Originally posted by: imkt
hmm thatās the real world and itās an fictional character. Feelings are reciprocate to each other by a different ways here. If akshara said no to abhi then why akshara showing so much emotions towards abhi. The real reason behind the mess is arohi thatās what I mean to say .
We all know they both love each other. Why akshara is denying because of arohi, right ? Akshara ko toh sab pata hai then why she is not speaking?
Now coming to Abhimanyu character he sounds to be a complex person from the starting whether itās is now towards akshara or his father or Neil or his cousin sister? He has a different equation with everyone.
Letās take in this way you are saying if akshara said no toh you would have liked Abhimanyu if he had taken her No in a positive way with dignified manner right
Then what about akshara she said no right why didnāt she stopped everytime she always go ahead do things or help for Abhimanyu. Bhai, he is your jija now taken him as her half brother now . There are various examples of her where her actions are different then her words toh jo Banda yeh soch raha hai i mean abhi woh toh last time tak try karega by hook or crook because he know akshara loves him.
Yes you're right - she knows he loves her (he's practically yelled it from the rooftop) and he also knows she loves him (but is suppressing her feelings). They're both confused and their actions reflect that. The difference is he physically hurts and verbally abuses her. That's what makes his behavior toxic and her's just annoying.
Nothing Akshara has said or done makes it okay for him to manhandle her like this and taunt her with such mental cruelty. He can be indifferent to her, cold to her, distant with her - ok. That's his personality with people he is not close to. But this constantly violating her physical space and speaking to her with such venom. That's not intense, it's not romantic, its not pleasant to watch. At least not for me. It's also not love.
Movie and TV love is supposed to be ideal - what's ideal about Abhimanyu's love? It just tears down Akshara most of the time and tries to break her mentally. No one wants a man like that in their life. And if someone was treating Nishtha the way he's treating Akshara, Abhimanyu would break that man in two.
The other thing is that strong people don't let other people's actions sway them. The what-aboutism of others just doesn't come into play. Here Abhimanyu has handed all control over to Akshara - he has no moral core left. His whole existence has become about reacting to her - with love, with anger, with tears, with jealousy, with anguish, with concern, with rage. He's flapping in the wind like an unmoored kite. Akshara on the other hand maintains control regardless of his actions, because she's decided (rightly or wrongly) she will hold fast to her resolve to not stand in the way of her sister, even if she sometimes falters and shows her feelings. I find Akshara is a typical mahaan type female lead (and boring as hell) but Abhimanyu had so much promise of being a mature, strong and centered male lead. Instead we're seeing a big angry baby throwing tantrums and acting weirdly all the live long day
I have a genuine question for you and for any other Abhimanyu fans. Do you guys enjoy watching him in these confrontational angry scenes with Akshara?
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