I,m agree with each and every point of yours except one that pallavi ne raghav ke liye apni feelings ko accept kar liya tha or wo usse pyar karti thi is liye usne raghav ko chance diya bcs if you remember jab raghav or pallavi first time room share karte hain or raghav pallavi se uski wishes ke bare me puchta hai to wo use vatsavitri ka fast rakhne ke liye kehta hai but pallavi usse qus karti hai ke wo fast kyu karegi I mean pallavi ne to raghav ko us time as husband bhi accept nahi kiya tha wo to after that mirchi incident use raghav par trust hua tha ke wo actually serious hai pallavi ko uski family se milane ke liye pallavi ke liye change hone ke liye or after that raghav ne uske liye or uski family ke liye jo kuch bhi kiya iske baad pallavi ko raghav se pyar hua
May be I,m wrong but everyone has diff pov about pallavi bcs makers ne kabhi bhi pallavi ki feelings ko show hi nahi kiya or ye hi reason hai ke viewers pallavi ke sath vaise connect nahi ho paye jaise raghav ke sath hain.