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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Rollingdeep

Ok. Here is my two cents worth on a dhamaka epi. Today :


1) apu has finally accepted imlie fully. She called her my Bachai and said how could she sleep with her bachai are in trouble and out all night. Victory 1!

She gave Didi maha chop that imlie will always fight for her family and son and apu has faith in sita maiya. Victory 2!


2) no one in t family showed anything but support from imlie when imlie said she was worried dont pranav run away. Not even rupi or Radha. The t family themselves don’t trust pranav even rupi fully. Victory 3!

3) inlie with all her innocence and good naturedness finds help very hater and this time with the 9 kanyiaas symbolising the 9 mata maa who will help her to destroy the Ravan hurting her ram. Normally ram saved sita from ravan and here is opposite. Victory 4!

and what do I say about the jail romance 😂😂😂😂… pranav was the fd in shock at finally seeing romance between these two and that too in jail. These two are each other’s biggest supports and no matter .. what will believe each other with blind faith in everything except Didi but I feel adI is slowly losing his blindfold with regards to Didi:


Today hearing piya tose milna and that simple scene in jail really gave the old time vibes. Our bs never loses a chance to try his luck in romancing his wife and when she says she ain’t dying to romance … the guy was so affronted it was ridiculous.😂😂😂😂. They are just mast that no matter where or who is around these two only have eyes for each other and that scene were he was pondering if do I ask my wife what she did to get here ? Better not cos she might sunoo me tanna… he is so in fear of her tanaa but he is so in love with her that even after her utpathak jawab to his question on the pen drive he still couldn’t stay angry with her cos he has faith that imlie will never let him down. This faith in each other has always been unyielding except for that Didi kand but even then these two will work through this like they do everything.


She just had to tell him pranav stole the pendrive and he unflinchingly believed her and what was telling was today the tables flipped with her telling him to not overreact . He has been telling her this all this while but today imlie calmed him down.

Very well executed epi . Looking forward to tomorrow’s beating by imlie 😂😂😂



Just tagging a few but love to hear from eveyone your thoughts and predictions



Loved your review, RD! 🤗


I just have a different take on Aparna. I think on the surface level we’re led to believe that Aparna has had a change of heart when it comes to Imlie, but I personally don’t see that at all. Aparna has consistently witnessed Imlie fighting for Adi, yes, but there is more to a wife and daughter-in-law than that. I don’t empathize with Aparna at all, so maybe I’m biased, but to me it appears as though she respects Imlie for all the risks she takes for her family, not necessarily considering Imlie a part of that family. 👎🏼


Sure, she has stopped antagonizing Imlie, but after emotionally abusing Imlie for so many weeks, she has done nothing to mend fences or, in the very least, apologize to her. Every kind word she says about Imlie or to Imlie comes from a place of selfishness for her son’s welfare or the guilt of a woman seeing another woman suffer as Imlie has been suffering with Malini pregnant in their house. Sure, Imlie is mature & innocent enough to take things in stride, not letting any bitterness fester between them, but to me, there is no redeeming Aparna, or even BK for that matter, at least until she starts showing some genuine emotions towards her, preferably with solid actions to back them up. Imlie is her own person, and she should be seen & respected for more than just all that she has done and can do for the T’s, Adi included. Until Aparna can prove that she views Imlie as a true daughter of her own, she’s all hollow words to me. 👎🏼

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Rollingdeep


Sadly and I am not saying it is hundred percent but the t reaction is a reflection of some families thoughts and process. But I think they have been doing apu redemption slowly with her chops to Didi and that going back to how she has faith in imlie. It was poignant that one of the first thing she remembered when didi was as usual poking fire was imlie words about how adi took his mother’s blessing cos to him his mother is god and she must draw strength from that her protection is keeping him safe. That fb shows that she is remorseful but yes hoping that they do show at least a small scene cos that’s all I can hope.


