ZMGA Episode Discussion Thread 1 - Page 106

Originally posted by: hapc

This is where I disagree. A lot of studies show that children who have been hit by their parents have a negative effect of that trauma. In case of criminal activities I think it is ok but for mistakes I don't think you should be hitting your child.

-Yes you are correct that's why I also mentioned about "physical abuse" and also know about real victims of the same in real life. That again should not be shown in ITV but I don't find it really wrong if the parents are trying to disciple and correct the mistakes of their children giving one or two or some punishment. Obviously not harsh punishments which the child can't bear. It can be severe in cases of criminal activities like Kabir using blackmailing to get the job. Yes he desperately needed that job but he should have not chosen a criminal way out.

-I know how important it is to discipline and correct your children at an early age because I am a teacher by profession. I have seen a lot of over-spoilt brats because of the very over-caring affectionate nature of some parents. They don't correct their children and give us that task. We don't use any penal punishments in schools only rebukes. If we try to school such spoilt brats by rebuking them then their parents will take a stick and beat the teachers in front of the students and staff. That has become the situation right now while it was the exact opposite when I was in school.

-Which is why I have a feeling it's better the parents themselves correct their children and it's much healthy for the child's mental health also.

Originally posted by: myselfriya

-Yes you are correct that's why I also mentioned about "physical abuse" and also know about real victims of the same in real life. That again should not be shown in ITV but I don't find it really wrong if the parents are trying to disciple and correct the mistakes of their children giving one or two or some punishment. obviously not harsh punishments which the child can't bear. It should be severe in cases of criminal activities like Kabir using blackmailing to get the job. Yes he desperately needed that job but he should have not chosen a criminal way out.

-I know how important it is to discipline and correct your children at an early age because I am a teacher by profession. I have seen a lot of over-spoilt brats because of the very over-caring affectionate nature of some parents. They don't correct their children and give us that task. We don't use any penal punishments in schools only rebukes. If we try to school such spoilt brats by rebuking them then their parents will take a stick and beat the teachers in front of the students and staff. That has become the situation right now while it was the exact opposite when I was in school.

-Which is why I have a feeling it's better the parents themselves correct their children and it's much healty for the child's mental health also.

I agree. Disciplining is necessary. Spoiling children is also harmful but parents should know what it the appropriate level of punishment

Originally posted by: myselfriya

– I don’t wish Pritam loses his temper again on Amrita tomorrow when he sees that little rattle with her. Already Amrita and Soni keep misjudging him all the time even when his anger to them is mainly justified. On top of that Amrita keeps shouting at Pritam and talks rudely to him everytime as if she has all the rights which is so wrong. I can’t take any more of those moments where Amrita and Soni misjudge again if Pritam gets angry with them for the rattle because only we viewers know the baby topic is really sensitive for Pritam which is why he gets angry everytime when it is something related to his child. I don’t understand why was Amrita even hiding and literally spying on Pritam today? She always acts as this bold woman and shows attitude to Pritam in the house yet spying on him in the bank. This madam jasoos’s spying business is getting on my nerves now.

– Regarding the child part, there will be more unveiling in the coming weeks. I wonder if the child is physically disabled or mentally challenged because of some accident happened in the past due to Pritam’s enemies? I got this doubt because Rahul is in some child care centre and that can be a reason that Pritam’s ex-wife Vishaka is holding a grudge against him?

I am waiting to watch his reaction after taking the rattle from Amrita. Has the softening towards the fam be kept in mind or writers go back to day1.

