Sai's ghar vaapsi - Page 2

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

I think for acceptance Sai means, not picking her up for every little thing...to let her breathe...She is genuinely tired with a year of constant nitpicking by the members about her...her habits...her Aaba's love, his upbringing, her eating up her mother...her not being a suitable girl for any family, her not being a good wife...She has been picked up for even using Virat's money... and people say why has she given up her rights on him in front of the family... She does not want to be loved, but accepted as a member of the family, which is a very basic requirement.

I thought about that but still did not like the last bit much. She has people who care for her, now Kaku and Ninad are also pro-sai. She was anyway leaving, so these people should not affect her much, should try to remain indifferent and not indulge with them. She should accept that if they didn't accept her in one year or mended their ways, they won't in future too. Jisko change hona tha ho gaye.. atleast now learn to choose her fights, when she has to live with them.

Originally posted by: nikita05

I think sidies gave them an ultimatum and after Adish's departure, they might not want to lose others. Today Zillat was pro Sai and kaku was back in form after long, so it was okay.

Omi looks funny, roz bataane aa jaata hai, don't forget me or take me lightly, I am the new villain. His hilne dulne wali body language while he delivers his dialogues...🤣

Sai's main problem is this only, she doesn't know when to talk and when to stay silent... Why does she expect everyone to like/ want her...

Originally posted by: nikita05

@bold: patru ka to alag hi hai... She saw them kissing, hugging, hand holding many times, then also she kept looking at their hands in jealousy...Its like everytime she sees Sai and Virat together or Virat tells her that he loves Sai, it's the first time for her. The same expressions of shock/ surprise/ jealousy every damn time.

Virat too could have held sai atleast by shoulders, if not take her in his godi but last accident ke time bhi aise laaya, is time bhi. During Virat's accident time, Sai held him properly.

Ya ...Sai was better in holding Virat ... 😉

@bold... Woh uski great acting ka nateeja hai 🤣

Originally posted by: nikita05

I thought about that but still did not like the last bit much. She has people who care for her, now Kaku and Ninad are also pro-sai. She was anyway leaving, so these people should not affect her much, should try to remain indifferent and not indulge with them. She should accept that if they didn't accept her in one year or mended their ways, they won't in future too. Jisko change hona tha ho gaye.. atleast now learn to choose her fights, when she has to live with them.

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

She don't expect everyone to love her. She is tired of their taunts. By saying not everyone will feel same like you she meant not everyone is happy with my arrival that's why they are taunting me.

She should ignore them. Some won't change, now that she decided to live in CN, whatever was the reason, she should try her best not to indulge with them for her own mental stability.

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

She has people who care for her? Don't think so. If that's the case she wouldn't be receiving taunts from few people even when she is not well. What kind of care is this when they can't stop others from spoiling her mental peace even when she is in her vulnerable state.

See, she has Shivani, Mansi, Samrat, Devi, Ashwini (not a good mother but an okay MIL) but they don't have that much say in matters, Samrat does but he is off and on. She can at best just ignore their taunts, be indifferent.

Originally posted by: nikita05

See, she has Shivani, Mansi, Samrat, Devi, Ashwini (not a good mother but an okay MIL) but they don't have that much say in matters, Samrat does but he is off and on. She can at best just ignore their taunts, be indifferent.

Originally posted by: nikita05

I thought about that but still did not like the last bit much. She has people who care for her, now Kaku and Ninad are also pro-sai. She was anyway leaving, so these people should not affect her much, should try to remain indifferent and not indulge with them. She should accept that if they didn't accept her in one year or mended their ways, they won't in future too. Jisko change hona tha ho gaye.. atleast now learn to choose her fights, when she has to live with them.

I was saying by acceptance she meant, stop picking her up...That affects the mental state... To steer clear.. To not keep pointing her...She does not want to be adored by them..Just be accepted as a human being who can make mistakes...like others in the house...One can think its easy to ignore taunts...But its not, its frustrating..You can ignore on most of the days, that she has been doing recently , but it takes a lot at times to ignore it when you are not in a good mood.. She is taunted for being loved by her father...His bringing her up is questioned...I think its too much to ignore...She was being blamed for getting discharged..She was being taunted when she was on that hospital bed in critical condition...Infact they were name calling her when she was dying...during last accident or this...How does one deal with such people...By ignoring...No on in the house is taunted the way she is , for people to tell her to not react...

Originally posted by: monsi08

Such long never ending scenes of CN family taunting each other back and forth ... It's really too much to handle... saw in bits and pieces .. .🤪

Omi looks like some sadak chhap gunda these days🤢

Frankly, I didn't like what Sai said there... It was not needed ... She should maintain a dignified silence from now on until she gets fully recovered. Somehow her saying anything about who wants her and who not .. made no sense to me

Also the way Virat is holding Sai's hands.. looks so awkward ...I would have loved if he had brought her in his godi and making an entry ... Patralekha ko aag lag jati aur mujhe thanda shower

https://twitter.com/Tarini_Taru/status/1451001158110105602

Mansi could not keep her vaada to keep Patralekha shut and not let her say kadwe shabd to Sai for 2 minutes... Everyone taking coaching classes from Virat...🤣