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Posted: 4 years ago
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Idk why this show keeps proving to me everyday that there are much better shows out there I'm just wasting my brain cells on this one. I get their appeal for peace in social media. Could be PR, could be anything because social media can get toxic. If it's their plea for peace might as well let them be. These people don't take criticism well. It's quite apparent, but they're mighty sensitive about trolls.

All the unnecessary attention churns nothing but money for them. Social media is after all about any publicity is good publicity. I've seen how actors are loved on SM. Newcomers and veterans alike. Nakuul Mehta, Baron Sobti, Sanya Irani, Surbhi Chandna, Dhrashti Dhami, all of them are loved. Sai Ketan Rao, Shivangi Khedkar, Sumbul Touqeer Khan, the newcomers are loved. Ayesha Singh is loved.

I honestly find the blame with PH. It is absolutely failing and honestly deserves the blame for shoddy PR.

And honestly speaking this is not a noteworthy show. It's mediocre at its best. There are no amazing dupatta flying moments or water throwing moments happening, gearing up for an eternal romance. In other words ghum is forgettable and so are most of its actors except Ayesha and Kishori ji. It is not a nail biting show that would keep you on toes and neither is it a heart warming show. The actors in their essence too reflect it.

I'm watching the other 8:00 PM show, Nakuul and Disha's. That's how you make shows unforgettable. Audience need to wait for the next episode, not dread it. I think Ghum has made us dread 95% of episodes and that's clearly a bad factor for our mental health.

I guess I'm going on an episode detox. I don't know why I went on this rant. See you guys in a new update for Arjun and Sai today...

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nja91

It is ridiculous that he makes ZERO attempt to reassure Sai, console her. He has not even a monologue to think about how Sai must be feeling, how cheated, disrespected, broken she feels. How is it all I, me, myself. Does he not see her anguish?! Taras nahi aata kya.... at least tell her part of the truth. Ugh.

The way he is behaving there as if its really his wife in the OT is so infuriating to watch. Theres a difference between worry for someone vs worry for our loved one. I see no difference in his behavior now vs when Sai was in the hospital. He actually asks Sai n pulkit if he can go see Shruti as soon as they step out. Seeing his desperation, what is Sai supposed to feel?!

Sai is such a beautiful soul. Eveb though she is most hurt, she has no ill will. She still just wants Virat, that innocent kid, this random stranger to all be ok and happy. Certainly she is affected, broken, feels cheated. She lets her emotions show but she doesn't lose her inherent goodness and kindness.

Kuch nahi toh we should have got some monologues of Virat admiring how Sai was exceedingly professional despite her turmoil, how she has not hesitated from doing the right thing- convinced pulkit to operate, he is seeing her goodness even in the face of feeling cheated/rejected- guilt nahi toh at least voh acknowledgement toh honi chahiye thi...

He forgot this was her big milestone- her first ever surgery as a medical person. I remember the first time i scrubbed in as a 2nd year med student. I'm not even a surgeon now, I'm a physician/internist now...But my first surgery is a memorable occasion.

He was her biggest cheerleader in her academics- he forgot to acknowledge that entirely.

Yeh kaisa waahiyat track hai.

And i shudder to think how after this degree of crap, they will eventually whitewash Virat and make everyone including Sai the villain and make everyone feel regretful n apologize.

I agree with every point you said i tried so so so hard that i should not hate Virat i used to love Sairat a lot their chemistry their story everything was perfect but i don't have words how i feel now there is so much anger and hurt i feel seeing Sai like this Virat has no guilt ni remorse for what he did i mean i agree he just feels he is not wrong then why can't he clear Sai misunderstanding Sai will stand with him to save his friend's wife but i think now it's too late i just hate Virat now i used to love his character the care he had for Sai it breaks my heart to see him like this his heart has become a stone i feel so bad for Sai i think she should move on and leave Nagpur

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Where did you watch the episode . Here in US , they didn’t put it on Hulu yet

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Why did I even bother to check the clippings today? I think its time to take a break again, atleast till Ayesha returns or the track ends.

Virat is just so self-centered and self obsessed. Yes. I used the word self centered. He may call himself self less because he is protecting another life, risking his life, his job, his family etc. but his intentions in here are to eventually have everyone at his feet apologising for MU him and establishing himself as virtuous and Mahaan! When one does something with that intent then what do we call that gesture? He is continuously saying he is so hurt by Sai calling him Shruti’s husband. He doesn’t even for once consider how hurt Sai is knowing this or even addressing him like that. What else is she supposed to call him then? Her husband? He atleast knows that truth. She doesn’t even know it, for her this is the end and she has lost everything that she thought was her own. Still not selfish?