And yes, he gets emotional abt anything related to the lil one. Eager to see the dynamics of these new characters. 🤞🏻

I have seen some people's suggestions of stories for the serials in comments so I thought I too will add my suggestions for zmga's story here today

- To start with I want a good brotherly bond develop between the trio Pritam-Angad-Kabir. @Anu said yesterday that Pritam is the zindagi the ray of hope who has entered Sakhujas life so I want the CVs to develop on that concept. Angad and Kabir should be the first ones who start seeing the brother they have lost in Pritam and for that there needs to be a subplot created around the three. For Kabir since he has lost his job and I really don't wish he rejoins Meera's office, there can be a subplot where Pritam like a big bro helps Kabir see some of his inner talent which the other Sakhujas could not see as they always treated him as a good for nothing. In that way Kabir starts spending more time with Pritam and also start calling him bhai officially. For Angad since Pritam has also gone through a broken heart situation he should be able to help Angad more with that part. He already gave a really good advice to Angad earlier with respect to second chance now he should make Angad learn and use it and also give a second chance for Meera. I desperately want Angad-Meera to patch up and don't want Kabir to end up with Meera.

- Second part, since Angad-Meera-Kabir are parallel leads, I want to suggest something on their story. I too have a feeling of a new love angle coming for Angad with Reema. Actually I was reminded of ssk2 listening to this name. Many tanya sharma fans used to say that Reema is a name formed by inverting Meera, hahaha. I don't want Reema to be paired with Angad and CVs destroying his character later. Let Reema be paired opposite Kabir not Angad. I wish the entry of Reema brings Meera closer to him with some jealously track. Perhaps, they can take a track like Reema enters into Angad's life and falls for him but he doesn't reciprocate as he still loves Meera but tries hard to move on from Meera. On the other side Meera starts missing Angad more and more when she sees certain traits of him in Kabir and starts recognizing that the traits she always wanted in her life partner were all of Angad's adding on to that should be some brewing up of jealously in Meera seeing Angad and Reema together and also at the same time there can be a unveiling of KK's truth in front of Meera. Finally, everything leads Meera to go back to Angad when Angad also inspired by Pritam will be ready to give Meera and himself a second chance.

- It would be nice if there is a small track of Soni's story too. Perhaps along with Navin, where Soni's offline classes begin and she goes to college which is the same college as Navin. There Navin under the effect of all the drugs he is taking gets infatuated towards Soni and tries to seduce her or something but when she doesn't give in, he becomes violent but by time Pritam and his team reaches him, saves Soni and sends Navin to some rehabiliation centre. It would be good if it happens because by this way all the sakhuja siblings will be developing a brotherly affection for Pritam.

- Now the most important of all on how I suggest Amritam's story can be. From what we all know about Amrita she will still not be satisfied even after what Pritam does for the three sakhuja siblings and imo she will be even more annoyed that they have started looking upto him as their big bro. So perhaps after more of Pritam's child and wife's story is unveiled. There can be instances with more clashes of Pritam and his ex Vishaka for which he brings his child to the Sakhujas place, again obviously there will be reactions from Sakhujas, then one day Vishaka lands up in the Sakhujas place. When Pritam asks her get out, Amrita being a would-be mother will support Vishaka, however that will cost both her and Pritam when Vishaka brings some goons to take away her child. Pritam will try to fight those men but they will sabotage the house and keep Amrita at gunpoint while trying to take away Rahul. Pritam attempts to save both, but there is a gunshot, Pritam manages to save Amrita but unfortunately the bullet hits Rahul killing him. As usual Pritam will be completely heartbroken on the other hand the sakhujas will be relieved that Amrita and her baby are safe. Athough from that moment Amrita will start seeing Pritam in a totally different light it will be too late as Pritam losing his last hope will return back to his shell isolating himself from all sakhujas and also mansoor uncle. Vishaka probably can go to jail for a while and perhaps return later. After losing Rahul, Pritam can be shown to move on by trying to focus more on his missions and deciding to move out from the sakhujas place which will dishearten all the sakhujas as all have grown fond to him especially the siblings who will face the same pain of losing their big brother once again but none will dare stop him. Amrita can be shown guilty for having judging Pritam wrong all that while and in a way responsible for his condition too so she will take courage to try stopping him. On the day when Pritam is leaving Amrita will deliberately send all away outside Angad-Kabir office, Soni-college, Nimmo-Guneet-to their shop, Dadaji-Beeji to a photoshoot in the next lane and Kamli to get something from the market. Once there is none in the house Amrita will decide to go upstairs and talk to Pritam in person, but while climbing the stairs Amrita gets labour pains and cries out. Pritam and the neighbors get alarmed. Pritam comes out and sees Amrita in that condition and try to call out the elders when Amrita will inform him that none is at home. Pritam as usual will be grumbling and cursing the sakhujas when Amrita will ask him he can better take her to the hospital than doing that, the neighbors will echo. Poor Pritam will have no other go. There will also be some big problem something like traffic or something else where Pritam will try his best to reach the hospital but there will Amritam's banter like yesterday's episode one till they reach the hospital making the hospital staff think Pritam to be Amrita's husband and asking him to assist her in delivery even when he resists. Perhaps they can continue Amritam's banter even in the labor room with Pritam saying he became her forced husband now and asks her to make it fast as he has other work where as we all know of Amrita she will give him a tight slap like that scene of 3 idiots and ask him if she is some express train or what to make it fast and Pritam again will grumble saying ye baat madam jasoos always wanted to slap me but was waiting for the right moment. Soon our champ will come and the doctor will perhaps place the baby in Pritam's hands. On seeing champ obviously Pritam will remember his own Rahul, have an emotional moment with him and gets attached. Soon the sakhujas arrive and all the family moment.....towards the end Pritam looks at champ from far, gets Pritam reminded of Rahul again decides not to leave the Sakhujas house so finally Amrita does succeed in stopping leaving sakhujas place indirectly. Subsequently there will be a father-son bond between champ and Pritam which will slowly pull Amrita towards Pritam and the story can continue like that.

