Main victim pain ignored

Virat realised his mistake of not talking for his mother. Took stand for her. And sad about the behaviour his father shows towards his mother. Okay. But his one day realisation & hurt is bigger than the victim who actually gone through the pain for all years? Why her pain is royally ignored while virat's one day guilt is being highlighted more. Virat didn't felt any pain when he saw his father abusing his mother for years. If there was no sai he wouldn't even feel bad for anything now. He was happy with the pampering he got from his family all those years. It is aswini who actually endured the abuse, he didn't endured any pain of watching her like this UNTIL now. It is aswini who lost her years of happiness & endured abuse. I don't have problem in makers showing virat's guilt. But don't like how they completely brushed off aswini pain. Why can't they let her speak about the abuse she went through,why can't she confront people who didn't respected her, why can't she once get angry with ninad for his abuse & question him. They can show aswini ninad patch up after showing aswini outburst. Virat's sudden guilt is not even 0.00001% of what aswini faced. Makers should highlight aswini pain more than anything.

It's not any anti virat post.

Honestly he got raja beta treatment from everyone since childhood. Aswini made sure her son don't get affected because of her marriage relationship. He would have been normal about ninad behavior now had there was no sai in his life.

That's why I can't empathize with his guilt. His education & ACP position can't put sense in his mind that he is supporting abuse. His mother directly told him she was treated as servant still he didn't do anything.

So all I expect from this track is aswini's outburst.

Because Virat is the main character. His realization, guilt, pain will be highlighted. Had it been Sai, her realization, guilt and pain would be highlighted too as a main lead. Baki characters are just there to spice up the story. Same as when in a show the hero saves someone people do wah wah for the hero. They don't mention the trauma of the victim.

Originally posted by: MuguetDScorpion

Because Virat is the main character. His realization, guilt, pain will be highlighted. Had it been Sai, her realization, guilt and pain would be highlighted too as a main lead. Baki characters are just there to spice up the story. Same as when in a show the hero saves someone people do wah wah for the hero. They don't mention the trauma of the victim.

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

There are many shows where they perfectly addressed victim pain irrespective of them being lead or not. And here the pain,guilt of virat is nothing compared to what aswini endured. As virat not only stood silent at his mother's abuse but also insulted her many times. This track should highlight aswini pain more with her son supporting her not vice versa.

See the point is .. the audience themselves will crib we are not getting Sairat scenes .. why are we getting oldie ka reconciliation…

the perfect example was Devyani pulkit story .. that had so much pathos .. and Mitali is such a fine actress.. the best in the whole lot .. they gave her parts when she was sharing her pain with Sai .. but she meeting pulkit … she interacting with harini .. even Kaku interaction with harini .. was completely glossed over .. because Sai would be absent in those scenes ..

It’s us the audience who always crave for lead couple drama .. and that’s why we only get pakhi .. as she is the only one who can create trauma in their story ..

However they should extend this parallel track and show saas Sasur bonding with bahu .. because in KD .. emon developed very warm daughter like relationships with her father in law .. to the level of scolding him frequently

iss show meiin main issues kabhi address nahi hone wale😑

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

There are many shows where they perfectly addressed victim pain irrespective of them being lead or not. And here the pain,guilt of virat is nothing compared to what aswini endured. As virat not only stood silent at his mother's abuse but also insulted her many times. This track should highlight aswini pain more with her son supporting her not vice versa.

Because those shows addresses the norms and all to convey a message but Ghum is just a show for the entertainment. They will be busy showing Virat's guilt then Sai supporting him and both teaming up. One by one every character is getting on track. Ninad and Kaku positive, Ninad and Ashwini patch up... everyone living like a happy family.

Originally posted by: msin

See the point is .. the audience themselves will crib we are not getting Sairat scenes .. why are we getting oldie ka reconciliation…

the perfect example was Devyani pulkit story .. that had so much pathos .. and Mitali is such a fine actress.. the best in the whole lot .. they gave her parts when she was sharing her pain with Sai .. but she meeting pulkit … she interacting with harini .. even Kaku interaction with harini .. was completely glossed over .. because Sai would be absent in those scenes ..

It’s us the audience who always crave for lead couple drama .. and that’s why we only get pakhi .. as she is the only one who can create trauma in their story ..

However they should extend this parallel track and show saas Sasur bonding with bahu .. because in KD .. emon developed very warm daughter like relationships with her father in law .. to the level of scolding him frequently

Originally posted by: MuguetDScorpion

Because those shows addresses the norms and all to convey a message but Ghum is just a show for the entertainment. They will be busy showing Virat's guilt then Sai supporting him and both teaming up. One by one every character is getting on track. Ninad and Kaku positive, Ninad and Ashwini patch up... everyone living like a happy family.

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

It's not about giving preference to side characters more than leads. It's about addressing main victim issue when the track is about that. During devkit track they perfectly addressed devi pain. When they can give more than half episode where chavans praise patralekha beauty ignoring leads then they can easily show aswini outburst atleast for 10 minutes.

Exactly. We are getting senseless patralekha illogical lecture on anyone and prising her beauty which not related to fans choice. If they addresses aai issue many House wife's would connect it and sai Virat supporting aai it would be lead centric with aai baba emotions and fight root cause

Originally posted by: SonuRani

Exactly. We are getting senseless patralekha illogical lecture on anyone and prising her beauty which not related to fans choice. If they addresses aai issue many House wife's would connect it and sai Virat supporting aai it would be lead centric with aai baba emotions and fight root cause

Instead of showing patralekha tount in precap they can show aaai troma. Emotional breakdown and Virat sai understand there feeling there marriage issue from asi baba issues instead of patralekha tount and her unwanted interference. If they want to show patralekha they can show her standing and watching all this and making faces I can tolerate it but couldn't tolerate her interfering in this issue.