Sorry Raghav, not yet... - Page 2

Originally posted by: AnushkhaA

He does love her, value her and respect her... what he is doing is borne out of his own deep rooted insecurity of abandonment. He needs to come out of it to be able to move on in the truest sense. Him not telling about the night is wrong. But his intention isn't. He is scared she will leave him.

And he knows he can't live without her. And he also knows that she can live without him. That is where this thing is coming out of. I am not justifying him lying. I'm telling that we need to stop telling Pallavi deserves respect, trust and love (implying Raghav doesn't give that to her) and say she deserves honesty and the truth.

Raghav loves her there is no doubt about that, not at all.

But I agree to disagree about respect and value here. He's always lashed out at her, kept her separate from his business and family and insulted her at the drop of a hat (I have several instances to cite but let's not get into the details here).

I totally get his insecurities and abandonment issues but what assurances has Pallavi not given - left D family for him, never left him during accident track or the idealogy track, gave him assurances multiple times during Mandar track and even taken a bullet for him.

I'm giving him the benefit of the doubt only due to his intentions but lying to Pallavi is wrong on so many levels. Like you said can't be justified or defended at all. Just because he fears she leave him and go, he's taking away her choice to stay married to him or not. He knows he can't survive but she can and so does it make it right to lie. I really hope he does eventually tell her the truth.

There's no marriage without honesty and truth and that is what Raghav is denying her. If he respects her he should come clean. I stand by my words that Pallavi deserves a partner who loves and respects and values her and is honest to her, coz she gives the same back in return to Raghav. It's a two way street.

Originally posted by: Couch.Potato

I won’t forgive Raghav for emotional infidelity unless he comes clean about it to Pallavi but physically he didn’t cheat .

He should atleast show some respect for his wife and spill the truth about night to her.

Agree with you.

In first place why even encourage Esha to drink when he knows that they are alone in the room. He is not a kid to go on and drink just because she said she don't want to drink alone. He choose to stay in same room. He choose to deny that he was actually uncomfortable with Esha's love confession, he further choose to play let's see who wins in drinking competition.

Surely, later cvs will show that deed did not happen but what all Raghav did is not acceptable. Yes, as a human he did right when he saved Esha from his divorcee husband but there was no need to hold her hands and take her from that place. He could have just said to her come lets go. He could have asked her to stay in room and stayed at lobby. When Esha said I got whiskey, he could have said its not appropriate to drink now but he went on to drink for her. He did not once said that he is no more in love with her so not to keep any hopes. But he said he is not uncomfortable.

Sickand has butchered his character and how👏

Originally posted by: AnushkhaA

I think I'll wait for this entire track to play out and then comment anything. I don't wanna do a blunder like I did yesterday. I know we as women will tend to get hyper in this situation mostly biasedly due to obvious circumstances.

But I don't want to come out as a pseudo feminist just as such. I will see first how this track plays out and what exactly happened. Because seeing it from this point, I can't blame Raghav per se.

Cause I have been thinking if roles were reversed all our reactions might have come out differently. But as someone here so maturedly said, our perspectives on seeing various situations differ generically so all are welcomed to their interpolations.

While I respect your opinion but this is what I feel…Raghav cheated Pallavi period… there was no doubt yesterday and everything got confirmed today…there is no room for speculations…at least for me..

Any committed Man who values integrity and fidelity in a relationship would have just helped the lady aid the wound and left her to rest…but what does Raghav do…

He engaged in an intense eye lock with her, he melted in that moment in the sense he got attracted to her..his past feelings resurfaced…

Accepted to drink with her inspite of knowing she was in a vulnerable state…

Let her express her feelings for him and hug him…

After breaking the hug, he not once said this is wrong instead he said he understands her, like really is that what you do when your Ex hugs you and is confessing how she is still in love with you…is this not encouraging her…

She stops him and asks, is she making him uncomfortable and he says NO.. so he was completely fine with her love confession and hug..I am not saying this, it came from the horse mouth…if this is not leading her then what is it??

She again confesses about wanting to make fresh memories with him and asks him to stay..and he STAYS…if he had a little bit of integrity in him he would have left her to rest at least at this point but no he STAYS BACK…is this not encouragement from his end that they still had a chance..

She challenged him to get sloshed with her and HE AGREED…now leading her to another level…

Let’s not forget when all of this was happening she was in a vulnerable state not him…he was in his senses to comprehend the right and the wrong, where they are crossing the line…he went after her, saved her from her husband, held her hand and brought her to the room and forced her to reveal her past and present….

What’s the most disturbing thing is NOT ONCE in the entire night did Raghav show the intent to leave her alone…

Raghav from the point of eye lock till he got sloshed was engaging in infidelity & emotionally cheating Pallavi and was also leading & encouraging Esha in full conscience…his actions left no room for any doubt…

Esha molested him…was she Wrong in taking advantage of him…YES YES YES..I say it was not wrong it was a Criminal Act which deserves punishment under law…But does that take away the fact that He Cheated Pallavi and actively participated in encouraging Esha in full consciousness..NO…

Did he cheat Pallavi YES

Did he encourage/lead Esha YES

Was he sexually abused YES

They have ruined Raghav irrevocably and no amount of redemption or sympathy is going to change that…Raghav Rao, who once insulted Anjali and ruined her engagement because she wanted to have some fun with him while being engaged to another man, was today cheating his loving wife, while having fun and getting sloshed with his Ex…

Ps: Esha didn’t drug him, she consumed the same alcohol and Raghav got sloshed at his own will…

I think all of you are forgetting that he had just come to know that Esha had practically sacrificed her own happiness for his safety whence all these years he had been berating and cursing her.

