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Originally posted by: Apsvenky

Exactly - the parallel will be show how Adi was affected both times. In the last situation, he encouraged Malini to leave and was in fact relieved. Here he will be extremely worried and even to the extent of getting smart to find out why Imlie was behaving the way she did.

As for SK - I think Adi will forgive him and take back the case, as he will feel that SK was justified then, to doubt Malini, but now Malini has changed, so she will not do anything like that again - My opinion and theory.

I think U could be right about the whole SK thing. I just know the next few days will be tough to watch . Only hope that epi on Diwali won’t want me to strangle anyone 😂😂😂😂

I want to see how they handle the whole KC breaking of fast… I know Adilie will break together but I want to see Didi try and how they handle it. The writers have to be very sensitive . Trp is already dropping and if they screw up something so sacred to an Indian woman then I think half the trp aunties would leave

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

RD - no one is whacking you about anything - so please do not worry about what you say.

I have always said this before and I reiterate - this is a safe space for everyone here, as I have added only people who would prefer to have a logical discussion rather than accuse or shame someone for having a different opinion.

See Adi I feel has every right to say what she did - even if Imlie was accusing Malini, she should have done it in private rather than in front of the whole family. She should have been smarter than Malini, especially since she knows that DD is doing all this purposefully.

My issue is with Imlie - her frustration of not being able to prove her point is what is causing this mess. Imlie is not able to think straight and use her brains, which have now been fogged with the anger that no one is believing her, despite she being right.

I see this going 2 ways - either Imlie will breakdown and just say she wants to leave with SK and take a break (parallel to Malini leaving after the sindoor kand) or withdraw into herself and just not allow Adi or anyone else from the family to interact with her till she sorts her feeling out. Both situations will drive Adi crazy enough to do something to get Imlie out of this funk, which will help to DD's downfall.

Sorry I forgot to say oh yes don’t worry I am not scared to throw out my bakwas ideas here 🤦‍♀️😂😂😂… u ladies are the best ❤️

I have a very stupid and bakwass theory… let’s say Didi ruins KC by like I said fainting etc cos she wants adi to feed her water and then show concern about the baby cos she didn’t eat blah blah… she hopes this would keep him from breaking imlie fast of course whilst pretending to be a good caring sister. The plan fails and adI goes to break his baby wife fast and there is our heart broken imlie who feels Didi plan this round again worked. She breaks her fast and she finds out he also fasted and they eat together and he asks her what she wants and she asks for one thing. His saath to prove Didi hasn’t changed . Just once and if it fails she will never accuse Didi again. He reluctantly agree and through this Didi still won’t be pf but adI noticed something that gets his antenna up?

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

RD - no one is whacking you about anything - so please do not worry about what you say.

I have always said this before and I reiterate - this is a safe space for everyone here, as I have added only people who would prefer to have a logical discussion rather than accuse or shame someone for having a different opinion.

See Adi I feel has every right to say what she did - even if Imlie was accusing Malini, she should have done it in private rather than in front of the whole family. She should have been smarter than Malini, especially since she knows that DD is doing all this purposefully.

My issue is with Imlie - her frustration of not being able to prove her point is what is causing this mess. Imlie is not able to think straight and use her brains, which have now been fogged with the anger that no one is believing her, despite she being right.

I see this going 2 ways - either Imlie will breakdown and just say she wants to leave with SK and take a break (parallel to Malini leaving after the sindoor kand) or withdraw into herself and just not allow Adi or anyone else from the family to interact with her till she sorts her feeling out. Both situations will drive Adi crazy enough to do something to get Imlie out of this funk, which will help to DD's downfall.

Always lovely to read your thoughts, Aps, Juvvi ji, Wizard ji & others. ❤️

As far as your predictions go, Aps, I don’t think the first one is likely. Imlie won’t leave at this juncture for the simple reason that she ain’t a quitter. Even in situations when she should step back or give up for the sake of her own self, she keeps the welfare of those she loves ahead. It’s as admirable a trait as it’s frustrating because it usually comes at the cost of her self-respect. 😔 Until Malini’s exposed, she won’t leave her family susceptible to her manipulations, Adi in particular. She has something to prove now. I just hope she realizes she needs to think at an elevated level and quietly find solid evidence of Malini’s wrongdoings.

That being said, I can’t fault her wanting to go to Adi time and time again with no proof. It all comes down to one thing — trust. Why should I have to prove myself to my partner at all? How could he not stand by me when I need him to, for his own sake? Why does he keep me putting me in a position where I need to question the most fundamental level of faith he places in me? These are the questions running through her mind, and I really don’t blame her. She’s only human. All things considered, she’s still handling this situation with far more grace and willpower than anyone else in her place would.

