Akshara shouldn't have gone to Birla House - Page 3

Originally posted by: Mira_Pranali

I feel Akshara shouldn't have gone to Birla House.. See she knows Abhimanyu is trying to move on in life as she said and she also knows that Abhimanyu loves her to death and is in a lot of pain... Won't her presence be painful for him.. He is right when he says pls don't come... he is struggling guys!!

He can see she loves him/ she knows he loves her... and then also she wants to make it difficult!

Agreed, Rishta with aarohi is stupidity....

but Akshara knows Abhimanyu as she claims... Its an informed decision Akshara is taking by rejecting Abhimanyu's love.. but he is in dark.. he is puzzled why despite loving him, Akshara is not accepting him!! and he got irritated and told her off... about not joining Birla hospital!

The struggle is legit for him...!

I disagree, he and his family who happen to know him for 20-30 years should have known getting married to Arohi would be a struggle. These educated highly qualified doctors should have foreseen that.

It would be unfair to Akshu if she was excluded from function just because its complicated, she has been sacrificing everything for sister and finally sacrificed her love for her sister, so why should she be treated like an outsider, bad luck/jinxed person (sorry for my extreme use of words) .

It is unfair that she gets excluded from family functions because Abhi can't get over her. It's not like Abhi is doing any favor to Akshu, he is getting married to save his mother from further misery and look how happy mummy ji is.

Abhi never asked Akshu, "Will you really be alright if I ask her your sister to marry me, because my mother is sick and my family thinks that Arohi is the best person for me?"

Noone, not even Abhi asked her, will she be alright?

Just because Abhi is throwing tantrums, does not mean Akshu has to stop living. Her heart is also broken , but she is going with the flow happily.

Inspite of everything, Akshu does love and care for Arohi genuinely.

I will give credit to Akshu that atleast she checked with Neil before deciding to go to Birla's. Abhi could have also come after the Goenka's have left but no he could not help himself .

few ppl even do sucide when they r forced to do arrange mrg ...and they were in love with someone.

Originally posted by: UKGirl22

Everything is not about Abhi and Arohi. Do this for Abhi. Do this for Arohi. Leave the city for Arohi, celebrate his birthday to make Abhi happy, say no to Abhi for The family, save his reputation, save his life, say you don’t live Abhi for me, It keeps going on and on and on. Once in a while doesn’t she get to do what she wants? She did all of this to be close to her family and to not be excluded constantly- she was very clear to Kairavs - doesn’t she her to go?

yes why is AKSHU pushed around by all these toxic people

why can't AKSHU live her own life

Originally posted by: AvantikaP

I disagree, he and his family who happen to know him for 20-30 years should have known getting married to Arohi would be a struggle. These educated highly qualified doctors should have foreseen that.

It would be unfair to Akshu if she was excluded from function just because its complicated, she has been sacrificing everything for sister and finally sacrificed her love for her sister, so why should she be treated like an outsider, bad luck/jinxed person (sorry for my extreme use of words) .

It is unfair that she gets excluded from family functions because Abhi can't get over her. It's not like Abhi is doing any favor to Akshu, he is getting married to save his mother from further misery and look how happy mummy ji is.

Abhi never asked Akshu, "Will you really be alright if I ask her your sister to marry me, because my mother is sick and my family thinks that Arohi is the best person for me?"

Noone, not even Abhi asked her, will she be alright?

Just because Abhi is throwing tantrums, does not mean Akshu has to stop living. Her heart is also broken , but she is going with the flow happily.

Inspite of everything, Akshu does love and care for Arohi genuinely.

I will give credit to Akshu that atleast she checked with Neil before deciding to go to Birla's. Abhi could have also come after the Goenka's have left but no he could not help himself .

This is quite weired she only is asking people to Abhi to move on and fine with Arohi Getting married to Abhi so why be physically present

This hurts Abhi she knows but Madame is all for sister love

And then birla hospital omg just irritating

I am like a thaali ka baingan😡 After reading everybody's comments, I feel Akshara is not wrong too... but Abhimanyu ki struggle bhi kam nahi hai.. he is int he dark as to why is Akshara rejecting him

Originally posted by: borntorule12

Yes indeed he is treating her like an object he would be bringing home to make his mom happy. That girl too has feelings and just saying one line that "I am marrying for my mom, don't keep expectations" doesn't kill the expectations. If a girl is getting married to a guy it is natural she has some basic expectations and obviously she will have that desire to feel loved or valued too even if she is a vile bitch. She even said "we will be okay one day" with this arrangement which itself proves abhi has given her hopes. Bike mai nai bithana was too much.

Originally posted by: FaguniUpadhyay

Okay , I would like to disagree with you here as the guy cannot be more clear than what he said to Arohi while proposing her. He clearly said that he will always love her sister, he won't even allow her to call him Abhi and he is doing it just for his mother. It's not his mistake of the girl has zero self respect and lives in her delusional world. She is all about one day I will win Abhi as if he is some trophy. I don't feel a tad bit bad for her , she called it upon herself.

Originally posted by: borntorule12

Yes indeed he is treating her like an object he would be bringing home to make his mom happy. That girl too has feelings and just saying one line that "I am marrying for my mom, don't keep expectations" doesn't kill the expectations. If a girl is getting married to a guy it is natural she has some basic expectations and obviously she will have that desire to feel loved or valued too even if she is a vile bitch. She even said "we will be okay one day" with this arrangement which itself proves abhi has given her hopes. Bike mai nai bithana was too much.

TBH, I am with Abhi in this....he did not say ki he loved akshu...he said she was and will be my only love...are you ok with it? I m maarying you for my mom, are u okay with it? She said I will be okay...mein pyaar jeet kar dikhayungi...what should Abhi say...nahi jeet sakti? Y should he say that? He knows as per now he has no hhpes...do u want to marry me? It was Arohi who agreed to be in this loveless marriage...

I dont think it is and will be abhi's fault if he ignores arohi completely....

But to marry arohi is abhi's fault, if he cannot face alshi and prays ki akshu does not attend the functions.....

So facing abhi's indifference is what Arohi has entered into by accepting this proposal.......And not being able to avoid akshu in family events...is what abhi has gotten himself into....Both of them enetered int this knowing the consequences fully...

It is akshu who is forced into this....

Originally posted by: reshmi1968

This is quite weired she only is asking people to Abhi to move on and fine with Arohi Getting married to Abhi so why be physically present

This hurts Abhi she knows but Madame is all for sister love

And then birla hospital omg just irritating

She asked abhi to move on...but did not ask him to move on with arohi....It was his decision....

It will be trouble to akshu too...

abhi and arohi invited the trouble or got into it fully aware of it...akshu is forced in this situation...

And she is the one who is acting sane and matured....