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Posted: 4 years ago
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Now when I think, sonali-omkar are the only normal couple in CN or I should in whole show....


SonKar- only these people behave as normal couple and always stand together be it taunting Sai or being silent spectators or feeling for Sai. Even they don't tolerate insult of their partner and try to support them infront of all. They even do some romance 😆 and celebrate Valentines day also 😉


SaiRat- Sai and Virat can understand each other and behave like normal couple to some extent, but there are so many Misunderstandings and insecurities in their relationship than other things.... Once one of them are angry, particularly Virat, then everything goes for a toss and everything becomes public.


NiNi- As they said, there is no relation left at all. They never ever behaved as couple.


MohiRishma- they said they had love marriage, but i could not see any glimpses of it. They never support each other. Karishma never supports Mohit to pursue his dreams and ulta taunts him. Same way Mohit insults Karishma infront if everyone.


As We are talking about Chavans, so let's talk about other kids being to CN...


SamRakhi- They did not even start relationship yet. Pakhi is still obsessed at her Devar and bust in taunting everyone now-days. Samrat tho bechara still hoping to save his relationship.


DevKit- we can say True Love. They waited for each other for 10 years. As Devi is not well they can't be normal couple.


Sai is broughtup by single parent. She has not seen any couple to learn how marriages work or how to behave to a joint family or with relatives. Even though she has moral values and understanding og people and dies right things, there is something you should to adjust in a joint family (of course is something else). Now she is tackling things more maturely and tactically compared to earlier. She is will grow more mature in coming days.

Same with Virat. He has grown up seeing his parents fighting or his father insulting his mother. He has never seen them behave as normal couple. So he also has not much idea about hoe marriages work as he has spent many years in hostel for studies. And he is broughtup is environment where he is not allowed to talk or express his opinions freely. He has learnt things go as they are and never question them or go against elders. But arrival of Sai in his life has changed many things or his POV regarding things around him. He started raising voice and first he did that too for Sai, for her admission. He also did many times like pendant, Sarre etc., but many times he failed or he doesn't react particularly when he is angry and hurt and full of self pity.

There is no one except SonKar, for Sai or Virat to see and learn who married couples behave or support each other etc., even though they are there, they are kaka and kaku of them, they will have less interaction with and also less influence on SaiRat. Parents have more influence on Children then any other, and here in case of SaiRat their never saw their parents as married couple...


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Posted: 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Agree with the couple dynamics of Chavan clan.

I don't know how they showed Mohit-Karishma as the couple who had love marriage but they don't have the compatibility and mutual respect, not many years have passed post their marriage that one can think that during the course of time love died.

Samrat-Pakhi can have a good marriage, given that Samrat is so understanding and loves Pakhi but Pakhi is psycho.

Sai-Virat's marriage started at wrong note, the foundation was weak. If not for Vaada, they would have been the most loved up couple. I hope that after the misunderstandings are over and Sai confesses, they show a re-marriage track for them.

Omi-Sonali have respect, love, romance in their life.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: nikita05

Agree with the couple dynamics of Chavan clan.

I don't know how they showed Mohit-Karishma as the couple who had love marriage but they don't have the compatibility and mutual respect, not many years have passed post their marriage that one can think that during the course of time love died.

Samrat-Pakhi can have a good marriage, given that Samrat is so understanding and loves Pakhi but Pakhi is psycho.

Sai-Virat's marriage started at wrong note, the foundation was weak. If not for Vaada, they would have been the most loved up couple. I hope that after the misunderstandings are over and Sai confesses, they show a re-marriage track for them.

Omi-Sonali have respect, love, romance in their life.

Completely agree with you...

I think Mohit and Karishma have done marriage by running away.... that too at small age... mohit is married before samrat and Virat....Karishma is from chote ghar because of which is not treated well or she is not yet accepted into family... and their marriage happened without their consent like Sairat's... to show all these they showed Mohit ans Karishma....

SaiRat started their marriage at wrong note and through whole marriage they were crying. Pakhi and her constant presence in their lives is hindrance in their relationship. I also want re-marriage for them when they confess. Hope we get that...

