Akshara is NOT pushing Arohi to Abhi - Page 4

She just didn't told the what she done. If she said that they will qn her as why she did that and if abhi know that he won't move on in life as she wishes.

It is true that akshu don't know what in birlas mind but she is doing her level best to understand aarohi what is the danger she is falling for...

Also abhi is not moving on with aarohi he is just comparing. He really didn't saw aarohi in the first place he just saw a shadow that is akshu's sister he was solely focused on akshu only. And now that he is seeing aarohi as a human .. and he thinks aarohi as a life partner or something it just the reflex action of his mother. He is just thinking what did his mother saw in aarohi that makes her think that aarohi deserves a second chance that's it....

He is still with askhu with thann and mann

Originally posted by: aaf311

Am I the only one who thought Akshu didn't lie today? She said Aarohi saved him in the camp, not that she saved him from the fire. And to be fair, Aarohi did save him in the camp. She was the one who got the oxygen mask and did that whole hand rubbing thing. I know it can't be compared to what Akshu did, but Aarohi still did do something.

Akshu just told him what everyone else at the camp did.

Would it count as a lie by omission though?

there is some misunderstanding though because BIRLAs think AAROHI risked her life to save ABHI

this is because of ABHI's misunderstanding that it was AAROHI in the white coat who went inside and saved him

he then announced this to the whole BIRLA family

AKSHU is just saying AAROHI saved you in the camp omitting what she did completely

waise ABHI is so dumb not to remember that AKSHU was so concerned about him after the molestation charge and called him then

Sacrifice, getting married, not married is Akshara's decision. But truth has to come out.

Transparency is required in every relationship. which is my high expectation from ITV.

Abhi whatever he may be does not deserve a pshyco like Arohi. He can remain unmarried, marry some one else but save him from Arohi.

And Akshara should do that bit because she loves him but as a responsible person. If I know someone is marrying a pshyco i should warn even if he is KOI BHI or KUCH NEHI

Agreed with the Akshu part.

I feel like fake spoilers and og storyline colored everyone's perception that she is sacrificing everything for her sister. Arohi is part of the reason like the Tilak day but she is not the whole reason.

She is not the kind who would choose a guy over her family she knew for years. She might do things like being a witness for the case against them because ultimately its choosing to stand by someone who is innocent. That is different from going against fam and marrying. (Abhi correctly deduced this nature of her's which is why he went straight to the family to ask her hand in marriage lol.) She doesn't think they have a future. As she knows if he knew she loves him he won't back off hence she is showing him that she doesn't love him with her indifferent and insensitive attitude.

From day 1 of promotions Akshara's character has been described as someone who puts her family above all, who can even take a bullet for them. Even in most interviews the reason given for denial by Pranali has been "family".

On the Tilak day she stayed silent for her family's respect which includes Arohi's as well. (Even today she didn't expose Arohi for the same reasons.) In the promo after tilak, she was shown saying that "rishto ke maine samjhti hoon"(iirc), today's its clear that it meant her belief that marriage is not just two people but two entire familys and Birlas-Goenkas is not it.

The reason for denying her love infront of Birla fam after Arohi saying she wont be happy with the allaince also comes under sacrifice for the family. Not only the sister's relation will worsen but also cuz Arohi might become distant to the family as well. That will hurt a lot of realtionships in the fam, taking the peace away.

Kairav asking Akshu to leave makes sense in this context because even he believes the same as Akshu about the Birla alliance and because it would be hard for her to move on being in the same city he asked her to leave and start anew. Both of them have been unaware of Arohi's "love", that might be why she was easily allowed to join Birla hosp. They should have dicussed with the elders instead of taking decisons on their own to be honest

With the way things are going it would be very weird if Goenka's agreed for Arohi-Abhi alliance If family incompatibility and respect is the reason behind Akshara and Kairav's decisions then the same should be for Aru rani🤪

If Abhi says 'yes' then that should ring major alarm bells for the Goenkas about the integrity of the guy(from their pov) or Kairav should tell the truth that Akshu loves Abhi cuz the reasons of the refusal are gone.

Originally posted by: SereneWorld

Agreed with the Akshu part.

I feel like fake spoilers and og storyline colored everyone's perception that she is sacrificing everything for her sister. Arohi is part of the reason like the Tilak day but she is not the whole reason.