There again is the stark contrast. He is crying over his own pain and pitiful state. Sai on the other hand is level headed and doing what is right. She is so much more mature than him. She convinces Pulkit, and also consoles Virat in whatever way she could manage thinking he is worried for Shruti, his wife. Despite everything, she was still sensitive and considerate about his feelings. She still wants him to be happy and justifies saying he is in love with Shruti. But to him all her sympathetic words were a taunt. Now who is selfish and who is self less?

The dialogue where he says she is not trusting him and doesn’t understand he needs her. How is she supposed to know when he refuses to confide in her? Does she have some magical powers to see it and help him according to his needs and requirements. And yet she does it, in her own way with the limited understanding she has been given. Yet she is wrong?

He had questioned his family, if they believed he could ruin their name, taint their reputation. What will happen if he gets caught? Even if we consider family is acquitted by the “sacrificial/brave” gesture of his, will they ever be able to save their reputation? Will they not be referred as the family of a traitor. Will they not be subjected to suspicion and discrimination? He spends his time in incarceration, while he leaves his family to bear the consequences and deal with the world. Is it any easier?

In the precap - How he is emotionally targeting his mother is just disgusting. He has refused to see and acknowledge the pain he is putting his entire family through. He is busy self victimising. His actions his decisions, family bearing the repercussions without knowledge or fault of theirs, yet they are wrong in accusing this guy. Aged parents are to be looked after, you can’t and shouldn’t them through such emotional agony. Isn’t Ninad a heart patient? Does he even consider that? Questioning the mother, emotionally blackmailing her to such level, making it so painful is so inhuman. I haven’t seen him introspecting, not once about the pain, shame and misery he has caused his family. What they are going through. It’s been all about him and him being misunderstood.

And here I so agree, after all this it will be such a let down and extremely cringy for Virat to be whitewashed and termed as Mahaan and Sai accused, drowning in guilt and apologising to this guy. And the way Ninad said he should have fallen on her feet to stop her, makes me wonder if they will bring that scene for apology with roles reversed. Eeew!! How wrong can these people go with portrayals and messaging?

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Memes are made on character virat and there was an article virat was trolled not the actor...Actor was criticized for his poor acting and a new ml was demanded as the character was ruined and turned toxic and it is the problem of actor if he takes it personal....if he thinks character graph is not well he must talk to writers and directors...and if he is not satisfied he can quit ...no one will blame him as adish did and coming to SM platforms ghum tag.. only three-four accounts are toxic...in the meaning they use abusive language..Coming to IG there are various options blocking, private account,turning of comments etc....he can report to cyber cell rather than publishing article and making whole world known...if a normal person or celebrity react to -ve comment in same manner other end person will also react and cycle continue..but if there is no reaction others will get bored and they themselves will leave you ...and if you are get appreciation you will receive criticism also...you will not be loved by everyone....in a normal person's life itself even though he is good ..there will be some haters...celebrities has fans and haters....if you are wrong haters will be more and many will only show ignorance as they won't waste energy on these things...and one more thing...I don't think 20+ age people run fan pages even though they does ...I don't think they will write rubbish and tag people or will message any itv actor.....so act according to it..we are here to relax our tensions...take a break from studies...waiting for results or job after exam..

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Posted: 4 years ago
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On insta "Starplus" I did reply about Virat the mahaan Chavhan and a new ML not about the actor..don't know him and don't want to..but if asking for a new ML is trolling the actor then it''s his problem not mine..he taking it as personal it means he knows that fans are not happy with the story then you can do something about it he is Vanku's best friend right go and talk about the current track..


this is the first time an ML is crying so much in a show maybe this is the reason for the good trp..

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Potterhead3009

Idk why this show keeps proving to me everyday that there are much better shows out there I'm just wasting my brain cells on this one. I get their appeal for peace in social media. Could be PR, could be anything because social media can get toxic. If it's their plea for peace might as well let them be. These people don't take criticism well. It's quite apparent, but they're mighty sensitive about trolls.

All the unnecessary attention churns nothing but money for them. Social media is after all about any publicity is good publicity. I've seen how actors are loved on SM. Newcomers and veterans alike. Nakuul Mehta, Baron Sobti, Sanya Irani, Surbhi Chandna, Dhrashti Dhami, all of them are loved. Sai Ketan Rao, Shivangi Khedkar, Sumbul Touqeer Khan, the newcomers are loved. Ayesha Singh is loved.

I honestly find the blame with PH. It is absolutely failing and honestly deserves the blame for shoddy PR.

