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What I felt in the episode and why few people felt the disconnect from Sai is because of her previous new found feelings for Virat. If we leave alone BK's crap which anyone would be cringed if spoken in public, especially someone who is still working on their relationship, few things that question Sai's feelings are her complete rejection 'for a moment' atleast of their relation and Virat as her husband. I still believe what she spoke in that moment is not what she feels for him. As I mentioned in my review in Neerja's post, it could be her defense mechanism to reject any possibility of love between the two so she has 0 expectations to start with. This is very defining quality of Sai when it comes to their marriage.

May be we have to wait for today's and later episodes when she cools down and thinks. Sai is more mature and understanding than she shows it outside. And when it comes to Virat, she deliberately shuts her heart. It takes sometime for her to understand and analyze Virat's responses. I am sure she will see how Virat has responded to this situation. She has someone who is ready to play the game according to her rules. She will understand the reason why he is doing what he is doing. This one week will be crucial I think for Sai. The bubble of friendship is broken for sure, she has the seed in her mind and it will trigger her thought process.

Virat on the other hand, does not want to lose whatever little he shares with her. Her not leaving the protected environment of his house is his top priority. I think he is taking one day at a time, still hopeful that there is light at the end of the tunnel. But the difference i noted is, he is not assertive as a husband anymore. He is not stopping her as a husband to stay. Instead he is being accomodating as a friend which I think will send wrong signals to Sai. She will think as in precap he doesnt like the idea of being in the same room. we will have to wait and see how they reconcile their feelings.

PS: I absolutely got confused with the night before conversation of transfer in KD. But here writers are very patient in dealing with Sai's realization. That conversation indeed was very important but showing it in bits and peices here is even better.

I dont think Sai is rejecting Virat. I dont see her reaction or her words in this episode specifically as a rejection. I think if we imagined a situation where there was no pp n lets say confession had happened, Sai would still not be pleased about baby talk because right now she's just NOT in any position/mindspace to have a baby at this age n still in college... But right now Sai is not just a little embarrassed/caught off guard by baby talk but also incredibly hurt/angry at the way BK has spoken so callously and made her out to be this unwanted bahu whom they are all tolerating n in return the one thing Sai needs to do is give them a waaris - and the family's silence is like they also are accepting her words...

She is still coming to terms with where this relationship goes, trying to form atleast a bond of friendship first before anything else. She is his wife, she tried acting like one and had reached a point where she was behaving like his wife but since harinee bday pool conversation, she got a big jhatka. A brutal reminder of the truth.she shut down. But finally she gave him a chance again. And then anniversary happened- virats tragic story n yoga instructor words once again made her shut down. Then post anniversary Virat changed. He was always angry, frustrated, taunting, unhappy and Sai made her conclusion about why that was because he couldn't see sam-pp n was projecting all his anger on her and he saw Sai as the forced zimmedaro that has separated him from his true love - n so she left. Now she doesn't know what to feel. She knows Virat cares for her coz of the way he behaved in the hospital. But she doesn't know where her "marriage" will go. And she directly asked virat n he didn't know either... So they have turned to Ashwini- someone they both love, respect and trust and she has told them to have a fresh start as friends but they both know that they are still husband-wife. But the priority for both of them is their friendship, being there for each other.

And neithet of them want to lose that. They will both take whatever they can get.

For Sai though, the way she was spoken to, all this baby talk etc has impacted her very badly. So thats why in her anger, her response is - chuck this s**t, i should never have come back. All this "friendship" etc wont work out.

But she doesn't mean it like that. She is going to settle down as soon as Virat calms her down and reassures her that nobody else except both of them is going to dictate what relationship Sairat should share and what they have now and what they have in future is all only their private matter. And any progress in their relationship as spouses, physical intimacy etc will all only happen with Sai's consent and at a pace that Sai is comfortable with. Because he knows Sai is several steps behind him and Ashwini told him that she has been deliberately keeping her feelings at bay..

So after many past instances of Virat acting impulsive, getting provoked/manipulated against Sai, today for a change he is behaving as Sai's friend, her husband. His priority is her being safe and near him- not necessarily physically but remaining emotionally close. That they dont lose the headway they've made because his family is saying some crap to create a nuisance and that they continue to share things with each other. He knew what Sai would say and how she'd react so he didn't take it personally. Instead he is being patient. But I hope that he continues to do that and doesnt get impulsive again. Keeping 🤞.

Precap has her testing the waters- she is gauging his reactions- does he want her in his room or not, does he feel comfortable sharing space with her again or not, is he moving on past pp or not, does he want more than friendship or not ...

Originally posted by: sadiltl

What I felt in the episode and why few people felt the disconnect from Sai is because of her previous new found feelings for Virat. If we leave alone BK's crap which anyone would be cringed if spoken in public, especially someone who is still working on their relationship, few things that question Sai's feelings are her complete rejection 'for a moment' atleast of their relation and Virat as her husband. I still believe what she spoke in that moment is not what she feels for him. As I mentioned in my review in Neerja's post, it could be her defense mechanism to reject any possibility of love between the two so she has 0 expectations to start with. This is very defining quality of Sai when it comes to their marriage.

May be we have to wait for today's and later episodes when she cools down and thinks. Sai is more mature and understanding than she shows it outside. And when it comes to Virat, she deliberately shuts her heart. It takes sometime for her to understand and analyze Virat's responses. I am sure she will see how Virat has responded to this situation. She has someone who is ready to play the game according to her rules. She will understand the reason why he is doing what he is doing. This one week will be crucial I think for Sai. The bubble of friendship is broken for sure, she has the seed in her mind and it will trigger her thought process.

Virat on the other hand, does not want to lose whatever little he shares with her. Her not leaving the protected environment of his house is his top priority. I think he is taking one day at a time, still hopeful that there is light at the end of the tunnel. But the difference i noted is, he is not assertive as a husband anymore. He is not stopping her as a husband to stay. Instead he is being accomodating as a friend which I think will send wrong signals to Sai. She will think as in precap he doesnt like the idea of being in the same room. we will have to wait and see how they reconcile their feelings.

PS: I absolutely got confused with the night before conversation of transfer in KD. But here writers are very patient in dealing with Sai's realization. That conversation indeed was very important but showing it in bits and peices here is even better.

Today she was directly ordered to have sex to bring a baby.. Can you imagine how derogatory can be the situation for any woman 🤢..Even if she shared normal conjugal life with Virat it still would be very embarrassing for her.. She is made to feel that her worth is nothing less than a baby making machine..

However I am liking how writers are taking the time for Sai's realisation otherwise it would look completely illogical if Sai realises after what she had gone through.. Sorry I felt the transition period of Emon's realisation was rushed..

Sai is immature and impulsive mostly because of her age .However she is far sensible and thoughtful more than one can posses in this age.. She has better understanding about human psychology than Virat..

I have not watched the episode but from the posts it seems quite sad and cringe worthy