Originally posted by: PreetD
I havenāt seen it yet either but I feel like people see what they want to see.
What I see, especially since that day that Aryan said Aditya would have to pay for not only his familyās pain but also Imlieās is him making decisions based on how theyāll impact her.
Iām very new to the show, Iāve only seen bits and pieces of what I could find online of the past couple months, and then more specifically since Aryanās first day, but how anyone could support Aditya and then turn around and bash Aryan is beyond baffling to me.
Everything Aryan has said is correct about that relationship. If Aditya suspected something, he shouldāve been an adult and asked either Aryan - or better yet Imlie about it. Heās handled this like an unsettled, insecure, teenager instead of the older, settled, rational adult he should be.
In Aryan I see a man who would be a true partner. Currently I fear there is still quite an imbalance of power in their relationship - but heās helping Imlie regain and own her power, strength, and abilities. He lifts her up, whereas Aditya only drags her down. And I donāt care, him being hurt and in pain gives him no right to treat a woman he supposedly loves the way heās been doing.
Making her question her own abilities as a writer, as an honest hardworking woman, heās a weak man who in pain find he must bring the woman who he feels is causing him pain down as well.
I donāt know that thereās love on either side of the Aryan/Imlie relationship at this point but there is respect and admiration - which is a great foundation to first build a friendship and then a romantic relationship on. A healthy relationship.
I really do hope they choose to go this way. They decide to keep Arylie an example of a healthy positive relationship. Sometimes we fall into situations, fall in love with people that however much we want it to work are simply not the right people for us. And I think thatās what Adilie are. They may love each other in some way, but theyāre not a good fit. If he can treat her the way he does he doesnāt actually love her. And I think Imlie, because of the circumstances, the things theyāve been through together, thinks sheās in love with a man who isnāt actually a good fit for her.
How beautiful it will be when she starts to realize what a truly beautiful and healthy relationship is.
I just rambled a lot right there lol Last night I was half falling asleep as I was typing my first message and didnāt get enough out and now Iām like let me share all my feelings!! Lol