I am just wondering about a BTS where adi comes home and the mla is there. How does that two tie in I can’t connect?


@Bold: And that is why it becomes more important to show that if elders are at fault, it is ok to apologize, that does not reduce their honor. Anyways, today last bit where Aparna and PT talk was done quite nicely. Finally they did give an insight into her gradual thought process and that spoon feeding to the audience was what was necessary..Right now also these are words for me, unless Aparna starts to follow through all that she is saying...which I think she will..So hoping devi maiyya truly blesses them with all their wishes they had! 😊

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Posted: 4 years ago

Thanks for the tags RD, Seera..

Lovely reviews by all here and loved reading everyone's take on the epi.


Today was so wonderful.. we had our Imliya give 8 thappads, throw punches at Pranav and hit him with a broom was well done. glad they did not drag it out like the resident evil who was yay.. missing today.. super se upar ho gays.. due to her absence. I enjoyed these bits..and waiting for Imlie ki dhulayi of her Dd too.. sadly i know we wont get it .. but still one can hope.


Imlie ka dimaag..that Adi maharaj has recognized and accepted as being superior.. in the jail.. comes to the rescue once more.

The Ts praying to the kanyas and praying to SM for peace and happiness in the family that has seen so much of turmoil and tough times of late.


I loved how Rupi realized that pranav was still a sleazeball when he knocked over the juice she had prepared so lovingly. Stops her in her tracks... makes her ponder..why was he back.. after all this time? I loved how she stopped Imlie to say her lines.. that were long overdue.. she has been a silent spectator for the most part and boy she must have felt good saying those things to Pranav. loved how she regained her confidence as she spoke and the soul sister connection with Imlie was maintained...

The return of Adi back home and the arrest of the bad guys was short n sweet. Adi's smile and his words.. that every man needs a woman to give birth to him.. and the way he looked at Apu and Imlie with whom he wants to spend his every waking minute until his last breath.. was well done. Imlie ofc had to say that women dont need men to lead their lives.. this is nari shakti.. let us see what they actually make Rupi do, now that she has broken the shackles of her shaadi.


The entire T family outside.. feeling bad at their actions.. setting the stage for Imlie acceptance by the entire family.

Another good one was the Apu-PT convo.. who were so good in this chotu sa scene. Apu having accepted Imlie fully in her heart as her bahu, feeling trepidation on going to Imlie, whether to say sorry or thank you.. she finally admitted that she felt J of the bond that PT-Imlie shared, when they spoke or had an affectionate moment.. the teasing.. awww...

she was the first to embrace Imlie when she came home and is missing that close bond with her. it felt good to hear her say those words. PT telling Apu that she has to just open her arms to Imlie...and bless her, that is all she ever wants.

Ritu was so good here..her mamta, her melting... well done. Think Apu was feeling bad.. as M is going to be upset and hence her serious face..in the precap. she knows what she has done, directly/indirectly encouraged M ka actions against Imlie and supported her even in her blind ego. Now she will pay a price for that.

The last few days had the pd3 wala feeling esp the jail scene to the pythogares theorem scene that was so wonderful. I am hoping that the feel stays like this.. this is a crucial part of their story telling.

Dd ka pf will go on till Diwali.. and looks like we are getting garba too.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Thanks for all the tags ladies. I will come back later today with my tippani. Meanwhile looking forward to everyone’s tales and predu

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Posted: 4 years ago

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all dressed up for garba function above?

new cast on set… mr mouse as per below… dc confirmed for shoot? For ac 😂😂😂😂


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Apu surprise


https://youtu.be/6zUiTmwOQSo



any thoughts ?


