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Originally posted by: sadiltl

Virat will melt. There is no two ways about it 😂

This is the most saddest part and it's so painful.

Originally posted by: fatssrilanka

I'm waiting for that moment when Sai will realise Virat was innocent and she judged him wrong. Her heart will break into thousand pieces and she won't be able to live in peace. Her words which stung Virat will come to bite her since the words once spoken cannot be taken back. And, I hope Virat doesn't give in this time. She should bear the consequences on her own and try as she may Virat should not forgive her. Her guilt will kill her. This will be her redemption.

Originally posted by: fatssrilanka

If court room drama happens then when will there be confession? Sai can never be remorseful and her redemption should be to stay away from Virat.

Sai never accepted this marriage and up until now she said it was a deal marriage and recently she did mention she might consider him as her friend life long and they might never have proper husband and wife relationship. She hasn’t realized her feelings yet and is still trying to understand what Virat feels for her . She had given him the permission to flirt with other women . Despite all this how could she exert her rights as a wife when she has never been a wife to him . If we ignore the fact that we audience know their feelings . She was never a wife to him in true sense so how could she expect him not to seek these in other women outside ? Why doesn’t she feel guilty that she is expecting him to lead a platonic life with her being his friend only . Why is he not entitled to enjoy intimacy outside if she is not willing to be his wife . She gave away her right sto Pakhi then why is she asserting them now . From Virat’s PoV , he is not aware of her feelings and she herself doesn’t know what she feels then how does she expect things only a husband can give . In today’s episode, she says Virat doesn’t have the right to approve any of her decisions in her life then why did she interfere in his decisions- transfer and other ones ?

Blind copy paste is the culprit. They are copying Emon dialogues which doesn’t suit Sai . Emon and Rono were husband and wife in true sense but Sai Virat aren’t

Is Samrat attachment to Sai normal ? Isn’t he giving creep vibes when he says he stays at home fir his SIL not for his mom or wife . I understand about wife but not even for his mom ? Sai is not his sister as per the relationship they share and him claiming she is the reason for him to stay gives uncomfortable feeling when he only met her for an hour and decided she is the reason for his stay ?

If he is not staying for his wife then why does he want to get physical with her ? Isn’t she too shallow as a person ? He claims to love his wife and then he talks about her having no importance in life .

Imagine if Virat had said this to Karishma or Pakhi . He would be crucified

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Nitu

I cherish my friendship with you that happened during our stay at Kuch Rang forum. I don’t want this fictional show to stand between our familiarity and bonding despite having different view points.

Again this Shriti track made us stand against each other in seeing things.

I can not accept Virat making Shriti his wife and Sahas his son on record. I can not take him going against his Farz for a naxalite lady. I know Vankar will continue this torture further.

You know how I accepted Sai’s mistakes and analysed in my Virat centric posts. But this time I am not able to take it light,I mean what he did.

So I decided to stay back from this place till the end of Shriti track.

I won’t share my views but will share SaiRAt related news and TRP details.

I hope Vankar will return ACP Virat ..spotless and dignified.

Wishing you and your family

A very happy and prosperous new year

Lakshmi

Happy New year Lakshmi !!

Our friendship is independent of any serial or tracks . We were on the same page during kuch rang and then in ghum we weren’t on same page during certain tracks and in some tracks we were in agreement. Despite all this we were always cordial with each other, understood each other views and disagreed respectfully . I cherish our friendship and it’s more important than any serial .

I understand your concerns on this track and I partially agree with you . Vankar has butchered Virat as an IPS officer but on personal front I don’t find him wrong . I hope too that Virat comes out spotless in this track but honestly he won’t and we need to accept that . Vankar is a sadistic and plays with Virat’s character as per his needs .

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

Do you think Sai will let go of her ego and apologize to Virat ? I don’t think so . She hasn’t apologized to him for many things and this will add to the list . On the other hand we might see Virat apologizing and melting away in a minute. Virat is not Rono

I know but atleast we can dream😆. I'm done with Sai's tantrums. She says she loves Virat. Does she even know the meaning of love? Is love conditional? If she truly loves him then where is the trust? She abuses him, calls him a two timer, doesn't see his pain and can't understand his unspoken words. These are not the qualities of love. Love is not a one way street. It's about two people but sadly for Sai it's only about one person sacrificing, apologising and accepting the other person with flaws. And, that definitely not Sai. It's always Virat going through all the troubles.

Originally posted by: NoraSM

Its just so weird that the show is way more logical than the audience, its always the other way around, is it because audience only see Sai's reaction and disregard the actual story they are watching?

