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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: SONIA441

I didn't like how Abhay kept on insisting that Deepika doesn't understand her feelings & just cos he feels something... Deepika is supposed to respond.

And the only reason she would resist is cos she's involved with Vikrant. Not cos she doesn't feel the same way for him but because she has a boyfriend cos akele toh Ladki reh hi nahi sakti👏

I know he had flaws but Abhay took it really down for me today


Oh come on, did he really behave like this? Abhay of all people should know you can't force feelings. He is my jigar ka tukda and all, but boy really needs to learn patience. Just recently I was saying how happy I was with his matured confession. Nazar lag gayi. 😡 I really hope they don't butcher Abhay further for the sake of this stupid triangle. Seriously, he is not a kid. God, Deepika must be going crazy, one paagal aashiq at home and one starting to get there at the hospital. Character growth on this show is like one step forward, two steps back. 🤪


I'm still gonna be so sad during the bike scene I know it. Bacchu ka dil toot nahi dekh sakti. 🥺

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Posted: 4 years ago

I just wanted to comment on the nature of male-female friendship and giving hints as the topic was brought up. In this show we have examples of completely platonic male-female relationships like Deepika-PC and Sia-Peroz. However, when it comes to Deepika-Abhay it's more complicated. Abhay being so expressive, it was obvious he had feelings for Deepika, but as Deepika keeps herself more reserved it's difficult to gauge her emotions. Even with Vikrant it's confusing because she reacts one way, but says something else. Certainly, Abhay-Deepika's relationship is less clearly defined, which leaves room for something else. If we as shippers picked up on it, then I think the makers wanted to show that there is something there.


In my opinion, Abhay is not wrong to think that Deepika may also like him. I mean, this is how many relationships start, someone picks up on the hints and proposes the next step, and a lot of the time that role falls upon the guy as that's just how society is... Only in Sia-Abhay's case the reverse happened and Abhay just went along with it. So he's inexperienced and clueless. However, that doesn't mean if a girl rejects you it's because she likes someone else, or due to anything else other than she simply doesn't want to be with you! That in itself is a complete response and it's not right to continue to push someone for answers. I'm not placing the blame squarely upon guys, I've seen cases where if a guy rejects a girl it's concluded he must be gay. Whether or not Deepika actually has feelings isn't relevant. She gave her answer, and that's something both Vikrant and Abhay should respect.

Edited by ShinyMishka - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago

I am almost done with Deepika. She has broken boundaries of morals and ethics not only personally but professionally too. I appreciated Abhay's confession and maturity but the moment he couldn't take NO as a NO pissed me off. He went into denial claiming that Deepika was hiding her feeling for him. I am pretty sure Abhay was not a deluded character then why show him like that now.

the best part was Abhay questioning Deepika about her "affair" with Vikrant and taunting her on that front. Why shouldn't he? Deepika said she saw him as a friend right? so any good friend should question the other's intentions if they feel something's a miss. I really wanted Deepika to go into introspection mode after Abhay's questioning but seemed like she is too smitten by Vikrant's presence to think straight. And what the heck?? Why was Vikrant opening her cupboards and looking and touching her things? That creep level 300. Does this man not know the word privacy? He is a freaking guest in her house. And now his hopes are further strengthened seeing that Deepika has safeguarded all their memories. Now he will put up more fight to get Deepika to accept him in her life.

I hope Deepika and Vikrant get into a load of trouble for neglecting their professional ethics and I want PC to tell his favourite student how disappointed he is in her. I want my CEO Taklu to get this news, suspend these two and place a panel to decide their fate. I am done hoping for sensibility from Deepika.

Dr Ali is my new hero. He is a good man and a brilliant doctor. The newbies seem to be learning a lot more from him than Deepika or Vikrant. At this point in time, for me, the show is about Dr Ali, Ansari, Abhay, Sia and Murgiwala.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: DEBOLINA96

Nd I don't get this new generation's pseudo feminism..🐷 Jab ladka hug kare, ya gift de(as a friend), nd the girl starts feeling he's giving hints, then she's right..Aur jab ladki hug kare, hasi mazaak kare(as a friend), nd the boy starts feeling she's giving hints, then he's wrong..Yeh kya logic hua bhai? Mtlb dono mein hi ladki sahi aur ladka galat..?🤣


Waise, makers r actually trying to show Deepika a saint nd justify her current extramarital affair with Vikrant..I didn't find a single fault in Abhay today..yes, his projection was out of his character today but whatever he said nd how he said was bang on! Even in precap, he's being a professional nd pointing aptly to Deepika what she's doing wrong! I'm not his blind supporter..as I had criticized him several times before..for hiding the fact from Sia nd for misbehaving with Wasim..but jab banda sahi hai, tab sahi hi bolungi..Feminism pasand hai, pseudo feminism nahi! 🤡

I doubt it is pseudo feminism. It is okay to feel like someone is giving hints but once they say no you just back off; regardless of whether it is a boy or girl because you don’t really know what is happening in the other person’s head and what they consider normal behavior. Some dudes consider a polite smile by a girl to be a hint toh kya hi bole. Here abhay had a reason to consider hints but should have left it at no imo.

