Clearing things up

Okay so people seem to be confused over what I’m saying so let’s clear stuff up:

Raghav:

1.
I hold him accountable for forgetting his promise to Pallavi and drinking, but this isn’t that big of a deal (in the context) and I forgive him for it

2.

I DO NOT hold him accountable for what happened that night, be it sex or just sleeping together, he was not in his senses and he thought it was Pallavi

3.

I DO hold him accountable for lying to Pallavi about that night, he is making a huge mistake here

4.

I DO hold him accountable for not telling Pallavi that Esha still has feelings for him

He needs to trust Pallavi and let her know and she wasn’t wrong in asking, Raghav was wrong in snapping and shutting her off

Other:

he was comfortable with Esha hugging him and he pushed Pallavi away

He was guilty and feeling bad for Esha so I can see where he was just being friendly and now he can’t bear the guilt and let Pallavi close to him so he’s pushing her away, I see no cheating here

Pallavi:

1.
I don’t expect her to understand or forgive raghav and she has every right to leave him

2.

I also will NOT judge her if she does forgive him and decides not to leave

It is her decision here, and she is being wronged in many ways, she doesn’t know that Esha has feelings for Raghav AND she doesn’t know that they spent a night together

and in the coming episodes she won’t understand Raghav’s concern for Esha because she doesn’t know that Esha’s feelings have reignited after that night

but at the end she loves raghav and moving on from him might be poison for her, if she chooses to stay it DOES NOT MEAN she has no self respect


Esha:

the less we talk about her the better

1. I hold her COMPLETELY accountable for what happened that night, she CHOSE to be with Raghav in his drunken state KNOWING he wasn’t thinking about her

Originally posted by: DivyaaaV

Okay so people seem to be confused over what I’m saying so let’s clear stuff up:

Raghav:

1.
I hold him accountable for forgetting his promise to Pallavi and drinking, but this isn’t that big of a deal (in the context) and I forgive him for it

2.

I DO NOT hold him accountable for what happened that night, be it sex or just sleeping together, he was not in his senses and he thought it was Pallavi

3.

I DO hold him accountable for lying to Pallavi about that night, he is making a huge mistake here

4.

I DO hold him accountable for not telling Pallavi that Esha still has feelings for him

He needs to trust Pallavi and let her know and she wasn’t wrong in asking, Raghav was wrong in snapping and shutting her off

Other:

he was comfortable with Esha hugging him and he pushed Pallavi away

He was guilty and feeling bad for Esha so I can see where he was just being friendly and now he can’t bear the guilt and let Pallavi close to him so he’s pushing her away, I see no cheating here

Pallavi:

1.
I don’t expect her to understand or forgive raghav and she has every right to leave him

2.

I also will NOT judge her if she does forgive him and decides not to leave

It is her decision here, and she is being wronged in many ways, she doesn’t know that Esha has feelings for Raghav AND she doesn’t know that they spent a night together

and in the coming episodes she won’t understand Raghav’s concern for Esha because she doesn’t know that Esha’s feelings have reignited after that night

but at the end she loves raghav and moving on from him might be poison for her, if she chooses to stay it DOES NOT MEAN she has no self respect


Esha:

the less we talk about her the better

1. I hold her COMPLETELY accountable for what happened that night, she CHOSE to be with Raghav in his drunken state KNOWING he wasn’t thinking about her

Well said. I totally agree. 👏

Thanks for clarifying. I agree 100pc with everything you've said.

I've been saying the same thing in all threads. Confusion kaise hua mujhe samaj hi nai aa raha

I feel as misunderstood as Raghav uffff.

My wish is to see this play out like you have described. Fingers crossed!!

Originally posted by: Shakti1604

My wish is to see this play out like you have described. Fingers crossed!!

I hope so too!

I want to see her call him out

I also want to see her make a decision regarding their relationship

^ that in my opinion would be a strong Pallavi, let her steer the direction of their life, let her overcome the pain and listen to her heart

if that lets her forgive him, then so be it, if not then she'll find a new way to live!

Originally posted by: euphoric

Thank you

even I wish Raghav had just been more CAREFUL and not foolish

As you said, Esha said ILU to a MARRIED man, he should’ve caught that as being wrong

At the end his foolishness could’ve prevented this but I think his lies are the bigger problem here 👍🏼

Originally posted by: DivyaaaV

Okay so people seem to be confused over what I’m saying so let’s clear stuff up:

Raghav:

1.
I hold him accountable for forgetting his promise to Pallavi and drinking, but this isn’t that big of a deal (in the context) and I forgive him for it

2.