1 Is Shruti Virat's wife on paper?

NO...Virat is a hindu and he can't have more than one wife, Virat is an IPS too so his name and his wife's name and every detail of their life would in government records, Shruti is not Virat's wife from any angle, He just gave HIS ID to reception this doesn't make Shruti his wife, he didn't take away Sai's haq

When we go to a club to avoid unwanted attention I have told guys that I have a boyfriend and pointed towards my brother 😅 Ghum audience would accuse me of having an incestuous relationship with my brother because this audience is far far from the reality, People do and say things that they don't mean all the time

The story tells us that Virat is HIDING Shruti not having an affair with her like I was LYING to discourage unwanted attention

2 Is Sahas Virat's son?

Um..again NO..he is not Virat's biological or legal son, Virat didn't adopt Sahas, There's a concept of "Godfather", Virat, at best, is Sahas' Godfather, He doesn't need Sai's permission for everything, Married people are living beings, they do have relationships with people other than their spouse

Right now, I am only confused about Sai

Virat is a friend and deal marriage for her was she expecting him take celibacy for life, if I was in a deal Marriage, I wouldn't expect my deal husband to stop dating other women because the deal will come to an end someday, why should he stop his love life for me? Its just so selfish

Then Two three days ago, she was accusing Virat of being in love with Pakhi, how does she feel that Virat is in love with Pakhi and married to Shruti?

good points! My opinion here.

@red

yeah that’s why it doesn’t bother me. He is diverting attention. Atleast in the story they established enough that if a husband shows ID then they are ok. Whether it is possible in real life or not is not my concern. 😄

@blue

this is harder to digest because in real life if the name of the father gets into records it wil be there to stay. I don’t know whether it could be changed later or not but once it gets into legal records sahas can claim virat’s property which has sais right on it due to marriage. Also virat’s kids with sai! So he can’t give away their rights without consulting his wife. I don’t know if it is still there but grand children gets direct rights on paternal grandfathers property in India. So sahas will become heir to ninads property irrespective of virat’s claim on it. It is a complicated mess. Who knows how sahas might turn out in future! So virat being an ips officer giving his name as father is taking away the property rights of his wife and future children. 😃
But but we don’t know yet in reel world how they are going to justify it.

For me, virat’s involvement is only as a human being. So it doesn’t matter if he uses his name as husband. I am sure sai will support him if she knows the truth.

Coming to sais behavior,

she was always possessive of virat! Even in the initial days till pyarosti slip up she wanted to be his wife. Somewhere virat’s words had made her build up the walls. She didn’t let her feelings reach her brain. She had masked her feelings behind deal word. She stayed with him because she loved him. She would not have accepted virat Then also If he had relationship with other women. She was fine with pakhi because virat was maintaining physical distance with her. She was worried that emotionally he still loves her and might go back to her if there was some opportunity. But during dosti track , she was out of pakhi for good. Now she has accepted her love for him. And somewhere realized that all virat did for her could be due to his love for her but not as a zimmedari. She wanted to listen it from his mouth and this kaand happened.

Remember 2-3 episodes back, when she got up from sleep she said she could have confessed her feelings for him much earlier. She has some regret that she couldn’t be his wife. That’s why he had found it outside. Also she can’t digest the fact that he could have give same emotional support to sruthi as he did with her. She did say how he could compare her with sruthi!! See the jealousy. She just wants to hear from virat’s mouth that she could not be replaced in his life.

Sai is a 19 year old experiencing these conflicts for the first time: she has always been possessive of viart. She could not behave any other way. She just needs to understand that virat stood by her because he loved her and he stood by sruthi out of humanity. That her situation is different from pakhi’s. Pakh’s words on mission day are playing with her mind still.

my hope is that when she knows sruthi was pregnant and delivered few days back, she should believe virat because nine months back she was under the impression that he still loved pakhi. So Sruthi can’t get pregnant by virat according to her assumptions. I am sure she is smart enough to figure that out.

Long story short, sai never believed in deal. She was just hiding behind it. She behaved as his wife always in my opinion. :)

I thought I answered some of your questions Nitu so tagged you.

Originally posted by: sadiltl

good points! My opinion here.

