Thoughts on Abhimanyu

Note: I will be up for a healthy debate...

I posted this as a reply in one of the thread but then I was like.... Nice analysis Noor. So I am here...

I disagree here... He has not moved on. He is trying to move on. It has not been easy for him either.

He has clearly got rejection two times with clear no and total 4. What more he could do now? When you know you love a person then just being friends will never be easy and this whole turns into a mess. Even if it's you who are rejecting and ask for hand of friendship.

And about thinking about Aarohi... If she has not been Akshara sister, I don't think this could be a wrong idea to. He is being presented an idea that Aarohi is like Akshara.... His mother is emotionally blackmailing, it would have been better if I don't talk about about his father, we have not shown the reaction of other family members so we don't know, Neil is mistreated and he (Neil) face always fell when something like that happens, so he (Abhi) does not share his pain with him either... He has been keeping his thoughts to him too. He himself has not gotten time to wrap his head around what all happened.

He has been put an idea into his head about Aarohi yet till now he has not given her any kind of signal that he is into her.

And also, why do we judge of how early someone moves on? Until and unless he thought Akshara loves him and his love is not one sided, he was loyal. So after a relationship (and hope) ends, I don't think so we should do that.

Move on takes time and he himself is struggling

His mother idea revolves around his head, himself is a lot more vulnerable yet not giving any indication to either especially Aarohi.

And my last point of why Aarohi is to be blamed because that girl knows everything. She know she is the reason two people who love are away from each other (partly... I will not blame her fully for this because Akshara herself sacrificed Abhimanyu.) And she is more to blame even now because she knew she was not the one who sent Akshara but did not denied when she has been thanked for, did not said a word when thanked for keeping pooja for Manjiri, in the camp Aarohi was wearing the coat, he was unconscious so he saw just the white coat and once again when she was thanked she kept quiet. When asked about Akshara she said she left. And in the precap it was a thank you and we even have Abhi trademark bg. And in yesterday precap it was Abhi screaming ÀKSHARAAAA.

I know what it's leading to but we have to see the build up too. And it may expose Aarohi too.

The most irritating is one second Abhimanyu and Akshara are shown as God who can read minds, feels presence but the next that does not happen

And then @hari15 replied to the bold part and I had got another answer.

Her reply- This one thing is what I can't wrap my head on , makers had made a switch to on and off their magical love. One time he can close his eyes and feel her miles apart and next time he doesn't. If that's how they want their was no need to show such magical or myth thing. They took us to a magical world all of a sudden dropped us telling that their magical wand isn't working anymore.

And then suddenly the bulb in my head lighted up... And another thought crossed me

oye... Your question has our answers. They were in bubble... Living happily and now the bubble bursted and they lost it all. The journey from now is ... Girna, padhna, khud hi uthna aur aage badhna.

I agree completely... But maybe I read too in between lines or just positive, idk but this can also be an indication of how he looses it all when he is in an emotional wreck.

Harshad said Abhimanyu has zero experience when it comes to these emotional and feelings of this type of love, so when he has been pushed from all sides, he has lost control. To him he has lost it all and now all he understands is MOVE ON IS HARD BUT KEEP MOVING IS THE ONLY OPTION. And its true.

I resonate with both of them because of personal reasons. They makes so much sense to me when I am not mad about shitty writings.

Like meri practical side bich bich mein overrules like when I saw today episode, first time I was so mad because of the precap, second time I enjoyed and when saw it for third time like, Akshara is literally proving, aag lage basti mein apun hai apni masti mein song. The confession is real nice and Pranali stole the show other half of the episode today but I was like, behen gale laga ke baithna abhi will not do any good. Her confession I got it she is trying to wake him up but it just did not clicked and after that she hugging him, crying and sitting and then suddenly she stood up and saved... Toh bhai ye kaam pehle kar lena chahiye...

You see, even as a viewer we go through so much everytime we watch an episode so Abhi and Akshara ... What and how much they are going through?

The way I comes back to normal and understand them

Hari, thank you so much for that...

I would love to hear your guys thoughts....