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Posted: 4 years ago

Hey ladies.. sorry am late to reply to all the tags.. and I know that a lot of ppl are not happy at teh way the writers have made it seem like apu and t family will be redeemed but having seen today and having the benefit of that apu and pt dialogue was important for everyone. Apu herself admitted to herself that her behaviour was despicable ( and from that I see she has shown true remorse) and her mention of how she has hesitate to say anything to imlie cos nothin she says can redeems her behaviour. This is what the audience feels and I agree but at the same time what pt said holds true that imlie never took this to heart truly. Her heart is so big that she took it like a parent scolding her child and like mentioned earlier that one of you ladies is that imlie felt this was her fault for not forcing to adi to tell. All this while this not telling was eating inlie but she sacrificed for adini and so now she feels she deserves it. Can I say to some extent both inlie and adI keep quiet when being punished cos they both feel they have hurt each other and those around them by keeping this a secret like mitthi murder . It’s just that adI moves on faster unless it is imlie who is upset with him. The rest he is upset but he stil functions untill he is at the receiving end form imlie.


as for what was said that adI lost trust in imlie because of sk and that is why he can’t trust her about Didi I don’t see that way coa for me AdI may have been hurt by imlie actions with sk ans said that she broke his bharosa but I think he was just hurt. AdI can never lose faith in imlie but at the same time he can’t wrap his head that someone who all this while is a gentle soul can be so evilistic. But the pati is slowly opening cos Didi is getting desperate and now her chops of imlie are getting bolder and that too in front of everyone. They are seeing Didi in new light since janamastami. Anyway this is my thoughts and I may be wrong



But on to today epi, the build up is moving and the dialogues are tighter . I don’t know it cause it was Didi free but we will now pay with more Didi ss next few days I feel. Anyway forget her. I loved and am glad that rupi was the one who without influence broke ties with pranav line I wanted . I didn’t want imlie or the senior t to make that decision and I am glad they only came after. Finally rupi drew strength from imlie. This is what true sisters are even in doubt or when in a clash they draw strength from each other. So again Didi plans to influence rupi was a maha chop.

Teh scene will the 9 kanyai symbolic of 9 mata maa was very well done and shows how imlie fate in sita maiya can waver cos sita maiya will also have her hand over imlie and this is what even apu realises.



And the part where apu said that she felt jealous even in her narazgi that pt was imlie support and not her speaks volumes of the ties she feels with imlie. To her imlie is daughter first and dil later and I think the gift against imlie was magnified cos that day when apu found out the truth she lost two relationships.


I want to add on something on future predu:



For me I can only see either imlie NDe or Didi exploding and vomiting out her kand in anger



I really don’t think miscarriage would work fake or not as if intentional then Didi would lose her only connect to t family and adI would never let imlie leave cos they know that she is more worried about the baby than Didi so not possible that she could intentionally hurt the baby


if unintentionally the family will still forgive inlie cos they know she can never harm a soul. Only thing is inlie might feel remorse that unintentionally she was the cause and she might on her own leave and adI would bring her back with t blessings



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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Rollingdeep

Hey ladies.. sorry am late to reply to all the tags.. and I know that a lot of ppl are not happy at teh way the writers have made it seem like apu and t family will be redeemed but having seen today and having the benefit of that apu and pt dialogue was important for everyone. Apu herself admitted to herself that her behaviour was despicable ( and from that I see she has shown true remorse) and her mention of how she has hesitate to say anything to imlie cos nothin she says can redeems her behaviour. This is what the audience feels and I agree but at the same time what pt said holds true that imlie never took this to heart truly. Her heart is so big that she took it like a parent scolding her child and like mentioned earlier that one of you ladies is that imlie felt this was her fault for not forcing to adi to tell. All this while this not telling was eating inlie but she sacrificed for adini and so now she feels she deserves it. Can I say to some extent both inlie and adI keep quiet when being punished cos they both feel they have hurt each other and those around them by keeping this a secret like mitthi murder . It’s just that adI moves on faster unless it is imlie who is upset with him. The rest he is upset but he stil functions untill he is at the receiving end form imlie.


