*~*TAZBU (SaiShi and RaghVi) AT 16*~* Bakhuda Tumhi Ho - Page 19

Originally posted by: joliefemme

I calculated as under:

Next weekend P gets to the truth of the night

After she gets to esha ka truth

2 weeks to showdown

Mid November - This is taking into account mhrw speed. But if they get ratings it can go till end of November

Please let this be over by Diwali. I want Raghav and Pallavi to celebrate Diwali at least happily. One festival, one Puja - that is all I ask for. Can we not have 1 festival for Raghav and Pallavi without Esha happily. I really hope by Diwali Esha is out of Raghav's life and Diwali is when Raghav - pallavi come together as husband and wife.

Guys how many want to bet we are termed as raghav solo stans just because we objectively see that he made mistakes but didn't cheat on Pallavi. We have always said we love Raghvi equally.

Why is it so difficult to allow the woman the agency to decide her stand in a marriage and accept her decision. Walking away or staying and giving the marriage a chance (here there's no cheating is involved), should be Pallavi's own choice. It doesn't make her strong or weak. This is such a myopic view of relationships.

Human relationships and emotions are complex. You can't take impulsive decision because they affect your whole life. Ufffff.

Originally posted by: PSharada

Yeah M track was much bearable even when Mandar was husband of P because we did not have this cringe ONS happening. They butchered Pallavi a lot but I guess they did not dare do anything more than the drugged kheer with Pallavi because the audience might not accept Pallavi as Raghav's wife later on. That is what they should have done here too. They could have shown that Esha drugged Raghav and Raghav could be in the misunderstanding of something happening. I really hope they will somehow end this track like that - that nothing happened and Esha took advantage of R in his unconscious state. Somehow for me the yardsticks are same - be it Pallavi or Raghav. I can't give a free pass for Raghav just because he is the ML.

They will show how Esha trapped Raghav and nothing happened.

The drinking was considered instead of drugging to make R more guilty of his involvement in the process. It's tadka nothing more. He's acting out of guilt rn.

Yes my reaction would be same if genders are reversed. This has nothing to do with genders or with characters as I love them both equally (even though P stands at a superior moral ground)

Originally posted by: joliefemme

Guys how many want to bet we are termed as raghav solo stans just because we objectively see that he made mistakes but didn't cheat on Pallavi. We have always said we love Raghvi equally.

Why is it so difficult to allow the woman the agency to decide her stand in a marriage and accept her decision. Walking away or staying and giving the marriage a chance (here there's no cheating is involved), should be Pallavi's own choice. It doesn't make her strong or weak. This is such a myopic view of relationships.

Human relationships and emotions are complex. You can't take impulsive decision because they affect your whole life. Ufffff.

I am feminist but I don't think walking out of marriage for everything is the right way to go. And here it is quite clear that Raghav would never cheat on Pallavi when he is sober. Yes mistake happened and as long as he walks the path to rectify the mistake and assures Pallavi of her place in his life why should Pallavi walk away from the marriage - a marriage where she got everything she wanted in her life. Raghav is a very protective husband but he never forces his ideas on Pallavi. Pallavi is free to pursue her things and Raghav is proud of Pallavi the way she is. She truly is the queen of his world - Why would she leave everything and walk away? I definitely would not do that if I were in Pallavi's place. Yes I would definitely let Raghav know the hurt that his actions caused but then I would forgive and move on because it is very rare you get a love like that in your life. Walking out would be a punishment for both Raghav as well as Pallavi.

Originally posted by: PSharada

I am feminist but I don't think walking out of marriage for everything is the right way to go. And here it is quite clear that Raghav would never cheat on Pallavi when he is sober. Yes mistake happened and as long as he walks the path to rectify the mistake and assures Pallavi of her place in his life why should Pallavi walk away from the marriage - a marriage where she got everything she wanted in her life. Raghav is a very protective husband but he never forces his ideas on Pallavi. Pallavi is free to pursue her things and Raghav is proud of Pallavi the way she is. She truly is the queen of his world - Why would she leave everything and walk away? I definitely would not do that if I were in Pallavi's place. Yes I would definitely let Raghav know the hurt that his actions caused but then I would forgive and move on because it is very rare you get a love like that in your life. Walking out would be a punishment for both Raghav as well as Pallavi.

Thanks for this response 🤗. I totally agree with you. I'd do the same thing if I was in such a situation. Doesn't make me weak for staying back in a marriage.

Raghav is going to repent and become the best husband for P. He's not cheated her but he made few mistakes. It's a win situation for her if u ask me. He'll never take her for granted. Though I want her to shut him down or take a short break so he knows she can leave if she choses to. This time the redemption should be bigger.

You stay back because a love like this isn't easy to let go.

Tagging Soni because we've been having a conversation around this and I want her to read it.

Originally posted by: joliefemme

Thanks for this response 🤗. I totally agree with you. I'd do the same thing if I was in such a situation. Doesn't make me weak for staying back in a marriage.

Raghav is going to repent and become the best husband for P. He's not cheated her but he made few mistakes. It's a win situation for her if u ask me. He'll never take her for granted. Though I want her to shut him down or take a short break so he knows she can leave if she choses to. This time the redemption should be bigger.

You stay back because a love like this isn't easy to let go.

