How or why would Sai think of these? - Page 5

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Hi Lakshmi,

Thnx for such a detailed explanation abt ur understanding of Sais feelings. I hv just one thing to ask. I understand that Virat and Sai started with a deal. But from Ajinkya episode onwards Virats intentions towards Sai have been crystal clear. And again several times during and post holi the physical intimacy has always been initiated by Virat. So Sai as a woman shud hv got it by now what Virats intentions were. So when she chose to return to Virat after Ajinkya episode she shud hv done it acknowledging the fact that she wud hv to be Virats wife some day in the real sense. Again anniversary it was crystal clear what Virat had in mind. Agreed Ashwini said they will stay alag alag kuch dino ke liye... With no timeline of course.but there is bound tobe family pressure right. Its common sense. That's what I saying what did Sai think? That she cud stay like a daughter. That's impossible. If she didn't want it she shud again hv not agreed to come back or shud hv come back only for a few days till UM cud come and look after her. Ashwini said something might happen to Virat if she moves away. And wud be for life right?! So wud Sai hv wanted to live eternally with Virat like this. Its makes no sense to me. When there is no child involved it is always best to end a relationship at the earliest before complicating things further. This is too much dragging and too much indecisiveness from Sais side. As audience ita boring. I am not saying that Sai shud agree to whatever Virat or family says. What I want to sat is she shud walk out and the cvs can show a leap or with the same status qui they shud show a leap. Seeing the same jaap again and again is too boring for me!!!

Hi,

If we look at it from Sai’s POV, I don’t think she ever got any kind of clarity from Virat. He says a few things, does a few things but also flips and takes sides of Pakhi. His actions sometimes are unfathomable. After Ajinkya’s kaand, all he did was apologise and asked her to let him fulfill his duty or the promise given to her Dad. He has not said that let’s start this afresh with you and me as real husband and wife. Just like how he is worried and not willing to confess his feelings or change of heart, Sai is also worried that she shouldn’t fall for him and then for him to later come and ask her how can she when he has informed her about his commitment. She can always keep guarding her snd that’s what she has been doing by not willing to accept or think that he could be loving her. When she forgot and started to go with the flow after she returned home when he got shot, she got to hear from Pakhi’s mouth near the swimming pool which shattered her in a way. Sometimes certain things are not that easy to accept. Virat has to be vocal if things have changed from his side and also more consistent. Not like whenever he is happy with Sai, he will act nice snd other times, will gang up with Pakhi to humiliate Sai. It can make a person feel like a 3rd person or third wheel when two people gang up against one many a times.

When Ashwini called her home, Sai wasn’t in a position to fight or think too much. She did protest snd wasn’t happy but I am sure you would have seen that she was also depressed, had an accident. She was a girl who was tired mentally and physically. She agreed to move in but must have had many unsure thoughts and how things are going to be. Sai was about to move into Virats room when they returned home and it was Ashwini who asked her to move to a new room. Sometimes things will happen in a flow. If Virat continues to stay like this, Sai wouldn’t have any problem moving on with him and it would have happened naturally. Kaku talking about child and baby only freaked her out. When she couldn’t even think whether they can be husband and wife or not, how will she be able to think about child is my understanding. If you had noticed once while Shivani talks about how she did find her true love but hw wasn’t in her fate, Sai looked at Virat with a longing. She wants it but thinks that he probably doesn’t want it. And hence even though she would love to be his wife or mother of his child, she doesn’t allow or entertain such thoughts just so that she doesn’t fool herself by dreaming things which could never happen.

If Virat is worried that by him confessing, Sai might move away or leave him, she is also worried as how can she think of love between them when she knows about his past and when she isn’t sure of what her actual status is in his life now. It is very natural for her to think to not assume anything. In such things, it is easier for us to start believing that the other person likes us but it could all be wrong signals too and we might come to know that it was just our misunderstanding. Sai has this fear and hesitation which is stopping her.