It’s cringe but it’s good

Yes what’s happening has our blood boiling

But I am happy it’s this way

I would NOT be able to understand what’s happening if they didn’t ruin Raghav’s character

I know it’s weird but he CHOSE to drink with Esha even after KNOWING she loves him

that’s completely on raghav, and now I don’t think I would be okay if he tried to be in love with Pallavi again

I am happy because at least they are showing a situation where raghav is screwing up completely, it’s not just about the one night stand, it’s about the lie afterwards, the meeting up with Esha behind Pallavi’s back, the now consoling Esha, ignoring Pallavi and insulting her love for him

and most importantly now Raghav’s friendship with Esha is getting too far

He is hugging her, getting close to her, all of this is something he’s doing VOLUNTARILY, and it counts as cheating quite literally

and ofc now he’s just flat out decided that Pallavi doesn’t ever need to learn the truth, her feelings don’t matter and as a wife she just doesn’t need to know 😒

takeaway:

thank you makers for at least showing consistency in that raghav is going to continue cheating Pallavi through this actions (Esha) and words (hiding the truth)

At least it gives us no reason to support/justify his actions anymore, he’s not redeemable now

And we get to see both Raghvi grow from this, pallavi will rise again after being broken, and raghav will understand that he needed to give Pallavi his trust and not take her for granted

True , Raghav has messed up as simple as that . Him feeling guilty for Pallavi (at some random point of time in day when he feels like it and is temporarily out of Esha world ) , doesn’t take away the fact that he is cheater , undeserving of love and faith Pallavi shows for him.

Pallavi needs to take stern action now.Raghav is even taking away her right to know truth but goes on to care for ex and confides in sister about infidelity who absolutely has no right knowing such intimate detail while wife is left in dark.

But I doubt it will happen. No expectations from makers.

Raghav disrespected and hurt Pallavi so much after seduction scenes yet today she’s getting head massage from him ? Not at all reflecting on that incident ? Weird .

I would suggest for the precap to play out to see why he went to meet her there. The precaps are misleading always. We all have seen it before.

Also, except for the lying part (which he's doing out of fear of losing Pallavi), post that night be hasnt done anything that's irredeemable in my opinion. He is making mistakes but he's being emotionally manipulated. He needs to repent and Pallavi needs to give him the punishment (commensurate with his crimes).

He loves Pallavi and not Esha. He wants to help Esha out but not due to love or anything.

Originally posted by: joliefemme

I would suggest for the precap to play out to see why he went to meet her there. The precaps are misleading always. We all have seen it before.

Also, except for the lying part (which he's doing out of fear of losing Pallavi), post that night be hasnt done anything that's irredeemable in my opinion. He is making mistakes but he's being emotionally manipulated. He needs to repent and Pallavi needs to give him the punishment (commensurate with his crimes).

He loves Pallavi and not Esha. He wants to help Esha out but not due to love or anything.

I mean I agree that he only loves Pallavi

But his words today are what tipped me off

he’s not solely lying becuase he’s scared she will leave him

before he was lying because he didn’t want her to feel the pain once she figured out

Now he’s scared of losing her and he’s lying

my issue with his closeness with Esha is the fact that he KNOWS she still loves him

Pallavi doesn’t know that Esha loves raghav otherwise she wouldn’t have brought Esha home at any cost

but raghav KNOWS yet he’s still being more friendly with her than needed, that’s all I’m saying

he knew she loved him when he went to the hotel that day, and he knows now too when she is hugging him in the precap

Originally posted by: DivyaaaV

I mean I agree that he only loves Pallavi

But his words today are what tipped me off

he’s not solely lying becuase he’s scared she will leave him

before he was lying because he didn’t want her to feel the pain once she figured out

Now he’s scared of losing her and he’s lying

my issue with his closeness with Esha is the fact that he KNOWS she still loves him

Pallavi doesn’t know that Esha loves raghav otherwise she wouldn’t have brought Esha home at any cost

but raghav KNOWS yet he’s still being more friendly with her than needed, that’s all I’m saying

he knew she loved him when he went to the hotel that day, and he knows now too when she is hugging him in the precap

He is selfish , if love is pure and unconditional he’d have felt some shame and had not chosen to take undue advantage of Pallavi’s trust by keeping Pallavi in dark because he wants her in his life, he is robbing her of right to know truth .

How disrespectful that Keerti knows , girl he slept with is in his home , yet wife remains in dark ?

He is leading Esha on and wants to keep Pallavi to himself, clearly comes off as two timer. ( unless he was hypnotised the day he met )

What emotional manipulation?

Raghav knew Esha loves him from the go , he should have maintained distance like any wise man would’ve , after Esha’s love declaration via text and hug but no he himself walked into the situation and gave opportunity to Esha by giving her hope . His actions don’t support his words .

Originally posted by: DivyaaaV

I mean I agree that he only loves Pallavi

But his words today are what tipped me off

he’s not solely lying becuase he’s scared she will leave him And why isn't that a valid reason for him to lie (not condoning this but I understand why he would do this). Have you never made any mistakes and tried to lie your way through it because the consequences were bad? He also doesn't want to hurt Pallavi. He's made that very clear in his discussion with LWR and when the suicide news was out and Pallavi's reaction to it.

before he was lying because he didn’t want her to feel the pain once she figured out

Now he’s scared of losing her and he’s lying

my issue with his closeness with Esha is the fact that he KNOWS she still loves him If he is clear in his stand and he's not conflicted that he only loves Pallavi, he can't control Esha's feelings. He has cleared his feelings with Esha but that girl is delulu toh kya kar sakte hai. See, there's a lot of emotional manipulation this chick is doing which is making me feel icky. She knows R very well and is trying to understand Pallavi. She's very smartly using this to drive a wedge between Raghvi. Don't go by precap, it may be a second he's touching her out of sympathy and will pull her away. This same thing has happened in M track and made me pull my hair, I've grown wiser not to fall in this tadka trap. IRL also you can be friends with someone who has feelings for you but you've made it clear nothing will happen and try not to lead them on.

