Thoughts on Abhimanyu - Page 2

Oh man, this felt like a therapy session for me.

Finally someone who sees my pov!

I agree with you as always, both Abhi and Akshara have their own reasons and I am unable to blame either.

As for Abhi, the only thing I was concerned was that he was so sure before and theyve turned him into devdas which does not really suit him but you've explained well, we cannot stay the same always 👍🏼

I agree with you on the vulnerability of Abhi too. I am not sure why people are not trying to understand him. As far as I can see, he is so so lost. The only example I can think of is an orphan who was adopted by a loving family but that family had to send him back to orphanage due to some helplessness from their side. That child is torn but has to move on with his second family that adopts him because well is there anything else he can do or control?

Abhi is similar, he has no control of this situation because he cannot become a psycho and force Akshara to love him and neither can he just stay single forever because he has pressures from his family and is being compelled to believe that Arohi is not as bad as he thought.

They are also projecting all of Akshara's qualities on Arohi now such as, her kindness and her ability to put others before her. He is basically falling in love with someone like Akshara and it maks sense Arohi is her sister because then she is more likely to be like Akshara (little does Abhi know they are poles apart)..

If you watch, he is moving on but he is only being drawn to Akshara's qualities so indirectly he only wants Akshara.

Dont get me started on the magic thing. I don't think the connection has broke, I think the wires have come lose on the makers part. How can Abhi read Akshara's move on but then cannot read everything else she was thinking in that same scene.

Arohi - I am probably the only person who is looking forward to the wedding of her and Abhi because I actually want her to be rejected again. Her selfish nature has hit the roof for me and I dont think anything other than Abhi dumping her will do justice. Especially since she is now taking credit for what Akshara did.

Akshara - I feel terrible for her and I do not blame her because it actually takes guts to be this nice. But I wish Akshara would stop being nice for a second and think about Abhi if not herself. Everything will be sorted if she speaks up.

Originally posted by: hari15

Their isn't a thing I could argue back here so the only thing I could do is agree with you. It's just that certain things that happen gives me lot more questions.

Abhi after engagement told that " It was difficult for him to fall in love and he would make sure that it will be difficult for her to get out of this " . Now after continues rejections he wants to move on that too is ok, but why didn't even once he sit and think the reason for her rejection. Then again I convince myself saying he is a man who doesn't have any love experience or seen one unlike akshu she had seen her father love sirat and heard of her father and mother love so she atleast know what to expect in it. The man isn't even given time to sit and think about what went wrong.

The only thing that makes me upset about is him trying to consider aarohi but then again he told he will leave it to destiny then see what destiny had done to him. Just like Manjari it has also pushed him in Aarohi's direction. At this point my only question is how will he go ahead from here. How will he even think about another woman in place of his first love when time and again all he said was that she is the one he will love and marry.

If ever Abhi proposes to Aarohi for a marriage won't it somewhere disappoint us that he had this soon considered another woman that too his lover's sister. I know it didn't even happen yet but thinking that the show might just go that way always stops me from enjoying anything to do with abhimanyu.

After such thing happen I feel like even if aarohi herself turning a mahaan wouldn't do any justice in abhira union.

But at the end they both need to learn a lot of things in their relationship.

Originally posted by: Zenab78

There is no point to debate Noor.

You know as a person if we deal with this in real situation moving on is not thay easy and Abhi's dilemma we took it negatively but some where when our feelings are Unreciprocated we try to move on and the problem here is Aarohi... If she wasn't her sister it was justifiable coz in indian family people are forced to choose other person...some do it easily and some try their best.

And it's not only Abhi but both sister too at fault... Akshu sacrificed but she is still around him it is messing up his brain and other side Aarohi is taking credits and he is so connected with his mother that he easily gets carried away even there is reason coz he know her mom is bearing everything for him and she takes everything happily for her sons sake(that's different that she ends up doing blunders everytime).

And completely agree to that magical wand thing and cosmic connection coz we thought they will have it always but it looks like the rejection has damaged their soul connection.

I said debate part because we all have different opinions and I will love to have a conversation of that. But I really don't like mocking ... And all.

Moving on is not easy, I am not denying that but trying to move on or deciding to do that is.

Not all of us will be able to deal with one sided love, can we? Like you said, we try to move on in that situation is pretty much a very sane decision. That's why I don't find it wrong here.

