This is not sacrifice - Page 3

Originally posted by: Ekahriz

The second part of your post. This. She says to Aarohi that Aarohi doesn't see the pain Abhi is in. That Aarohi never thinks of Abhi or his feelings. I want to ask Akshara isn't she doing the worst. She sees his pain, she understands the extend of it. But still keep hurting him over and over again. How is this love? Like freaking open your mouth and tell him you love him but you can't be with him for so and so reason. He will figure it out. He will find a way to make sure their relationship works out. I am sure of that. Even if he doesn't, she owes him that much. I am getting so fed up of Akshara.

Exactly!👍🏼

She could tell him that she can't be with him due to family and end it there.

Instead, she's actively pushing Arohi onto Abhi by lying about who saved him. 😕

There's a saying which goes like this: be good, do good, but don't be arrogant or too obsessed about your own goodness. Akshara looks like she's habituated to the tyaag mode and she seeks self-validation by proving how mahaan and sacrificing she is every time. Too much self-righteousness without considering the other person's (Abhimanyu’s) emotions is making her look stupid.

Originally posted by: HahaHeheHuhu9

The thing is Arohi has a problem with Akshara's very existence. Even if Akshara backs off and Arohi's rishta gets fixed with Abhi, Arohi is still going to blame Akshara and throw tantrums for something or the other.

Toh kya Arohi ke suicide dhamki ki vajah se, Akshara jeena chod degi? In some sense, that's what she's been doing all along - going away from her own house for Arohi's happiness lol. Which is plain stupid of Akshara.

So Akshara's tyaag for Arohi doesn't make sense at all. And what about the guy here? Is he a toy which can be handed over by Akshara to Arohi just because Arohi will give suicide dhamki?

AAROHI already tried to commit suicide which everyone thought was an accident. She told AKSHU otherwise and that she would never let her be happy if she agreed. AKSHU can't live with the guilt of her family being unhappy if something happens to her sister

I don't see how AKSHU is pushing ABHI to AAROHI at all or handing him over to AAROHI

Why doesn't ABHI look for another girl or stay single. Why AAROHI?

How is AKSHU responsible if ABHI agrees to marry AAROHI - she has no idea that he may marry AAROHI just because she helped him out as a DOCTOR at a camp

Originally posted by: apacs

AAROHI already tried to commit suicide which everyone thought was an accident. She told AKSHU otherwise and that she would never let her be happy if she agreed. AKSHU can't live with the guilt of her family being unhappy if something happens to her sister

I don't see how AKSHU is pushing ABHI to AAROHI at all or handing him over to AAROHI

Why doesn't ABHI look for another girl or stay single. Why AAROHI?

How is AKSHU responsible if ABHI agrees to marry AAROHI - she has no idea that he may marry AAROHI just because she helped him out as a DOCTOR at a camp

Arey she's pushing Arohi onto Abhi by saying that Arohi saved Abhi.

Arohi didn't attempt suicide that day. That was an accident only.

Abhi has been rejected by Akshara SEVERAL times. He's moving on. And he's free to move on with anyone. He's free to stay single. But his mom has specifically asked him to think about Arohi, as his mom has a misunderstanding that Arohi loves Abhi.

In the future, even after Akshara's so called sacrifice, Arohi will again blame Akshara and say that Akshara's presence itself is a problem. Again Arohi may give suicide dhamki by asking Akshara to leave Udaipur. Toh kya Akshara phir se bhaag jaayegi? It's stupid to give up in the face of unreasonable and selfish people like Arohi. She needs to learn to deal with Arohi rather than giving into all of her vile tantrums.

Originally posted by: apacs

this is why AKSHU rejected him at the BIRLAs. She was considering confessing then was horrified when AAROHI told her this

Sorry to disagree but we have been shown it was an accident. So we can't really just assume it was self harm.

She said I can't see you two together and be happy. . Abhimanyu kitna acha hai na... tu kar le shaadi uss se sab kitne khushi honge .. sirf mujhe chod kar. Main kisi ko pareshan nahi karna chahti par main kya karu... nahi hoga mujhse. Agar tu ne shaadi kar Li toh main kabhi khush nahi reh paungi aur main tujhe kabhi maaf nahi kar paungi.Agar tu ne Abhimanyu se rishta jod liya toh hum dono ka rishta hamesha ke liye toot jayega. Tu bhool jaana ki Teri koi behen thi... Mar gayi Teri behen tere liye" these were her exact words. She said once they both marry, she will not keep any ties with her and for her Akshara will die just how she asked Akshara to think that Aarohi is no more. It was emotional blackmailing... She knew Akshara will do anything for her... And Askhu priorities are Aarohi and to have the sisterly bond with her so she used the bharamshastra and said she will never forgive her and will break the relationship (naam ka toh rishta hai dono mein 🤔)

The reason Akshara rejected Abhimanyu was because Aarohi told her that she will go away from home and Akshara was like, koi bhi mere jaane se dukhi nahi hoga. Sab Aaru ke jaane ke khayal se hi mar jayenge. So she she should reject Abhimanyu and entertained Aarohi tantrum.

Dear ain't you forgetting that arohi is a doctor already? She very well know where to cut the vein, good enough to bleed and draw attention and yet survive without any hiccups. So for me suicide theory is completely ruled out. Remember she did that right after she heard her two granny talking about abhira. Attention seeker she is. That's it. She lives in eutopia that she is unmatched in every manner and now eyeing her so called match Abhi. She doesnt care who suffers, who not

The problem here is that akshu doesn't have anyone for guidance like how akshara mishti naira had dadi and rajshri. If rajshri or anyone would have been there they could guided her better. All the members in goenka family are useless.