And we also had a problem with Sia pushing the relationship onto Abhay because she thought he was giving hints so not a gender thing.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Chir-Cute

I am almost done with Deepika. She has broken boundaries of morals and ethics not only personally but professionally too. I appreciated Abhay's confession and maturity but the moment he couldn't take NO as a NO pissed me off. He went into denial claiming that Deepika was hiding her feeling for him. I am pretty sure Abhay was not a deluded character then why show him like that now.

the best part was Abhay questioning Deepika about her "affair" with Vikrant and taunting her on that front. Why shouldn't he? Deepika said she saw him as a friend right? so any good friend should question the other's intentions if they feel something's a miss. I really wanted Deepika to go into introspection mode after Abhay's questioning but seemed like she is too smitten by Vikrant's presence to think straight. And what the heck?? Why was Vikrant opening her cupboards and looking and touching her things? That creep level 300. Does this man not know the word privacy? He is a freaking guest in her house. And now his hopes are further strengthened seeing that Deepika has safeguarded all their memories. Now he will put up more fight to get Deepika to accept him in her life.

I hope Deepika and Vikrant get into a load of trouble for neglecting their professional ethics and I want PC to tell his favourite student how disappointed he is in her. I want my CEO Taklu to get this news, suspend these two and place a panel to decide their fate. I am done hoping for sensibility from Deepika.

Dr Ali is my new hero. He is a good man and a brilliant doctor. The newbies seem to be learning a lot more from him than Deepika or Vikrant. At this point in time, for me, the show is about Dr Ali, Ansari, Abhay, Sia and Murgiwala.

I agree with almost everything you say all the time😆

At this rate id even have to post anything

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: hapc

I agree with almost everything you say all the time😆

At this rate id even have to post anything

Whhhhyyyyy???? Why did you let out our secret???.... now everyone will know that we can telepathise. 😆😆

I am still hoping you would add on to the post though... 😳

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Chir-Cute

Whhhhyyyyy???? Why did you let out our secret???.... now everyone will know that we can telepathise. 😆😆

I am still hoping you would add on to the post though... 😳

😆😆

If I get time, I’ll add to it later in the day


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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: hapc

I agree with almost everything you say all the time😆

At this rate id even have to post anything

me waiting for her to get suspended cos she hid the Vikrant thing.

About Abhay, no means no. That's it. Idk what stories he built in his head.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: music_girl

me waiting for her to get suspended cos she hid the Vikrant thing.

About Abhay, no means no. That's it. Idk what stories he built in his head.

Same. Deepika knows that PC thinks very highly of her and likewise Deepika has high regard for him. So Deepika will definitely react after seeing the disappointment in PC's eyes for her. So far she has put a delusional front where she refuses to think deeply about the severity of her actions and situation. She has her momentary outbursts and then goes back to square 1. She will definitely react and hopefully introspect after PC's reaction. 🤞

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Chir-Cute

I am almost done with Deepika. She has broken boundaries of morals and ethics not only personally but professionally too. I appreciated Abhay's confession and maturity but the moment he couldn't take NO as a NO pissed me off. He went into denial claiming that Deepika was hiding her feeling for him. I am pretty sure Abhay was not a deluded character then why show him like that now.

the best part was Abhay questioning Deepika about her "affair" with Vikrant and taunting her on that front. Why shouldn't he? Deepika said she saw him as a friend right? so any good friend should question the other's intentions if they feel something's a miss. I really wanted Deepika to go into introspection mode after Abhay's questioning but seemed like she is too smitten by Vikrant's presence to think straight. And what the heck?? Why was Vikrant opening her cupboards and looking and touching her things? That creep level 300. Does this man not know the word privacy? He is a freaking guest in her house. And now his hopes are further strengthened seeing that Deepika has safeguarded all their memories. Now he will put up more fight to get Deepika to accept him in her life.

I hope Deepika and Vikrant get into a load of trouble for neglecting their professional ethics and I want PC to tell his favourite student how disappointed he is in her. I want my CEO Taklu to get this news, suspend these two and place a panel to decide their fate. I am done hoping for sensibility from Deepika.

Dr Ali is my new hero. He is a good man and a brilliant doctor. The newbies seem to be learning a lot more from him than Deepika or Vikrant. At this point in time, for me, the show is about Dr Ali, Ansari, Abhay, Sia and Murgiwala.


Agreed. Can't believe I'm at a point in the show where I'm rooting for Jamshed to roast Deepi. Thank goodness Dr. Ali is around to actually be a mentor. He's my new favorite senior. Please just let Abhay focus on his career. Why are they throwing his character to the wolves to make Vipika look better? smiley11 It really is out of character for him to go into denial mode. Bas woh gaana yaad aagaya "sochte the ki woh kitne masoom the, kya se kya hogaya dekhte dekhte" 😭

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