Originally posted by: Trina2021
Whatever you said here is true and if we think back about the scenarios after that ONs then him pushing Pallavi whom he claims to love the most away from him out of guilt for that accidental ONs while embracing the same woman he did that ONs with is beyond ridiculous . As I said multiple times b4 it’s like the comparison between his whiskey and wife when he told Pals that he loves her but he loves his whiskey too . He can’t leave either . Now having said that no matter what he says or does he did have emotional attachment to that Easha which made him spend that night in the same room with her .Did he intend to physically cheat his wife ? No he didn’t but yes by harboring feelings for his ex and acting upon it to the extent of breaking his promises to his wife and getting drunk with his ex as well as letting her get close to him physically without stopping her was Infact cheating and makers wanted to show that only . They wanted to show Raghav cheating on her emotionally no matter whether the FD accepts that or not . Yes physical cheating wasn’t something he planned to do and most likely got trapped by his ex but no Matter what he did cheat on her . There’s no denying that .
Now coming to the after ONs part . He was shown to be guilty of that ONs which he never intend to do and his guilt made him behave rudely with Pals but at the same he was soft with E and even gave her his shoulder to cry and accepted her not so decent proposals even tho normally he should’ve avoided her logically .
Now I see the entire scenario as he was divided between Pallavi and E . I hate to say this but I felt the makers wanted to show the scenario as he loves his wife but he can’t let go of his emotions for his ex gf . Now it’s not like he wanted to leave Pallavi for her or he desired to be with her and make a family kinda attachment . He was being protective of her and wanted to shield her from her miseries . Now that’s also something people do only for those whom they harbor strong feelings for and when a married man harbors such feelings for another woman Thats definitely cheating . His sudden outburst to E after her ex barged into D house was also bcoz he wanted her to go away so that he doesn’t have to interact with her everyday bcoz he knew her presence affected him and he was feeling guilty of cheating his wife emotionally. Now the makers made Pallavi to bring E into the mansion to show how RRs emotional connection to E affects the equation between him and his wife and it actually did change their equation completely ONLY bcoz of RRs feelings for that woman . RR asked E to leave but soon ate his own words and hugged her back to console her while in front of his wife he praised her for being a noble soul to be able to bring her hubby’s ex home . Why would he do that ? Bcoz he wanted E safe and under his own protection but his commitments to his wife wasn’t letting him do that . Here again he was stuck with 2 women and he wanted both of them around him for his own selfish reasons . After E came into RR mansion he was definitely cheating on Pals and he knew that very well but he was unable to control himself from caring for E . After sometime he became quite comfortable in the situation where his ex and his wife were. living under the same roof and he thought everything to be under control and that’s when Pals got to know the truth and his so-called IDEAL Situation backfired and he understood that in a realistic situation no man can co exist with his ex and wife under the same roof without complicating the situation . Now he wants Pallavi back but his ex is still in the house and he cannot even understand the fact that it won’t be possible for a wife to live under the same roof With another woman who slept with her husband . He’s still thinking about his own needs forgetting Pallavis .
In this entire situation only Keerti said when he should’ve understood long long ago but being RR he never cared . Today when he finds that fake doctor and knows about Es fake Suicide stunt he’s going to throw her out which he should’ve done since day 1 .
So yeah that’s how I see the entire situation now
You said it all my friend!!! Wanting both the women makes him the most indecent and shallow person on the earth…one is a desire which he is not willing to let go and another his prized possession which he wants at any costs….now what does this tell you about him??? Will he be ok if Pallavi had done the same thing…sleeping with Mandar and then asking Raghav to come and stay with the Deshmukhs coz she feels compelled to help Mandar???
Him expecting Pallavi to forgive and come back while Esha still stays in RR mansion itself is wronging Pallavi at multiple levels…it’s disturbing to even think how humiliating Pallavi must be feeling right now with Esha Raghav still in the same house…on Diwali when Esha said that Raghav gave her the rights which he should have given to Pallavi, we could literally see how hurt Pallavi was and this guy expects her to come and stay with him and face & live this situation day in day out…how insensitive he can get..he is doing nothing to rectify the wrong he has done but expects forgiveness…
I won’t wish anyone to get stuck or be in a relationship with a guy like Raghav…