Mithai মিঠাই Discussions # 4 " চিরোদিনি তুমি যে আমার আমরা অমর সঙ্গী " - Page 15

Originally posted by: reshamc

And that is a problem, isn't it? He definitely 100% knows Mithai loves him. If not love, at least has romantic affection for him. Knows that she wants a typical married life in the ideal sense.

But what is he doing knowing that?? He has accepted the marriage, but he doesn't believe in love.

There needs to happen some big dhamaka that makes Sid realise his romantic feelings. He needs to accept it to himself first that what he feels for mithai when he keeps staring at her is more than just respect and admiration.

Agreed 👍🏼

Actually, Sid and Mit are going through a phase of puppy love right now

Where Mithai is like a puppy, full of adoration with stars in her eyes for her Ucchebabu. She is ready to do anything and everything for him and his smallest gesture of affection means the world to her. But this all-consuming adoration is not a sign of a healthy adult relationship.

And Sid is like the affectionate pet owner who ensures that his puppy is well-fed and taken care of. He will tolerate her tantrums and indulges her whims but he knows where to draw the line because he is not as invested. For him, she is literally like a puppy who sleeps in his room and keeps his family happy but that sense of equality does not exist for him. He cares for her but unfortunately, he still does not understand her

So whatever happens after this will need to affect both of them because while Sid needs to develop passion, Mithai's feelings will need to mature for them to play on an even playing field ❤️

Sorry for yet another long rant but this analogy struck me suddenly so thought to share with you all

Originally posted by: Esotericbird92

Agreed 👍🏼

Actually, Sid and Mit are going through a phase of puppy love right now

Where Mithai is like a puppy, full of adoration with stars in her eyes for her Ucchebabu. She is ready to do anything and everything for him and his smallest gesture of affection means the world to her. But this all-consuming adoration is not a sign of a healthy adult relationship.

And Sid is like the affectionate pet owner who ensures that his puppy is well-fed and taken care of. He will tolerate her tantrums and indulges her whims but he knows where to draw the line because he is not as invested. For him, she is literally like a puppy who sleeps in his room and keeps his family happy but that sense of equality does not exist for him. He cares for her but unfortunately, he still does not understand her

So whatever happens after this will need to affect both of them because while Sid needs to develop passion, Mithai's feelings will need to mature for them to play on an even playing field ❤️

Sorry for yet another long rant but this analogy struck me suddenly so thought to share with you all

What a well articulated post! I completely resonate with this analogy and this is exactly the reason I'm still uncomfortable with their relationship unlike the folks at IG and FB.

I really think, for this puppy love to blossom into anything more meaningful, some distance is required between Sid and Mit. A small phase of separation can work wonders!

Originally posted by: Esotericbird92

Agreed 👍🏼

Actually, Sid and Mit are going through a phase of puppy love right now

Where Mithai is like a puppy, full of adoration with stars in her eyes for her Ucchebabu. She is ready to do anything and everything for him and his smallest gesture of affection means the world to her. But this all-consuming adoration is not a sign of a healthy adult relationship.

And Sid is like the affectionate pet owner who ensures that his puppy is well-fed and taken care of. He will tolerate her tantrums and indulges her whims but he knows where to draw the line because he is not as invested. For him, she is literally like a puppy who sleeps in his room and keeps his family happy but that sense of equality does not exist for him. He cares for her but unfortunately, he still does not understand her

So whatever happens after this will need to affect both of them because while Sid needs to develop passion, Mithai's feelings will need to mature for them to play on an even playing field ❤️

Sorry for yet another long rant but this analogy struck me suddenly so thought to share with you all

You actually summed up quite nicely - puppy love...one puppy with its owner🤣.

Havent watched the today's premium epi. Watched yday episode, and I cant say I liked it.

As most of all have explained, Mit's reaction is going overboard. It needs a break.

If somebody havent watched all of Mit's episode, they wll thnk Sid as a player😆 Who knows whats going on with wifey still decides to play safe and stay aloof😳😆

jake bole 'dhori maach na chui paani'

I thght Sid will develop some passion n longing when

1. Dadai introduced Rudy as Mit's hubby

2. Sid went to Singapore

3. Mit left Manohara

But all above ocassion gur gobar ho gaya. Nothng happened. 😆

Originally posted by: mishti_unicorn

What a well articulated post! I completely resonate with this analogy and this is exactly the reason I'm still uncomfortable with their relationship unlike the folks at IG and FB.

