Normal state of affairs in Chavan Niwas - Page 6

Originally posted by: Sofna

But she doesn't see Virat as devar. Never has.

She only sees him as a friend/(eyernal love of her life) whom she would drop every relationship with to be together with at the drop of a hat.

She's been consistent on only addressing him as her friend.

From what I'm gathering from the clips and few episodes I've watched, even though Ninand was devar he most likely wanted to marry BK after his elder brother'spassing, hence the continuous hints about Bk and Ninand relation.

@red: Yes, they could be seen like that, but many devars also end up marrying their babhi if their brother dies - so I don't think it could be equated to incest. It happens everywhere.

When it comes to love - we'd each act different depending on the person we are. And that's how life and people are. In one family no two siblings despite being born from the same parents, in the same household will turn out, react and respond the same.

I'm not here to defend PP. 😆

(Can't believe I have to add that)😲 🤣🤣

But from what I read on the forum was she agreed to go ahead with marriage with Samrat after Virat gave her the promise?

Yes I agree no two individuals are same but the values and morals are not different for different people. I mean to say what is right is right and what is wrong is wrong in which ever way you see.

I agree. The problem is her intentions. She can love virat her whole life, she can dream about him and she can imagine him in any way she wants . No one will question about morality and all because it is her feelings for him on which no one has control on. The problem comes when she hides behind one relationship and uses it to stay near him. Ok she bears the heartbreak of seeing him with another woman and moves on reluctantly with samrat, then also if she doesn’t cause hurt to others feelings it can be considered sacrifice! But here she pushed sai into peril not once but twice , she abetted her accidents. She is mentally and now physically harassing her so called lover in the name of friendship and giving hopes for her husband just to move closer to virat. What if this leads to heartbreak and depression for samrat. What if he does something unwanted with his life?! She is being reason for unrest in the family. Neither she considers herself a bahu of that family nor as a wife of samrat. She is using them completely. That’s where she falls low on morality! No ethics and borderline criminal.

Originally posted by: jyothijssager

But virat asked her to marry samrat his brother . Then did she not know what her relationship would be with virat . And virat promised her that he would always be her friend , he did not propose EMA. He promise he would live his life in celibacy because he thought he could never love anyone. Friendship is a fine thin line or relationship which becomes more sacred when it is between family members. Draupadi when her husbands and all the elders stood dumb sought Krishna for protection in the darbar hall where she was being insulted and she was derobed of her saree and Krishna protected her. During vanvas when saints arrived to have food and there was not a morsel of food to feed the rishis she uttered the name of Krishna and he came to help her. And when krishna was wounded by sudarahan chakra in the bhari sabha draupadi came running to tie the cloth tearing her dupatta.Did we ever hear any nonsense between their relationship.This is friendship. And about love , love is very sacred from our birth until death. Not limited to the notion of love between a girl and a boy as it is now regarded or shown.What she has for virat is not love. If it was as she claims to she wouldn't have agreed to marry samrat in the first place. She believes it or not he is the devar and she stays in chavan nivas as samrat wife. I don't want to use filthy language as her character does in the show for what she has for virat. Is she fulfilling her friendship. Are you really seeing that in the show. I don't even see virat doing that. If he really was then instead of putting everything under rags he should have helped her to come out of the turmoil she is in by disclosing everything and putting forth his intentions. Ninad respects bhavani to the core of next to mother. That's what I felt. Generally devars are regarded as brothers and sons that's what I meant. There may be certain circumstances, I don't know and don't want to indulge in. This is a show which is viewed all over and I think utter nonsense should not be shown or encouraged.

Yes I agree no two individuals are same but the values and morals are not different for different people. I mean to say what is right is right and what is wrong is wrong in which ever way you see.

@ red: This is the point where he encouraged her to move on with his brother at the same time held onto her for life. If he's not going to let anyone else into his heart (other than her) then what kind of a relationship was he going to maintain with his friend/lover/to be vahini in the same house?

I don't think it's worth comparing their friendship to Dr and Kr - I'm muslim so I only know Indian mythology from star plus (🙈😁) but yeh I saw a few tracks in mahabharat. Reiterating what I said in my earlier post - just like every person is different, every relationship they have with other's is different. Even the same parents cannot attest to loving all their children in the same way.

When she initially married - even though she opened her mouth at the wrong time (wedding night) she did try to maintain a basic decorum of her relationship. I think laksh mentions it in one of her posts that had Virat with his stapled mouth (at the wrong time) and whiny pendulum behaviour, hadn't encouraged her she wouldn't have started to see hope of being with him again.

I'm trying to see PP as a stand alone (despite mocking her the most 🤣)and cv's dramatising her and the actresses 0 'expressions'.

But is she truly only at fault here? She's been consistent in expressing what she wants in her behaviour. The depth she's been given to stoop has BK gang support and Virat's behaviour play a hamd in it too.

There's many a couple's who are in love but can cheat. There's many a couple's who are together through arrangement but are committed.

Humans aren't black and white and neither is life.

@Nethraa - I'll wait for Ashwini to divulge on the past before give BK and Ninand a clear slate 😆

I wanted to tag you too on my previous post