Superstition/ bahaana

Originally posted by: nikita05

1. Pakhi didi yesterday commenting about Sai-Virat moments in hospital in front of the family as a counter to Omi family's question if Sai would want to return to CN: 'Agar Virat sai ko pyaar se kahega na ki ghar me vaapas aa jaao to Sai daudte hue waapas aa jaayegi'

Pakhi didi in the continuation of same scene today: 'lekin sawaal ye hai ki Sai is Ghar me vaapas lautna chahti bhi hai ya nahi'

Anything, literally anything to increase the said actor's SS.

I would have loved if Sonali or Karishma countered her that some time back they were saying the same thing, she countered it and now back at it.

2. Liked how SaiRat used Devi's excuse to make Sai stay and Virat's genuine happiness at Sai's final decision to stay. He can't use his pati haq as he keeps saying that that he lost it, can't tell Sai to stay at CN because that's her house, since she was leaving and does not want to say, so this bahaana sounds good. I didn't like when he just told Sai to go to Devi-Pulkit's house and visit Chavan Niwas when needed.

Sai wanted to be back to CN, can't do it because it was her decision to leave the house at the first place, so this excuse comes handy too. She wanted Virat to stop her from leaving then she wanted Virat to take her home now after the discharge, Virat not saying it on clear words but using Devi's words... About going to GC, it is not the right time for her to go alone since she is still weak, however can reconsider her decision after she feels better.

I also liked that this time around there was not over dramatic apology, vaada scene with excess of crying (already done last time) since the cycle will be repeated in a month or two, so no point.

Also Sai not forgiving in a blink this time, knowing what she can expect after a few days, her taunts covered praises were good, both their monologues at last knowing each other's bartaav.

Virat accepting and reflecting on his mistakes and bura bartaav👍🏼

3. Kaku actually accepted Sai only for Virat's sake, not with her whole heart. This explains her sudden sweet sugary attitude and talks and also her weak defences when Omi family and Pakhi taunt sai... I liked it. If she accepted Sai for who she is with full heart, it won't make sense, would be too much to take.

4. Also like how Samrat is always kind of reading Pakhi and her expressions and the emotions behind her sugar sweet words while others just take her at face value.

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

Don't think sai is searching for bahana to go to CN. She genuinely didn't want to go to that place. That's why even before virat can convince her she immediately said that's not my house. Even after virat talked to her about what devi tai said about them. She still didn't change her decision. Only when aai talked about possibility of virat getting into danger. She changed decision. Until then she was requesting aai to let her go to GC & apologized her for not accepting her wish to return back. If she wanted to go back CN she wouldn't be worrying about virat's behavior post her recovery. This time she seriously wanted to start new life.

I felt bad yesterday with Virat's suggestion of Sai moving to Devi-Pulkit's. There was lack of apnapan. After that dialogue, came the reference of shuttlecock/ badminton and thikana. She is looking for a thikana. For now, she has just CN and she cannot travel to GC alone in this state. Once she gets okay, she can take her decision and that's not gonna happen because Sai is gonna be in CN only. I didn't like the whole superstition thing but didn't mind it play in today's episode.

Originally posted by: nikita05

2. Liked how SaiRat used Devi's excuse to make Sai stay and Virat's genuine happiness at Sai's final decision to stay. He can't use his pati haq as he keeps saying that that he lost it, can't tell Sai to stay at CN because that's her house, since she was leaving and does not want to say, so this bahaana sounds good. I didn't like when he just told Sai to go to Devi-Pulkit's house and visit Chavan Niwas when needed.

Sai wanted to be back to CN, can't do it because it was her decision to leave the house at the first place, so this excuse comes handy too. She wanted Virat to stop her from leaving then she wanted Virat to take her home now after the discharge (mind vs heart), Virat not saying it on clear words but using Devi's words... About going to GC, it is not the right time for her to go alone since she is still weak, however can reconsider her decision after she feels better.

I also liked that this time around there was not over dramatic apology, vaada scene with excess of crying (already done last time) since the cycle will be repeated in a month or two, so no point.

Also Sai not forgiving in a blink this time, knowing what she can expect after a few days, her taunts covered praises were good, both their monologues at last knowing each other's bartaav.

Virat accepting and reflecting on his mistakes and bura bartaav👍🏼

I agree with all your points except...this one.

