• MHRW Episode Thread Discussion • #75, DT Note pg 19 - Page 34

Originally posted by: Couch.Potato

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When Aai compared Vijay and her marriage to Raghav and Pallavi's, she was totally right. 😆
To be frank , Raghav is a more toxic husband than Vijay since Vijay does not make great claims of love only to use his wife as an emotional crutch and punching bag later. (This is how victims of emotionally abusive relationship suffer , I’m sad that leap couple (especially the male lead) have been characterised to this point )

When Raghav senses Pallavi is slipping away, he becomes terrified (to an extreme degree), and when there is no threat, she is left to suffer.

His love is not pure , it’s selfish. 👎🏼

I have never seen worse ML like this in my experience of fiction, especially itv , when they profess love , they actually mean it and make their love priority, here he is using Pallavi and Esha is his priority, what a worthless person. Doesn’t deserve Pallavi at all .

Had I been the writer , I would have set Pallavi free from toxic Deshmukhs and Raos , let her pursue her passion and probably have a partner who treasures goodness & selflessness she possesses, rather than breaking it mercilessly with their selfish nature.

Vijay is 100000000 times better than this man. Vijay never cheated on his wife..and he never will..he is an egoistic guy, stubborn and stupid at times but I have never seen him disrespect Sharada. She speaks her mind and shuts him when he is wrong.. Besides as far as I remember apart from that incident during vat savitri when he lied to her about his health, he has never lied to her.. anyway, Vijay could be anything but he is not a cheater..

Raghav Rao's character is no longer fit to be called a male lead.. The Raghav Rao we knew when the show started had become a ruthless business tycoon, somewhat grey because of his tragic past which we thought was related to the tragic death of his nana and brother.. Turns out, that was all a wrong assumption. The guy coped with the loss of his family just fine in a matter of a few years.. What made him the man we see now, The Raghav Rao, is actually a scorned lover who was dumped by his gf... So it was his pehla adhura pyar that shaped his personality.. now who is gonna empathize with this guy when he starts his rona dhona about his past baggage? His backstory has shaken the core of his character because it stands on an unconvincing, flimsy ground and what he is doing in the present has completely damaged his character..its beyond repair now.. so RIP RR

Originally posted by: Anu1975

@Bold: That is all i am asking for…will I get it is the question… I will be seriously annoyed to the core if they show her back at RR mansion to fix his Ex…

Your last line❤️

I highly doubt that...

he seriously has no soul, no conscience left in him.. possessed by Satan lol

P.S- BTW Anu I have been a silent reader of your posts and lemme tell you, I absolutely LOVEEEE reading your take.. Should give the credit of ''discovering you'' to Neelu (Wilddreams) 😆 A lot of us at Pallavi's AT are a huge fan of your posts..😊

Originally posted by: Wilddreams

E ka hand fracture is fake. Sunny told Sumit to kidnap E and extort money from R. Sunny told E to play along so they can ruin R +P 's honeymoon plan.

Raghav postpones the honeymoon and Pallavi agreed with him because Sumit can come home and harm Amma and kirti.

Raghu feed soup to E and Pallavi asks him and he lash out at her and leaves. She feels sorry about it and tries to call him but he doesn't answer her call. She talks to kirti about R's changed behavior. R talks to Farhad about him being a bad person and his guilt 🙄

Its Sunny and E's plan to humiliate Pallavi infront of whole family. And they purposely talk about Amma's birthday so Pallavi could hear it. Pallavi decides to surprise Amma and Raghav by doing something for her birthday.

Same precap

Thanks for update 🤗. I won’t be watching this episode right now, maybe later , but not now , Raghav just disgusts me , sorry.

Just making this gif , makes me cringe at the fact that person like Raghav is ML👎🏼 .

I fear that writers will make Pallavi doormat to accommodate him now 🤔.

