Pyaar ya gussa..... - Page 2

Originally posted by: PSharada

With all due respect are you watching the track? How are you saying that Raghav is treating Pallavi as a trophy while he is trying to win her forgiveness. He is not like Mandar who kept on wanting Pallavi back even after Pallavi's second marriage to Raghav was legal and Pallavi herself declared time and again that she was Raghav's file. In reality people like Mandar should be subjected to restraining order not Raghav.

Anyway each to its own - My views are totally different to others so let's agree to disagree.

No, I am not watching, but I saw the precap and what Raghav said is not acceptable. If Mandar were not in prison, a restraining order for him might be necessary but not effective. It's not either Mandar or Raghav - both can be wrong.

Raghav deserved a restraining order as soon as he showed up at Pallavi's shop and tore a saree after previously setting fire to her raw material upon finding out that she defended Kirti against Harish. That established a pattern of stalking and harassment of Pallavi by Raghav.

Originally posted by: BrhannadaArmour

No, I am not watching, but I saw the precap and what Raghav said is not acceptable. If Mandar were not in prison, a restraining order for him might be necessary but not effective. It's not either Mandar or Raghav - both can be wrong.

Raghav deserved a restraining order as soon as he showed up at Pallavi's shop and tore a saree after previously setting fire to her raw material upon finding out that she defended Kirti against Harish. That established a pattern of stalking and harassment of Pallavi by Raghav.

@bold :- I have nothing to say to your post as you have admitted that you are not watching the show but are basing your assumptions on after watching the precap. So we definitely are going to be on 2 different perspectives because I am basing my thoughts after watching the whole episode and not just one scene. Let's agree to disagree. I would not be commenting to your post. Peace

Originally posted by: BrhannadaArmour

So, Raghav has declared that what he feels will win and what Pallavi feels will lose. Once again, he's treating her like a trophy and not a person whose decisions he must respect. In real life, a man like Raghav would be subjected to a restraining order, and a woman like Pallavi might even go into hiding with a new identity to escape from his obsession.

What was even the point of his alter ego coming and asking him to give respect to Pallavi’s choice…

Gussa…how daft is this guy who is not able to see her hurt and pain…she clearly told him he broke her the way she has never been..she feels dead…how much will it take for him to understand her pain…but no he has to see it as gussa only so that he gets a chance to pacify her…

If for a second he realizes her pain and suffering he has put her through, he will step back and let her make the choice…

But this is Raghav The Selfish Rao we are talking about…

And did he return to RR mansion without even knowing where she went…he kept saying he wants her safe, he can’t let her like this while searching her and when he returned home he tells Amma that he could not find her…

So tomorrow he is at Deshmukhs after Vijay informs him…so that means he ditched her in that condition and returned home without even knowing her whereabouts and safety…so much so for his claim of being in love…Pathetic Guy…

Pallavi is right…he is a ajnabi now…a complete stranger that I have no clue about..the way he contradicts himself with every passing minute is glaring…

@Bold: But according to some that is idealistic world not the real one..

Originally posted by: Anu1975

What was even the point of his alter ego coming and asking him to give respect to Pallavi’s choice…

Gussa…how daft is this guy who is not able to see her hurt and pain…she clearly told him he broke her the way she has never been..she feels dead…how much will it take for him to understand her pain…but no he has to see it as gussa only so that he gets a chance to pacify her…

If for a second he realizes her pain and suffering he has put her through, he will step back and let her make the choice…

But this is Raghav The Selfish Rao we are talking about…

And did he return to RR mansion without even knowing where she went…he kept saying he wants her safe, he can’t let her like this while searching her and when he returned home he tells Amma that he could not find her…

So tomorrow he is at Deshmukhs after Vijay informs him…so that means he ditched her in that condition and returned home without even knowing her whereabouts and safety…so much so for his claim of being in love…Pathetic Guy…

Pallavi is right…he is a ajnabi now…a complete stranger that I have no clue about..the way he contradicts himself with every passing minute is glaring…

@Bold: But according to some that is idealistic world not the real one..

100% you're stating fact.

Atlast we can say RAGHAV rao being RAGHAV rao a selfish man who can make promise but can't keep it .

Originally posted by: PSharada

@bold :- I have nothing to say to your post as you have admitted that you are not watching the show but are basing your assumptions on after watching the precap. So we definitely are going to be on 2 different perspectives because I am basing my thoughts after watching the whole episode and not just one scene. Let's agree to disagree. I would not be commenting to your post. Peace

How cute you are Sharada 🤗🤗🤗

Raghav ko suli pe taang dete hai chalo. He deserves that. Why to waste jail space tsk tsk tsk.

How dare he go behind his wife to clarify what exactly happened and ask for forgiveness. Murjim ko safai ka mauka nai milta aur maafi jaise kuch cheez nai hoti in Mhrw world.

Originally posted by: Anu1975

What was even the point of his alter ego coming and asking him to give respect to Pallavi’s choice…

How often has Raghav ever listened to Luṅgīvālā Raghav? It might be 50-50.