She is not the kind who would choose a guy over her family she knew for years. She might do things like being a witness for the case against them because ultimately its choosing to stand by someone who is innocent. That is different from going against fam and marrying. (Abhi correctly deduced this nature of her's which is why he went straight to the family to ask her hand in marriage lol.) She doesn't think they have a future. As she knows if he knew she loves him he won't back off hence she is showing him that she doesn't love him with her indifferent and insensitive attitude.

From day 1 of promotions Akshara's character has been described as someone who puts her family above all, who can even take a bullet for them. Even in most interviews the reason given for denial by Pranali has been "family".

On the Tilak day she stayed silent for her family's respect which includes Arohi's as well. (Even today she didn't expose Arohi for the same reasons.) In the promo after tilak, she was shown saying that "rishto ke maine samjhti hoon"(iirc), today's its clear that it meant her belief that marriage is not just two people but two entire familys and Birlas-Goenkas is not it.

The reason for denying her love infront of Birla fam after Arohi saying she wont be happy with the allaince also comes under sacrifice for the family. Not only the sister's relation will worsen but also cuz Arohi might become distant to the family as well. That will hurt a lot of realtionships in the fam, taking the peace away.

Kairav asking Akshu to leave makes sense in this context because even he believes the same as Akshu about the Birla alliance and because it would be hard for her to move on being in the same city he asked her to leave and start anew. Both of them have been unaware of Arohi's "love", that might be why she was easily allowed to join Birla hosp. They should have dicussed with the elders instead of taking decisons on their own to be honest

With the way things are going it would be very weird if Goenka's agreed for Arohi-Abhi alliance If family incompatibility and respect is the reason behind Akshara and Kairav's decisions then the same should be for Aru rani🤪

If Abhi says 'yes' then that should ring major alarm bells for the Goenkas about the integrity of the guy(from their pov) or Kairav should tell the truth that Akshu loves Abhi cuz the reasons of the refusal are gone.

WOW wala post. TOTALLY AGREE

Arohi's behavior needs to be corrected and for this Akshara needs to tell the truth..

By keeping quiet she is encouraging Arohi..

When Manish got to know that it was kairav who asked Akshara to leave the house he scolded him then and there..

When Arohi was misbehaving with Akshara she was asked to shut up by Manish and swarna...

It is very important to tell the elders Arohi's truth because looking at Arohi it is pretty much clear that she will have more psychological issues..she will be dangerous..

Is Akshara is rejecting Abhimanyu now , it is good for the family...but issues with Arohi needs to be discussed with the family...this much obsession over a boy is not healthy ...

I fully agree, Akshara has grown with the mentality of family first before anything. Plus I think growing up she had gotten used to adjusting to aarohi's moods and wants, to the point where it's all she knows.

She was also right when she said marriage is between two families, I don't think I would personally marry into a family that constantly argues with mine. It would be so mentally draining plus knowing the Birla's, Akshara would be a subject to multiple taunts and side comments

Originally posted by: UKGirl22

I seem to disagree with everyone on the forum who is bashing Akshu today and saying that she asking Abhi to move on with Arohi.

As of now she is doing absolutely nothing of the sort.

She is holding back on her love because the two families do not get along together. Tomorrow episode may prove me wrong but todays Akshu is far from pushing Arohi to Abhi or Abhi to Arohi.

Is she right is not correcting the misconception about who saved Abhi - no. She knows Abhi loves her and she also knowa that if he realises the depth of her love for him he will never move on. And she wants him to move on because of her family. This is exactly what her part of the promo was. As she said to Arohi she is not doing this for Arohi but for her family. I finally understand.

Do I agree with her - no - but that’s because I haven’t been brought up by the Goenkas in guilt and constantly having to make sacrifices for my sister. I haven’t been told by my own brother to leave the house and change my number because I dared to even be liked by someone my younger sister liked. This is the only way she knows to exist. So everyone stop throwing your stones. She is a product of years of suppression by her family.

What she doesn’t realise so that by remaining silent she is opening the door for Arohi and Abhi not just in Arohis mins but the Birlas. She doesn’t know that actually her family may betray her and say yes to a wedding between Arohi and Abhi. And most importantly she doesn’t realise that moving on for Abhi may mean moving on with her sister.