Originally posted by: Wilddreams

Haye Vaish 😆Seriously pata nahi kaunse yug se utha kar laya hai sikku Pallavi ko😒

Na use pain hota hai na hi use bura lagta haiactually i think she is a robot and she is programmed to serve people and please them. That's why woh kabhi bhi question nahi karti Raghav ke behavior ko 🥺

Pallavi alien ya phir robot hi hai kyuki Devi joh mytho shows mein dekhi hai unke bhi emotions hote hai lekin Pallavi toh bilkul emotionless hai

Neeeluuuu🤗 Kya karein is ladki ka? Why would you postpone your trip for her..? She has a ''fracture'' so she will be sitting at home na? Sumit's not gonna kidnap her from home right? Why can they not get a restraining order from police? Why do these two have to personally be at home to take care of her..kuchh bhi?😆

Originally posted by: Wilddreams

Raghu thought his secret of ONS is almost out so he got defensive and started yelling at Pallavi 🤪🤪

In fact Pallavi didn't accuse him she was talking about E still having feelings for him. E even told him she will manage but he himself insisted to feed her 😆

First yell at innocent person and later cry in the corner and play victim card

He has already fallen so low , I don’t think I am surprised at his behaviour . He wants both , girlfriend and wife at this point , so why did he ruin Anjali’s engagement ? 😆

Let media see this now , The Raghav Rao housing his mistress and wife together, taking care of mistress and lashing out at wife . What a view !

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

Vijay is 100000000 times better than this man. Vijay never cheated on his wife..and he never will..he is an egoistic guy, stubborn and stupid at times but I have never seen him disrespect Sharada. She speaks her mind and shuts him when he is wrong.. Besides as far as I remember apart from that incident during vat savitri when he lied to her about his health, he has never lied to her.. anyway, Vijay could be anything but he is not a cheater..

Raghav Rao's character is no longer fit to be called a male lead.. The Raghav Rao we knew when the show started had become a ruthless business tycoon, somewhat grey because of his tragic past which we thought was related to the tragic death of his nana and brother.. Turns out, that was all a wrong assumption. The guy coped with the loss of his family just fine in a matter of a few years.. What made him the man we see now, The Raghav Rao, is actually a scorned lover who was dumped by his gf... So it was his pehla adhura pyar that shaped his personality.. now who is gonna empathize with this guy when he starts his rona dhona about his past baggage? His backstory has shaken the core of his character because it stands on an unconvincing, flimsy ground and what he is doing in the present has completely damaged his character..its beyond repair now.. so RIP RR

Haha 😂. Not only Vijay, now I feels like Mandar, kaaku and Lion are all far better than Raghav.

Originally posted by: Anu1975

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Sandip wanted to show Pallu conflicted between love for Raghav and farz towards D family, but execution wasn't this bad during Mandaar track. I think he is trying to do the same here by showing Raghav conflcted between his feelings but he's coming off as a complete jerk towards pallavi here.

The thing is, Raghav not once doubted the occurance of the deed. Not once he thought... ki nahi main aisa nahi kar sakta. He's very sure that he got intimate with his ex. That makes it pretty clear that he knows he's capable of having sex with Esha. He's accepting that she's capable of evoking those carnal feelings in him, something that Pallu was never able to do even after sleeping next to him for months..

Any normal guy would be weighed down by his guilt after betraying the trust of such a loving wife and will go out of his way to make amends but this guy. He's not just turning a blind eye to Pallavi's pain, he's also taking her trust for granted by taking care of the same woman he cheated her with. He's playing both the women in a way. I won't blame Esha here, she's doing what she's is coz Raghav is giving her the opportunity knowing very well how she feels for him

Also, the makers are pretty bad at executing sensitive topics. I'm damn sure, they will concentrate more on Raghav and will completely ignore Pallavi's dejected state of mind post seperation. I won't be surprised if she's back at the mansion within two days of the so called seperation. I expect nothing from a team that has time and again trivialised and mocked issues like sexual harassment and infertility.

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

Vijay is 100000000 times better than this man. Vijay never cheated on his wife..and he never will..he is an egoistic guy, stubborn and stupid at times but I have never seen him disrespect Sharada. She speaks her mind and shuts him when he is wrong.. Besides as far as I remember apart from that incident during vat savitri when he lied to her about his health, he has never lied to her.. anyway, Vijay could be anything but he is not a cheater..

Raghav Rao's character is no longer fit to be called a male lead.. The Raghav Rao we knew when the show started had become a ruthless business tycoon, somewhat grey because of his tragic past which we thought was related to the tragic death of his nana and brother.. Turns out, that was all a wrong assumption. The guy coped with the loss of his family just fine in a matter of a few years.. What made him the man we see now, The Raghav Rao, is actually a scorned lover who was dumped by his gf... So it was his pehla adhura pyar that shaped his personality.. now who is gonna empathize with this guy when he starts his rona dhona about his past baggage? His backstory has shaken the core of his character because it stands on an unconvincing, flimsy ground and what he is doing in the present has completely damaged his character..its beyond repair now.. so RIP RR

Agreed, Vijay isn't a particularly good person, but he's still better than Raghav, well , even Sunny is a better husband than Raghav.