And honestly speaking this is not a noteworthy show. It's mediocre at its best. There are no amazing dupatta flying moments or water throwing moments happening, gearing up for an eternal romance. In other words ghum is forgettable and so are most of its actors except Ayesha and Kishori ji. It is not a nail biting show that would keep you on toes and neither is it a heart warming show. The actors in their essence too reflect it.

I'm watching the other 8:00 PM show, Nakuul and Disha's. That's how you make shows unforgettable. Audience need to wait for the next episode, not dread it. I think Ghum has made us dread 95% of episodes and that's clearly a bad factor for our mental health.

I guess I'm going on an episode detox. I don't know why I went on this rant. See you guys in a new update for Arjun and Sai today...


I stopped watching a few months ago, as it became clear to me that nothing in this show actually leads anywhere; it's just stuff happening randomly and people reacting accordingly (and mostly irrationally). If the situation requires a character change, it'll just happen out of the blue, with no logical progression whatsoever.


And that then is a kids show.


I don't miss it at all. Liberating not to have to think about them. But I do miss the community here. It was fun venting about the idiocy of the day, but it looks like a lot of us just had enough.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: sherry_24

Why did I even bother to check the clippings today? I think its time to take a break again, atleast till Ayesha returns or the track ends.

Virat is just so self-centered and self obsessed. Yes. I used the word self centered. He may call himself self less because he is protecting another life, risking his life, his job, his family etc. but his intentions in here are to eventually have everyone at his feet apologising for MU him and establishing himself as virtuous and Mahaan! When one does something with that intent then what do we call that gesture? He is continuously saying he is so hurt by Sai calling him Shruti’s husband. He doesn’t even for once consider how hurt Sai is knowing this or even addressing him like that. What else is she supposed to call him then? Her husband? He atleast knows that truth. She doesn’t even know it, for her this is the end and she has lost everything that she thought was her own. Still not selfish?

There again is the stark contrast. He is crying over his own pain and pitiful state. Sai on the other hand is level headed and doing what is right. She is so much more mature than him. She convinces Pulkit, and also consoles Virat in whatever way she could manage thinking he is worried for Shruti, his wife. Despite everything, she was still sensitive and considerate about his feelings. She still wants him to be happy and justifies saying he is in love with Shruti. But to him all her sympathetic words were a taunt. Now who is selfish and who is self less?

The dialogue where he says she is not trusting him and doesn’t understand he needs her. How is she supposed to know when he refuses to confide in her? Does she have some magical powers to see it and help him according to his needs and requirements. And yet she does it, in her own way with the limited understanding she has been given. Yet she is wrong?

He had questioned his family, if they believed he could ruin their name, taint their reputation. What will happen if he gets caught? Even if we consider family is acquitted by the “sacrificial/brave” gesture of his, will they ever be able to save their reputation? Will they not be referred as the family of a traitor. Will they not be subjected to suspicion and discrimination? He spends his time in incarceration, while he leaves his family to bear the consequences and deal with the world. Is it any easier?

In the precap - How he is emotionally targeting his mother is just disgusting. He has refused to see and acknowledge the pain he is putting his entire family through. He is busy self victimising. His actions his decisions, family bearing the repercussions without knowledge or fault of theirs, yet they are wrong in accusing this guy. Aged parents are to be looked after, you can’t and shouldn’t them through such emotional agony. Isn’t Ninad a heart patient? Does he even consider that? Questioning the mother, emotionally blackmailing her to such level, making it so painful is so inhuman. I haven’t seen him introspecting, not once about the pain, shame and misery he has caused his family. What they are going through. It’s been all about him and him being misunderstood.

And here I so agree, after all this it will be such a let down and extremely cringy for Virat to be whitewashed and termed as Mahaan and Sai accused, drowning in guilt and apologising to this guy. And the way Ninad said he should have fallen on her feet to stop her, makes me wonder if they will bring that scene for apology with roles reversed. Eeew!! How wrong can these people go with portrayals and messaging?


i was actually going to write a post on same thought.

How creative of ghum team to make Virat’s pain >>>>>> Sai’s pain. Virat chose that path for himself without considering his love, job and family. He’s the only one who knows the truth. Yet, he is the one who is hurt? I mean how distressing it must be for Sai to call someone else his wife and talking about their child. But No!!! We got monologue of Virat on how hurt he is 🤦‍♀️ No consideration on how it must have hurt Sai. Can’t he see how sai left the room after he signed the papers, how she couldn’t see him while explaining things and hoe she has looked hurt and teary. Virat expects Sai to trust and understand him but he doesn’t give a damn about Sai’s feeling.

This guy is seriously the worst. I wish there was guilt and shame for putting sai through emotional abuse. He is classic abusive husband. Period! Everything is about him.

How I wish Sai throws her Mangalsutra on his face!

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