as for what was said that adI lost trust in imlie because of sk and that is why he can’t trust her about Didi I don’t see that way coa for me AdI may have been hurt by imlie actions with sk ans said that she broke his bharosa but I think he was just hurt. AdI can never lose faith in imlie but at the same time he can’t wrap his head that someone who all this while is a gentle soul can be so evilistic. But the pati is slowly opening cos Didi is getting desperate and now her chops of imlie are getting bolder and that too in front of everyone. They are seeing Didi in new light since janamastami. Anyway this is my thoughts and I may be wrong



But on to today epi, the build up is moving and the dialogues are tighter . I don’t know it cause it was Didi free but we will now pay with more Didi ss next few days I feel. Anyway forget her. I loved and am glad that rupi was the one who without influence broke ties with pranav line I wanted . I didn’t want imlie or the senior t to make that decision and I am glad they only came after. Finally rupi drew strength from imlie. This is what true sisters are even in doubt or when in a clash they draw strength from each other. So again Didi plans to influence rupi was a maha chop.

Teh scene will the 9 kanyai symbolic of 9 mata maa was very well done and shows how imlie fate in sita maiya can waver cos sita maiya will also have her hand over imlie and this is what even apu realises.



And the part where apu said that she felt jealous even in her narazgi that pt was imlie support and not her speaks volumes of the ties she feels with imlie. To her imlie is daughter first and dil later and I think the gift against imlie was magnified cos that day when apu found out the truth she lost two relationships.


hope I didn’t miss anyone out. Pls forgive


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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: jperalta

Loved your review, RD! 🤗


I just have a different take on Aparna. I think on the surface level we’re led to believe that Aparna has had a change of heart when it comes to Imlie, but I personally don’t see that at all. Aparna has consistently witnessed Imlie fighting for Adi, yes, but there is more to a wife and daughter-in-law than that. I don’t empathize with Aparna at all, so maybe I’m biased, but to me it appears as though she respects Imlie for all the risks she takes for her family, not necessarily considering Imlie a part of that family. 👎🏼


Sure, she has stopped antagonizing Imlie, but after emotionally abusing Imlie for so many weeks, she has done nothing to mend fences or, in the very least, apologize to her. Every kind word she says about Imlie or to Imlie comes from a place of selfishness for her son’s welfare or the guilt of a woman seeing another woman suffer as Imlie has been suffering with Malini pregnant in their house. Sure, Imlie is mature & innocent enough to take things in stride, not letting any bitterness fester between them, but to me, there is no redeeming Aparna, or even BK for that matter, at least until she starts showing some genuine emotions towards her, preferably with solid actions to back them up. Imlie is her own person, and she should be seen & respected for more than just all that she has done and can do for the T’s, Adi included. Until Aparna can prove that she views Imlie as a true daughter of her own, she’s all hollow words to me. 👎🏼

JP, I hope today's episode help you come to terms with Aparna finally accepting Imlie as her own - to the extent of calling herself Imlie's sasuma, which is a big deal for a woman who once told Imlie that she never saw anyone else except Malini as her bahu.

It just strikes me how both mother and son are so similar to each other, that it is uncanny. We always assumed that Adi was adopted because Aparna always considered him last😆. But her behavious was because she was one of the rare mothers who understand that when girls get married in a family, just how much they have to give up to re-build their lives in their husband's family - she once said that to Radhaji as well, when Radha was complaining about the high handedness that AC showed about Adi & Malini's marriage. Aparna had accepted and placed Malini in her mind as her bahu - the same way Adi had assumed that Malini will only be his wife, no matter what happens in his life. That someone like Imlie will ever be in their lives, was something that they could never comprehend.

