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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: fatssrilanka

My blood boiled when I read it. How people find different ways and means to criticise Virat and defend Sai. These people should get an award since their brains are so creative. This friendship will not go for long. I'm sure Virat will take his transfer. Of course,she was flirting but I didn't find anything romantic about it. I don't know why, I might be wrong. Maybe because she's not accepting him as a husband and you can't behave this way with your friend. And, another thing is she doesn't want to get tied up in a relation. She doesn't want Virat to claim his rights and that's why she's happy with being simply friends.

Can you believe people blamed Virat for his behavior after anniversary kand and said he shouldn’t have been so rude to her . These are the same people who were screaming for new ML when Virat questioned Sai with Ajinkya . When it comes to Sai , Virat should be indifferent but still should his care and love for her . So Sai questioning his character and accusing of him being unhappy for Samrat is no big deal but other way around is an abuse . Can you expect fairness from these people ?


Let’s say there was a role reversal and Virat wanted a friends with benefits kind of relationship where he would not commit but expect Sai to be behave like his partner then what would have people called him ? Sai is doing the same but it’s Virat who should understand, give her time while still fulfilling her expectations. When he takes transfer people will blame him saying he pressurized Sai

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: fatssrilanka

Now, I really wish Bhavani Kaku takes this matter into her hands. I don't mind if she behaves sternly with Sai. I hope she gives her an ultimatum to either accept this relation or divorce Virat and leave Chavan Mansion. And, then she'll start searching for a prospective bride for Virat.

Agree . Since Sai is been loved by all she can stay back in CN till she is independent even after divorce but she should start the bride hunt for Virat . If she wants to stay in CN as Virat’s friend then she cannot be his wife and expect him to wait for her without knowing what would happen after she completes her studies
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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

Can you believe people blamed Virat for his behavior after anniversary kand and said he shouldn’t have been so rude to her . These are the same people who were screaming for new ML when Virat questioned Sai with Ajinkya . When it comes to Sai , Virat should be indifferent but still should his care and love for her . So Sai questioning his character and accusing of him being unhappy for Samrat is no big deal but other way around is an abuse . Can you expect fairness from these people ?


Let’s say there was a role reversal and Virat wanted a friends with benefits kind of relationship where he would not commit but expect Sai to be behave like his partner then what would have people called him ? Sai is doing the same but it’s Virat who should understand, give her time while still fulfilling her expectations. When he takes transfer people will blame him saying he pressurized Sai

Yes,exactly. When it comes to Sai everything should be forgiven and forgotten,but it's different for Virat. If there wad a role reversal people would have made a big issue but since it's Sai thingd are different. She should be given time. For what does she need time? People will accuse him when he'll take his transfer but he shouldn't bother. They don't have any other work so they'll anyway criticise him.

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Posted: 4 years ago

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Agree . Since Sai is been loved by all she can stay back in CN till she is independent even after divorce but she should start the bride hunt for Virat . If she wants to stay in CN as Virat’s friend then she cannot be his wife and expect him to wait for her without knowing what would happen after she completes her studies

She wants the cake and eat it too. How can that be possible? Everytime she can't have the upper hand.

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Posted: 4 years ago

After seeing today’s episode, I have only one thing to say about Sai . SHe doesn’t respect Virat at all either as a friend or as a wife . She treats him like a ghulam period . The way she insulted him infront of Sunny without listening to anything was so humiliating. I pity Virat . If Sai was not a FL then people would definitely consider as unworthy to be Virat’s wife . If she has issues then she can question him but she insults him because she has taken him for granted . KJ might be a great man but he failed to teach Sai to respect others .


Virat cannot be indifferent to her when she misbehaves then she will bring his past and say he is indifferent because of the past . If he tries to move away she will not allow that and if he reacts then she will leave the home and all will gang up against him . Virat definitely lacks spine because he doesn’t give it back to her . Probably for the first time I feel Emon was tolerable than Sai .

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Posted: 4 years ago

I agree with you Nitu

I strongly feel Kamal Joshi pampered her too much and allowed her to be brash and stubborn. In real life we never allow our daughters to become Sai Joshi like. I won’t.

The way she insulted Virat without even bothering to know who spoke what,I genuinely feel Virat is doing futile exercise ,waiting to see realisation in her. I hope he gets a call from DIG. I so wish he should move away from her for a longer period.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

I agree with you Nitu

I strongly feel Kamal Joshi pampered her too much and allowed her to be brash and stubborn. In real life we never allow our daughters to become Sai Joshi like. I won’t.

The way she insulted Virat without even bothering to know who spoke what,I genuinely feel Virat is doing futile exercise ,waiting to see realisation in her. I hope he gets a call from DIG. I so wish he should move away from her for a longer period.

I second that . When he is moving I didn’t want any nok jhok there . Virat has to be clear . Sai wants his family but not him so for her betterment he is leaving the city so that she can get his parents love and is not forced to be his wife .


I am sorry to say but I wasn’t moved by her breakdown . It feels like she comes up with random reasons everytime . She doesn’t know what’s her real problem. If this marriage was a deal , forced and doesn’t mean anything to her then why did she complain that he is leaving his wife behind when Virat took the transfer . Then she became his wife but now she refers this marriage as sham . Please Sai decide whether you need Virat as a husband or not . If Sai wants him only as her friend then she needs to let Virat decide if she is ready for that arrangement

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

After seeing today’s episode, I have only one thing to say about Sai . SHe doesn’t respect Virat at all either as a friend or as a wife . She treats him like a ghulam period . The way she insulted him infront of Sunny without listening to anything was so humiliating. I pity Virat . If Sai was not a FL then people would definitely consider as unworthy to be Virat’s wife . If she has issues then she can question him but she insults him because she has taken him for granted . KJ might be a great man but he failed to teach Sai to respect others .


Virat cannot be indifferent to her when she misbehaves then she will bring his past and say he is indifferent because of the past . If he tries to move away she will not allow that and if he reacts then she will leave the home and all will gang up against him . Virat definitely lacks spine because he doesn’t give it back to her . Probably for the first time I feel Emon was tolerable than Sai .

You have written exactly how I feel. I hate Sai. I don't know how Virat tolerates her tantrums. She has always taken him for granted. She never respected him. Kamal Joshi failed as a father since he couldn't teach her basic manners.

Sai Joshi knows how to manipulate Virat. She treats him as a deal husband, as a friend and becomes his wife according to her convenience and Virat is so much in love with her that he does what she wants.

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