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Originally posted by: _SilentSoul_

My tharak started all after the marriage ... ab toh mummy and I also talk a lot about tharak stuff and I'm glad we share that kinda relation ... otherwise my friends are too sanskari 🤣

best feeling when you can be tharak & it’s not inappropriate

even I’m surprised by the things I get away with saying nowadays 🤣🤣🤣

Originally posted by: moksha89

Your mom seems very caring and understanding 🥰 sometimes it’s like I need to pencil in “compassion for Riddhi” moments 😅 I guess bc I seem more put together than I really am. But no one can help me with my work .. so venting is just me stressing myself out.

I have 2 solid friends from undergrad days && that’s enough for me 😂

Originally posted by: arya212002

cooking is my thing - it’s a stress buster for me 😍
DH knows to do it but I rather get him do some non productive household chores like dishes or laundry than cooking.

Originally posted by: _SilentSoul_

Yeah she is ... But sometimes it's just hard to vent out to her because I don't want to stress her out ... And except her, I am just mostly quiet and in my own world ... Married life taught me a lot of patience where the more I vent out, the more I get angry and tired. I don't even feel any emotional attachment with my partner anymore ... bas ek bestie hai who I can share everything with and she never judges 🥰

I totally understand this 🙌🏼

Originally posted by: moksha89

best feeling when you can be tharak & it’s not inappropriate

even I’m surprised by the things I get away with saying nowadays 🤣🤣🤣

Originally posted by: _SilentSoul_

My tharak started all after the marriage ... ab toh mummy and I also talk a lot about tharak stuff and I'm glad we share that kinda relation ... otherwise my friends are too sanskari 🤣

I thought soo… because if you started tarak while in school n college, u won’t feel anymore sharam n Sanskaar while saying it out loud

Whoops jinxed myself 😆

off to make saag paneer … catch y’all in a bit

Originally posted by: _SilentSoul_

At least your DH does something 😆 In my home, it's such a traditional gendered set up that makes me mad but I can't say anything out of respect 🤓

It was like that at our paternal homes but post marriage we moved here and being a nuclear family without any other support, everyone needs to pitch in… btw he used to stay alone here in US before marriage so he knew things r difficult to manage. But there are times when we get in loggerheads especially on game nights 😬while getting stuff done…that’s part of married life and I don’t care much about it rather go easy.

Originally posted by: _SilentSoul_

I got exposed to tharak the first time from an aunt who's more like a friend because we are in the same age group ... That time I was 14 years old and main itna sharma rahi thi ki poocho mat 🤣 I was like 🤦🏻‍♀️🤭🤫

Exactly that was how I was exposed to tarak..there was a marriage in my family and tarak especially on night before wedding is must na🤣🤣
All cousins n aunts n uncles leg pulling the groom n I don’t know how I was stuck there🤭🤭🤭 but that was enlightening journey🤣🤣🤣 and life was never the same again🤣🤣

Hahaha very enlightening indeed!!

Yes I think if my husband and I lived separately, things would be different because he cooks and he understands my busy academic life… Ghar pe mum spoils my dad and my husband and I often argue with her about this 🤔 Dad ko kuch bol nahi paati but I get mad if my husband gets too lazy 😆