#3 letter to Dr. Abhimanyu Birla on pg 5 - Page 2

Originally posted by: Khayali_pulao

Noor🤗

Wonderful!!! I was really upset for people bashing him left and right. In this with him and forever.

Dr. Abhimanyu Birla is to be cherished and not to be judged.

I know the world judges first and then thinks but for once please peep into this beautiful soul and the. One shall know how lonely he is.

He is flawed and so are we. Each one of us. He is doing what he thinks is right for himself.

I can also argue for him in this context that probably by imparting his pain to her by such behaviour he is trying to break her down, make her realise that it’s THEM and there can be no third person.

Reading the second one…. Will come back

Ashu, even I was and it's been going on for a month or more I guess. Even when the whole rishta was not started and before that there were threads of age shaming HC... I don't remember how many times I have thought to quit the forum for that. But I did not quitted before because I love both Abhimanyu and HC and then I met you guys 🤗

I don't understand the judgement either... If someone moves on fast, oh see, he/she did not love him/her. Moved on too late? Oh, how many days you are gonna go mopping around for a boy/girl? The truth is, it's on the person to decide. Till the time a person is faithful in a relationship he is committed to and what he does after break up or whatever, is not something to be judged about.

I know he was not ready to move on (when I wrote the first letter) but at that time he was only thinking about it and he was bashed. He was even bashed about believing what he saw 😭

Exactly... Each one us have our moments or probably even days or weeks where we have been toxic at our worst. But more than being toxic to any other person, we were toxic for our own self. And here he was not even toxic but just broken

Even if it's not, does Akshara have a right to decide whom he should choose? Many let go of the fact that, she hided a truth, she too lied through her teeth... She might not have asked Abhimanyu to marry Aarohi but she for sure paved a way for him and pushed him to walk on that path. If rejection was not enough, she told him she did not saved him from the fire and when asked whether she did not wanted to ask about him anything as she knew he jumped in the fire, she said no. Imagine the heartbreak he would have felt when he got to know that he was not even worthy of her - Are you okay? Are you injured?

He had been rejected far to many times by her yet he is the only one who fights for her. And get bashed!

Bold: I will be waiting 🤗

Originally posted by: Khayali_pulao

Dr. Abhimanyu Birla, in a world where stalkers exist, you decided to respect her. A world which where people continue to wallow in self pity, you decided to go and treat people. For you, your duty comes first as it should be.

these lines. He is so good at heart, the purest soul one can ever see.

DIL mein toh jaag kar dekho

We feel like he is an open book, so we don't make the efforts to read. If only, one knew that not all open books are written in a language we understand.

Gulzar sahab ne kaha hai, achi kitaab aur kache log, aasani se samjh nahi aate. Unhe padhna padta hai

Thank you for this comment Ashu 🤗

Originally posted by: ishqdinoorhai9

We feel like he is an open book, so we don't make the efforts to read. If only, one knew that not all open books are written in a language we understand.

Gulzar sahab ne kaha hai, achi kitaab aur kache log, aasani se samjh nahi aate. Unhe padhna padta hai

Thank you for this comment Ashu 🤗

So true…. some people need to be understood by their unspoken words

Originally posted by: ishqdinoorhai9

Ashu, even I was and it's been going on for a month or more I guess. Even when the whole rishta was not started and before that there were threads of age shaming HC... I don't remember how many times I have thought to quit the forum for that. But I did not quitted before because I love both Abhimanyu and HC and then I met you guys 🤗

I don't understand the judgement either... If someone moves on fast, oh see, he/she did not love him/her. Moved on too late? Oh, how many days you are gonna go mopping around for a boy/girl? The truth is, it's on the person to decide. Till the time a person is faithful in a relationship he is committed to and what he does after break up or whatever, is not something to be judged about.

I know he was not ready to move on (when I wrote the first letter) but at that time he was only thinking about it and he was bashed. He was even bashed about believing what he saw 😭

Exactly... Each one us have our moments or probably even days or weeks where we have been toxic at our worst. But more than being toxic to any other person, we were toxic for our own self. And here he was not even toxic but just broken

Even if it's not, does Akshara have a right to decide whom he should choose? Many let go of the fact that, she hided a truth, she too lied through her teeth... She might not have asked Abhimanyu to marry Aarohi but she for sure paved a way for him and pushed him to walk on that path. If rejection was not enough, she told him she did not saved him from the fire and when asked whether she did not wanted to ask about him anything as she knew he jumped in the fire, she said no. Imagine the heartbreak he would have felt when he got to know that he was not even worthy of her - Are you okay? Are you injured?

He had been rejected far to many times by her yet he is the only one who fights for her. And get bashed!

Bold: I will be waiting 🤗

@bold I have felt bad too for him HC or Abhimanyu being criticised for the age factor. Age is just a number and pyaar kabhi bhi ho sakta hai. You don’t determine a time for love. He doesn’t look older to her. It ached me when people were only concerned about his age and the age gap.
the show is running only for him after all that has been served time and again.

Noor I must say the way you think about characters is amazing. I'm always speechless to see how can you related to them so well.

I know Abhimanyu is flawed just like us. Judging people for their actions is easy but you realize what they are going through when you try to put your own self in their shoes.

No one is perfect.

Both letters are very touchy. ❤❤

Originally posted by: Khayali_pulao

@bold I have felt bad too for him HC or Abhimanyu being criticised for the age factor. Age is just a number and pyaar kabhi bhi ho sakta hai. You don’t determine a time for love. He doesn’t look older to her. It ached me when people were only concerned about his age and the age gap.
the show is running only for him after all that has been served time and again.

I know and there were people who argued for him but many from that group already left the forum. From the starting itself he is criticised and there was negativity. Mods took 1+ week for that thread to get close.

Originally posted by: Zenab78

Noor I must say the way you think about characters is amazing. I'm always speechless to see how can you related to them so well.

I know Abhimanyu is flawed just like us. Judging people for their actions is easy but you realize what they are going through when you try to put your own self in their shoes.

No one is perfect.

Both letters are very touchy. ❤❤

Zenu 🤗🤗 I am glad you liked them. I don't know what connects me and makes me write and you guys also find it beautiful but what makes me comeback to the forum is you guys.

Abhimanyu is totally flawed and damaged... It's just that people always think that the person who cries is nothing but a weakling and one could have called him that and I would have joined the group maybe if he had not made more than enough efforts. He did everything he can... Has been rejected 5 times, was proved to be a delusional person and someone who does not deserve Akshara "how are you?!" and now he has lost hope. So he does what makes him mother happy and cry himself to sleep. But jo rote hai wo kya sach mein kamzor hote hai aur wo strong hote hai jo aasun chupa lete hai?

Both Abhimanyu and Akshara are wrong and equally wrong. And they both are toxic for each other at the moment and they both need to learn, unlearn and grow a lot. And I am here for that journey alone.

And I am super happy to know that you liked the letters ❤️

Originally posted by: ishqdinoorhai9

I know and there were people who argued for him but many from that group already left the forum. From the starting itself he is criticised and there was negativity. Mods took 1+ week for that thread to get close.

I didn’t know this…. But I have seen him get bashed in a lot of threads now and then.

Originally posted by: Khayali_pulao

I didn’t know this…. But I have seen him get bashed in a lot of threads now and then.

True... Aane ka mann bhi nhi karta idhar ab mera

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