SidNaaz Unlimited cc 81 ~~~ Beautiful journey - Page 63

Originally posted by: Uma2010

I have mentioned here about a dear co-brother who passed away years back. His wife- my cousin, none of us (including myself and I was a teen then, and that is no excuse) wanted her to marry ever. Or ever even live her life or even smile again for that matter. She had a daughter a few months old then. She never got married. I still grieve my co-brother; my entire family does- such was his charisma. But she is a structural engineer and lives her life extremely successfully and earning more than some of the men in our family. I still know some grudge her success and feel she didn’t live the life of a widow. I wish she had married now. Will we or can we take care of her emotional needs? No.

I hope Shehnaaz does well for her own sake. She as any other human being deserves to live and love and thrive and survive the rest of her years. In whichever way she needs.

As for psychologically sick fans, ofcourse they will get their due. But ironically, look at it this way. They are actually getting their due. They are eating themselves up with their hate and lost one of the best persons in their lives and will continue to compromise themselves and their own futures with their own hate. That is their karma and punishment. They will destroy everything good in their own lives thus. That is their fate as they create it.

And this is truly Kalyug where people have forgotten that their words carry karma for themselves as well.. in this world you may get the anonymity of the web to spew venom but you keep incurring all the bad karma which will be taken into consideration in the next world..

Originally posted by: jayasharma25

I agree with your sentiment…a person should be allowed to live their life the way they see fit. Love, respect etc. cannot and should not be measured by how miserable the people remaining behind are.

Also it takes a certain maturity to love a couple together and yet see them as individuals. And for Sana who is alive…I wish her well and want her to do whatever is good and right for her… the only thing I can give from my side is being non judgemental.

And this is truly Kalyug where people have forgotten that their words carry karma for themselves as well.. in this world you may get the anonymity of the web to spew venom but you keep incurring all the bad karma which will be taken into consideration in the next world..

As for being able to enjoy and understand seeing real love and a couple in love and be able to see them as individuals, it requires a lot of love in one’s own life from all sources as well as self-love of the healthy kind. And constructive living. Imagine the inner lives they lead to spew its symptoms all over. A full glass of whatever will spill, eh? The world so needs more love and inner purification.

Sidharth’s passing away can be a huge learning point. The man did much, showed much, said much… all over his tweets and videos. He preached and practiced love. If people got a percent of that, they would live healthier lives.

In retrospect, his BB days and later strike me of the analogy of the samudra manthan- the churning of the ocean. Looks at the tempers and the dirt that has emerged from the inners of the human ocean… the nectar emerges too for those who can absorb it.

Originally posted by: Uma2010

Absolutely… @ bold 🙏

As for being able to enjoy and understand seeing real love and a couple in love and be able to see them as individuals, it requires a lot of love in one’s own life from all sources as well as self-love of the healthy kind. Imagine the inner lives they lead to spew its symptoms all over. The world needs more love and inner purification.

Sidharth’s passing away can be a huge learning point. The man did much, showed much, said much… all over his tweets and videos. He preached and practiced love. If people got a percent of that, they would live healthier lives.

Originally posted by: jayasharma25

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I for one can say that his passing has taught me so much…the suddenness of it forced me to be more forgiving and emphatic in real life…jab pats hi nahi ki life kitni lambi hain…why carry grudges. I have taken few steps towards spirituality as in making sense of the tragedy I realised how I need to work on my own flaws…so instead of sadness I feel utter gratefulness as he was the catalyst that started this transformation in me

In retrospect, his BB days and later strike me of the analogy of the samudra manthan- the churning of the ocean. Looks at the tempers and the dirt that has emerged from the inners of the human ocean… the nectar emerges too for those who can absorb it.

The last 3 years have been much learning for me too and let me say that enjoying them have only blessed my life. Touchwood. It’s like they sprinkled moon dust on all those who loved them together even while the them faded away…

I can still see their faults, like in any human being, but in the face of the goodness each carry/carried, that’s nothing.

Honsala Rakh is doing extremely well nationally and internationally and I am thoroughly happy for Shehnaaz. I haven't gone out for it as yet, since my family will not let me visit the theatres. I hope she finds all success in her onward journey and that she gets good offers. Sidharth would be absolutely happy seeing her doing well- he was and will always be her rock.

As for Habit, my husband refuses to watch the song. He tries to avoid all talk on Sidnaaz or either of them now. Different people manage trauma differently. But I am repeat watching the MV, just to see Sidharth again. He in those blue shorts I ogled on BB and smiling into the camera at the final shot of the MV is a sight to behold. The editors were kind with their scissors.

We used to wish during BB times to fix a drone camera following them around... the MV gives me a similar feeling 🥲 And Shreya has sung so beautifully... rare to hear a Punjabi track from her.

I haven't watched BBB yet. I haven't watched any of his previous shows either. I will now...

Just came across that VM of Arti’s voice “Sidharth ko bus kisi se paglo valo mohobbat jo jaye” It kills me. I have found my peace with the fact that some people just come down here with a short but large lofe. I am super proud of how he’s lived it.

But I cannot find my peace with SidNaaz. However I try. Whatever I tell myself. It brings me right back to where this heart break started.

Another day passed watching lot of cute funny sidnaaz moments on insta and I was all smiles through out.. In every post there is some comment about destiny playing the main role in their story, them bieng soul mate.

I was wondering they could have met in any normal situation and still be together as bieng soulmate, but coming together like this on national tv was something destiny wanted for us.

In this generation most of the people get busy in work, career and take partner as granted after sometime, we start believing that love happens only in movies and stories.

I feel destiny gave sidnaaz to us to believe in real love once again, to accept our partners with their flaws and strengths equally. Any arguments they had was forgotten with a hug. If we can try to use some positives from their story in our own real life, we will always have a part of sidnaaz with us. We can always cherish the happy sidnaaz memories with smile and not tears.

What the….! It’s 2am here and I can’t stop watching their vidz…..it’s like a bloody vicious circle that I find myself in every few days…..the heaviness leaves only to appear again…..humara yeh hal hai, can’t even comprehend what they must still be going thru 😔

Originally posted by: iram510

What the….! It’s 2am here and I can’t stop watching their vidz…..it’s like a bloody vicious circle that I find myself in every few days…..the heaviness leaves only to appear again…..humara yeh hal hai, can’t even comprehend what they must still be going thru 😔

The females in the house brought out his personal life and tried to project him in negative way to the world but she brought the best person which was hidden in him she showed to the world what a gem of person he ...

she was not stylishly dressed she was like any other normal girl people insulted her for for not having designer clothes but he adored her for the way she was.

He insulted her sometimes and she was angry with him sometimes but deep in their heart they wanted each other .

He was popular ,successfully ,intelligent and handsome guy he could get any girl he wanted but he fell deeply for girl who was completely different from him.

People tried to show he is tough person to handle but she showed to the world he is best to person to fall in love with .

They loved each other even with their flaws .