But if no vaada and Pakhi where is Maza😆😃. Even though Chavans contribute to drama but major drama element in ghum comes from Pakhi... be it about her or by her... she instigates people against Sai, interferes between SaiRat, or creates drama by saying meri bezzati hui.... wagera wagera...and also major misunderstandings between SaiRat are because of her which brings main drama element....😵🤔

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Ya imagine this world where Sonali, omi are the normal couple. Dear lord. Ghkkpn is so messed up.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Sairat has the potential. They should also show some good scenes between Mohit and Karishma. I remember they had a fun romantic scene many moons ago. Sonali and Omi, jaise bhi hai, have the strongest bond. Even Devi and Pulkit have a good bond.

I wonder how Nagesh Chavan was. I really want to see a flashback of Nagesh Chavan

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: nutmeg7

Sairat has the potential. They should also show some good scenes between Mohit and Karishma. I remember they had a fun romantic scene many moons ago. Sonali and Omi, jaise bhi hai, have the strongest bond. Even Devi and Pulkit have a good bond.

I wonder how Nagesh Chavan was. I really want to see a flashback of Nagesh Chavan

SaiRat has great potential. They will accept each after a lot of MU and fights. They might have learned something with all these to implement in their relationship amd avoid future major problems.

I also want to see glimpse of young kaku and her reactions hip with nagesh Chavan...

As you said, they can also show good scenes between mohit and Karishma in future, like to show her supporting him etc.,

Almosy every supporting charector has great potential to develop sub track for them. But these people always revolve around char char zindagiyaan and show toxic shit instead of good tracks with drama... till now almost whole story revolved around SaiRat with no subtracks. Hope they show some good subtracks for supporting charectors in future like they are showing now for NiNi...

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I completely agree with all your points. We have pointed out many times how Virat has been silent spectator of the injustice within his house and never voiced his displeasure and disagreements before Sai came into his life. She was the one who taught him to do so. Maybe not consciously, but seeing her voice out her opinion fearlessly he realised that he too can and should do the same.

But now we can stitch this back to his past, his troubled childhood. He may seem so, but he is not a normal child. Kids do get impacted by their parents equation. And those who dont speak are the most affected, because no1 realises what they are dealing with and hence no1 addresses it and they develop their own coping mechanisms which may or may not be right. They become immune and insensitive and those who are not immune they act as they are immune. I’m not saying Virat is right in his actions, but just that now we get an insight into why he like what he is. And it’s not wrt his parents, that had become his nature not to reveal his true feelings and emotions. And with Sai he is struggling, because he wants to confess but his prominent character always takes a forefront when it comes to her. Because he loves her the most and his fear and insecurity brings that side out.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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The most normal couple have to be flower and vase....😃😃🤣

Sorry, but each case has a set of ugly flowers in them yet they always stay together or the entire vase goes gaayab🤣🤣

Toh, the only non kaku bhakt normal couple would be flower and vase in ghum🤣

Or tea and teacup as well

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: sherry_24

I completely agree with all your points. We have pointed out many times how Virat has been silent spectator of the injustice within his house and never voiced his displeasure and disagreements before Sai came into his life. She was the one who taught him to do so. Maybe not consciously, but seeing her voice out her opinion fearlessly he realised that he too can and should do the same.

But now we can stitch this back to his past, his troubled childhood. He may seem so, but he is not a normal child. Kids do get impacted by their parents equation. And those who dont speak are the most affected, because no1 realises what they are dealing with and hence no1 addresses it and they develop their own coping mechanisms which may or may not be right. They become immune and insensitive and those who are not immune they act as they are immune. I’m not saying Virat is right in his actions, but just that now we get an insight into why he like what he is. And it’s not wrt his parents, that had become his nature not to reveal his true feelings and emotions. And with Sai he is struggling, because he wants to confess but his prominent character always takes a forefront when it comes to her. Because he loves her the most and his fear and insecurity brings that side out.

Completely agree with you...

They way children are brought up plays a major role how they react to the situations. If child is not given freedom to express himself, they Completely closes himself and becomes introvert or removes all his frustration outside which he can't do inside house. They will only change only when they are away from such environment and see different people and mingle with them and learn new things and get inspired. All these helps them to see things in different light. Same thing happened with Virat. When Said came into his life, he started seeing things I a different perspective which made him think about them a raise a voice against them.

With Sai he always felt free to express himself without fear of being judged (ofcourse love confession is different).. he shared about his jeeva and his childhood etc., May he felt that apnapan and warmth with Sai which he found in someone other than his aayi. He felt her as his own with whom he can talk anything and everything and also even vent out his anger like he does with his aayi. He has never felt such thing before. Now when he got it, he never want to lose it. He became possessive of her. He always has constant fear of losing her.

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