P.s. Also, I know the previous Abhimanyu has been ziddi and strong but we cannot be always be like that. Believe me... We loose control, our zidd everything... And this happens in different situations for different people. And right now, Abhimanyu has lost it all... Zidd kare toh kare bhi kiske liye? This question hurts, angers us, made us feel weak and every vulnerable feeling.

I agree. The point is not that Abhi should not move on,it's thar he shouldn't be moving on with the sister of the girl who he loves...

Nicely written...

Abhimanyu for me is not at all wrong...even his thanking Arohi for whatever Akshara is doing in my opinion is not wrong because he is believing his mother and his eyes..

Originally posted by: vismaya

I agree. The point is not that Abhi should not move on,it's thar he shouldn't be moving on with the sister of the girl who he loves...

About radar not working I think in Mandir he was too worried about his mother so he couldn’t put his mind was full so couldn’t feel akshara. Now I think in fire he was unconscious so how come his sixth sense will work. I think in both cases they showed perfectly why he can’t feel akshara.

Regarding his radar stopped working...Man does meditation for a reason..😉

Their isn't a thing I could argue back here so the only thing I could do is agree with you. It's just that certain things that happen gives me lot more questions.

Abhi after engagement told that " It was difficult for him to fall in love and he would make sure that it will be difficult for her to get out of this " . Now after continues rejections he wants to move on that too is ok, but why didn't even once he sit and think the reason for her rejection. Then again I convince myself saying he is a man who doesn't have any love experience or seen one unlike akshu she had seen her father love sirat and heard of her father and mother love so she atleast know what to expect in it. The man isn't even given time to sit and think about what went wrong.

The only thing that makes me upset about is him trying to consider aarohi but then again he told he will leave it to destiny then see what destiny had done to him. Just like Manjari it has also pushed him in Aarohi's direction. At this point my only question is how will he go ahead from here. How will he even think about another woman in place of his first love when time and again all he said was that she is the one he will love and marry.

If ever Abhi proposes to Aarohi for a marriage won't it somewhere disappoint us that he had this soon considered another woman that too his lover's sister. I know it didn't even happen yet but thinking that the show might just go that way always stops me from enjoying anything to do with abhimanyu.

After such thing happen I feel like even if aarohi herself turning a mahaan wouldn't do any justice in abhira union.

But at the end they both need to learn a lot of things in their relationship.

JO BHI HO ABHI IS ONE OF MY FAV CHARACTER IN THIS SHOW

SURPRISES ME EVERY DAY 👍🏼

I know it didn't even happen yet but thinking that the show might just go that way always stops me from enjoying anything to do with abhimanyu.This is something I am also struggling with.. i want to enjoy the show and the lovely scenes between Abhimanyu and Akshara.. but I can't

There is absolutely no problem in moving on..and we can see he is struggling! THE ONLY PROBLEM IS MOVING ON WITH AAROHI!!

Had it been any other girl, it would have been understandable!! but Aarohi??? Kuch bhi dikha rahe hain move on ke naam par!

Even if Manjiri is aksing him to move on.. he can say that not Goenkas! It will be painful for him but clearly like a fool.. he has started thinking about Aarohi!

There is no point to debate Noor.

You know as a person if we deal with this in real situation moving on is not thay easy and Abhi's dilemma we took it negatively but some where when our feelings are Unreciprocated we try to move on and the problem here is Aarohi... If she wasn't her sister it was justifiable coz in indian family people are forced to choose other person...some do it easily and some try their best.

And it's not only Abhi but both sister too at fault... Akshu sacrificed but she is still around him it is messing up his brain and other side Aarohi is taking credits and he is so connected with his mother that he easily gets carried away even there is reason coz he know her mom is bearing everything for him and she takes everything happily for her sons sake(that's different that she ends up doing blunders everytime).

And completely agree to that magical wand thing and cosmic connection coz we thought they will have it always but it looks like the rejection has damaged their soul connection.

I agree with you. This guy fought so hard for his love but got rejected again and again I personally believe he can fight the whole world for Akshu but how can he fight her. He is a emotional wreck right now and have no one to talk to (he never had anyone to talk to) and his stupid mother keep on forcing him to think about Aarohi and he is trying to but is definitely failing.

And also he might have sensed akshara during the fire but probably thought that it was his imagination we will know tomorrow I guess.