Oh my Ashwini! 🙈🙄 - Page 4

Originally posted by: KBBofRCIBC

Its long time I stopped looking at her expressions and interpreting her scenes. I just listen to her dialogues. Though her dialogues are as delusional as her acting 🤦🏻‍♀️🙄🤣

Along with didi I have added her to the list of actors for bad or over emoting. Can’t stand her dialogue delivering. These actors forget they are not on stage but in front of a camera. 😳😖

Virat usually in the past always seems to sincerely apologize after screwing up but this time he hasnt really apologized. He acknowledged that Sai is mad at him and in this episode he kinda acknowledged that he did behave badly but he didnt apologize nor did he explain the reason for his bura bartaav either. Sai still doesn't know what had him so upset. She told him when they were arguing last week about her theory that hes upset to see pp samrat together because thats his lover n brother. So he cant see them together but at the same time he wants his brother to be happy too. But virat didnt clarify that hes not upset about that. So Sai is still insecure about her place in his life.

I understand that he doesn't want to get into an argument when she's in the hospital but it was a good opportunity to say SOMETHING. I think when both of them are calm is a goodtime to address their problems. Its rare that both are actually listening to each other. When they argue their minds are shut off. But Virat lost another chance to say something meaningful....

You have pointed out almost everything from the episode ❤️..

Aahwini is truly getting on my nerves day by day.. I really don't understand her selective blindness when it comes to her son.. She wants the world to prove that Virat is nothing like his father but the way she brushes off his misdeeds is never going to do anything better for her godu 🤔..I was appalled that psychiatrist not once asked Virat to talk to her.. And Neither Virat made any attempt to consult with the doctor to know about Sai's condition.. Then why the hell He needed to sign when Sai was in desperate need starting her treatment .. 🤢so lame lame lame 👎🏼

I was observing Sai Bai and really she is still in right place.. The Sai joshi is still intact in her.. She didn't get carried away this time with Virat's care and attention.. She spelt the the truth bomb why she had to be in the hospital for him to be nice with him?? She does love him but not the kind as a partner.. She can't trust him for obvious reasons.. She feels lonely that's why she always wants him to be around her because this is the man with whom she shared every aspects of life.. The only man she has ever been close to after her Aaba.. She can see CN clowns sudden change in their behaviour but deep down she knows they will change once she gets better.. That's when the doctor informed them about her release she looked terrified to back to the hell.. At this moment this girl needs peace rather working on her marriage.. She needs to feel loved and wanted..Wished the psychiatrist said piece is more important than love..

Ashwini is also annoying me in this track, particularly with the OTT reactions and acting. I also hate that she is emotionally blackmailing Sai to return, as she has done previously and continuously. She never spends the same time trying to lecture Virat to understand Sai. I agree she is very much Virat's mother and Sai's MIL.

That being said when I stood back to think about perspective and the story telling what she said today, in light of the recent tracks, made perfect sense and was in character. She has known PK has been an issue in the marriage, which is why she continuously used to make comments about PK earlier on and before Samrat's return (e.g. the one about her action in tearing up the Ladakh tickets leaving questions in everyones mind). However, after the accident track she called out both Virat and PK in the room and Virat confirmed to her that he is thinking only about Sai, who he accepted had carved out and earned her own place in the family and he told her he did not want to speak to PK, but she came there herself. The next major event was the cafe incident when Virat said that he is not living in the past, he has moved on and only considers PK his friend (itself problematic IMO). So, what she said today is what Virat told her and the family. She has no reason to, and Virat is not shown to be in the show, a liar or dishonest person (his actions are questionable but not dishonest to the audience who know his pov), doubt what he is saying. During the fights where Virat and PK were harassing Sai Bai, Sai did not reveal to Aai about what she thought about Virat and PK and PK's sick intentions. Sai did not reveal this to anyone other than Virat and PK, and Samrat overheard. What Ashwini did witness is Virat locking Sai up, but not knowing the reason behind it. Sai never shared how she was feeling with Ashwini and neither did Ashwini check in with her and get her to open up (itself a failure on Ashwini's part). That is why she made the comment about Virat becoming like Ninad - this was about him locking her up, not what he was doing with PK because Ashwini was not aware of PK coming into the room and ganging up on Sai.

Now, I am not saying Ashwini is not at fault for not looking deeper at Sai's troubles and depression, nor am I saying she right to ignore what Dr Anjali said about PK being an issue (Dr Anjali IMO looked slightly annoyed when she tried to brush this off), but her response that it is in the past and Virat has cleared it is right from her perspective because that is all she has seen, heard and has no reason to disbelieve. She has not been privy to everything else that had been happening. As I said, that does not mean I think she is right or that she does not carry any fault. She is not and she does. She is also frankly disgusting for emotionally blackmailing Sai, rather than trying to understand and support her DIL. However, all I am saying is what she said today is entirely consistent with what she knows. That is why when I watched the clip a second time after thinking about it I was slightly less irritated.

Even if she knew everything I dont expect her to sit down and talk to Virat. She really can't get through to him anyway. She has tried a couple of times n couldnt do much....the only thing she can do is let the couple be and sort out things themselves.

I completely agree with you. I suspect which is why this whole separation track is being introduced by Ashwini to force them to their own realisations. It has the potential to have good Sairat scenes if they are hiding to meet other etc., but whether it allows them to address their issues and communicate is doubtful to me.