Andy because we are on same page.

Originally posted by: sadiltl

Virat defending sai in front of family and virat defending sruthi can’t be compared. For that matter, sai should not be compared to any woman like virat says. Sai is his wife, his own. If the family is taunting her, he will support her privately not by going against his own kin for his wife. He supported sai and stood by her when she needed his support! Not for petty taunts which are there in any household. Also virat controlling sai or yelling at sai also comes from competley different dynamics. Again a wife is part of your life, you endure happiness or pain together so how can his reactions to his life partner be compared to his reactions with other woman. They fight and they make love. He can’t do the same with other woman. Can he?

On the other hand Virat defending sruthi is optional. The choice to defend a woman or any woman shows the character of a person. And as he rightly said why to corner a woman when they are saying it is an affair, why can’t they blame him? This one thing shows the nature of virat! He was like this with pakhi too! He always protected her honor in front of people: because society judges women harshly!

Sorry for the rant, I could only see his goodness in all this mess.

@Bold I have always said this . He has supported her always when she needed him and for kitchen politics he knows she ca handle it herself . I don’t understand the comparison between Sai and Shruthi . Virat is condemning CN folks for their sick mentality where they believe a women is responsible for the affair . This is due to his respect for his friends wife and an innocent women .

People forget it’s Virat who stood for Sai infront of the same family else she would be thrown out by them . If not for Virat she wouldn’t have pursed her studies . Sai herself admitted it multiple times. Regarding raising voice , we do that with close ones because we feel they will understand and we only have expectations from closed ones so it’s natural to get disappointed. He won’t take such liberties with Shruthi .

Originally posted by: sadiltl

No one sees the story in that way! So I didn’t post. But even in KD the undercurrent was the same issue I felt. I sent to you and Andy because we are on same page.

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

I agree with you . They should have shown it explicitly but I believe this will be brought by someone very soon . I only have one question , how come no one from family question think since it’s a deal marriage Virat seeking pleasure might be part of the deal . We audience know about Sai’s feelings but ppl like BK aren’t aware of this . Sai has openly admitted to not having husband and wife relationship . I am not saying they should justify the affair with this reason but more like they haven’t thought how long can Virat stay without intimacy and even if he back leaving Shruthi will he not miss that since Sai is not ready to be his wife in their eyes .

why do you think BK asked for heir? It is polished way of asking to have sex. Ashwini’s wisdom to sairat looked awkward to me but Ashwini did agree to BK. See no one except sai thinks a marriage can be a deal. It is childish. Either stay married with all rules apply or divorce and stay friends. No one including BK buys deal theory 😂 in CN. Sai openly showing it was a deal and therefore only BK was forcing it. BK comes to like sai as her Bahu. She has good reasons for that. So she wants sai to be true wife. She being from older generation doesn’t understand consent and all! Virat is a good man so she thinks sai is lucky girl marrying him. Pakhi and BS resides only in sais mind. 🙄

see virat truly loves her so he will not expect anything from her. But is it practically possible for a man to love someone and stay platonically in a marriage? He would go bonkers. Even sai, how long will she stay celebate with her love growing towards virat! Either they should divorce or stay as husband and wife. Otherwise there will be no easy way out.

Virat seeking pleasure out of deal is out of question because 1. they know virat will not set conditions like that 2. Sai is not a kind Of the girl . 3. Deal is BS logic that stays in sais mind not in anybody else’s 😅

@bold

Vankar showed it explicitly in Ashwini’s sex education talk and BK’s demand for heir. In ITV I think that’s all you could show. BK already told on felicitation day that virat went outside because sai couldn’t be his wife. Atleast twice she said.

but ITV audience look for only love :) marriage and rules don’t matter. Leena had this undercurrent till confession in KD. That’s why I say this story is realistic. Rono/virat tried their best to work on their marriage in this respect. Only after 2nd accident their love for emon/sai truly turned unconditional. That they put their woman before their love/marriage. It is as simple as that.