If you look at Aparna's journey to acceptance, it is very similar, but still a bit different to Adi's journey to accept Imlie in their lives. When Adi first went to PD, he fell in awe of this young, spirited girl who enamored him with her qualites. Which is why when he was forcefully married off to her, it his his ego and his pride that she had to save his life and it was easier for Adi to assume that Imlie had ulterior motives to trap him in a marriage. That assumption of his was very strong till the SR scene and the gunshot episode, where he realized 2 things - 1) Imlie was never the kind to manipulate people to get her way and more importantly 2) Imlie was so ingrained in her life that no matter what, she was connected to him in a way that was beyond his comprehension at that point of time. After that when they came back to Delhi, many times Adi still tried to remind her that Mun was his wife and he will always be with Malini, but somewhere that khichaav was there towards Imlie. That gunshot trauma had opened his heart towards Imlie, while her actions and her behaviour later just cemented her place in his heart. Which was why the pahad jaise aadmi who once said that Imlie would nevr be able to change his stance, was able to make him understand that sometimes what kismat wants, that is what will happen, because god has written it for your own good. AT PD3 when she left him and said that she does not need him anymore, it struck him just how dependent he had gotten of her presence in his life. His need to to go and see her in PD, get jealous of Prakash and finally confess to her that she has made a place in his heart, was all his process of finally accepting that Imlie was, is and will always be his wife and she was written in his kismat for a reason - because she is his perfect partner.

Now if you chart Aparna's journey with Imlie, there are similar such touchpoints there as well. Aparna started with a bit of distrust (she also assumed that Imlie stole the jewellery when the others accused her) then of complete trust, to the point of almost considering her a daughter. She was enamored and fell in love with Imlie and for her she was the closest confidant, with whom Aparna could share everything. During the suicide kand, she did misunderstand Imlie, but realized that she was faulting Imlie for no fault of hers and went back to considering Imlie her own - similar to Adi once misunderstanding Imlie during the suhaag raat scene - where after she saved him, he realized just how wrong he was regarding Imlie. After that, when the truth came out, Aparna had the exact same reaction as once Adi did when he was forced to marry Imlie - that of being faced with a situation that they could never dream of in the wildest imagination. The fact that her son will hide such a huge thing from her and marry a girl who she felt did not match to the picture she had in her head of her bahu was something that was an extremely difficult pill for Aparna to swallow. While I agree that a lot of her words were very horrible and to the extent of even being vile, I still feel that her behaviour and reactions were no worse than how Adi treated Imlie when he first got to his house after marrying her. Also we have to take into consideration, that for Aparna it was an even bigger blow with Imlie living with her and becoming her confidant, but never even mentioning to her that something like this had happened. Aparna was hurt, disillusioned and almost in shock, and reacted exactly how her son once reacted in the similar situation. While I agree that some of her actions are extremely difficult to forgive (her allowing Imlie to be blamed for Adi's kidnapping, her calling Imlie a naukrani, her manipulating situations to support Malini), again the gussa was just a veneer over the love that she had. See if a person loves someone, tabhi nafrat and gussa plays a role in their reaction when they get betrayed. If there are no feelings for that person, then there is only indifference - the way that she now treats Malini - with an almost sense of indifference and surface level cordiality and formality.

After Adi's NDE where Imlie saved him during the SK ka kand, Aparna had started melting, seeing just how Imlie can go through hell to get her son back. Like she told Imlie, she was on the way to accept Imlie as Adi's wife, but the situations later again made Aparna hold back - kind of like how Adi used to hold back after the gunshot episode, every time that he felt that he was going a bit too far with his behaviour with Imlie. Aparna felt bad for Imlie, but kept reinforcing that Malini was her bahu, similar to Adi's mun jaap for his sanity that he used to do to Imlie, to remind her that he can be only Malini's husband.