(Because of her own incompetency, Amma completely wrecked a girl's life. 🤔)

I'm not sure I understand his backstory right now. 😆

What is the main reason? Poverty, death of family members, Krishna, or Esha? Makers alternate between all of these reasons for his being a problem, depending on how convenient it is for them.

Since the first episode, the creators have gone on and on about solely his past, which has lost its allure and believability. I don’t really want to hear even a word more about his past at this point .

Yes! To be honest, this ML is beyond redemption; he simply recognises his errors and apologises, but he never regrets them, so where is the progress?

Originally posted by: Nitha21

There are more to come. You will see 100% coward Raghav in coming episodes. This is just a half of it.

I guess that they will bring up pregnancy track. Because at this moment Esha knows that Raghav has hesitation on telling the truth, so she will bring that as a next weapon. Esha will get one complete winning moment to separate R and P. In that place Raghav will completely fall in her trap. Agree…

Based on how they are portray the Pallavi, it is hard for them to show that by hearing ONS with unconscious state of Raghav she will decide to leave. she again give a second thought that Raghav may not be wrong. So they will show next step of nonsense in RR character. Quite possible and I will never be able to forgive her for that….a person who chooses to live in denial deserves whatever comes their way…love is no excuse to be stupid just like Guilt & Humanity cannot be an excuse for Infidelity, cheating and cowardice…

In any moment he didn’t think to send out Esha from his house. Not seeking police help to control E’s x. Always on behind the wall he is talking over his mind about pallavi’s love.
No intimate love happen between Raghav and Pallavi. So they will show that Esha is born for Raghav. So what about all he felt and did during Mandar track…is it insecurity, selfishness or Male ego that he won’t share his woman with her Ex while he will happily share himself with his Ex, or rather his wife should be fine to share him with his Ex…misogynistic unworthy unscrupulous sorry of a human…

Director is keep showing that Raghav is saying in his mind ‘you are my soul pallavi’ to make us fool. Word play at its best to cover up their lack of guts to show his reality…

I don’t know what will happen if he tells the truth now or tell this truth later. In both, pallavi is going to get hurt. If he is ready to hide the truth, then what should he do based on so called don character. He should send Esha out of town, or make some false impression that nothing happens on that night. If he wants to be cheater why can’t he be the cheater to Esha. Good question, he loves Esha and is emotional towards her so he doesn’t want to cheat her and he doesn’t love Pallavi and is completely unavailable emotionally with her so he is completely ok with cheating her, he is just sad and his ego hurts that he is not able to tell her that he is cheating her with his Ex..
He is not even to ready to send E out of his house. He wants to be good for both ex and his wife. He cover his intentions on esha in name of humanity. Did he showed the same humanity to pallavi in past. Leave the past he is not even showing his humble or respect to pallavi feelings. How come he is normal after rejecting pallavi on that night when she try to seduce him. I personally felt very bad in that episode for Pallavi as a wife. On that day I was thinking that why can’t be that tea-biscuit example became true. 😂😂😂

I’m waiting for the next level of stupidity that Raghav says “I prefer Esha than you” to pallavi. Then separation should happen. Otherwise they reunion on next episode after showing Raghav holding his ears and say sorry.
@Red: He has already done that by intent and actions, emotionally and physically…may be in words too in coming days…will we still want Pallavi with him even after this??? Degrading herself, giving no regard to her self respect, dignity, her feelings…Doesn’t she deserve better life partner…does she have to settle with a cheater husband dedicating her life sorting out his mess???

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Originally posted by: Couch.Potato

He has already fallen so low , I don’t think I am surprised at his behaviour . He wants both , girlfriend and wife at this point , so why did he ruin Anjali’s engagement ? 😆

Let media see this now , The Raghav Rao housing his mistress and wife together, taking care of mistress and lashing out at wife . What a view !

😂 yes he want to be a good ex and good husband.

Other than him, nobody has rights to do that. In all places he wants to be hero.

If Anjali wants to have secret relationship he will spoil her life, if Amrutha wants to have secret abortion, then he will spoil , if mandhar wants to reclaim his wife, he will ready kill him and apart from that if his ex has issues with her ex, then he will hit him badly. In every situation he has his own explanation. These type of people are very dangerous in real life.