- These are purely my thoughts/suggestions on how the story can be because imo the current tracks of emotional family drama, meera-kabir cringe office nok-jhoks and also Amrita's non-stop spying, criticizing and scolding Pritam is quite draggy. If the CVs really want to add up drama I wish they take it the way something like I have written or if they have something else better then even that way but not really a bhabhi-devar romance. I know such track brings trps but then it has become very frustrating and depressing lately to watch it in every other show.

- As expected Pritam got agitated and got angry at Amrita and Soni for his son's rattle yet one aspect I really like about Pritam and mainly the MLs of the ITV serials is that Pritam accepted that he reacted harshly, apologized and also thanked Amrita for returning the baby toy. I don't know if I'm the only who thinks it this way because I always have a feeling the FLs in ITV usually never apologize and especially they never apologize to the MLs even if they commit mistakes. What I have observed mainly is that in ITV even if the FLs have to apologize then there will be some dialogue from the ML saying to FL no you don't have to apologize whatever you did was to save me, my family, my family's honor so and so which doesn't really go well for me.

- Although Pritam got agitated and reacted madly he asked sorry and also said thank which was really sweet. I don't understand why does this soni and that maid kamli keep asking unnecessary questions to him. For instance, when he came today and told that it is for his friend's child birthday, soni immediately asked do you even have friends? If I was in Pritam's place I will tell her why do you even care? I mean keeping discussions about him to themselves is alright why do they have keep bothering him asking each and everything? Also for that rattle why are they even bothered to know why he is having kids toys with him. Again isn't it his choice and his life? He is just their tenant and doesn't really have the responsibility to answer to all their nosy questions? Are the landlords in delhi really this nosy?

- Seeing the precap I have started doubting if Pritam is an undercover cop or Amrita. Now she has also started following him to places too? What is really the need for that? Amrita is really acting like some undercover cop and her only mission seems to be to spy and follow Pritam everywhere which I really don't understand why.

- Meera seems to have a doubt on Navin yet since it is related to drugs, I have a feeling that it will come into light through Pritam.

- So Vishaka is seen to be making her entry this week perhaps Reema will come next week. Interesting, Vishaka is seen fighting with Pritam yet introduced through Amrita not Pritam....hmm.