Because Firstly, this just shouldn't be the case at all. One should never bring superstitions in a sxenario like this. Don't know what went into maker's mind. But, let just say that Ashwini fell for it, Virat should never have brought something like this in front of Sai because that girl has just suffered PTSD and not from the accident but because of the people in the house so, whether or nor Sai should live with them must be only her decision and not because of this, plus, Virat should have some sense of guilt in him and saying this to bring her back just shows that he doesn't feel any responsibility towards her condition. Secondly, Agar inko dikhaana hi tha to let them say ki Sai tumhari tabiyat nahi sahi h isiliye ruk jao aur phir jab jaana hota to vahi kuch wmotional scene dikha dete, lekin this was wrong. Hum ye sab sahi maan rahe hai kyuki we assume ki Sai Virat se pyaar karti h. Haan krti h kyuki ye serial h but still there is a pretty good chance ki vo abhi bhi na karti ho (maybe just like or infatuation). In that scenario just imagine, that girl wants to leave a toxic environment to get some mental peace after having such a breakdown but she cannot leave because she feels responsible for someone else's life, vo bhi aisa insaan jo uske accident ke baad ki haalat mein usse maafi maangne ke jagah uske dimaag mein superstition bhar raha hai. And now she cannot leave kyuki ab agar gayi aur Virat ko kuch bhi hua then she would always live with the guilt ki uske kaaran hua.

This is some other level toxic shit. I know and I have seen the effect such kind of thoughts have on people. It eats them from inside. Aur Sai ke jaisi haalat mein to aur bhi zyaada. And the makers aren't even thinking one bit.

This is why I left watching the show, aur ab tracks ke baare mein sun ke to aisa lag rha h ki shaayad kabhi continue karungi bhi nahi.

P.S.: Loved your 3rd point though.

Originally posted by: ShipIsSailing

I agree with all your points except...this one.

Because Firstly, this just shouldn't be the case at all. One should never bring superstitions in a sxenario like this. Don't know what went into maker's mind. But, let just say that Ashwini fell for it, Virat should never have brought something like this in front of Sai because that girl has just suffered PTSD and not from the accident but because of the people in the house so, whether or nor Sai should live with them must be only her decision and not because of this, plus, Virat should have some sense of guilt in him and saying this to bring her back just shows that he doesn't feel any responsibility towards her condition. Secondly, Agar inko dikhaana hi tha to let them say ki Sai tumhari tabiyat nahi sahi h isiliye ruk jao aur phir jab jaana hota to vahi kuch wmotional scene dikha dete, lekin this was wrong. Hum ye sab sahi maan rahe hai kyuki we assume ki Sai Virat se pyaar karti h. Haan krti h kyuki ye serial h but still there is a pretty good chance ki vo abhi bhi na karti ho (maybe just like or infatuation). In that scenario just imagine, that girl wants to leave a toxic environment to get some mental peace after having such a breakdown but she cannot leave because she feels responsible for someone else's life, vo bhi aisa insaan jo uske accident ke baad ki haalat mein usse maafi maangne ke jagah uske dimaag mein superstition bhar raha hai. And now she cannot leave kyuki ab agar gayi aur Virat ko kuch bhi hua then she would always live with the guilt ki uske kaaran hua.

This is some other level toxic shit. I know and I have seen the effect such kind of thoughts have on people. It eats them from inside. Aur Sai ke jaisi haalat mein to aur bhi zyaada. And the makers aren't even thinking one bit.

This is why I left watching the show, aur ab tracks ke baare mein sun ke to aisa lag rha h ki shaayad kabhi continue karungi bhi nahi.

P.S.: Loved your 3rd point though.

It actually seemed in the show that Virat was trying to convince her using bahaana, couldn't say I want you to be back so was using Devi's name and words. Ashwini might have actually it for something serious, but for Virat, it was a bahaana only. I don't think Virat knows about Sai's PTSD well, given how poor the psychiatric session was and how the psychiatrist gave all the details of Sai's mental condition to Pulkit and not Virat. This time Virat's apology, vaada wouldn't have worked, Sai would not have forgiven him. It's quite recent when she got into that CA wala accident and all this happened then. And tabiyat theek na hone ka bahaana ki go when you are well, was done at Virat's hospitalization time. To is baar ye laaye. Illogical hai but it worked for them. And this serial shows some toxic, regressive things, since the start, usme kuch naya to nahi hai. Sai is angry at him for his behaviour but also craves for the care. She just wants him to come clear off Pakhi. If she could have escaped to Gadchiroli well without getting into the accident, it would have been good but ab to she has to go to CN and Sai+CN= Drama and Sai+Virat= SaiRat, two things that bring them TRP, Sai ko kaise jaane dete. Sai kind of gave up in front of Ashwini, according to her monologues she had before leaving CN that she didn't have the heart to refuse some members of the family. Ye superstition and guilt wali baat was much but a smaller reason wouldn't have made her stay this time.