See, when our love is not reciprocated we started craving for it. And you know at those moments you don't see right, wrong, grey, black or white. All you saw is how your heart breaks into zillion of pieces and you could not do a thing about it...

As humans we are greedy and what we are most greedy about is love.

How do I explain this.. okay when you feel unloved, unappreciated, are in nothing but shreds that moment all you want to feel loved... Even if it's toxic. Sometimes it's to an extent that we have lost our worth so when someone makes us feel worthy, they have our thoughts.

Here, I see this like this. Aarohi is someone who claims to love him... Whenever he thinks it's Akshara who is doing things, the support or even actions are indicating it's Aarohi (she is not doing it but whatever). So in that lowest of moments, Manjiri words comes back to him.

Actually I did not find anything wrong in what Manjiri said to him ... Aap pyaar kar sakte ho kisi ke saath zabardasti nahi kar sakte.

Right now, Abhimanyu like a lot of us felt is not being himself but have we ever seen him as a person who has lost hope, feels unloved, unappreciated... How much ever the falling in phase does not make sense to us... For him it was his first butterflies and those feelings and butterflies were killed... He clearly lost the emotional aim and focus.

And Manjiri talks and Akshara move on Karo aur main move on karunga aur Aarohi ka faaltu ka credit lena of course does not help.

Its not that I am not irritated or defending him.... Even if it's Harshad show I said I wanted it to shut down because its clear they can't write story.

But I am trying to understand him. Believe me, if he has been stuck to Akshara and even after knowing the reaction keep pursuing, it will be toxic (most probably) because being friends with a person who does not love you, keep on pushing you to move on even after knowing about your feelings is hard.... And makers are clearly not good in handling such tracks.

Actually tbh, Rajan Shahi sir is making my belief stronger that the show is only till March max. His story of something coming in Jan 2022 and how he treats YRKKH story is ....

I guess this might answer some of your questions too. I don't think I have done a good job in explaining this but tried...

Nothing to argue here yaar Noor. You’ve said everything that I’ve been thinking of. Abhi is definitely not considering moving on with Arohi or anyone else, it’s just his mom is pressurizing him from one side and his eyes are misleading him. Situations and Akshu’s repeated rejection is not doing them any favour. He’s like the mythological Abhimanyu itself whose been fee only half the story… here he only knows half the truth and so he’s confused, but even here too whatever his mind is pushing him towards is ( in all the credits Arohi is taking), it’s the qualities that he expected from Akshu. See even here it’s Akshu he’s in love with it leaning towards, it’s always been and will only be Akshu. Arohi didn’t have these qualities but situations have made it look like it and that’s why he’s confused. His heart and mind as I mentioned in another post is pulling him opposite direction but actually it’s still the same direction cause (Heart is pulling towards Akshu and mind is pulling towar Akshu’s qualities that Arohi credit stealing).

Regarding their unspoken words and understanding and that 6th sense. I think when Akshu rejected him and things started pointing otherwise, the man became a wreck, he can’t think properly and his emotions are haywire. He’s not calm and cool no mire and has lost that feel for now. Also at the temple he was worried sick for his mom to feel Akshu (again his emotions not in control), and the fire incident he’s unconscious (but I still have hope that deep down he sensed her and heard her confession), but then again he’s unconscious/half dead, o I’ll give him a break here.

I seriously don’t think the makers will butcher Abhi’s character that the built up so well up to this point, for him to accept Arohi or anyone else for that matter. I still believe that it’ll be Abhira without any Arohi rishta again, or he’ll go Devdas on us.

Obviously for a "love triangle" to work things have to be set up in a way that makes Abhimanyu start thinking about Arohi.

And I agree with what many have pointed out already that Abhimanyu's heart is still with Akshara and the qualities that attracted him to her are being casted against Arohi who is taking all the false credit.

Abhimanyu isn't in an emotional state to think straight. He's been rejected 3 times and depending on what they show tomorrow/tonight maybe a 4th time. I mean any normal person would stop chasing after someone after the first time. Otherwise you end up looking like a pycho stalker. When you get your feelings hurt like this you start questioning everything around you and the advice people start giving you, you tend to listen because it is usually coming from a place of good intentions. Reality is we don't always get all the facts and we don't always know what is happening on the otherside. We can only make decisions with what we see.