Originally posted by: Prriyam

few things I noticed in today’s episode. Amrita reached first. She actually took the file out too. Then she loitered around, just to do jasoosi and left after him. She really is behind him. 🤣

Mansoor uncle. Another crazy question that entered my head. Does he have a family or a house? He always meets Pritam in a tea-shop. Though Pritam treats him like a family.
Also, he never goes to court. The assistants get everything done for him. Big shot!

Pritam was ❤️ and his voice and the modulations.

For Nimmo, they are portraying her as a character who is annoyed and shouts all the time. Today, a simple dcene where Soni was asked to bring water, Kabir had to be scolded. 🤔

Kabir would be super impressed that Meera helps him out, by hiding. 😳

Do you think, Pritam would yell at Amrita tomm when she returns the toy he lost?

Like I say she's obsessed with him and she'll be one hell of a nosy/clingy wife to him🤣🤣 Even in today's precap she's yet again after him doing jasoosi on him 🤣 She needs a life!!

Mansoor uncle's wife died and he has a son Danish is the name I think. He's also handing Pritam's child related case I think.

Nimmo as a mother sucks big time!

@b I sorta expected him behaving the way he did tbh. I thought he'll be angry at first and later apologise when he realises his mistake and that's what he did. But that A fam uff!! Soni has also started annoying me now. She's way too much nosy for my liking! 😑

Originally posted by: myselfriya

- As expected Pritam got agitated and got angry at Amrita and Soni for his son's rattle yet one aspect I really like about Pritam and mainly the MLs of the ITV serials is that Pritam accepted that he reacted harshly, apologized and also thanked Amrita for returning the baby toy. I don't know if I'm the only who thinks it this way because I always have a feeling the FLs in ITV usually never apologize and especially they never apologize to the MLs even if they commit mistakes. What I have observed mainly is that in ITV even if the FLs have to apologize then there will be some dialogue from the ML saying to FL no you don't have to apologize whatever you did was to save me, my family, my family's honor so and so which doesn't really go well for me.

- Although Pritam got agitated and reacted madly he asked sorry and also said thank which was really sweet. I don't understand why does this soni and that maid kamli keep asking unnecessary questions to him. For instance, when he came today and told that it is for his friend's child birthday, soni immediately asked do you even have friends? If I was in Pritam's place I will tell her why do you even care? I mean keeping discussions about him to themselves is alright why do they have keep bothering him asking each and everything? Also for that rattle why are they even bothered to know why he is having kids toys with him. Again isn't it his choice and his life? He is just their tenant and doesn't really have the responsibility to answer to all their nosy questions? Are the landlords in delhi really this nosy?

- Seeing the precap I have started doubting if Pritam is an undercover cop or Amrita. Now she has also started following him to places too? What is really the need for that? Amrita is really acting like some undercover cop and her only mission seems to be to spy and follow Pritam everywhere which I really don't understand why.

- Meera seems to have a doubt on Navin yet since it is related to drugs, I have a feeling that it will come into light through Pritam.

- So Vishaka is seen to be making her entry this week perhaps Reema will come next week. Interesting, Vishaka is seen fighting with Pritam yet introduced through Amrita not Pritam....hmm.

Totally agree with you. Today Soni annoyed me big time. Even Amrita as well. They want Pritam to keep away from their matters but want to know and discuss everything related to him

Precap is again Amrita get some work from home job plz🥱

I loved Pritam room scene where he was imagine he was talking to his kid and showing the gifts❤️

Originally posted by: SRKian

@b Ppl don't have problem with parents disciplining their children, they have problem with the normalisation of slaps in itv! In every other itv show someone or the other is slapping. Not only slapping, they even go beyond that! In PS the motherlike figure Dhara bhabhi beat her brothers in law inhumanly for some mistakes, in MHRW the mother(kaku) beat her daughter with a racket,again in the same show the ML got N of slaps, and almost every side characters in that show got slapped at least once and I'm sure there are so many other shows where they showed all these in the name of disciplining. that's why personally I feel ppl are right in pointing out the normalisation of slapping in itv.

