Sorry Raghav, not yet...

I think I'll wait for this entire track to play out and then comment anything. I don't wanna do a blunder like I did yesterday. I know we as women will tend to get hyper in this situation mostly biasedly due to obvious circumstances.

But I don't want to come out as a pseudo feminist just as such. I will see first how this track plays out and what exactly happened. Because seeing it from this point, I can't blame Raghav per se.

Cause I have been thinking if roles were reversed all our reactions might have come out differently. But as someone here so maturedly said, our perspectives on seeing various situations differ generically so all are welcomed to their interpolations.

Exactly. I will wait for it too. The Raghav I know and unabashedly love would not even dream of hurting Pallavi this way. There is something yet to play out. I love him still and will love him but he truly deserves a knock on his head to behave responsibly and try and come clean to Pallavi. Looks like Redemption 2.0 is on the cards for Raghav 3.0😆. What the!!! He’s been drunk silly many times and he still never touches Pallavi inappropriately. This ex is playing him and for sure sunny will blackmail Raghav for money , perks of staying on in RR mansion and what not. This is going to get messy even more. Guilt stricken Raghav I can digest but not one who gives in to blackmail. But looks like it’s going that way and Pallavi ofcourse will be the saviour? And Raghav crying copious tears and grovelling? Sigh .. what’s new?!!😵

Yeah. Today I’m going to wait for what a variety of people say before making assumptions. Still can’t bring myself to watch epis

I won't be able to watch the episode (not living in India though to contribute TRP) but I will also wait for the track to play out. Not sure how this will affect RR, as he seem on guilt trip based on BTS.

I'm sure there is more than meet the eyes, and definitely something is not right, and I'm confident RR will be innocent. But who and how he is saved items to be watched, if going by ITV norm, likely will be Pallavi.

But till then, him staying away from Pallavi when she is on full seductress mode will be hard to watch as we'll, for the first time, I hope instead of him avoidinghim her, something interrupts them.

I'm sure fans are showing their unhappiness in social media, and knowing the makers, the episodes are going in good paced, so hope this matters clears by next week.

This week starts their slot at 5.30pm , now it's survival mode, no longer can trial and error new crappy tracks.

Somehow I always feel the writers are extremes I writing the tracks. Wish the showed Eesha and Raghav differences cleared, then being friends, Pallavi insecurities, Eesha now wanting RR more than friend, then trying cheap trick but all failing, Pallavi being seductive and then something drastic happen like suicidal attempt etc, and then RR knowing Eesga intentions, and climax .

Here straight 1 night stand showed. These writers has an art in showing cringy scenes, be it Mandar track, smuggling track( RR drunkard) or today, 1 night stand with exGF

Originally posted by: AnushkhaA

I think I'll wait for this entire track to play out and then comment anything. I don't wanna do a blunder like I did yesterday. I know we as women will tend to get hyper in this situation mostly biasedly due to obvious circumstances.

But I don't want to come out as a pseudo feminist just as such. I will see first how this track plays out and what exactly happened. Because seeing it from this point, I can't blame Raghav per se.

Cause I have been thinking if roles were reversed all our reactions might have come out differently. But as someone here so maturedly said, our perspectives on seeing various situations differ generically so all are welcomed to their interpolations.

I must say this is the wisest thing to do.

Really appreciate this sensibility.

Also I wish during Mandar track if people had shown sensibility like this towards pall, today it wouldn't have been like this.

Coz all that is going on is comparison. Instead of being called out on his actions R is getting bashed by compared to pall as revenge which is fine by the way. This has come a long way.

Thanks for such a post .. I was so upset after today’s episode but I know RR did not do anything he such saw PAllavi and passed out.

I got to see the obsession in eshas dialogues that he belongs to her so I guess she will target Pallavi by letting her know that she is unwanted and should leave Raghav. I guess somehow Pallavi will feel the same as Raghav will not touch her coz of guilt when she will seduce him.

Hoping that they talk and resolve this together !

I hope Raghav speaks and shows esha her place

Originally posted by: Isamreen

I must say this is the wisest thing to do.

Really appreciate this sensibility.

Also I wish during Mandar track if people had shown sensibility like this towards pall, today it wouldn't have been like this.

Coz all that is going on is comparison. Instead of being called out on his actions R is getting bashed by compared to pall as revenge which is fine by the way. This has come a long way.

I don't think we need to wait for this track to play out to realise how badly Raghav is getting trapped. It's not his fault, that's totally on Esha. We already know it.

Unfortunately Samreen, the yardstick should be the same to judge both Pallavi and Raghav right? If people were intolerant towards Pallavi then, there will be those who will be intolerant towards Raghav now. We defended Pallavi then and will defend Raghav now.

In fact Pals had it worse when she didn't do anything problematic (the forum was so toxic). Raghav is walking on really thin ice here due to his actions before being sloshed and him lying from Pallavi going forward is going to make him come out even worse. There are obvious parallels to M track drawn here so comparison is inevitable.

It's time he learns from his mistakes and overcomes his abandonment issues and stops lying. Pallavi deserves an honest partner who will value her and her trust, respect and love her.

@TM, lovely post

I won’t forgive Raghav for emotional infidelity unless he comes clean about it to Pallavi but physically he didn’t cheat .

He should atleast show some respect for his wife and spill the truth about night to her.

He does love her, value her and respect her... what he is doing is borne out of his own deep rooted insecurity of abandonment. He needs to come out of it to be able to move on in the truest sense. Him not telling about the night is wrong. But his intention isn't. He is scared she will leave him.

And he knows he can't live without her. And he also knows that she can live without him. That is where this thing is coming out of. I am not justifying him lying. I'm telling that we need to stop telling Pallavi deserves respect, trust and love (implying Raghav doesn't give that to her) and say she deserves honesty and the truth.

Originally posted by: Couch.Potato

I won’t forgive Raghav for emotional infidelity unless he comes clean about it to Pallavi but physically he didn’t cheat .

He should atleast show some respect for his wife and spill the truth about night to her.

See I have talked about the intolerance Pallavi was facing during the Mandaar track. And now I will talk about what Raghav is facing. We cannot compare how both reacted to the situations however familiar it looks. Both are different people, they have different pasts and thus different coping mechanisms, fears, traumas, and insecurities.

I made this post to negate some really intolerant comments I had made previously not seeing the whole picture properly.

I respect your opinion but I don't necessarily agree with you. Yes Raghav should come clean about the night. But we are forgetting that he has some serious abandonment issues. It would be ideal for him to tell the truth but not realistic given his problems.

I ain't justifying him lying. He should face some sort of punishment if he doesn't say the truth. But I can understand why he would be terrified to do the same. So I won't say he cannot be forgiven.

And secondly I don't agree with this emotional cheating concept. He told Esha he loves Pallavi. He even took Pallavi's name while he passed out impying maybe he hallucinated Pallavi in Esha's place and then whatever happened was not in his control.

So no kind of infidelity happened for sure - either physical or emotional. He was taken advantage of. That is clear.

But these are my opinions. You are welcome to have yours.