@red

yeah that’s why it doesn’t bother me. He is diverting attention. Atleast in the story they established enough that if a husband shows ID then they are ok. Whether it is possible in real life or not is not my concern. 😄

@blue

this is harder to digest because in real life if the name of the father gets into records it wil be there to stay. I don’t know whether it could be changed later or not but once it gets into legal records sahas can claim virat’s property which has sais right on it due to marriage. Also virat’s kids with sai! So he can’t give away their rights without consulting his wife. I don’t know if it is still there but grand children gets direct rights on paternal grandfathers property in India. So sahas will become heir to ninads property irrespective of virat’s claim on it. It is a complicated mess. Who knows how sahas might turn out in future! So virat being an ips officer giving his name as father is taking away the property rights of his wife and future children. 😃
But but we don’t know yet in reel world how they are going to justify it.

For me, virat’s involvement is only as a human being. So it doesn’t matter if he uses his name as husband. I am sure sai will support him if she knows the truth.

Coming to sais behavior,

she was always possessive of virat! Even in the initial days till pyarosti slip up she wanted to be his wife. Somewhere virat’s words had made her build up the walls. She didn’t let her feelings reach her brain. She had masked her feelings behind deal word. She stayed with him because she loved him. She would not have accepted virat Then also If he had relationship with other women. She was fine with pakhi because virat was maintaining physical distance with her. She was worried that emotionally he still loves her and might go back to her if there was some opportunity. But during dosti track , she was out of pakhi for good. Now she has accepted her love for him. And somewhere realized that all virat did for her could be due to his love for her but not as a zimmedari. She wanted to listen it from his mouth and this kaand happened.

Remember 2-3 episodes back, when she got up from sleep she said she could have confessed her feelings for him much earlier. She has some regret that she couldn’t be his wife. That’s why he had found it outside. Also she can’t digest the fact that he could have give same emotional support to sruthi as he did with her. She did say how he could compare her with sruthi!! See the jealousy. She just wants to hear from virat’s mouth that she could not be replaced in his life.

Sai is a 19 year old experiencing these conflicts for the first time: she has always been possessive of viart. She could not behave any other way. She just needs to understand that virat stood by her because he loved her and he stood by sruthi out of humanity. That her situation is different from pakhi’s. Pakh’s words on mission day are playing with her mind still.

my hope is that when she knows sruthi was pregnant and delivered few days back, she should believe virat because nine months back she was under the impression that he still loved pakhi. So Sruthi can’t get pregnant by virat according to her assumptions. I am sure she is smart enough to figure that out.

Long story short, sai never believed in deal. She was just hiding behind it. She behaved as his wife always in my opinion. :)

I thought I answered some of your questions Nitu so tagged you.

Originally posted by: NoraSM

Its just so weird that the show is way more logical than the audience, its always the other way around, is it because audience only see Sai's reaction and disregard the actual story they are watching?

1 Is Shruti Virat's wife on paper?

NO...Virat is a hindu and he can't have more than one wife, Virat is an IPS too so his name and his wife's name and every detail of their life would in government records, Shruti is not Virat's wife from any angle, He just gave HIS ID to reception this doesn't make Shruti his wife, he didn't take away Sai's haq

When we go to a club to avoid unwanted attention I have told guys that I have a boyfriend and pointed towards my brother 😅 Ghum audience would accuse me of having an incestuous relationship with my brother because this audience is far far from the reality, People do and say things that they don't mean all the time

The story tells us that Virat is HIDING Shruti not having an affair with her like I was LYING to discourage unwanted attention

2 Is Sahas Virat's son?

Um..again NO..he is not Virat's biological or legal son, Virat didn't adopt Sahas, There's a concept of "Godfather", Virat, at best, is Sahas' Godfather, He doesn't need Sai's permission for everything, Married people are living beings, they do have relationships with people other than their spouse

Right now, I am only confused about Sai

Virat is a friend and deal marriage for her was she expecting him take celibacy for life, if I was in a deal Marriage, I wouldn't expect my deal husband to stop dating other women because the deal will come to an end someday, why should he stop his love life for me? Its just so selfish

Then Two three days ago, she was accusing Virat of being in love with Pakhi, how does she feel that Virat is in love with Pakhi and married to Shruti?

Love your post. When Sai wants to accuse Virat she doesn't consider anything. She just keeps on blabbering nonsense and most of the time she has been proved wrong. When things go right then Virat is the best husband/friend and when things are topsy turvy the same Virat becomes the worst friend / husband. When she doesn't want to take up responsibilities of a wife the marraige becomes a deal and when she feels Virat is having an affair then suddenly the marraige becomes real. She conveniently forgets deal and switches on wife mode. If Virat locks her in a room it's torture but if she holds his collar then she's using a wife's rights. And,yes she's definitely selfish and self centered because on one side she doesn't want to be a wife to Virat but still wants him to stick with her and lead a life of celibacy.