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Originally posted by: 77nikita

Thank you so much😅😅😅 yes do fill in on today's episode....reading stuff doesn't make it sound so bad than watching it🤭🤭

He got drunk on his own & thought E was P and "slept" with her.

He thinks he slept with her at least. We don't know for sure bc it's ITV and they blur things after showing a supposed kiss, so they can just change it to show that he didn't in fact sleep with her, he just thought he did by seeing them in bed, clothes off, etc.

Oh no himmat to watch!

Why had they to bring it to this!!! It's so cringey.....I am still certain that they are going to pull RR out of it as though nothing happened.....but these scenes leave a permanent bad taste and spoil things for ardent fans.....

RR, sikku and to some extent SKR have to be really ready for a tremendous backlash today.. again!

Who is right, who is wrong, who is guilty to what extent......it hardly matters as only emotionally invested fans think so deeply about it🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️(like something has happened in our family only!) because nonetheless makers will twist and turn the way they want, give some out of the world logic and we will be left gaping as they will all bhool bhool and slide onto the next track..🤪

Ps...was anjali episode also like this?... haven't watched that one

The thing is I don't want to spoile my Raghvi memories by watching Such crap scenes of Rand E and raghav hiding this stuff from Pallavi is worse.. Its like usko dhokhe mein rakhna so I can't take all this.. That's why decided not to watch.

Baaki epi discuss karne ke liye WU hai sab pata chal hi jayega kya kya kaand hua hai😆

Originally posted by: 77nikita

Oh no himmat to watch!

Why had they to bring it to this!!! It's so cringey.....I am still certain that they are going to pull RR out of it as though nothing happened.....but these scenes leave a permanent bad taste and spoil things for ardent fans.....

RR, sikku and to some extent SKR have to be really ready for a tremendous backlash today.. again!

Who is right, who is wrong, who is guilty to what extent......it hardly matters as only emotionally invested fans think so deeply about it🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️(like something has happened in our family only!) because nonetheless makers will twist and turn the way they want, give some out of the world logic and we will be left gaping as they will all bhool bhool and slide onto the next track..🤪

Ps...was anjali episode also like this?... haven't watched that one

Anjali episode tbh I don't remember either. Tagging Ren bc her memory is way better than mine 🤣

Yeah it was just bad today. Like yeah E manipulated the situation because she didn't correct him when he kept saying Pallavi. But he chose to drink, E didn't trick him like the hulu summary said. He chose to stay in that room. He chose to let his guard down around his ex that he knew had feelings for him.

He hallucinated his wife but IRL, do you still excuse someone like that? idk. They'll show that he didn't do anything he just thought he did and that'll be a way for him to be redeemed. I just wish they'd show some growth in his character. Like why does he have to this impulsive? It's not a good thing.

Originally posted by: fria319

Anjali episode tbh I don't remember either. Tagging Ren bc her memory is way better than mine 🤣

Yeah it was just bad today. Like yeah E manipulated the situation because she didn't correct him when he kept saying Pallavi. But he chose to drink, E didn't trick him like the hulu summary said. He chose to stay in that room. He chose to let his guard down around his ex that he knew had feelings for him.

He hallucinated his wife but IRL, do you still excuse someone like that? idk. They'll show that he didn't do anything he just thought he did and that'll be a way for him to be redeemed. I just wish they'd show some growth in his character. Like why does he have to this impulsive? It's not a good thing.

Ren's memory isn't good, she's seen the show multiple times. What you want to know about Anjali.

She was engaged to a guy in delhi and came to JJ to buy her wedding jewellery. She got too close to R for comfort. Again met him in a pub where he was dancing with girls. Both Anjali and R come to RR mansion and he carries her and puts her on the bed. He had called her fiance to let him know she was cheating. Her marriage breaks off.

She comes to RR to fight with him asking him why he did all that, she loved her fiance and wanted a fling before marriage bas.

R lies to her that he loved her that's why he broke the marriage. She pataoes and says she loves him too. R successfully proved she was a gold digger and threw her out of the house.. she takes badla by drugging him n taking compromising pics n publishing it. He loses his chances to reconcile with family , believes P is behind it and ties her before a moving truck.