Advised by Luṅgīvālā Raghav to think about why Vijay wasn't persuaded by his recanting his defamation of Pallavi, and advised to talk honestly with Pallavi, Raghav went to Pallavi to deflect the blame for believing his defamation onto the entire Deshmukh family as a bunch of selfish egoistic people (the same words he had said to Vijay about Pallavi shortly before).

Advised by Luṅgīvālā Raghav to spy on Pallavi through the CCTV system, Raghav objected, but soon agreed.

Asked by Luṅgīvālā Raghav if he didn't feel any shame about lying to Pallavi about the hit-and-run, Raghav went on obstructing justice and tampered with a witness.

Then Luṅgīvālā Raghav pushed him to drink more alcohol and figure out Pallavi's coded message.

I stopped watching at this point, but maybe someone can continue the list.

Originally posted by: joliefemme

Raghav ko suli pe taang dete hai chalo. He deserves that. Why to waste jail space tsk tsk tsk.

How dare he go behind his wife to clarify what exactly happened and ask for forgiveness. Murjim ko safai ka mauka nai milta aur maafi jaise kuch cheez nai hoti in Mhrw world.

Does the precap tell you that Raghav has anything left to clarify, or something new or significant to say? Or is he just repeating the logic that "I love you, so you have to forgive me" - and maybe the same excuses that "I was drunk, she means nothing, I lied because I didn't want to hurt you" etc.?

At some point, he will have said everything that there is to say, and Pallavi has the right to reply that she's not interested in hearing it again, she's not interested in punishing or redeeming him, and she is ignoring him because she prefers her life without him.

The idea that if a woman says no, a man should keep asking the same question is toxic masculinity. Pallavi has told Raghav her answer and he's not entitled to a chance to browbeat her because he doesn't like her free choice.

Originally posted by: BrhannadaArmour

How often has Raghav ever listened to Luṅgīvālā Raghav? It might be 50-50.

Advised by Luṅgīvālā Raghav to think about why Vijay wasn't persuaded by his recanting his defamation of Pallavi, and advised to talk honestly with Pallavi, Raghav went to Pallavi to deflect the blame for believing his defamation onto the entire Deshmukh family as a bunch of selfish egoistic people (the same words he had said to Vijay about Pallavi shortly before).

Advised by Luṅgīvālā Raghav to spy on Pallavi through the CCTV system, Raghav objected, but soon agreed.

Asked by Luṅgīvālā Raghav if he didn't feel any shame about lying to Pallavi about the hit-and-run, Raghav went on obstructing justice and tampered with a witness.

Then Luṅgīvālā Raghav pushed him to drink more alcohol and figure out Pallavi's coded message.

I stopped watching at this point, but maybe someone can continue the list.

Lol…So moral of the story…a person who doesn’t listen to his own consciousness can never truly change…

Pallavi’s word Insaan badal sanktha hai, uski fidrath nahi…

Never trust a person who cheats himself…

Originally posted by: joliefemme

How cute you are Sharada 🤗🤗🤗

Raghav ko suli pe taang dete hai chalo. He deserves that. Why to waste jail space tsk tsk tsk.

How dare he go behind his wife to clarify what exactly happened and ask for forgiveness. Murjim ko safai ka mauka nai milta aur maafi jaise kuch cheez nai hoti in Mhrw world.

He is not asking for forgiveness; rather, he is telling her that he will not stop until she forgives him. He simply does not respect her decision or show enough consideration to give her some space.

Being that obnoxious even after you've broken the girl and she says no isn't love; it's downright emotional blackmail.

This constant wallowing in self-pity is not cool at all, it's like threatening to commit suicide if someone doesn't reciprocate your love. He's causing Pallavi more emotional stress and pain than he's healing .

Originally posted by: Couch.Potato

He is not asking for forgiveness; rather, he is telling her that he will not stop until she forgives him. He simply does not respect her decision or show enough consideration to give her some space.

Arre but we always know, he does this. Even in the idealogies clash, he was adamant that he wouldn't change his ways. Pallavi had to take a bullet open his "eyes". Raghav has not respected Pallavi enough to give due considerations to her decisons. Being a damn stalker wouldn't earn you forgiveness rather it is unbecoming of a good human being to behave like that.

Being that obnoxious even after you've broken the girl and she says no isn't love; it's downright emotional blackmail.

Emotional blackmail humara Janam sidh aadhikar hai😎 The Husband is always right. R lives 1829 not 2021. Sadne do wahi pe😃Esha ke saath.

This constant wallowing in self-pity is not cool at all, it's like threatening to commit suicide if someone doesn't reciprocate your love. He's causing Pallavi more emotional stress and pain than he's healing.

Nobody understansds Raghav's guilt 😭This is what we are expected to say. He didnot make a mistake, it was his choice. And I am happy he realised that. Thank God for small mercies🤪 As I said somewhere before, duniya khatam ho jayegi par Raghav Rao ki guilt khaatam nahi hogi 😌

It is bigger than River Nile, ya know😈

In simple words, he needs a psychiatrist not a lover or wife.