I definitely think your second prediction will come true. Imlie will withdraw herself emotionally from Adi. This time, it’s also possible Adi won’t chase her for at least a little while because he feels he’s right from his point of view. He’s hurt that Imlie keeps dragging Malini between them, refusing to go into the crux of the matter. They are at an impasse, but his pigheadedness is going to cost him big time. I’m quite sure Imlie will take time to heal even after the truth comes out. It’s going to be a steady climb back to normal for them, and I’d be excited to see that if the makers execute it well.

Originally posted by: Rollingdeep

Aree that’s fine.. actually I pity them both .. both are right in some aspects and imlie has always been the shot first ask questions later.. I don’t think this girl will learn.. sigh but it’s ok tell us your point pls

RD.. i was so mad yesterday with the way whole scene went.. i was expecting better... i feel such a disconnect in the imlie n aditya in Pranav kaand and then in couple episodes they have forgotten the lessons learnt...

Its the same situation imlie n malini had.. malini told her go tell everyone i have drugged the prashad and then she went and acted on it and then Imlie was insulted...

Its like dejavu.. same lines.. same reaction.. same outcome... itne mein toh robots bhi sikh jaate hai..being a woman we tend to be biased towards female characters but imlie has always been a superb balance of naivete and intelligence... her capacity to learn and learn a lot has always been there..

this girl always shows calmer mind in the worst situations... ex.. she remembered number plate of the vn just before aditya was kidnapped before PD3..

She learns from her mistakes ex pranav.. she tried exposing him in front of Rupi but when she didnt have proof she made a complete plan to just make sure he doesnt get what he wants..

they were healing and heading in right direction.. he got the divorce papers signed.. but imlie is right now stuck.. i get it you expect your partner to believe you but blind trust is never a good idea..be it spouses or friends.. these two are expecting other one to understand them without any basis..

Go back to KC kand... how patient aditya was when he was trying to get imlie out of Malini jaap? there KC was right in front of imlie.. she still refused to believe that malini is seing someone... but right now she expects aditya to just assume malini is wrong when on the contrary Malini has signed the divorce papers...

If we just forget our love for Imlie and only see what the charac ter is seeing... Aditya is bound to get frustated.. he is trying to mend a broken relationship but the other side is not ready to leave the hurt..

right now Imlie is playing gamble with her and Adityas relationship... and the same will be done tomorrow by Aditya when he will not let Malini go...

Aditya was right when he said there is a competition going on.. but its not between Imlie n Malini.. its between aditya and imlie.. where they r stuck to prove their point to the other... one will have to bow down or something will snap..

Originally posted by: jperalta

Always lovely to read your thoughts, Aps, Juvvi ji, Wizard ji & others. ❤️

As far as your predictions go, Aps, I don’t think the first one is likely. Imlie won’t leave at this juncture for the simple reason that she ain’t a quitter. Even in situations when she should step back or give up for the sake of her own self, she keeps the welfare of those she loves ahead. It’s as admirable a trait as it’s frustrating because it usually comes at the cost of her self-respect. 😔 Until Malini’s exposed, she won’t leave her family susceptible to her manipulations, Adi in particular. She has something to prove now. I just hope she realizes she needs to think at an elevated level and quietly find solid evidence of Malini’s wrongdoings.

That being said, I can’t fault her wanting to go to Adi time and time again with no proof. It all comes down to one thing — trust. Why should I have to prove myself to my partner at all? How could he not stand by me when I need him to, for his own sake? Why does he keep me putting me in a position where I need to question the most fundamental level of faith he places in me? These are the questions running through her mind, and I really don’t blame her. She’s only human. All things considered, she’s still handling this situation with far more grace and willpower than anyone else in her place would.

I definitely think your second prediction will come true. Imlie will withdraw herself emotionally from Adi. This time, it’s also possible Adi won’t chase her for at least a little while because he feels he’s right from his point of view. He’s hurt that Imlie keeps dragging Malini between them, refusing to go into the crux of the matter. They are at an impasse, but his pigheadedness is going to cost him big time. I’m quite sure Imlie will take time to heal even after the truth comes out. It’s going to be a steady climb back to normal for them, and I’d be excited to see that if the makers execute it well.