coming to Kabir,why did Kabir had to take such an extreme step to get the job?? the family including Amrita was and still is wrong to compare him with their picture perfect son, Karan every single time .We all hate being compared to Sharmaji ka beta/beti here Kabir gets compared to his own perfect brother day in and out. His mother's love for him is conditional. She throws chappals at him whenever she's angry at him. She doesn't even talk to him properly always shouting or comparing.Apart from Amrita and Angad to an extent every other fam members love for Kabir is conditional. I'm not saying Kabir wasn't at fault,He of course was! but slapping him in front of everyone that too twice is not the way imo. And that's exactly what even Pritam said which I liked. Make him understand like Pritam did. if you ask me ,it's a miracle that Kabir doesn't resent Karan.The fam doesn't see their fault. Good that today finally the father accepted he and his wife were also at fault.And no I'm not stanning Kabir coz the actor is good looking. I genuinely like the character and imo this character can have an excellent growth if handled well.

@gb - Actually I don't know really a lot about normalization of slaps nor I watch the two serials you are talking about rn so I really can't say much about them. I used to watch mhrw and pandya before. Pandya don't remember, in mhrw the only slap I remember was RR slapping his sister. Imo, that girl really needed that because she was constantly going insulting her brother for no reason at all. So at that point she the sister needed to be taught how to behave with elders and her brother did the right thing to give her one tight slap.

-Yet my point was more to do about the parents slapping children in ITV and I was actually disappointed how people have problem even with the parents slapping a character like Jasmine in "Udaariyan". Imo, it was the main fault of the parents of Jasmine and also the elder sister that they never disciplined their daughter that she became such a spoilt brat who has no respect of other's feelings but still people don't like the parents slapping her. Agreed that they should have done it earlier not now but still they do have the rights to slap her when she is wrong.

@vb- Agreed the circumstances force a person to do crimes yet again it is completely the choice of the person to commit a crime or not. Yes, the family and all the comparisons forced Kabir to get a job but none in the family had ever told him to get it the wrong/criminal way. It was Kabir's own choice to take the criminal path and for that he alone is to be blamed.

-Saying that I'm not justifying the family's mistakes at all, they especially the parents Nimmo and Guneet are completely wrong in comparing their own children, have you ever watched star bharat's lga? Compared to that Nimmo and Guneet are gods because in that show there is a situation where the mother says to the younger son it would have been better if I had given birth to two Raghav which is the elder son instead of you. I stopped watching the show after that because it was very seeing how the mother used to compare her two sons in that show.

-My point is that we can't mix Kabir's crime with his parents mistakes both are separate. Kabir is to be blamed in own way and the parents in their own way.

@gb - Imo that is a normal reaction on how a parent who hates his child going the criminal way would react yet agreed not twice once would have been enough.

@bb - Yes Pritam did make Kabir understand and felt bad for him getting slapped twice in front of everyone but he too never accepted Kabir's criminal act remember he told Amrita it was wrong to have slapped twice yet then Pritam agreed with Amrita that Kabir criminal act was such that he needed that slap. He agreed with Amrita slapping Kabir in the 7:46 minute part of day before yesterday's episode.

@pb - Actually I was talking about the twitter people and Imo Ishaan acts a bit over at times. The character is good but he too is acting like a spoilt brat sometimes like in day before yesterday's episode Kabir-Angad's conversation clearly reflected that he is getting spoilt because of Amrita's love. It's understandable that he is immature yet it does not mean he can hide and get away everytime using that immaturity tag on him.

- I also observed that Beeji and Guneet had a problem with Pritam's hair being not well-made when they first met him in the episode he came to see the room. Imo, if they don't have problem how their own son Kabir's hair is made then why should they have a problem with their tenant's hair?