Fria again thin line here, if Esha was positive toh kuch nai hua hota despite his drinking. Only if both werent sober then I'd fully blame R. The way things are going E is negative and R will be given a clean chit. Waise bhi when you're so sloshed out of your senses you can't have sex. 🤣

Kavya and nikita, I'm.suriving on written updates and my mood is good.

I will go watch PS today.

girl how is PS doing lately? I had to stop at beginning of the divorce track - i just couldn't handle it.

Originally posted by: fria319

It can’t be a short take. I’m confused on how I feel 😂🤣🤣

I’m not mad at Raghav. I’ll give you the tldr: he gets so drunk he’s hallucinating that Esha is Pallavi. Esha doesn’t correct him. And yes it’s implied that they do the deed.

I am disappointed in his decision to continue drinking. He clearly didn’t know what he was doing but can I say this all was allowed to happened bc he was drunk? Is that victim blaming? Is he a victim? Is he not?

Sober Raghav would have never done this, obviously. Esha did make advances towards him while knowing he thought she was Pallavi - so I guess that makes him the victim?

I’m just confused about where I stand on this which is why I’m not mad at him but I am disappointed. He does have a history of hallucinations so I mean can I really place any blame on him? Is this r*pe? Is it not, bc he wasn’t forced? He pulled Esha closer to him thinking it was Pallavi. So he was tricked.

But at the same time, he made that decision to drink - and to keep drinking. He knows he can’t handle his alcohol anymore. Esha egged him on but she didn’t trick him about the drinking game.

It was a drunken mistake, but is that any consolation to a spouse? Either way he cheated right? He chose to drink right ? Is Eshas manipulation of the situation enough to place all the blame on her ? It’s not like she pinned him down. She’s gross AF for what she did but she didn’t force herself on him. Or did she because she pretended to be Pallavi?

and before anyone starts, if this happened to P the way it happened to R, I would be just as confused and asking the same questions.

Tbh I’d like peoples opinions. I’m not sure what to think. I think it definitely is clear Raghav would’ve never done this if he was sober or if he wasn’t hallucinating, so it’s not his fault?

I’m sad it had to come to this. He’s definitely going to keep it from Pallavi tho. And that will be his downfall.

also please no one say this is victim shaming bc I don’t know if what happened to him was actual assault or just a drunk mistake. Or both. I am confused tbh. Maybe someone can clear it up for me.

Fria, I am unable to come to any conclusion and I am having conflicted opinions.

I just thought of it by reversing genders.

Many rape cases are reported in which the girl closely knew the guy and she was also aware of his feelings for her but still he forces her to get physical(without her consent). In this case, the guy is to be blamed and here we cant say that why the girl went with him when she knew about the guys feelings.

And now I am not able to draw parallels .

Originally posted by: joliefemme

Ren's memory isn't good, she's seen the show multiple times. What you want to know about Anjali.

She was engaged to a guy in delhi and came to JJ to buy her wedding jewellery. She got too close to R for comfort. Again met him in a pub where he was dancing with girls. Both Anjali and R come to RR mansion and he carries her and puts her on the bed. He had called her fiance to let him know she was cheating. Her marriage breaks off.

She comes to RR to fight with him asking him why he did all that, she loved her fiance and wanted a fling before marriage bas.

R lies to her that he loved her that's why he broke the marriage. She pataoes and says she loves him too. R successfully proved she was a gold digger and threw her out of the house.. she takes badla by drugging him n taking compromising pics n publishing it. He loses his chances to reconcile with family , believes P is behind it and ties her before a moving truck.

Fria again thin line here, if Esha was positive toh kuch nai hua hota despite his drinking. Only if both werent sober then I'd fully blame R. The way things are going E is negative and R will be given a clean chit. Waise bhi when you're so sloshed out of your senses you can't have sex. 🤣

Kavya and nikita, I'm.suriving on written updates and my mood is good.

I will go watch PS today.

Oh I have never watched PS and don't want to watch any other DS I am done already🤣

Originally posted by: s_kavya

Ren me too only WU and its going good I still can discuss the epi..

Oh I have never watched PS and don't want to watch any other DS I am done already🤣

PS is worse than Mhrw on a normal day. Today they may be better. I watch only 1 couple on days the episodes are good. It's a hop skip and jump for me.

With mhrw I'm on a written update mode as well. It works for my sanity for the time being.

What's the precap and why TT ppl saying Raghav is the victim of Rape?