But the court proceedings and the truth of what actually happened with Adi during Janmashtami, brought things to light to Aparna, the same way that once editor saab explained to Adi that Imlie not being in his life has brought about the sense of depression he was feeling. How once PT explained to Adi regarding doing something to bring hi life on track that prompted Adi to go to PD to get Imlie back, similarly PT's words to Aparna jolted her out of her anger and made her realize that Imlie has always been the bahu she wanted, despite never asking for that haq. Just like how Adi realized his feelings for Imlie when he realized how possessive he was of her on seeing her friendship with Prakash, the same way Aparna realized just how much she missed being with Imlie, when she noticed that Imlie preferred going to PT with her troubles, rather than approach Aparna like she used to before the truth came out. Another parallel was how Imlie was hesitant to sing the aarti with Aparna because she assumed Aparna will not like it, but still Aparna asked her the lyrics and sang along with her - the best parallel was when Imlie assumed that Adi does not like to do puja, but Adi voluntarily went ahead to do the puja with Imlie, thus giving her a pleasant surprise. Like how when the villigers were berating Imlie in PD after hearing that she and Adi were not husband and wife, and Adi stood up for Imlie in front of the villagers calling her his zaroorat, the same way when Malini was trying to malign Imlie and called her careless, Aparna reminded Malini about how Imlie can fight till the end of the earth to get Adi back, and she has full trust in Imlie regarding the same.

Aparna's journey with Imlie has been a long one and difficult for us to watch, because of the nuances and how beautifully the actress convinced us of the inner turmoil that character was facing. While i know it is difficult for a lot of us to come to terms with her character, I still feel that today her candid and almost remorseful confession really convinced me that this saas - bahu relationship is truly going to be as special to us as Adilie's relationship.

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JP, I hope today's episode help you come to terms with Aparna finally accepting Imlie as her own - to the extent of calling herself Imlie's sasuma, which is a big deal for a woman who once told Imlie that she never saw anyone else except Malini as her bahu.

It just strikes me how both mother and son are so similar to each other, that it is uncanny. We always assumed that Adi was adopted because Aparna always considered him last😆. But her behavious was because she was one of the rare mothers who understand that when girls get married in a family, just how much they have to give up to re-build their lives in their husband's family - she once said that to Radhaji as well, when Radha was complaining about the high handedness that AC showed about Adi & Malini's marriage. Aparna had accepted and placed Malini in her mind as her bahu - the same way Adi had assumed that Malini will only be his wife, no matter what happens in his life. That someone like Imlie will ever be in their lives, was something that they could never comprehend.

If you look at Aparna's journey to acceptance, it is very similar, but still a bit different to Adi's journey to accept Imlie in their lives. When Adi first went to PD, he fell in awe of this young, spirited girl who enamored him with her qualites. Which is why when he was forcefully married off to her, it his his ego and his pride that she had to save his life and it was easier for Adi to assume that Imlie had ulterior motives to trap him in a marriage. That assumption of his was very strong till the SR scene and the gunshot episode, where he realized 2 things - 1) Imlie was never the kind to manipulate people to get her way and more importantly 2) Imlie was so ingrained in her life that no matter what, she was connected to him in a way that was beyond his comprehension at that point of time. After that when they came back to Delhi, many times Adi still tried to remind her that Mun was his wife and he will always be with Malini, but somewhere that khichaav was there towards Imlie. That gunshot trauma had opened his heart towards Imlie, while her actions and her behaviour later just cemented her place in his heart. Which was why the pahad jaise aadmi who once said that Imlie would nevr be able to change his stance, was able to make him understand that sometimes what kismat wants, that is what will happen, because god has written it for your own good. AT PD3 when she left him and said that she does not need him anymore, it struck him just how dependent he had gotten of her presence in his life. His need to to go and see her in PD, get jealous of Prakash and finally confess to her that she has made a place in his heart, was all his process of finally accepting that Imlie was, is and will always be his wife and she was written in his kismat for a reason - because she is his perfect partner.