Is it questionable for Manjari to ask Abhimanyu to look at Arohi when he had declared his love for Akshara. Yes. She isn't thinking about what this would do to Abhimanyu mentality. It isn't easy to move on. This is his first time dealing with these feelings - 1st love, 1st break up, 1st rebound relationship

But yet I cannot totally fault Manjari either because what she said also made some sense. Having someone who loves you more in the relationship vs being with someone you love that does not love you back. When you put it that context having someone who loves you more at least you will get love. Obviously the better answer is finding someone who you love and who will love you back just as much.

Akshara is also at fault for this mess because she is choosing to sacrifice herself for a sister who despises her very existence. But what we have seen is this is who Akshara is. She is genuinely a caring person. Family means everything for her and she can do anything for them. Arohi is her sister so she is included in that family (even if the entire forum wants to kick her out 😆)

Arohi is going have big wake up call cause eventually things are going to come out and knowing Abhimanyu's anger 😡 she is going to get it real good. Waiting for that time 😈

Originally posted by: vismaya

I agree. The point is not that Abhi should not move on,it's thar he shouldn't be moving on with the sister of the girl who he loves...

Yaar main kaise samjhau iske dynamics... Ye seriously bohot complicated Hai.

But I will try to be as simple as I can- 1) All he is seeing is Akshara qualities except the voice in Aarohi.

2) if not that's the case, you know jab aap kisi se pyaar karte ho aur aapko wo pyaar wapas nhi milta hai ... Especially tab jab aapko pyaar par bharosa na ho aur ye aapka pehla pyaar ho. Uss waqt, uss moment na aap itne kamzor hote ho... Itne zyada ki you just want to feel loved ... And valued. You can call it selfishness but wo vulnerability wo moment kuch iss type ka hote hai that is too hard for anyone else to see and understand.

I guess it makes sense?

Originally posted by: Silveraliax

Oh man, this felt like a therapy session for me.

Finally someone who sees my pov!

I agree with you as always, both Abhi and Akshara have their own reasons and I am unable to blame either.

As for Abhi, the only thing I was concerned was that he was so sure before and theyve turned him into devdas which does not really suit him but you've explained well, we cannot stay the same always 👍🏼

I agree with you on the vulnerability of Abhi too. I am not sure why people are not trying to understand him. As far as I can see, he is so so lost. The only example I can think of is an orphan who was adopted by a loving family but that family had to send him back to orphanage due to some helplessness from their side. That child is torn but has to move on with his second family that adopts him because well is there anything else he can do or control?

Abhi is similar, he has no control of this situation because he cannot become a psycho and force Akshara to love him and neither can he just stay single forever because he has pressures from his family and is being compelled to believe that Arohi is not as bad as he thought.

They are also projecting all of Akshara's qualities on Arohi now such as, her kindness and her ability to put others before her. He is basically falling in love with someone like Akshara and it maks sense Arohi is her sister because then she is more likely to be like Akshara (little does Abhi know they are poles apart)..

If you watch, he is moving on but he is only being drawn to Akshara's qualities so indirectly he only wants Akshara.

Dont get me started on the magic thing. I don't think the connection has broke, I think the wires have come lose on the makers part. How can Abhi read Akshara's move on but then cannot read everything else she was thinking in that same scene.

Arohi - I am probably the only person who is looking forward to the wedding of her and Abhi because I actually want her to be rejected again. Her selfish nature has hit the roof for me and I dont think anything other than Abhi dumping her will do justice. Especially since she is now taking credit for what Akshara did.

Akshara - I feel terrible for her and I do not blame her because it actually takes guts to be this nice. But I wish Akshara would stop being nice for a second and think about Abhi if not herself. Everything will be sorted if she speaks up.

Diduuuu you know your first line really helped me. I myself is struggling with this board exams and I logged into IF hoping for some positive things but ... So getting to kno le that's it's therapeutic in the forum is kind of a good compliment and it just made me happy that I am doing that 😊

There's a lot of shades in us... And every shade comes out layer by layer in different situations. This is a heartbroken Abhimanyu and I would not shy away from saying that I still love him.

I was saddened di when he is termed toxic and pendulum. He could have termed as that if he would have forced Akshara, stalked her and all or if he swinged from Akshara to Aarohi by being in a relationship with either of them. But okay... This is my pov and I felt sad toh kuch bola nhi Maine.