I DO NOT hold him accountable for what happened that night, be it sex or just sleeping together, he was not in his senses and he thought it was Pallavi

3.

I DO hold him accountable for lying to Pallavi about that night, he is making a huge mistake here

4.

I DO hold him accountable for not telling Pallavi that Esha still has feelings for him

He needs to trust Pallavi and let her know and she wasn’t wrong in asking, Raghav was wrong in snapping and shutting her off

Other:

he was comfortable with Esha hugging him and he pushed Pallavi away

He was guilty and feeling bad for Esha so I can see where he was just being friendly and now he can’t bear the guilt and let Pallavi close to him so he’s pushing her away, I see no cheating here

Pallavi:

1.
I don’t expect her to understand or forgive raghav and she has every right to leave him

2.

I also will NOT judge her if she does forgive him and decides not to leave

It is her decision here, and she is being wronged in many ways, she doesn’t know that Esha has feelings for Raghav AND she doesn’t know that they spent a night together

and in the coming episodes she won’t understand Raghav’s concern for Esha because she doesn’t know that Esha’s feelings have reignited after that night

but at the end she loves raghav and moving on from him might be poison for her, if she chooses to stay it DOES NOT MEAN she has no self respect


Esha:

the less we talk about her the better

1. I hold her COMPLETELY accountable for what happened that night, she CHOSE to be with Raghav in his drunken state KNOWING he wasn’t thinking about her

Love is all complicated is what I can say!.

It requires maturity and sensibility to understand this track. I feel for Raghav because he was not in his senses and she took its advantage. I dont know why people are calling him a cheater. He is not a cheater.

They way he was hallucinating Pals says it all.

He is heads over heels in love with her. Yes, he should have exercised caution to not have drinks with Esha . Regarding him hiding it from Pallavi , thats human tendency - I think we all can relate .

Its just that when he pushed her today , her condition was unbearable for me. The way she was looking at him after the push , it was kind of hurtful.

As I said , love is indeed complicated. It is not bounded by principles and rules. If Pals thinks that forgiving Raghav can lessen her pain and she is ready to let go off her self respect, I support her. But I want the makers to atleast show an emotional outburst from her side. Thats all I want.

She will definitely understand Raghav in the end . But let him also realise - as lungi wala Raghav said today ,"Tujhe khudpe control nahi hai " , let him learn to not let things go out of control.

For Raghav:

" Please share every damn thing with your wife. She will try to understand you".

Thanks Divyaa for tagging.

"RR is not a cheater". He just loves Pallavi.

Originally posted by: DivyaaaV

Okay so people seem to be confused over what I’m saying so let’s clear stuff up:

Raghav:

1.
I hold him accountable for forgetting his promise to Pallavi and drinking, but this isn’t that big of a deal (in the context) and I forgive him for it

2.

I DO NOT hold him accountable for what happened that night, be it sex or just sleeping together, he was not in his senses and he thought it was Pallavi

3.

I DO hold him accountable for lying to Pallavi about that night, he is making a huge mistake here

4.

I DO hold him accountable for not telling Pallavi that Esha still has feelings for him

He needs to trust Pallavi and let her know and she wasn’t wrong in asking, Raghav was wrong in snapping and shutting her off

Other:

he was comfortable with Esha hugging him and he pushed Pallavi away

He was guilty and feeling bad for Esha so I can see where he was just being friendly and now he can’t bear the guilt and let Pallavi close to him so he’s pushing her away, I see no cheating here

Pallavi:

1.
I don’t expect her to understand or forgive raghav and she has every right to leave him

2.

I also will NOT judge her if she does forgive him and decides not to leave

It is her decision here, and she is being wronged in many ways, she doesn’t know that Esha has feelings for Raghav AND she doesn’t know that they spent a night together

and in the coming episodes she won’t understand Raghav’s concern for Esha because she doesn’t know that Esha’s feelings have reignited after that night

but at the end she loves raghav and moving on from him might be poison for her, if she chooses to stay it DOES NOT MEAN she has no self respect


Esha:

the less we talk about her the better

1. I hold her COMPLETELY accountable for what happened that night, she CHOSE to be with Raghav in his drunken state KNOWING he wasn’t thinking about her

Very well said👌

Hi behen main thoda pooja keliye ready horahi hoon I will read the post later and answer

Thanks for tagging me

Originally posted by: joliefemme

Thanks for clarifying. I agree 100pc with everything you've said.

I've been saying the same thing in all threads. Confusion kaise hua mujhe samaj hi nai aa raha

I feel as misunderstood as Raghav uffff.

Same here, I've been trying to explain but I'm exhausted now. I give up.