Now if you chart Aparna's journey with Imlie, there are similar such touchpoints there as well. Aparna started with a bit of distrust (she also assumed that Imlie stole the jewellery when the others accused her) then of complete trust, to the point of almost considering her a daughter. She was enamored and fell in love with Imlie and for her she was the closest confidant, with whom Aparna could share everything. During the suicide kand, she did misunderstand Imlie, but realized that she was faulting Imlie for no fault of hers and went back to considering Imlie her own - similar to Adi once misunderstanding Imlie during the suhaag raat scene - where after she saved him, he realized just how wrong he was regarding Imlie. After that, when the truth came out, Aparna had the exact same reaction as once Adi did when he was forced to marry Imlie - that of being faced with a situation that they could never dream of in the wildest imagination. The fact that her son will hide such a huge thing from her and marry a girl who she felt did not match to the picture she had in her head of her bahu was something that was an extremely difficult pill for Aparna to swallow. While I agree that a lot of her words were very horrible and to the extent of even being vile, I still feel that her behaviour and reactions were no worse than how Adi treated Imlie when he first got to his house after marrying her. Also we have to take into consideration, that for Aparna it was an even bigger blow with Imlie living with her and becoming her confidant, but never even mentioning to her that something like this had happened. Aparna was hurt, disillusioned and almost in shock, and reacted exactly how her son once reacted in the similar situation. While I agree that some of her actions are extremely difficult to forgive (her allowing Imlie to be blamed for Adi's kidnapping, her calling Imlie a naukrani, her manipulating situations to support Malini), again the gussa was just a veneer over the love that she had. See if a person loves someone, tabhi nafrat and gussa plays a role in their reaction when they get betrayed. If there are no feelings for that person, then there is only indifference - the way that she now treats Malini - with an almost sense of indifference and surface level cordiality and formality.

After Adi's NDE where Imlie saved him during the SK ka kand, Aparna had started melting, seeing just how Imlie can go through hell to get her son back. Like she told Imlie, she was on the way to accept Imlie as Adi's wife, but the situations later again made Aparna hold back - kind of like how Adi used to hold back after the gunshot episode, every time that he felt that he was going a bit too far with his behaviour with Imlie. Aparna felt bad for Imlie, but kept reinforcing that Malini was her bahu, similar to Adi's mun jaap for his sanity that he used to do to Imlie, to remind her that he can be only Malini's husband.

But the court proceedings and the truth of what actually happened with Adi during Janmashtami, brought things to light to Aparna, the same way that once editor saab explained to Adi that Imlie not being in his life has brought about the sense of depression he was feeling. How once PT explained to Adi regarding doing something to bring hi life on track that prompted Adi to go to PD to get Imlie back, similarly PT's words to Aparna jolted her out of her anger and made her realize that Imlie has always been the bahu she wanted, despite never asking for that haq. Just like how Adi realized his feelings for Imlie when he realized how possessive he was of her on seeing her friendship with Prakash, the same way Aparna realized just how much she missed being with Imlie, when she noticed that Imlie preferred going to PT with her troubles, rather than approach Aparna like she used to before the truth came out. Another parallel was how Imlie was hesitant to sing the aarti with Aparna because she assumed Aparna will not like it, but still Aparna asked her the lyrics and sang along with her - the best parallel was when Imlie assumed that Adi does not like to do puja, but Adi voluntarily went ahead to do the puja with Imlie, thus giving her a pleasant surprise. Like how when the villigers were berating Imlie in PD after hearing that she and Adi were not husband and wife, and Adi stood up for Imlie in front of the villagers calling her his zaroorat, the same way when Malini was trying to malign Imlie and called her careless, Aparna reminded Malini about how Imlie can fight till the end of the earth to get Adi back, and she has full trust in Imlie regarding the same.

Aparna's journey with Imlie has been a long one and difficult for us to watch, because of the nuances and how beautifully the actress convinced us of the inner turmoil that character was facing. While i know it is difficult for a lot of us to come to terms with her character, I still feel that today her candid and almost remorseful confession really convinced me that this saas - bahu relationship is truly going to be as special to us as Adilie's relationship.

tagging the others - sorry if I missed out and it is very long one

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