What is a man supposed to do at this stage? Wouldn't he try to make her feel a little better? A little at ease or perhaps not so awkward? Her sharing a drink with her was perhaps to show his unworded apology or acceptance of her deed. He will definitely not be uncomfortable with a woman... whom he had once loved. Who was his friend before being his girlfriend. And who, as he had just come to know had saved his life.

How was he supposed to know that she would end up doing something like this?

Like during the Mandaar track Pallavi initially hadn't felt uncomfortable with Mandaar right? That wasn't her fault even though she didn't know him at all? Even though it was implied to the audience that he is a creep.

Originally posted by: AnushkhaA

I think all of you are forgetting that he had just come to know that Esha had practically sacrificed her own happiness for his safety whence all these years he had been berating and cursing her.

What is a man supposed to do at this stage? Wouldn't he try to make her feel a little better? A little at ease or perhaps not so awkward? Her sharing a drink with her was perhaps to show his unworded apology or acceptance of her deed. He will definitely not be uncomfortable with a woman... whom he had once loved. Who was his friend before being his girlfriend. And who, as he had just come to know had saved his life.

How was he supposed to know that she would end up doing something like this?

Like during the Mandaar track Pallavi initially hadn't felt uncomfortable with Mandaar right? That wasn't her fault even though she didn't know him at all? Even though it was implied to the audience that he is a creep.

Please read Any2975's post. I rest my case.

Wow.

If this all you feel and so strongly then there is nothing left to say. I would rather keep a neutral opinion on this till I see the entire thing. But like you said, though I donot agree with you at all... we are all free to have our own opinions.

This was a neutral post though and to negate something I said earlier. Which I donot agree with now. You can visit the those posts too were they are having similar opinions about this.

I donot agree with her post. But its okay to have your own opinions. Chillax!

Originally posted by: AnushkhaA

I think I'll wait for this entire track to play out and then comment anything. I don't wanna do a blunder like I did yesterday. I know we as women will tend to get hyper in this situation mostly biasedly due to obvious circumstances.

But I don't want to come out as a pseudo feminist just as such. I will see first how this track plays out and what exactly happened. Because seeing it from this point, I can't blame Raghav per se.

Cause I have been thinking if roles were reversed all our reactions might have come out differently. But as someone here so maturedly said, our perspectives on seeing various situations differ generically so all are welcomed to their interpolations.

Agree to what you have said... I am too waiting for this track to unfold.. no matter what I deeply feel RR won't cheat on Pallavi ever... He loathe that thing very clearly and I don't see him doing the very same and I want to put trust in makers on this particular thing if not on other issues... I just hope that Pallavi doesn't get to know this truth from Sunny or Isha or some third party. RR always used to speak truth and I don't want to see this trait of him being discarded..

Did he not get insecure when Pallavi wanted to help Mandar coz of the same guilt of moving on while her ex was suffering..how can he engage in something which he felt so bad about in the past…that’s hypocrisy right!!!

Definitely it will be hypocrisy but if I was telling that Pallavi has no right to be insecure. I never said that she can't be insecure. I said that just like I defended Pallavi because during the Mandaar track knowing she is doing it out if guilt, I will say the same for Raghav. That whatever he did was done out of guilt. Agreeing to share a drink that is...

Had I bashed Raghav instead for feeling guilty that would have been hypocrisy don't you think?

No one knows what happens in the future so that doesn’t mean they loose perspective of right and wrong in a given situation.. Raghav had many options to handle this situation in better way…but he not only chose not to exercise it but also indulged in inappropriate behavior..

Hmm.. like Pallavi should have known that Mandar will turn out to be an obsessive psychopath? So she shouldn't have stayed to help him heal? Then according to your logic, that is her fault then.. she could have handled it better. And how could Raghav have handled it better? Helping with first aid and then move out of the room after being told that Esha willingly married an abusive ba*tard to save his life? And what was inappropriate according to you? Drinking with her? Was it because he broke the promise or because he was drinking with Esha?

Pallavi did not know about Mandar’s obsession but she was daft towards his intent & behavior and she got called out for it multiple times throughout the track and to this day..on the other hand Raghav knew Esha’s intense love for him even before the night and in fact he even connected to her emotionally during the eyelock and still activity engaged in encouraging her…and we still defend him…that beats all logics…

Well I don't know what others did but atleast I hadn't called her out for that. Instead I did defend her at that time. I can share the link of that post I had given during that time too.. if you want. And I didn't think Raghav connected with Esha at an emotional level with an eyelock.. I found it awkward. Nothing was said or implied. Other than that Esha found it pleasing.. obviously coz she still loves him. How we interpret it is our own wish. He wasn't encouraging her advances hon... I didn't see him doing anything of that sort. In fact Esha hadn't made any move on him till then.. it was after he passed out she went closer... didn't she?

Thanks you so much dear 🤗

I am requesting the same from yesterday ..

Happy to see fans staying and then comment on the situation of raghvi

i will Wait and watch on tv to support 😊