Pallavi doesn’t know that Esha loves raghav otherwise she wouldn’t have brought Esha home at any cost

but raghav KNOWS yet he’s still being more friendly with her than needed, that’s all I’m saying he's not being more friendly than needed. According to him, this girl sacrificed her life for saving his. He moved on and has an amazing partner while she is stuck. Despite a divorce her ex is still physically harming her and he's seen that (once in warangal when she was being kidnapped, send tied to the chair and now attacked on the road). How can R leave her to her fate when he feels indirectly responsible? He would do that to a stranger as well. She's nothing more than a chore for him.

he knew she loved him when he went to the hotel that day, and he knows now too when she is hugging him in the precap he has made his feelings for Pallavi quite clear. There's no conflict in his stand at all. Just because you roam with someone who has feelings for you doesn't make it wrong. It was Esha who crossed the line and will use it to emotionally manipulate Raghav in the coming days. If Raghav came to tell the truth, esha can no longer manipulate him.

My replies in red, while I respect your views, I do hope you can see the other perspective

Originally posted by: joliefemme

My replies in red, while I respect your views, I do hope you can see the other perspective

I respect your views

but for me it would have been fine if he had decided to tell her the truth now, after he came to terms with what happened

I could see that Raghav himself was struggling to face his feelings after the mistake, so I can see why he didn't immediately tell Pallavi what happened

but if he loves her then I still expected him as a husband to let his wife know what happened, especially since he has told Keerthi

hiding it for lifetime was not the right solution, especially now that Esha is staying in the same house

He has the woman who he slept with in the same house as him, and I agree that it was Pallavi who brought Esha in but even now he hasn't decided to tell Pallavi the truth

he is fine with Esha staying in the house and that doesn't settle right with me

my only issue is that now he is being selfish, he just wants Pallavi and her love for him to stay but he didn't think about her value and stance as a WIFE

he's letting her be the naive, good hearted person she is, so much that she herself went and brought the girl he slept with and he still hasn't opened his mouth

but I think the bigger problem for me is that Raghav hasn't given Pallavi the trust and respect she deserves, after this issue I expected him to understand that she has the RIGHT to know, regardless of whether she will leave him or not

this isn't the first time, he has lied to her many times before with the fear that she will misunderstand and leave him, and that isn't what marriage is about

I've noticed that in previous tracks so now I'm glad that they are at least highlighting this, although they had to take it to the extreme

Let Rr hug or meet that samosa lady but I want him to come out clean with pallavi .. especially when she is trusting him and and his ex so much that she brought her home ...but nope here he is thinking to hide it for his entire life and start fresh with pallavi 😔just because she will leave him but phir uska mistake bhi toh itna bada hai ..😔

i think pallu needs help of sunny ... rather than being taken for the ride by hubby and his ex 😔

Secondly abt whose mistake it was..they both are equally responsible ..raghav mistake was to trust his ex who came in to his life after 10 yrs and still he thought she is same old esha ...not even he once bother to think she might have change or something .. PPL change in minute here she came back after 10 yrs he should have been careful 😔

And esha mistake is taking advantage of raghav 🤢when he was going with his Jaap of pallavi 😔

Originally posted by: water_83

Let Rr hug or meet that samosa lady but I want him to come out clean with pallavi ... especially when she is trusting him and and his ex so much that she brought her home ...but nope here he is thinking to hide it for his entire life and start fresh with pallavi 😔just because she will leave him but phir uska mistake bhi toh itna bada hai ..😔

i think pallu needs help of sunny ...bas rather than being taken for the ride by hubby and his ex 😔

Exactly

See I know he only loves Pallavi

and I know that he’s just feeling bad for Esha and that he has no feelings for her

I have no issue with hugging him, I have an issue with him hiding it from pallavi

especially after Esha is living in the same house as him

Like Pallavi DESERVES to know, no she has the RIGHT to know but he isn’t telling her

and now he’s just decided that he won’t at all, he’s just going to live his whole life as if it didn’t happen

Originally posted by: Couch.Potato

True , Raghav has messed up as simple as that . Him feeling guilty for Pallavi (at some random point of time in day when he feels like it and is temporarily out of Esha world ) , doesn’t take away the fact that he is cheater , undeserving of love and faith Pallavi shows for him.

Pallavi needs to take stern action now.Raghav is even taking away her right to know truth but goes on to care for ex and confides in sister about infidelity who absolutely has no right knowing such intimate detail while wife is left in dark.

But I doubt it will happen. No expectations from makers.

Raghav disrespected and hurt Pallavi so much after seduction scenes yet today she’s getting head massage from him ? Not at all reflecting on that incident ? Weird .

Absolutely it was a big deal...he literally pushed her away rather than pallavi being upset abt it or questioning him they just showed a random stupid head massage scene where everythg seems k...ridiculous