I really think, for this puppy love to blossom into anything more meaningful, some distance is required between Sid and Mit. A small phase of separation can work wonders!

@bold - thank you so much! Its nice to know that my ramblings make sense to someone 🤗

And I agree about the IG and FB fandom. They like Mithai have stars in their eyes regarding everything Sid/Adrit does. Everyone grows frustrated whenever Sid starts his chant of "ami prem e pori ni..ami bhalobasha e bishas kori na" thinking he is playing coy but he actually has not reached that stage yet.

Originally posted by: anjani-pagli

You actually summed up quite nicely - puppy love...one puppy with its owner🤣.

Havent watched the today's premium epi. Watched yday episode, and I cant say I liked it.

As most of all have explained, Mit's reaction is going overboard. It needs a break.

If somebody havent watched all of Mit's episode, they wll thnk Sid as a player😆 Who knows whats going on with wifey still decides to play safe and stay aloof😳😆

jake bole 'dhori maach na chui paani'

I thght Sid will develop some passion n longing when

1. Dadai introduced Rudy as Mit's hubby

2. Sid went to Singapore

3. Mit left Manohara

But all above ocassion gur gobar ho gaya. Nothng happened. 😆

Thank you!

@bold - eita ekdom mokkhom kotha 🤣

obosho deka baki ache ekon Swami Siddhanander koto dhaan e koto chaal 😉

@pink

Makers did not properly develop these situations - esp. when Mithai left for Jonai I had really thought they would make Sid introspect kintu tamon to kichu holo na...and on top of it nyaka dadai made a bigger mess of things 😡

Originally posted by: Esotericbird92

Agreed 👍🏼

Actually, Sid and Mit are going through a phase of puppy love right now

Where Mithai is like a puppy, full of adoration with stars in her eyes for her Ucchebabu. She is ready to do anything and everything for him and his smallest gesture of affection means the world to her. But this all-consuming adoration is not a sign of a healthy adult relationship.

And Sid is like the affectionate pet owner who ensures that his puppy is well-fed and taken care of. He will tolerate her tantrums and indulges her whims but he knows where to draw the line because he is not as invested. For him, she is literally like a puppy who sleeps in his room and keeps his family happy but that sense of equality does not exist for him. He cares for her but unfortunately, he still does not understand her

So whatever happens after this will need to affect both of them because while Sid needs to develop passion, Mithai's feelings will need to mature for them to play on an even playing field ❤️

Sorry for yet another long rant but this analogy struck me suddenly so thought to share with you all

Absolutely in love with this review.. I haven't seen the episodes after 18th but even learning about Mithai turning into Nipa 2.0 really disappointed me.. She really is behaving like a puppy.. Whereas Sid adores Mithai, cares for her, love her, even possessive towards her to some extent, but still not "In Love" with Mithai... It will take something big for Sid to realize..

Watched today's episode. I actually liked the episode.

Mithai in dream land bt trying to snap out.

Sid actually said, he s not Nipa (I want Sid to turn Nipa 2.0😆).

For me it appeared, Sid treats Mit as room-mate rather than life-partner.

Mithai was looking really beautiful with her hairs open

My usual innocent queries-

1. When Sid took the hair dryer, he also took a screw driver...wondering why😆

2. Sid's bed s really small....I mean how they manage to sleep and practice celebacy??🤓🤣

Watched premium episode

Sid makes cup.o . Noodles for Mithayi and feeds it himself

Tyash interrupts and Sid gives it back to Tyash for entering n interfering in his private space .tyash says sorry n leaves . Mithayi lakes home cooked food for Somresh n kakayi

Somresh is so impressed with Mithayi bouma .

Originally posted by: anjani-pagli

Watched today's episode. I actually liked the episode.

Mithai in dream land bt trying to snap out.

Sid actually said, he s not Nipa (I want Sid to turn Nipa 2.0😆).

For me it appeared, Sid treats Mit as room-mate rather than life-partner.

Mithai was looking really beautiful with her hairs open

My usual innocent queries-

1. When Sid took the hair dryer, he also took a screw driver...wondering why😆

2. Sid's bed s really small....I mean how they manage to sleep and practice celebacy??🤓🤣

I think he did not find a comb so he took what every was readily available to lift up strands of hair ..but he ended up using this hands instead to lift up her hair .

New spoiler pics show yet another party with alcohol underway at Monohara 🥳

This is the 3rd consecutive celebration being held in 3 days - I think Holla party have started taking their name a bit too seriously 🤣