Jija saali romance - Page 14

Originally posted by: Ekahriz

I don't know whether it should matter why she is uncomfortable. She is uncomfortable with what he is doing. Period. At least that's how I think.

I am not discounting Aarohi's actions. But Abhi is not a small child who can be led by other people. He is a grown up man, a smart doctor at that making terrible choices. It's not like Aarohi put a gun to his head and is making him marry her. Agree his mom is sick. Any sensible person would try to have a conversation with their mom, probably promise her he will get married but need sometime to deal with the heart break and move on. (Yes, I understand Abhi marrying Aarohi is a plot device, but they did that at the cost of Abhimanyu's character according to me)

I don't even know how we can compare someone who's drugged and assaulted to what AbhiRa are doing. The assaulted person is a victim (passive in the assault with no way to fight back) and there is use of force. No way the victim is at fault. But there's no force involved here. They are both actors (as in committing the action) in this situation.

I do think Abhi is a hypocrite. Because he keeps saying he has so much tameez and the next moment is literally destroying public property and shouting at his dad. He keeps saying he respects women but right now he is not. He says he is full.of seedhi Baath and no bakwaas but he is so full.of bakwaas at the moment.

I totally understand we are both looking at this from very different point of view and we might not be able to convince each other. Let's just agree to disagree. 😊

@Bold Yes but that's my entire point. If Abhi had jumped to Arohi simply because she was another girl he fancied then hell yeah id have bashed him for two timing and being a jerk but the only reason Abhi went to Arohi was because she made him believe that she possesses good qualities. The mandir, court case and fire incident was ALL Akshara but Arohi intentionally implied to them that it was her. She has not put a gun to his head but she has put a mask on her head. Its fraud.

The only reason I'm unable to defend Arohi is because I cannot justify what she has done whereas I can see where Abhira are coming from and let's be honest, they haven't officially cheated yet. They could have done a lot more than hug if they really wanted to fool around.

I did mention that I was not comparing. I was trying to explain involuntary intoxication because people often drink or intake substances without realising the severity of it. Abhira clearly did not know the drink would be alcohol. Come on it's so unfair to judge them in this instance.

Abhi isnt perfect we all know that and I dont think he is wrong to shout at Harsh (noone should get a dad like harsh but thats another topic) and neither does he disrespect women 😕

I totally see where your coming from and you are right in your place but I think so am I. We are simply wearing different lenses.

Originally posted by: Silveraliax

@Bold Yes but that's my entire point. If Abhi had jumped to Arohi simply because she was another girl he fancied then hell yeah id have bashed him for two timing and being a jerk but the only reason Abhi went to Arohi was because she made him believe that she possesses good qualities. The mandir, court case and fire incident was ALL Akshara but Arohi intentionally implied to them that it was her. She has not put a gun to his head but she has put a mask on her head. Its fraud.

The only reason I'm unable to defend Arohi is because I cannot justify what she has done whereas I can see where Abhira are coming from and let's be honest, they haven't officially cheated yet. They could have done a lot more than hug if they really wanted to fool around.

I did mention that I was not comparing. I was trying to explain involuntary intoxication because people often drink or intake substances without realising the severity of it. Abhira clearly did not know the drink would be alcohol. Come on it's so unfair to judge them in this instance.

Abhi isnt perfect we all know that and I dont think he is wrong to shout at Harsh (noone should get a dad like harsh but thats another topic) and neither does he disrespect women 😕

I totally see where your coming from and you are right in your place but I think so am I. We are simply wearing different lenses.

If Abhimanyu and Akshara are wrong then so is Aarohi. All of them are flawed. If aarohi was genuinely in love with Abhimanyu and had right intention I would classify Abhimanyu and Akshara’s brewing relationship as cheating.

If anyone has watched silsila or even one episode of udd on colors here they know what cheating is.

And on the lighter note - the story need to progress hence Abhimanyu and Aarohi track started. Although I wish aarohi didn’t exist to begin with but whatever

Originally posted by: DiscoDhokla

you cannot put this in better words. I somehow cannot get myself to defend aarohi. That girl lacks ethics in every way. If abhi is cheating her she is cheating him too by portraying herself differently to him. If Akshara is cheating her then Aarohi cheated Akshara too by snatching her love. Akshara said no to Abhimanyu to avoid conflict between families not because aarohi wanted him.

If Abhimanyu and Akshara are wrong then so is Aarohi. All of them are flawed. If aarohi was genuinely in love with Abhimanyu and had right intention I would classify Abhimanyu and Akshara’s brewing relationship as cheating.

If anyone has watched silsila or even one episode of udd on colors here they know what cheating is.

And on the lighter note - the story need to progress hence Abhimanyu and Aarohi track started. Although I wish aarohi didn’t exist to begin with but whatever

@bold - Couldn't agree more!! 😆

Originally posted by: Indira1211

exactly…this may not be a love marriage..it’s an arranged marriage ,..but even so the man can’t go around having an affair and cheating on his fiance…because him hugging another woman..making eyes for her and running behind her is cheating ..however viewers won’t see it like this as it’s the lead couple who’s doing the cheating,..And Arohi did not come between them…akshara and abhimanyu put her there….akshara by deciding to let Arohi have abhimanyu and abhimanyu by proposing to Arohi..so. Abhimanyu and akshara are wrong…IF THEY had made a decision they need to abide by it..🤷🏻‍♀️

Viewers actually don't care who is cheating as long as the suffering party is arohi 🙋‍♀️ manjari and harsh come 2nd in the list. She is the enabler and they are victims . They took some wrong decisions and they can't hold the ground. Very soon arohi will be informed 😆

Originally posted by: HahaHeheHuhu9

Akshara is also a hypocrite and full of bakwas.

At least, Abhi admits to her that he's trying to move on, but it's getting difficult for him. But Akshara acts holier-than-thou, pretends to be mahaan tyaageshwari, but betrays her sister by canoodling with her sister's fiance. She keeps praising herself saying she's doing some out-of-the-world balidaan for her family, but actually does things that are morally questionable.