For self ham, arohi can be admitted to rehab and get help.

if abhi marries arohi, how many people's lives will be destroyed?

his own

arohi- she wont get a husband who loves her

the two families- their kids wont be happy how can they?

never ending trauma and drama and arohi always looking at akshu being 'oh u ruined my life'

predictably akshu will marry another dude- his life and family's life destroyed too.

as its an indian family, realistically aro/abhi will have a child someday. the kid's life ruined too, not to forget life long resentment towards the aunt.

aro threatening self harm is a small price to pay for a grand scale of screw up if they go ahead with this shadi. akshu being an itv predictable stupid fl, lets not glorify her cz she loves her fam. if she cared for aro and thought logically, she would have informed the elders first thing about arohi ka obsession. if goenkas went ahead with aro/abhi, then its their choice. but keeping everything to herself and being woe is me- err, no. thats selfish and narcissism.

Originally posted by: apacs

I don't see how AKSHU is pushing ABHI to AAROHI at all or handing him over to AAROHI

Why doesn't ABHI look for another girl or stay single. Why AAROHI?

How is AKSHU responsible if ABHI agrees to marry AAROHI - she has no idea that he may marry AAROHI just because she helped him out as a DOCTOR at a camp

HOW ? How bec if akshara tells abhimanyu the truth and tell him that she loves him, he will never give a thought to arohi. He is being pushed towards arohi bec akshara does NOT love him which she keeps repeating like a nursery rhyme. Abhimanyu is being asked to move on and get married to arohi bec akshara rejected him.

That's how akshu is pushing abhi to arohi.

Originally posted by: atulya1

Break the heart and heal the soul..👏 she is female lead, she is a "good" girl. She genuinely loves her family, be a help to koi bhi.. but has nuts for brain. Her decision to leave love of her life for an insane, authoritative, narcissistic person is not a good example for anyone. Setting a wrong benchmark for ppl who are watching the show. " If she can do it, why can't you " mindset. Does she realises she is pleasing one validated toxic person and how many ppl are suffering becoz of this stand ???

1. Abhimanyu 😒💔

2. Manjari as her son is stressed,😕

3. Neil and parth to watch their bro like this💔

4. Birla and Goenka as families at loggerheads,

5. yes kairav the silent spectator 😔

6. Mimi and badi ma,

7. Manish, vansh

....Lastly she herself...💔💔💔

.. That too when she is madly in love with abhimanyu 🤨 she knows how he feels for her.

..Her one dodo decision has made so many people suffer..

She calls herself strong, family oriented and she's a therapist too. One who feeds toxic mind and make so many people suffer, how she is going to heal the heartbreak of anyone?? One bad memory from childhood has made her compensate with all bad decisions.

Ya sure, she's gonna tell everyone who comes for help, please the evil wrong doer, pukaro kanhaji for better times, suffer in silence and rest is up to your destiny 😏

Definitely not a good example to watch. Life has given arohi more than akshara. Feeding the already fed one and leaving the one who looks up to you in lurch, is beyond my comprehension.. I would never recommend any young girl to follow such imbalanced person.

Heal yourself first girl, then heal others..

Thx for spelling it out..I have been saying this since akshara rejected abhimanyu..

All this reminds me of a very nauseating serial called choti bahu..avinash sachdev and Rubina ..o God! But there , the dumb heroine even after knowing that the hero loved her , proposed her , said yes to marry her , she doesn't clear the mu that rishta was actually being set with her sister , her sister was the bride and she is a total useless selfish person who is not serious for the wedding ..last moment bride swap happens and dumb heroine marries the hero but she constantly lies to the hero that her sister is his wife. Akshara is like that heroine.. ..🤢 after knowing everything she pretends that everything is being done for some greater good..of thefamilies and arohi..

I was told by someone that it's aksharas nature.. seriously? A habitual liar ? She is going on hurting abhimanyu and manjari then she keeps running to protect them from misery when she is the cause of the misery ? Hadh hai.

Kairav says she has stage fear..she just goes there n conducts rhe the therapy session..was lack of confidence anywhere visible ? Everything is so random in this show n akshara is totally not written well. 👎🏼

Originally posted by: _charu_

Thx for spelling it out..I have been saying this since akshara rejected abhimanyu..

All this reminds me of a very nauseating serial called choti bahu..avinash sachdev and Rubina ..o God! But there , the dumb heroine even after knowing that the hero loved her , proposed her , said yes to marry her , she doesn't clear the mu that rishta was actually being set with her sister , her sister was the bride and she is a total useless selfish person who is not serious for the wedding ..last moment bride swap happens and dumb heroine marries the hero but she constantly lies to the hero that her sister is his wife. Akshara is like that heroine.. ..🤢 after knowing everything she pretends that everything is being done for some greater good..of thefamilies and arohi..

I was told by someone that it's aksharas nature.. seriously? A habitual liar ? She is going on hurting abhimanyu and manjari then she keeps running to protect them from misery when she is the cause of the misery ? Hadh hai.

Kairav says she has stage fear..she just goes there n conducts rhe the therapy session..was lack of confidence anywhere visible ? Everything is so random in this show n akshara is totally not written well. 👎🏼

She's definately a trouble magnet. Create chaos and fight the fire later. She's changes her stances so quickly that as a patient she could be a challenge for any counsellor. Looks like a confused complex personality. Anyways almost no one is this Mahan in real life, if she's been brought up in an open environmental. I am worked up actually with this character. Will try to see better bright side of upcoming for us