Umar foolishly has ruined his relationship with Tejran

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Over one single comment. He completely and totally has screwed up.


Here is how it goes - when Neha was non-stop targeting Umar, Teja came to his defense. His DEFENSE. She stepped in and asked Neha to not Target Umar saying Umar is emotionally vulnerable.


After everyone else had gone away, Umar confronted Teja - and dressed her down for saying he is emotionally vulnerable. He spoke very rudely to her, and did not acknowledge at all that she was trying to HELP help and trying to DEFEND him. He just stuck to that one comment and said - Mera dil pathhar hai. Frankly, woh dikhta nahi hai.


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Umar is a HUGE target for the Shamita gang. They all HATE him and would take him out in a moment. He needed friends and allies. And he the two most powerful people in the house as friends and allies.


And he just alienated them entirely over a single word.


This was an extremely foolish move. Being an individual hero is well and good. But in a game like Bigg Boss, there is greater strength in numbers.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Fine she took a stand for him but using the words venerable she should have been carefully he is a surgeon not without. A reason like her no bheja .

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: kooki07

Fine she took a stand for him but using the words venerable she should have been carefully he is a surgeon not without. A reason like her no bheja .


Shabd nahi sentiment dekho.


Eventually, you shouldn't blast someone when they are trying to help you. Basic etiquette. What will Umar achieve by alienating Tejran? He will only lose something, not gain.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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From which angle umar is emotionally vulnerable🤣 He is so sorted and knows what he is doing in BB.


Teja should stop acting like she is everyone's savior and will protect them. She thinks she will earn brownie point here too like in Rajiv's case.

Umar is no Rajiv who can't speak for himself.

He single handledly gave it back to Shamita, simba and Pratik and is currently seen as most powerful.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: naaznin

From which angle umar is emotionally vulnerable🤣 He is so sorted and knows what he is doing in BB.


Teja should stop acting like she is everyone's savior and will protect them. She thinks she will earn brownie point here too like in Rajiv's case.

Umar is no Rajiv who can't speak for himself.

He single handledly gave it back to Shamita, simba and Pratik and is currently seen as most powerful.


But why would you be angry by an act of friendship? He could have told this to Teja in a nice way as well.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mumbaikar007


But we would you be angry by an act of friendship. He could have told this to Teja in a nice way as well.


https://youtu.be/7ip30B_5-Ho

Umar was being dominated hence the outburst.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Why would anybody listen to something which he's not? He didn't utter a word to T infront of everyone. Instead he made his words clear when both were alone... because he respected his friendship with her. There's nothing wrong in saying it to your friend when you are not liking something which they think about you......


He's being independent and taking stand for himself. If it comes at the cost of someone's personal ego... No one is going to care. He didn't bash her or anything. He just said what he felt... And if standing up for oneself is not any important than a friendship formed in 6 weeks, I don't agree at all... Pehle khud deko... Kud ke liye Karo... Even when your friends are against you... If Teja's ego is hurt... It's her loss...

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Neha wasn't even talking about Umar . Teja dragged Umar into their argument

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Umar jitna is fake couple se door rahe utna hi uske liye behtar hoga, and if Umar has ruined his relationship with Tej-Ran then... 😆😎

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Here is how I view the situation: Umar and Teja do not have a friendship like that. They are only friends because of KK. The way she was "defending" him was not needed because in the defense she was actually insulting him by saying he is emotionally weak and vulnerable.


Why on earth would you say that after seeing him this week? The way he handled everyone one by one. When he gave it back to them, no one had anything left to say. He never asked her to defend him.


I'm glad he told her how he felt after everyone was gone. And even she understood and just said "okay." If he does snap at her again though, I think this will negatively affect him and KK's friendship because KK will prioritize Teja.

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