Shafaq (shruti interview) - Page 6

I get what you're saying. but i think makers could have conveyed her guilt over speaking rudely to him without that reference of misogyny. It almost feels like an indirect endorsement of such actions and saying ki-its ok for a frustrated or angry husband to slap his wife. And by putting that one line, its like giving him a pass for the abusive acts of food denial, hand wringing, room locking...kyunki afterall bechaare ko apni baat kehne ka mauka nahi mila toh obviously he got physical.

Makers need to be more careful.

Voh line nikaal dete bhi toh we could see Sais guilt. We could see her trying to analyse his behavior, these instances and trying to figure it out. Or atleast figure out what questions she has for virat to gain clarity.

Originally posted by: Nja91

If these guys copy KD, toh satyanaash hoga. The Rono of KD is so disgusting. Matlabb even at 5 year leap hes in touch with pp but not with his own daughter. He has no idea where his wife/daughter are.

And whole family eventually makes him the "bechaara" who got "wronged" even though he was fully accountable for everything that happened. Which wife will keep on tolerating her husband prioritizing everything over her. She had enough n left and in KD they make it seem like Sai is the unfair one.

Even in ghkkpm they are toeing the same line. Aabas words of wisdom reek of male chauvinism. And if we think of it as Sai's own inner voice then it sucks even more because thats the extent to whivh her self worth n self respect has been dented. Its absolutely ridiculous that they wrote a line that "Virat is so great, coz koi aur hota toh 2-4 laga deta( i.e. slap karta) for your behavior" . Seriously?!

Its one thing for Sai to reflect on being unduly harsh/rude with him sometimes and maybe not hearing him out fully but another to feel like she is lucky to be with a guy who hasn't "slapped her" for her insolence.

Sai is being made to feel guilty but Virat feels only self pity - no guilt for his behavior towards Sai. He feels bad for mishandling her but never reflects on why Sai feels insecure.

Haven't seen today's episode but how can they put in such dialogues, which father on Earth says stuff like your hubby could have slapped you? They never have shown any indications of Aaba as a father inflicting violence on his daughter even at her worst behaviour, why would he even suggest something like that for his daughter via his SIL?

Just to whitewash and pass off the ML's domestic abuse tendencies as uncontrolled anger they will normalise things like husband slapping wife?

The more that abuse is justified in this show, it feels like things would only get worser and worser.

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

He blames emon for shruti death too. He blames her for his father's heart attack, blames her for Shruthi death who is supposed to die one day because of her illness, blamed her for shivani wedding problems. Whole kd is about rono blaming and insulting emon. Where is the trust actually?

Seriously😲?

How can she be responsible for someone dying with a terminal illness?

Why does she accept his stupid explanations in the end then? Or did the show fall so low that they just wanted to wrap it up so they gave a supposed happy ending?

Originally posted by: Shaome

KD doesn't have any story arc period.. That show was meant to bring human psychology.. And the marital discord between the couple who are poles apart from each other.. That's why some of the dialogues are much better than Ghum.. Rono called her 'ohonkari' that means "Arrogant" in Shruti track.. But Viirraht will age shame Sai.. 🤢

Being ohonkari is better than being sabka pati...

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

He blames emon for shruti death too. He blames her for his father's heart attack, blames her for Shruthi death who is supposed to die one day because of her illness, blamed her for shivani wedding problems. Whole kd is about rono blaming and insulting emon. Where is the trust actually?

Te torture log dekhte they? Wew!!!

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

Till now sai character is fine for me. Even that dialogue also her guilt speaking. She was so guilt that she didn't understand his feelings on top of it she insulted him on that day. That's why she thought instead of loosing his control and raising hand like other misogynist men virat was silent after her outburst like a man with patience. Her whole thoughts are about that one day only. Even now she wanna have clarity about virat's feelings for her more than her feelings.

This is why I like Sai bai, her morals are at place, she also feels guilty, has introspection but can we expect the same from ML or PL... Never. ML just quotes ousting sometimes, Ajinkya's incident and Sai's second accident were just 'jhagda'.

Originally posted by: Shaome

Sai keeps her self respect above anything.. It's high time we witness a solo journey

So true, a solo journey at this point sounds way better than this Shruthi track. They need not even bring a new ML or anything but showing so much emotional dependency on someone who keeps choosing other's over Sai makes Sai incredibly weak and vulnerable.

Originally posted by: nikita05

This is why I like Sai bai, her morals are at place, she also feels guilty, has introspection but can we expect the same from ML or PL... Never. ML just quotes ousting sometimes, Ajinkya's incident and Sai's second accident were just 'jhagda'.

Don't forget Aayi normalising him ousting her at midnight without bothering about her safety as Ann bann. Sai's supposed biggest support in the house also normalises her abuse in the garb of her son's anger.

Originally posted by: Tapdance

Seriously😲?

How can she be responsible for someone dying with a terminal illness?

Why does she accept his stupid explanations in the end then? Or did the show fall so low that they just wanted to wrap it up so they gave a supposed happy ending?

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

Emon herself feels guilty for shruti death after rono accusation. Don't know how exactly shruti died. After Shruti track badshah death track starts, rono taking care of rk by acting as her husband at the end emon was made to feel guilty and reunited with him with the blessings of rk.

That's like the worst way to unite them😆 Rono guy's character arc is so disturbing not that Virat has ever seen any upswings as a character. He's either sugary sweet, goes overboard with his actions or directly abusive and incredibly hurtful with his words and actions.