Originally posted by: myselfriya

@gb - Actually I don't know really a lot about normalization of slaps nor I watch the two serials you are talking about rn so I really can't say much about them. I used to watch mhrw and pandya before. Pandya don't remember, in mhrw the only slap I remember was RR slapping his sister. Imo, that girl really needed that because she was constantly going insulting her brother for no reason at all. So at that point she the sister needed to be taught how to behave with elders and her brother did the right thing to give her one tight slap.

-Yet my point was more to do about the parents slapping children in ITV and I was actually disappointed how people have problem even with the parents slapping a character like Jasmine in "Udaariyan". Imo, it was the main fault of the parents of Jasmine and also the elder sister that they never disciplined their daughter that she became such a spoilt brat who has no respect of other's feelings but still people don't like the parents slapping her. Agreed that they should have done it earlier not now but still they do have the rights to slap her when she is wrong.

@vb- Agreed the circumstances force a person to do crimes yet again it is completely the choice of the person to commit a crime or not. Yes, the family and all the comparisons forced Kabir to get a job but none in the family had ever told him to get it the wrong/criminal way. It was Kabir's own choice to take the criminal path and for that he alone is to be blamed.

-Saying that I'm not justifying the family's mistakes at all, they especially the parents Nimmo and Guneet are completely wrong in comparing their own children, have you ever watched star bharat's lga? Compared to that Nimmo and Guneet are gods because in that show there is a situation where the mother says to the younger son it would have been better if I had given birth to two Raghav which is the elder son instead of you. I stopped watching the show after that because it was very seeing how the mother used to compare her two sons in that show.

-My point is that we can't mix Kabir's crime with his parents mistakes both are separate. Kabir is to be blamed in own way and the parents in their own way.

@gb - Imo that is a normal reaction on how a parent who hates his child going the criminal way would react yet agreed not twice once would have been enough.

@bb - Yes Pritam did make Kabir understand and felt bad for him getting slapped twice in front of everyone but he too never accepted Kabir's criminal act remember he told Amrita it was wrong to have slapped twice yet then Pritam agreed with Amrita that Kabir criminal act was such that he needed that slap. He agreed with Amrita slapping Kabir in the 7:46 minute part of day before yesterday's episode.

@pb - Actually I was talking about the twitter people and Imo Ishaan acts a bit over at times. The character is good but he too is acting like a spoilt brat sometimes like in day before yesterday's episode Kabir-Angad's conversation clearly reflected that he is getting spoilt because of Amrita's love. It's understandable that he is immature yet it does not mean he can hide and get away everytime using that immaturity tag on him.

- I also observed that Beeji and Guneet had a problem with Pritam's hair being not well-made when they first met him in the episode he came to see the room. Imo, if they don't have problem how their own son Kabir's hair is made then why should they have a problem with their tenant's hair?

I do get your POV and you're right as well but like said ppl are against of slapping in general in itv not with parents disciplining.At least that's what I've understood. Don't watch udariyaan so no comment on that. In MHRW the ML slapping his sister was maybe right but the no.of time he himself got slapped was wrong. He got at least 10+ slaps and out of those he only deserved 3/4 at max. He still gets beaten by his wife which some ppl find funny but reverse the gender and the same ppl will complain. That's the reason why some of us are against slap or any kind of physical punishment in itv be it on women or men.

@UL That's was the point I was trying to make. Both the parents as well as the child was at fault in this particular scenario which is why I felt the slap was unnecessary because more than getting angry and slapping him it was important for them to realise that they too were at fault.And that's why I liked how Pritam handled that situation. He understood both sides, made both the parties realise where they went wrong. Personally,I like that method better than getting physical or verbal.

Kabir was wrong with the way he behaved with Angad and so were Angad and soni with all their taunting about him wanting chicken leg piece for dinner.Let the guy have his food first then scold him all they want. Like I said before both Kabir and family are at fault and they both need to talk and realise things more than shouting or slapping.