Aps, Juvvi9,rollingdeep, wizardji,JP- loved reading your takes. I am exhausted. I cannot believe I am saying this. But I truly am. You all have said pretty much all that comes to my mind at this point. I will be honest- at this point- every situation is looking forced and contrived for the sake of stretching Malini track. What Imlie is doing is not making it fun, what AKT is doing is making it frustrating, What Malini is doing is beyond disgusting! So yeah! I forwarded the episode yesterday and I will continue to do so until either Malini leaves or Imlie leaves or AKT is kidnapped yet again..mutlab AKt toh can't leave na..😆

@Bold: JP to your point- more than trust I think it is about believing. AKT just cannot believe Malini is a psycho. Now why is he not believing Imlie- because nothing really solid has come forth yet that will make him believe that. Hell she even signed the divorce papers, right- then on what basis is Imlie saying Malini is out there to get him! The thick head ka confidence usko le doobega that is a given. As for Imlie, yes she is human and right now what she is doing is all very intuitive. She wants to avoid another Janmashtmi kaand. And she will not be able to, because of her impulse, Malini's ploy and AKT's dumbness. The girl is legit tired and her bulbwa's filament is dwindling...rightly so, she is the only one who knows the truth and literally no ones wants to believe it. Even NN yesterday was giving Malini the benefit of doubt. If you think of it, if Malini would have not openly challenged Imlie from the beginning, even Imlie would have never in her wildest dreams thought that Malini is basically now a psycho!

During the Pranav track, we did see Imlie thinking before really reacting. But now she has gone back to being hasty because she knows anything bigger than rape can only mean devastation! For a moment let's say AKT says ok Imlie I believe you, what happens next? He goes and confronts Malini- will she succumb under pressure, No! Then what? Believe Imlie's instincts and send Malini away to her parents- yes that can be done, but that still does not keep Malini's dimaag in check! AKT ka male ego- that again Malini aisi ho hi nahi sakti...and acting more idealistic than ever like no one can break us apart, just to prove to Imlie that Malini can never affect their relationship..is making him say no to sending Malini back...

They both are now puppets in the hand of Malini! Unfortunately. But like I said in my other post- I really think this is it. The strings are gonna snap causing both to fall and Malini to loose control.

Like I said- the entire situation is now forced. Imlie does not have to try this hard and AKT does not have to be so ignorant. But here we are!

Originally posted by: _Seera_

RD.. i was so mad yesterday with the way whole scene went.. i was expecting better... i feel such a disconnect in the imlie n aditya in Pranav kaand and then in couple episodes they have forgotten the lessons learnt...

Its the same situation imlie n malini had.. malini told her go tell everyone i have drugged the prashad and then she went and acted on it and then Imlie was insulted...

Its like dejavu.. same lines.. same reaction.. same outcome... itne mein toh robots bhi sikh jaate hai..being a woman we tend to be biased towards female characters but imlie has always been a superb balance of naivete and intelligence... her capacity to learn and learn a lot has always been there..

this girl always shows calmer mind in the worst situations... ex.. she remembered number plate of the vn just before aditya was kidnapped before PD3..

She learns from her mistakes ex pranav.. she tried exposing him in front of Rupi but when she didnt have proof she made a complete plan to just make sure he doesnt get what he wants..

they were healing and heading in right direction.. he got the divorce papers signed.. but imlie is right now stuck.. i get it you expect your partner to believe you but blind trust is never a good idea..be it spouses or friends.. these two are expecting other one to understand them without any basis..

Go back to KC kand... how patient aditya was when he was trying to get imlie out of Malini jaap? there KC was right in front of imlie.. she still refused to believe that malini is seing someone... but right now she expects aditya to just assume malini is wrong when on the contrary Malini has signed the divorce papers...

If we just forget our love for Imlie and only see what the charac ter is seeing... Aditya is bound to get frustated.. he is trying to mend a broken relationship but the other side is not ready to leave the hurt..

right now Imlie is playing gamble with her and Adityas relationship... and the same will be done tomorrow by Aditya when he will not let Malini go...

Aditya was right when he said there is a competition going on.. but its not between Imlie n Malini.. its between aditya and imlie.. where they r stuck to prove their point to the other... one will have to bow down or something will snap..

Tagging the rest

Originally posted by: Rollingdeep

I have a very stupid and bakwass theory… let’s say Didi ruins KC by like I said fainting etc cos she wants adi to feed her water and then show concern about the baby cos she didn’t eat blah blah… she hopes this would keep him from breaking imlie fast of course whilst pretending to be a good caring sister. The plan fails and adI goes to break his baby wife fast and there is our heart broken imlie who feels Didi plan this round again worked. She breaks her fast and she finds out he also fasted and they eat together and he asks her what she wants and she asks for one thing. His saath to prove Didi hasn’t changed . Just once and if it fails she will never accuse Didi again. He reluctantly agree and through this Didi still won’t be pf but adI noticed something that gets his antenna up?

RD, I think Seera explained it in the best way.. They both aren't trying to see what the other one is trying to show.. Ohh i was so dreading they'll go the pre janmashtmi way n they did but lyk its literally copy paste.. Not a thing learnt.. I too pity both of them but I really feel this time imlie being impulsive is not gonna help. Siding with Adi for the day. She wont leave ..Adi wont say her to leave ..Separation ko goli maaro even if miscarriage drama..