As of now they have already shown our hero considering Arohi and thinking about her even before the fire. This was a major characterisation flaw. Abhi is supposed to be a man who doesn’t believe in love except when it comes to Akshu rather than an inconsistent man flipping from one woman to another. I hope that mistake in writing does not get repeated because the Abhi of those two days is not worthy of Akshus sacrifice. (All the Abhi fans seem to be willing to overlook this,)

This is where I want the second part of the promo to come into play. I want an Abhi who stays true to Akshu, who doesn’t move his affections and marriage proposal on to Arohi but decides to start connecting the dots and helps Akshu break free of the Goenkas.
I can’t even begin to talk about Arohi. She disproved everyone here who was willing to give her a chance, who was willing to argue that she is not evil. Omg she is vile and evil. I love the job that the actress is doing!

I agree with all your point about Ak. And finally today I understood that Ak's sacrifice is for the family and the unnecessary ego clashes of the elders in the family. She does not want to bring in more ego clashes and status arguments into the family through marriage. Her only way to keep peace is through non confrontation. More like keeping quiet and wrapping everything under the carpet.

That is why she keeps all her thoughts to herself... her mantra is smile smile, avoid avoid. How long can one do that with their family. We will get to see that too. I think Akshara is now reaching a breaking point more than Abhimanyu.

About Abhimanyu- I have made a separate post in response to your post. do read and tell me.

Originally posted by: SereneWorld

Agreed with the Akshu part.

I feel like fake spoilers and og storyline colored everyone's perception that she is sacrificing everything for her sister. Arohi is part of the reason like the Tilak day but she is not the whole reason.

She is not the kind who would choose a guy over her family she knew for years. She might do things like being a witness for the case against them because ultimately its choosing to stand by someone who is innocent. That is different from going against fam and marrying. (Abhi correctly deduced this nature of her's which is why he went straight to the family to ask her hand in marriage lol.) She doesn't think they have a future. As she knows if he knew she loves him he won't back off hence she is showing him that she doesn't love him with her indifferent and insensitive attitude.

From day 1 of promotions Akshara's character has been described as someone who puts her family above all, who can even take a bullet for them. Even in most interviews the reason given for denial by Pranali has been "family".

On the Tilak day she stayed silent for her family's respect which includes Arohi's as well. (Even today she didn't expose Arohi for the same reasons.) In the promo after tilak, she was shown saying that "rishto ke maine samjhti hoon"(iirc), today's its clear that it meant her belief that marriage is not just two people but two entire familys and Birlas-Goenkas is not it.

The reason for denying her love infront of Birla fam after Arohi saying she wont be happy with the allaince also comes under sacrifice for the family. Not only the sister's relation will worsen but also cuz Arohi might become distant to the family as well. That will hurt a lot of realtionships in the fam, taking the peace away.

Kairav asking Akshu to leave makes sense in this context because even he believes the same as Akshu about the Birla alliance and because it would be hard for her to move on being in the same city he asked her to leave and start anew. Both of them have been unaware of Arohi's "love", that might be why she was easily allowed to join Birla hosp. They should have dicussed with the elders instead of taking decisons on their own to be honest

With the way things are going it would be very weird if Goenka's agreed for Arohi-Abhi alliance If family incompatibility and respect is the reason behind Akshara and Kairav's decisions then the same should be for Aru rani🤪

If Abhi says 'yes' then that should ring major alarm bells for the Goenkas about the integrity of the guy(from their pov) or Kairav should tell the truth that Akshu loves Abhi cuz the reasons of the refusal are gone.

I think this is where I want to see the true colours of Kairav and the Goenkas. Will they support an Arohi Abhi wedding. Especially Kairav ? But this will be a breaking point for Akshu. Not just because it will be a family betrayal but also a betrayal by Abhi.

Originally posted by: viji2111

Arohi's behavior needs to be corrected and for this Akshara needs to tell the truth..

By keeping quiet she is encouraging Arohi..

When Manish got to know that it was kairav who asked Akshara to leave the house he scolded him then and there..

When Arohi was misbehaving with Akshara she was asked to shut up by Manish and swarna...

It is very important to tell the elders Arohi's truth because looking at Arohi it is pretty much clear that she will have more psychological issues..she will be dangerous..

Is Akshara is rejecting Abhimanyu now , it is good for the family...but issues with Arohi needs to be discussed with the family...this much obsession over a boy is not healthy ...

Remember that this season 3 started with Akshara returning home after being sent away for Arohi. Kairav asked her the leave AGAIN the moment it looked like Arohi would be unhappy again. So I disagree that the Heonkas behave as if Arohi and Akshara are equal. Has anyone asked Akshu how she is feeling after the Tilak? Has anyone cared about her feelings? They have not created a world in which Akshu feels anything she says about Arohi matter.