Didi and her aggressiveness!!

Sai Mentions Pakhi Didi

Virat : Why do you bring her up..

You bring her up between us!

Sai :

2 MINUTES LATER

Didi :

Jokes apart I have always mentioned how Pakhi has been not just mentally but physically very agressive towards Sai. If Virat is an IPS officer, he would surely know she has the tendency to physically harm her in her anger.

Virat keeps asking why Sai has to bring her up, while fails to see that Sai only speaks about her when she is targeted by her...And yet again to give him a demonstration, Pakhi taunts her for being in his room. Not just that when she is politely handled by Sai, she turns aggressive in the way she pours water. Virat semi consciously knows Pakhi hates Sai beyond reasons and he himself is the reason and tends to harm her physically as well and yet in his anger towards Sai, he teams the same vile woman in torturing Sai, calling her names, calling out her upbringing. He compares her with Pakhi, he calls her jealous of Pakhi..

We know he is nice when things are fine between Sai and him , but its the worst of worst days where he becomes inhuman. By teaming up with the same woman who harasses his wife all the time, he gets lowest of low. Thats where he lacks maturity and sanity. Thats where he comes across so self consumed.. Pakhi also knows it will take just few fights of him and Sai, for him to allow her to sit with him to discuss Sai and her inappropriateness.

That what it occurred to me today too ....the reason for Pakhi becoming more vampish and confident in her aggressiveness. After the latest fallout, Pakhi is confident that the truce between SaiRat will not be long-lasting. She genuinely believes that Sai is not right for Virat (as she confided in Bappa 😆) and thinks that it won't be long before their incompatibility with lead to yet another upheaval and eventually separation. And she need not even pretend now that even Samrat is aware of her obsession.

But whatever...they will drag the third angle as much as they can. And I'm off to sleep. 🥱😴

Originally posted by: nethraa_99

That what it occurred to me today too ....the reason for Pakhi becoming more vampish and confident in her aggressiveness. After the latest fallout, Pakhi is confident that the truce between SaiRat will not be long-lasting. She genuinely believes that Sai is not right for Virat (as she confided in Bappa 😆) and thinks that it won't be long before their incompatibility with lead to yet another upheaval and eventually separation. And she need not even pretend now that even Samrat is aware of her obsession.

But whatever...they will drag the third angle as much as they can. And I'm off to sleep. 🥱😴

She also said the same thing when he took her side in the morning on Mohe Rang de laal incident and entered her room badmouthing Sai late at night, the moment he fought with her... She did mention how he changes his stance on Sai...Because Virat has let her know almost everything he feels about Sai, pleasure or his displeasure through words or actions, she thinks Virat has not realised that Sai is not good for him and is just besotted...

@bold Thats because he keeps letting her in... I have mentioned Pakhi is this way because Virat allowed her to be... The first day she entered the room to gie visesh Tipanni on his relationship with Sai or their matters, he shoild have schooled her instead of schooling his wife or should have shut himself up like he mostly does when Pakhi is attacking Sai... Pakhi IS NOT his PAST, she is PRESENT every other day in his relationship with Sai.

Originally posted by: Ay3_smitten

Didi’s face whenever she sees SaiRat together :

https://images.app.goo.gl/qguJvreaEgCwXMSG9

Best example of virat's self absorbedness is Nov 3 rd episode.

When he gives back pakhi after she tried to compare virakhi friendship with sairat's. She leaves the place. The next moment he goes to his own lala land & starts smiling at the photo given by sai. He don't think how she is still obsessed with him, how she is cheating samrat and how her presence may affect sai when she is being this much open with him. All he does is smiling at the photo by remembering sai antics.

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

Best example of virat's self absorbedness is Nov 3 rd episode.

When he gives back pakhi after she tried to compare virakhi friendship with sairat's. She leaves the place. The next moment he goes to his own lala land & starts smiling at the photo given by sai. He don't think how she is still obsessed with him, how she is cheating samrat and how her presence may affect sai when she is being this much open with him. All he does is smiling at the photo by remembering sai antics.

Thats his usual.. He has till date failed to realise or see Sai's insecurities with Pakhi, while Sai was damn quick with him being insecure of each of her male associations... and on top of that there was hardly those associations interacting with Virat , taunting him or harming him with Sai taking their sides...for him to feel cornered, attacked...least of all insecure..

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Thats his usual.. He has till date failed to realise or see Sai's insecurities with Pakhi, while Sai was damn quick with him being insecure of each of her male associations... and on top of that there was hardly those associations interacting with Virat , taunting him or harming for him with Sai taking their sides...to feel harmed..

I have no hopes. This is going to keep happening.

I agree the part about didi's aggressiveness. Not only Sai, she even wants to hit Virat, Samrat, Pulkit in anger but stops in time. There is something really wrong about her. I also agree she always comes in between SaiRat. Virat is also responsible. He needs to clearly tell her not to come to their room. If there is something urgent then at least knock first and take the permission to enter. He should teach her some basic manners. It's high time he totally stops her from interfering in their lives.

But about Sai bringing Pakhi in their every conversation is unnecessary. She is the kind of person who will ruin even a romantic date. "Sai chalo ice cream khaane jaaye." She will answer "Pakhi didi bura man jaayegi." I find it super irritating. Yes Virat and Pakhi are responsible for it but she is also responsible of seeing Pakhi in everything. If I am hurt or irritated by something, I will try to avoid it as much as I can for my own sanity. But she is letting it affect her more on her own.

Originally posted by: MuguetDScorpion

I agree the part about didi's aggressiveness. Not only Sai, she even wants to hit Virat, Samrat, Pulkit in anger but stops in time. There is something really wrong about her. I also agree she always comes in between SaiRat. Virat is also responsible. He needs to clearly tell her not to come to their room. If there is something urgent then at least knock first and take the permission to enter. He should teach her some basic manners. It's high time he totally stops her from interfering in their lives.

But about Sai bringing Pakhi in their every conversation is unnecessary. She is the kind of person who will ruin even a romantic date. "Sai chalo ice cream khaane jaaye." She will answer "Pakhi didi bura man jaayegi." I find it super irritating. Yes Virat and Pakhi are responsible for it but she is also responsible of seeing Pakhi in everything. If I am hurt or irritated by something, I will try to avoid it as much as I can for my own sanity. But she is letting it affect her more on her own.

I usually see Sai bringing her mostly when she is taunted by Pakhi or she sees some closeness..That woman taunted her the moment she was back and ofcourse always taunts her for her relationship with Virat, good or bad...Happened just few minutes back as well...She did not bring her when she was in the hospital.

Take for example Virat...when he was insecure with Ajinkya, he kept bringing him every now and then , even when he was not related in the conversation.. However since Ajinkya does not have a constant and toxic presence in their relationship and in their room , we did not mind it and it was short lived... Pakhi's presence has been always there, irrespective of how they are with each other and Virat's stance and behaviour with Pakhi changes, w.r.t his relationship with Sai. On top of that Ajinkya and Sai did not have a past, Virat and Pakhi have a past and they till recently have been teaming up with each other against her.. There is a reason why she mentions Pakhi..Two infact. Virat's behaviour with Pakhi, especially when Sai and him are in bad terms and secondly her insecurity because of her constant presence in their room.

@bold For avoiding, she needs space from Pakhi in their room, their relationship and Virat's firmness...One can avoid when there is a scope. Here I have not seen that scope till date. When she tried to avoid her, she was schooled by Virat for misbehaving, when she retorts the two gang up..And ultimately Pakhi coming to taunt her back for being the room proves her right yet again...