Originally posted by: M.A.K123
This is all subjective ...Debo is infront of many cameras..we are seeing her for a really long time ..she went crazy when all Bichukle said Ritesh 'bhali maa ka beta hai' (episode 75)and she accused him for swearing at mothers ,when he grabbed her hand she was very firm in telling him to let go and that she will hit him if he grabs her hand next time then why not tell him to get lost the first time her asked for a kiss?! Same episode she was quick to jump at Nishant after only listening to Teja ... We have seen her reactions at the drop of a hat ..it is very unlikely for her not to react at the very first instance.. that is what makes me doubt her because she is very much capable of standing up for herself ..and she acted as per her convenience
Again Bichkule is a creep and she has seen it many times ,even when her best friend told her he is not right ..she went against her ..she justified pair ki jooti because she didnt like Shamita
And bevause of this Bichkule will cross any line because he has been getting away with it
She is not wrong to call him out ...but she does have a part in him thinking he can get away with anything
It is not subjective, action speaks for itself.
Devoleena was uncomfortable and had given direct warning to Bichukle many times in last few days telling him not to cross the line. She had mentioned this to couple of housemates, earlier but did not make an issue.
It is not normal when you have to accuse someone of sexual harassment to just raise an alarm. Some women will use sexual harassment just for revenge with false accusation, some will just make an issue misjudging the reality. But some will think 10 times before putting the allegations, it is question of someone’s image. Devoleena has to do this on national television. She has to be sure she is not rushing to judgement. Devoleena is matured and has given stern warning few times already before it came to this. She also knows that she will have to own it if she makes issue out of this as this will be sexual harassment topic.
Regarding Devoleena’s reaction at a drop of a hat, like fighting with Shamita, Nishant, Umar and Rashmi, it is part of her game for content to get noticed that every housemates are doing it. It is fine to pick up a mudda and fight. Pratik, Umar, Rashmi, Teja , Rajiv all are doing it.
But a sensitive topic like sexual harassment that also with serious allegations is not something easy to speak about. Devoleena did give ample of warning to Bichukle many times. This is first time he pulled her cheeks and was trying to get physical. This is when she felt to speak up about it.
When she took courage to speak, our host shuts her down saying Bichukle was joking. After giving few warnings Devoleena spoke about it. Bichukle was not joking. She also must have thought 10 times what if no one believes me, what if no one stands for me.
Salman was idiot who twisted to blame Devoleena and let Bichukle go free without punishment.
As I said Salman narrative was - No, victims can’t come forward when they have courage or are sure about the allegations later, they should suffer in silence, why they did not come forward at the time of incident.
i don’t think Devoleena had any agenda or game plan to raise this issue.
Edited by spicysagar - 3 years ago