Just a thought saw the scene where imlie and NN try to shut up AC by saying that Pandit ji in PD said that one murder was written in imllie's kundali... This scene was in front of all T ladies...So are they really planning for miscarriage drama..??And ye bhi samajh se baher hai ki what will M get even if she is successful in plan to make imlie seem insecure/paranoid??How will the khoon ka rishta come here??(Call me stupid but i take it as there is no baccha n she is faking it).

Wanted to smack imlie after watching the spoiler(didn't watch the epi completely yet) ..Its such a disconnect as everyone is saying from pranav's week.. I'm not able to understand even if they want to drag they can show imlie keeping things to herself not jumping in trying to show M's true intentions even if she know.. They can show her failing even at that(like M coming ready with counterattack) if they want some stupid contrived drama..

Sorry for repeating all what u guys have said..

Itna rinse/repeat and throwing idiotic parallels in the way kar rahe to please ab result different kardein..It is becoming tiresome.

They better clear this to some extent before the new entry.. kucn naya refreshing badla angle chahiye ..

Done with my rant .. I know pehle epi dekhna chahiye but couldn't resist putting up my thoughts here

Originally posted by: Juvvi9

RD, I think Seera explained it in the best way.. They both aren't trying to see what the other one is trying to show.. Ohh i was so dreading they'll go the pre janmashtmi way n they did but lyk its literally copy paste.. Not a thing learnt.. I too pity both of them but I really feel this time imlie being impulsive is not gonna help. Siding with Adi for the day. She wont leave ..Adi wont say her to leave ..Separation ko goli maaro even if miscarriage drama..

Just a thought saw the scene where imlie and NN try to shut up AC by saying that Pandit ji in PD said that one murder was written in imllie's kundali... This scene was in front of all T ladies...So are they really planning for miscarriage drama..??And ye bhi samajh se baher hai ki what will M get even if she is successful in plan to make imlie seem insecure/paranoid??How will the khoon ka rishta come here??(Call me stupid but i take it as there is no baccha n she is faking it).

Wanted to smack imlie after watching the spoiler(didn't watch the epi completely yet) ..Its such a disconnect as everyone is saying from pranav's week.. I'm not able to understand even if they want to drag they can show imlie keeping things to herself not jumping in trying to show M's true intentions even if she know.. They can show her failing even at that(like M coming ready with counterattack) if they want some stupid contrived drama..

Sorry for repeating all what u guys have said..

Itna rinse/repeat and throwing idiotic parallels in the way kar rahe to please ab result different kardein..It is becoming tiresome.

They better clear this to some extent before the new entry.. kucn naya refreshing badla angle chahiye ..

Done with my rant .. I know pehle epi dekhna chahiye but couldn't resist putting up my thoughts here

Agreed, Juvvi ji. The exhaustion of this track really is something. I am sure all of us would prefer just about any damn plot device as long as they end this one. Sucked the joy out of everyone and adilie. 😒

It’s the same cycle with the makers.. a really bad episode, followed by a couple of above average ones, then a great one, then repeat. Bahaut dekh li versatility — conclude this track now, kaise bhi karke. 😒

Thank god for you all 🤗, otherwise I wouldn’t be able to hold on to any optimism at all.

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

Exactly - the parallel will be show how Adi was affected both times. In the last situation, he encouraged Malini to leave and was in fact relieved. Here he will be extremely worried and even to the extent of getting smart to find out why Imlie was behaving the way she did.

As for SK - I think Adi will forgive him and take back the case, as he will feel that SK was justified then, to doubt Malini, but now Malini has changed, so she will not do anything like that again - My opinion and theory.

Another parallel based on precap, Didi trying to emulate when imlie left for adini happiness and now Didi leaving for Adilie happiness… this is frankly nauseating cos imlie left with a pure heart and well Didi is the devil reincarnate and that is why her plan will fail. She might make adi run around looking for her and so will imlie but they will

Do it seperately cos adi is a bit miffed with imlie

… and then Didi will do baby related drama with adI fo keep him busy so he can’t go home to his fasting wife. He will finally come home bringing the manhoos aurat with him and his mother will tell him off for making his wife wait and she went to sleep hungry. Didi will dance and adI will feel remorse and go find imlie who would ne sleeping after crying. AdI will wake her up to feed her , she would refused saying not Hungry and asking if he found didi . He will say yes. She will say ok. Then adi will tell her he always didn’t eat whole day. Then she will forgive him and they will eat together

Worse case scenario, Didi refused to come back. Ask adi to sleep on sofa in hotel room cos she is not feeling well and imlie slept the whole night hungry

Chalo I have written a whole epi based on precap 😬