Tagging Soni because we've been having a conversation around this and I want her to read it.

Ren, Raghav truly admires Pallavi and he has given his life's reins to her. He is lost without her in his life. After the shootout he truly had the fear of losing her. That is why this ONS doesn't make sense to me. The Raghav who got his wife after a near death experience would never ever do something stupid like this. It is clear butchering of the character by the creatives to get Raghav being guilty of the situation and to get the ex tadka in. Now after all this I am damn sure he will realize that his actions will hurt Pallavi and hopefully this will help him in not doing stupid mistakes like these. Of course, I do want him to tease and fight with Pallavi every now and then - I just love their childlike fights and Raghav fighting for Pallavi's attention is so cute.

Absolutely agree with both of you here. Walking out of a relationship is not an option always. People stay together because they love and so long as both the people in a relationship - marriage or not - wants to stay in and work towards it... they will find a way out.

Raghav has his head messed up at the moment but his heart is very much Pallavi. He's burning inside out... can't see eye to eye with his wife... with his mother... and I am sure every time he looks in the mirror he condemns himself and find only hate. He made a mistake, he knows it and I don't have an iota of doubt that he'll work to make things work all over again between himself and Pallavi. He'll redeem himself not for his amma this time, he will redeem himself for her and for them. This will help him to sort out his priorities. He will realise that his actions are going to have an impact on her and he needs to value, protect and cherish her and this relationship.

RR mansion is the place where Pallavi is adored and valued. Thats her home. This is the first family where she truly got a sense of belongingness. And she should walk out of it? Why? How will it help her pain? A life of loneliness and exposure to D clan exploitation all over again, is going to help her?

If Raghav a seasoned abuser, a habituated cheater or slept with esha on his own accord Pallavi should have considered to put an end. But here the premise is not that. She must call out Raghav for all that he's been doing and may be just take a small break too. But I am sure once they work out a way out of this misery, Raghav is only going to realise how he's equally accountable for making things work.

Originally posted by: PSharada

Ren, Raghav truly admires Pallavi and he has given his life's reins to her. He is lost without her in his life. After the shootout he truly had the fear of losing her. That is why this ONS doesn't make sense to me. The Raghav who got his wife after a near death experience would never ever do something stupid like this. It is clear butchering of the character by the creatives to get Raghav being guilty of the situation and to get the ex tadka in. Now after all this I am damn sure he will realize that his actions will hurt Pallavi and hopefully this will help him in not doing stupid mistakes like these. Of course, I do want him to tease and fight with Pallavi every now and then - I just love their childlike fights and Raghav fighting for Pallavi's attention is so cute.

I agree, he was sloshed and slept off. My best bet nothing happened and it's a trap by Esha. The tadka of cheating and guilt is to garner publicity for trps for new slot.

Raghav would never cheat on Pallavi. I can bet on this. They will be able to move on from this incident and build a beautiful future together. This isn't a deal breaker imo.

I really hope this time around it is Farhad and Amrutha who help Raghav. If Raghav for some reason is unable to confess the deed to Pallavi due to Pallavi having ear pods or something else, I want Raghav to talk to Farhad and confess everything that happened. I want Farhad and Amrutha to be objective about Esha and start digging the past story of Esha. We have few BTS of Raghav in the den alone and I am hoping he is trying to piece together the information he has at hand.

With Raghav he becomes an emotional mess easily. But then he is able to rationally sort the things and I am hoping the fight with ex-husband will tip him off or something like that.

Originally posted by: PSharada

Ren, Raghav truly admires Pallavi and he has given his life's reins to her. He is lost without her in his life. After the shootout he truly had the fear of losing her. That is why this ONS doesn't make sense to me. The Raghav who got his wife after a near death experience would never ever do something stupid like this. It is clear butchering of the character by the creatives to get Raghav being guilty of the situation and to get the ex tadka in. Now after all this I am damn sure he will realize that his actions will hurt Pallavi and hopefully this will help him in not doing stupid mistakes like these. Of course, I do want him to tease and fight with Pallavi every now and then - I just love their childlike fights and Raghav fighting for Pallavi's attention is so cute.

But I still very strongly feel nothing happened between them there. Its all a cook up. He's trapped. And even its deed, he never had anyone else in his conscience other than pallavi. Its such a sly and stealthy movements to enter and capture his life.

1. Resign from the job to gain some brownie points. Deal signed and got the job back (whatever be the reason. She's not aware of Raghav Pallavi conversation)... so step one complete!

2. Sending "me too" to see his reaction. Not reported to wife... not bluntly told off... bingo!

3. Cook up a sob story... start emotional blackmail. Gain sympathy... mission accomplished!

4. Make him drunk. Had he been drugged, he would have put two + two together. So yes, she knows how to get him do her bidding... Try your moves. He's not rude anymore... some progress!

5. Get him to believe something happened and lines were crossed... level crossed!

6. Try reigniting old flame now that the premise of ONS is established. Man not moved. wants to end...move failed!

7. Again sob story of abusive husband... not letting anyone touch her... Professing love... EMA proposition! Man offended and wants to flee. (They have yet not shown us what Raghav told her before getting her to RR mansion. I am sure, its definitely not an acceptance to her proposal)... so at least get him to empathise and hang around his neck... smart move!