Originally posted by: Apsvenky
I agree completely - I also feel that Adi has been shown that Imlie feels this relationship is a bandhan that is holding from truly being azaad - his words show how he is doing this so that she can truly be free and follow her dreams. Adi is willing to deal with any crap, but if he has been made to feel that he is an impediment to Imlie's dreams - that is something the guy will not tolerate. People think ASR is being a mentor to her and bolstering her confidence in her abilities forget how Adi never allowed her to forget the importance of her studies or her dream - even when Imlie was willing to let go. So yeah, I truly feel this divorce from Adi will be on 2 grounds - either he will be made to feel that he is in the way of her truly progressing further, or else made to feel that Imlie thinks this zabardasti ki shaddi is holding her back due to him. So we will get a sacrificial Adi who will do all this so that Imlie will fly - just she will not understand this until much later.
As for how they will come out of this - I am very sure that both these 2 will be like shells - living their life, but hollow inside. They will be manipulated, shown a completely different picture from reality and truly made miserable - but it will be because the other is not there to share their sorrows and victories as well.
GM being drained emotionally is because he is a very meticulous actor who really pours himself into a role, while ST has the innate ability to showcase her craft brilliantly but switch off at the end of the day. For her this is work - something she does brilliantly, but the toll is more physical that emotional. While GM literally pours himself into the character to make it more relevant and easier to connect with the audience, ST is able to showcase her best, while still being able to be detached from the psychological effects of such a characterization.
ST and GM remind me a lot of SRK and Kajol in real life. SRK used to always say that Kajol would joke around and just look like she is fooling around, but when the director calls for action and the take is executed, se does it flawlessly - so much that it is difficult to connect the 2 people. ST is also a lot like that, which is why she is able to do emotional tracks without getting exhausted (except complain about the swollen eyes due to crying so much).
As for what will happen after the divorce - firstly I am still thinking that the divorce will not go through - even if they both sign it, something tells me that Adi will not file it (I am going for the most filmy way possible). Secondly, these 2 really need that time out to think their relationship and the value of what they shared, before either of them mature enough to work things out. It will be a long and hard journey, but honestly looks like the real angst that we were missing will actually realize only now.
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