@green like Pritam said in an earlier epi they don't see any problem in them but make him villain over everything 😆

Originally posted by: SRKian

I do get your POV and you're right as well but like said ppl are against of slapping in general in itv not with parents disciplining.At least that's what I've understood. Don't watch udariyaan so no comment on that. In MHRW the ML slapping his sister was maybe right but the no.of time he himself got slapped was wrong. He got at least 10+ slaps and out of those he only deserved 3/4 at max. He still gets beaten by his wife which some ppl find funny but reverse the gender and the same ppl will complain. That's the reason why some of us are against slap or any kind of physical punishment in itv be it on women or men.

@UL That's was the point I was trying to make. Both the parents as well as the child was at fault in this particular scenario which is why I felt the slap was unnecessary because more than getting angry and slapping him it was important for them to realize that they too were at fault. And that's why I liked how Pritam handled that situation. He understood both sides, made both the parties realize where they went wrong. Personally,I like that method better than getting physical or verbal.

Kabir was wrong with the way he behaved with Angad and so were Angad and soni with all their taunting about him wanting chicken leg piece for dinner.Let the guy have his food first then scold him all they want. Like I said before both Kabir and family are at fault and they both need to talk and realise things more than shouting or slapping.

@green like Pritam said in an earlier epi they don't see any problem in them but make him villain over everything 😆

@UL Yes that was one of the reasons why I left the show. The only place where I agreed with RR of mhrw getting slapped is when his FIL slapped him for defaming the FL's character by coming to their home in the middle of the night. There RR was absolutely wrong and he deserved it but otherwise the way his character shaped and was treated in the whole show was not really appreciable. I mean his own mother, sister and his secretary always found fault with him but they never acknowledged any mistakes which the FL did. Imo, there was too much of an unnecessary flaunting of the FL and I have observed it in every other serial which is why I quit all shows in the middle. To hear those flaunting lectures upto a certain limit is alright but it becomes too annoying after a limit.

@bb - Exactly, nowadays what is happening is that the MLs are often shown to be arrogant and rude which is considered as wrong according to the CVs yet if the FLs are arrogant and rude then they are supposed to be strong and independent according to the CVs. I don’t know why the CVs are propagating such wrong notions? Men or women both are human, both should be considered the same way and not one superior or inferior to another.

– Same way in this serial also when Pritam is arrogant and rude he is called a b*st*rd by everyone but none says anything if Amrita is arrogant and rude? Infact there is a striking resemblance between Amrita and Meera’s characters. Both don’t see their own mistakes but are too quick to shout and judge the men Pritam and Angad who are much better than them. I read somewhere that Meera, Angad, Kabir are the parallel leads. Well, I feel both the FLs of this show are similar.

– Recently Vishal Singh of Saathiya said in an interview that ITV is a woman dominated industry which is why the male characters always face inequity in most of the ITV serials. It has become better in current shows earlier in shows like Saathiya the male characters including the leads did not have much role itself. They use to stand and watch all the drama created by all the women in the show.

@bl I have a feeling we are of different POV there but I understand your POV and not just you majority think in that way while I strongly believe physical punishment yet not abuse is also required not only for disciplining but also for enabling a strong psychic strength of an individual especially at a younger age.

@bg Yet their mistake is not to be confused with the Kabir's both are different. Parents made a mistake but according to the good values and lessons they gave him while upbringing him, Kabir should not have chosen the wrong way out.

-He could have worked harder and tried to get job in a different company not blackmail his boss and get the job, so that slap was for Kabir's own criminal act not anyone else's.

@bg Yes Pritam's method was good but he acted more like a big bro not a parent and that is why he agreed later that Amrita also was right in slapping Kabir because after all what Kabir did is a crime and nobody can change that fact.

@bv Imo, Angad and Soni were not actually taunting Kabir, they were scolding him for his indifferent attitude. Agreed he is immature and carefree by nature and that's not bad but when he did such a crime and the family is in debt of 1 lakh all because of him the least he could do is that leave that I don't care no matter what attitude of his for some time, accept his mistake, eat and go.

-Imo, it was Kabir who taunted Angad saying that he never got a job out of his own merit but because of someone's recommendation and that was a horrible taunt.