Sorry I missed a point why they suspect him now.

because it has been an year+ and they have seen him falling for sai and getting frustrated with her deal jaap. that’s why they believe it crossed his patience 😃

Originally posted by: sadiltl

Sorry I missed a point why they suspect him now.

because it has been an year+ and they have seen him falling for sai and getting frustrated with her deal jaap. that’s why they believe it crossed his patience 😃

These people are from patriarchal society .Even after they assumed Virat slept with other women they want Sai to come back and think once he leaves that women everything will be back . It includes Sai self proclaimed well wishers . Imagine if Sai had slept with other man will they say the same thing ?

Never ever support Virat in this track. Hope DIG wakes up from slumber and punish him and Shriti as soon as possible. He is a traitor who has no remorse for cheating his vardi. Shriti is a hypochrite who talks big but got ready to move with him in the same house.

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Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

BK is very optimistic, despite staying in same room for an year nothing happened and she thought Sai going back to the room will do wonders .., she doesn’t know about the pillow fort . In that regard only Pakhi was quite frank and clear and she spoke to right person . Be his wife or he will find someone outside . None of them realized Virat is not Samrat to force himself on his wife and keep reminding about sex in every opportunity. His live is beyond physical intimacy.

That’s why she asked for heir explicitly and anyone seeing them in dosti track and car hug would definitely think they would jump on each other. So she forced her into the room 😅

I would say it’s not easy . The sexual frustration can being some worst side from both men and women

the more the love, the more will be the drive. Right? :) so in frustration both will fight. They might not love any other person but can’t stay married platonically and peacefully at the same time. Humanly Impossible in my opinion.

Do you think a teenager like Sai wouldn’t get attracted to boys in her college when she is not getting at home ? It would be a good track to show Sai realizing the difference between attraction and love

this is a big topic in my opinion. Sex and love can be independent at the same time sex with loved one is always rewarding right? It is all in morality and how much you give importance love in sex. For example when I was a teenager or not well read I used to think sex is not pure and all. Now I know it is part of life process. One kind of expression and sometimes necessary! Having said that society plays a role in making how much you are sexually exprsesive. Earlier generations can’t think of having sex out of attraction. Now things are changing and girls can separate sex and love. No wrong if they know what they are getting into. If you ask me I would keep it simple one man one love and one body to make things easier and less messier. And especially in Marriage, it is better to stick to rules. Not worth it. Sai coming from GC and having these moral restrictions in her mind would not think anyone else . And she is already attracted to virat so I don’t think she would even think like that. She has very idealistic view of love also. So no way!!

Virat also being an ideal lover would not imagine any other girl. But in real world considering his age it wil be hard that he can live without sex. And society don’t judge men wrongly/harshly if he seeks outside like they do for woman. For example now the family is asking virat to forget the affair and be with sai! But can they forgive sai if she has an affair? Absolutely no. So yeah society decides all these I guess.



I wish they had shown more about Sai being a teenager having better sex drive and curiosity to explore .

Do you even think this possibility on ITV 😂. Actually they both are in prime age and the amount of time they withheld themselves they would be crazy rabbits. But only in our imagination. They might show both shy and hiding from each other 😅. I have no hopes. Atleast they should show an emotional confession that should bring tears 😭

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

Lol … can’t blame them as some men are like that but how did they assume he would leave the family and wife for a fling ? Him saying her life in danger , he is helping her out is conveniently forgotten .

These people are from patriarchal society .Even after they assumed Virat slept with other women they want Sai to come back and think once he leaves that women everything will be back . It includes Sai self proclaimed well wishers . Imagine if Sai had slept with other man will they say the same thing ?

I just wrote this below 😅 hypocrisy of the society 🙄

they would make her life hell. Not sure about virat though. He being a nice person and understanding that he was the one who put the deal word in her mind, would have divorced her…

Originally posted by: sadiltl

I just wrote this below 😅 hypocrisy of the society 🙄

they would make her life hell. Not sure about virat though. He being a nice person and understanding that he was the one who put the deal word in her mind, would have divorced her…