Wow... What a way to explain di... Seriously you have just completely described Abhimanyu right now.

And you know he would follow every word that family' will say to him even after if he is being sent back to the orphanage. And that's what is shown here too.

Exactly... Even in mandir his first reaction was Akshara but then he saw Aarohi...

And Abhimanyu himself is a victim of circumstances here is not it? It's Aarohi who is taking advantage.

I guess everyone is at fault... Every single person. So all will suffer and learn. That's how life is... Is not it? We always don't make right choices.... But that's the beauty of the wrong... It teaches.

Aree I remember in starting everyone is like HC looks old and HarshAli won't work, Akshara is too docile and sacrificial lamb, Aarohi has more substance... Till now each and every character has their own flaws and beauty and have substance. It's just that the old is coming back.

And I remember in starting someone said in the forum of how it would be good to show Abhi confused between Akshu and Aarohi... Looks like dreams do come true 😂😂

So we as humans will speculate always... But we forget those characters are humans too... They are gonna make mistakes and until and unless it's not toxic and abusing, we have to learn from them.

P.S. even if it's toxic, we can always learn what not to do 🤣

Originally posted by: ishqdinoorhai9

Diduuuu you know your first line really helped me. I myself is struggling with this board exams and I logged into IF hoping for some positive things but ... So getting to kno le that's it's therapeutic in the forum is kind of a good compliment and it just made me happy that I am doing that 😊

There's a lot of shades in us... And every shade comes out layer by layer in different situations. This is a heartbroken Abhimanyu and I would not shy away from saying that I still love him.

I was saddened di when he is termed toxic and pendulum. He could have termed as that if he would have forced Akshara, stalked her and all or if he swinged from Akshara to Aarohi by being in a relationship with either of them. But okay... This is my pov and I felt sad toh kuch bola nhi Maine.

Wow... What a way to explain di... Seriously you have just completely described Abhimanyu right now.

And you know he would follow every word that family' will say to him even after if he is being sent back to the orphanage. And that's what is shown here too.

Exactly... Even in mandir his first reaction was Akshara but then he saw Aarohi...

And Abhimanyu himself is a victim of circumstances here is not it? It's Aarohi who is taking advantage.

I guess everyone is at fault... Every single person. So all will suffer and learn. That's how life is... Is not it? We always don't make right choices.... But that's the beauty of the wrong... It teaches.

Aree I remember in starting everyone is like HC looks old and HarshAli won't work, Akshara is too docile and sacrificial lamb, Aarohi has more substance... Till now each and every character has their own flaws and beauty and have substance. It's just that the old is coming back.

And I remember in starting someone said in the forum of how it would be good to show Abhi confused between Akshu and Aarohi... Looks like dreams do come true 😂😂

So we as humans will speculate always... But we forget those characters are humans too... They are gonna make mistakes and until and unless it's not toxic and abusing, we have to learn from them.

P.S. even if it's toxic, we can always learn what not to do 🤣

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Aw exams are just the worst! But keep working hard and trust me you will be so proud at the end. I actually miss revising till 4 now😆 but will have to study again soon so looking forward to the whole student life again.

I love him too, I feel he is not at fault contrary to the opinions here.

He is neither toxic or pendulum. Not gonna lie, I'd rather watch Abhi pursue Akshara like a mad man but then he'd be called Kabir Singh and a psycho so people will always complain. He isnt a pendulum because his soul is still stuck on Akshara. He is trying to give Arohi a chance but it's so difficult to think about someone else for him that his head began to bang. I mean he had his assistants giving him medicine because that's how unsettled he seemed. How is that a pendulum? It's more like he is having to walk on eggshells to get to Arohi, he is struggling to even think about her that way.

Who's calling Harsahd old again 😤

Pranali couldnt have looked better with anyone else. I've seen her old shows briefly and Harshad compliments her like fine wine.

I have not read the entire post, but just want to leave this here - I do not think he is actively thinking about Aarohi. She is in his line if vision, and his mom's words come to haunt him - that's it. It's not like Abhi is going hey, ek gayi, toh mein uski behen se shadi kar leta hun. At least not yet. 😁 That's all I wanted to say.

Will read the post and come back to reply later.